I think we can all agree on this.
You've been reading me for a while, and you know.
https://twitter.com/EgoDriv/status/1507449715880828934?s=19
You've been reading me for a while, and you know.
https://twitter.com/EgoDriv/status/1507449715880828934?s=19
Twitter
E-go
Considering what I know, when I see "dark psychology" on Twitter, I laugh a lot.
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Forwarded from Verissimus
Be wary of who you choose to spend your time with.
There are people out there who would assume that you are in love with them or you like them simply because you choose to talk to them.
When you try to explain your position, they simply refuse to listen.
They instead place blame upon you for making them feel important or significant.
Understand, that such people are highly insecure human beings.
They desperately try to make themselves feel as if they are important in your eyes, even when they're not.
What is this behaviour if it's not insecurity?
They project their own views upon you so that they feel as if someone cares for them even when that is not the case.
They are afraid of confronting the absolute truth about their situation or circumstance.
They know within their heart, that they lie to themselves, but they don't have the sufficient courage to let it speak for itself.
Such people often live terrible life of endless projections.
They're constantly on search for someone who can fill the their inner void of their soul.
They don't realise that no one is coming to save them unless they try to save themselves and genuinely put an effort to seek the truth of their situation.
They don't realise that their external search for satisfying internal thirst is an endless chase.
They don't understand that they need to confront their innermost being in the mirror and ask it some of the toughest questions their soul is hiding.
There are people out there who would assume that you are in love with them or you like them simply because you choose to talk to them.
When you try to explain your position, they simply refuse to listen.
They instead place blame upon you for making them feel important or significant.
Understand, that such people are highly insecure human beings.
They desperately try to make themselves feel as if they are important in your eyes, even when they're not.
What is this behaviour if it's not insecurity?
They project their own views upon you so that they feel as if someone cares for them even when that is not the case.
They are afraid of confronting the absolute truth about their situation or circumstance.
They know within their heart, that they lie to themselves, but they don't have the sufficient courage to let it speak for itself.
Such people often live terrible life of endless projections.
They're constantly on search for someone who can fill the their inner void of their soul.
They don't realise that no one is coming to save them unless they try to save themselves and genuinely put an effort to seek the truth of their situation.
They don't realise that their external search for satisfying internal thirst is an endless chase.
They don't understand that they need to confront their innermost being in the mirror and ask it some of the toughest questions their soul is hiding.
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Tomorrow's post will be a story.
The story of a man who refused to fit in the system.
The story of a man who refused to fit in the system.
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One of tomorrow's posts*
The second one most probably. It'll take some time to write it properly.
The second one most probably. It'll take some time to write it properly.
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You struggle dealing with anxiety because you have a fixed mindset.
A growth mindset would allow you to approach such feelings as they are supposed to be felt:
Warning sign.
Rather than seeing anxiety as an end itself and as a problem itself, start viewing it from the perspective of potential growth.
Anxiety, as I've said in the past, is your subconscious reaction to new information and situation where it senses danger due to similarities with past experiences.
That's when you need to break the loop.
If you manage to turn this latest anxiety inducing situation into a lesson or memorable experience, you fix the triggers forever.
Next time, when faced with a similar situation you'll feel excitement instead because you'll have grown past the anxious feelings that are triggered by such setting.
Anxiety is an opportunity for growth and overcoming subconscious trauma.
The less you face your fears and the things that make you anxious the more you will become a victim of your own thoughts and anxiety.
One way to deal with anxiety is to try to point out the exact past event that got you to become anxious, remembering the choices you made that time and doing the exact opposite.
Most of the time, doing the exact opposite means taking action rather than staying still. Which, also most of the time, will make your anxiety disappear and make place for feelings of excitement as you start experiencing something new.
The real problem with anxiety isn't anxiety itself but rather giving up to feelings of anxiety and letting them take over control of your actions by paralyzing you.
Don't worry about worrying, make worrying a trigger to take action.
Anxiety solved.
A growth mindset would allow you to approach such feelings as they are supposed to be felt:
Warning sign.
Rather than seeing anxiety as an end itself and as a problem itself, start viewing it from the perspective of potential growth.
Anxiety, as I've said in the past, is your subconscious reaction to new information and situation where it senses danger due to similarities with past experiences.
That's when you need to break the loop.
If you manage to turn this latest anxiety inducing situation into a lesson or memorable experience, you fix the triggers forever.
Next time, when faced with a similar situation you'll feel excitement instead because you'll have grown past the anxious feelings that are triggered by such setting.
Anxiety is an opportunity for growth and overcoming subconscious trauma.
The less you face your fears and the things that make you anxious the more you will become a victim of your own thoughts and anxiety.
One way to deal with anxiety is to try to point out the exact past event that got you to become anxious, remembering the choices you made that time and doing the exact opposite.
Most of the time, doing the exact opposite means taking action rather than staying still. Which, also most of the time, will make your anxiety disappear and make place for feelings of excitement as you start experiencing something new.
The real problem with anxiety isn't anxiety itself but rather giving up to feelings of anxiety and letting them take over control of your actions by paralyzing you.
Don't worry about worrying, make worrying a trigger to take action.
Anxiety solved.
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If you're going to discuss a problem with someone who's close to you, the best way to deal with it is to start right away with a solution.
Then go backwards to the problems that have led to you wanting to discuss it and solve it out.
When doing so, make sure to be as clear and concise as possible. The more clarity and transparency the more you'll defuse tension and the person in front will be more open to the new ideas.
If they have questions or objections, make sure to fully address them. That is the only way to dismiss their emotional reaction and make them rationally understand the situation.
Don't leave uncertainties.
Make it short. Make it clear.
Answer everything.
Problem solved. Confrontation, none.
The moment one of you gets emotional, the conversation can easily go south and the idea a logical agreement will fade away.
That's why you need to remain in control, and this is how you can do it.
Then go backwards to the problems that have led to you wanting to discuss it and solve it out.
When doing so, make sure to be as clear and concise as possible. The more clarity and transparency the more you'll defuse tension and the person in front will be more open to the new ideas.
If they have questions or objections, make sure to fully address them. That is the only way to dismiss their emotional reaction and make them rationally understand the situation.
Don't leave uncertainties.
Make it short. Make it clear.
Answer everything.
Problem solved. Confrontation, none.
The moment one of you gets emotional, the conversation can easily go south and the idea a logical agreement will fade away.
That's why you need to remain in control, and this is how you can do it.
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Basedonia™ - By E-go
Tomorrow's post will be a story. The story of a man who refused to fit in the system.
I've written it and I'm hesitating to post it here. It might get misinterpreted by some people here so I might post it on Twitter instead
It's about what type of content I want to have on here. I know many people following me are young and I don't want them to get the wrong lessons from that story.
It's about what type of content I want to have on here. I know many people following me are young and I don't want them to get the wrong lessons from that story.
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Forwarded from Verissimus
Those who don't believe that state manufactures propaganda should be left alone. In all seriousness, these people absolutely have no hope. They are not worth wasting your time on. Don't fall into the trap of "I'll convince them to see the reality". NPCs are lost cases. Beyond repairable.
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There is only one valid reason to do anything:
Making yourself proud of yourself.
Doing it for someone's gratitude?
Don't do it.
Doing it for someone's validation?
Don't do it.
Doing it because everyone is doing it?
Don't do it.
Doing things for the sole purpose of your own self-interest and self-satisfaction will give you more returns than anything else.
Because the main purpose of life is being good with yourself.
Once you achieve that, you become of a natural positive impact to everyone around you.
Cultivate your self-esteem and happiness, that's how you make the world a better place.
That's also how you make your loved ones proud of you.
Because those who truly love you only want to see you happy, they don't want or expect you to make them happy.
Do a favor to everyone and focus on yourself.
Making yourself proud of yourself.
Doing it for someone's gratitude?
Don't do it.
Doing it for someone's validation?
Don't do it.
Doing it because everyone is doing it?
Don't do it.
Doing things for the sole purpose of your own self-interest and self-satisfaction will give you more returns than anything else.
Because the main purpose of life is being good with yourself.
Once you achieve that, you become of a natural positive impact to everyone around you.
Cultivate your self-esteem and happiness, that's how you make the world a better place.
That's also how you make your loved ones proud of you.
Because those who truly love you only want to see you happy, they don't want or expect you to make them happy.
Do a favor to everyone and focus on yourself.
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I need you to focus and follow through what I'm going to say on this post.
To better understand this post, I will refer to previous posts in order not to repeat myself and make it more straightforward.
There is a much needed paradigm shift that very few people are aware of.
You need to reframe how you perceive your emotions so you can make them work for you.
Lets get started.
The things I recently mentioned about anxiety, can be extrapolated to all "negative" emotions.
You might ask.. How?
It's pretty simple.
What you need to understand is that emotions are results of events, circumstances and your own reactions. As such, those emotions are signs of discomfort and not the discomfort itself.
The discomfort being the whole situation and not the specific emotion.
This is what most people are getting wrong.
Most get stuck in the emotion and do not see past it.
Instead, perceive each and every emotion as a warning sign for you to take action.
Emotions are not the end result, it is you telling yourself that something needs to change.
Once you start viewing your negative emotions this way you become in control of them.
That's what emotional transmutaiton means.
On the other hand, this can also be used for positive emotions to make them more intense and more meaningful.
That is simply by considering them as a reward of your past actions.
Positive emotions should make you proud of yourself.
Because they're signs too.
Not warning signs like the negative ones but rather success signs as you express to yourself that you've reached a state of comfort through your actions, choices and decisions.
This is helps you achieve many things:
-Higher levels of self-awareness
-Self-compassion and understanding
-Self-esteem and self-confidence
Instead of beating yourself up for feeling down and letting positive moments be ephemeral, shift your paradigm of understanding emotions to what I mentioned above.
You will be able to both control and understand yourself but also build a healthy ego around your achievements and things that should make you proud.
To better understand this post, I will refer to previous posts in order not to repeat myself and make it more straightforward.
There is a much needed paradigm shift that very few people are aware of.
You need to reframe how you perceive your emotions so you can make them work for you.
Lets get started.
The things I recently mentioned about anxiety, can be extrapolated to all "negative" emotions.
You might ask.. How?
It's pretty simple.
What you need to understand is that emotions are results of events, circumstances and your own reactions. As such, those emotions are signs of discomfort and not the discomfort itself.
The discomfort being the whole situation and not the specific emotion.
This is what most people are getting wrong.
Most get stuck in the emotion and do not see past it.
Instead, perceive each and every emotion as a warning sign for you to take action.
Emotions are not the end result, it is you telling yourself that something needs to change.
Once you start viewing your negative emotions this way you become in control of them.
That's what emotional transmutaiton means.
On the other hand, this can also be used for positive emotions to make them more intense and more meaningful.
That is simply by considering them as a reward of your past actions.
Positive emotions should make you proud of yourself.
Because they're signs too.
Not warning signs like the negative ones but rather success signs as you express to yourself that you've reached a state of comfort through your actions, choices and decisions.
This is helps you achieve many things:
-Higher levels of self-awareness
-Self-compassion and understanding
-Self-esteem and self-confidence
Instead of beating yourself up for feeling down and letting positive moments be ephemeral, shift your paradigm of understanding emotions to what I mentioned above.
You will be able to both control and understand yourself but also build a healthy ego around your achievements and things that should make you proud.
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Forwarded from STRONGLAND (Life Math Money)
If you have your shit together, you're going to get some hate from the losers. Just letting you know in advance.
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Forwarded from Northern Nephilim
Marathon Post Day
Post 2
"Working with / changing your subconscious self image/beliefs"
What you think of yourself is a direct consequence of what you do when nobody is looking.
If you want to change how you see yourself, change what you do away from the public eye.
You want to respect yourself? Don't do anything that disrespects you/your body.
Want to love yourself? Take care of your body, stay away from people who despise you, unless business-wise. Don't seek closure from people who don't reciprocate.
These are all basic things that people ignore and end up with shitty lives and feeling terrible all the time.
Self image isn't something you materialize verbally or mentally, it's something you build gradually from your actions over time.
Once your self image changes, your beliefs change as a result.
Ex: If you previously thought that social interactions were hard (because you were timid and had low self esteem), you'll start to think that social interactions are easy once you gain self confidence.
Post 2
"Working with / changing your subconscious self image/beliefs"
What you think of yourself is a direct consequence of what you do when nobody is looking.
If you want to change how you see yourself, change what you do away from the public eye.
You want to respect yourself? Don't do anything that disrespects you/your body.
Want to love yourself? Take care of your body, stay away from people who despise you, unless business-wise. Don't seek closure from people who don't reciprocate.
These are all basic things that people ignore and end up with shitty lives and feeling terrible all the time.
Self image isn't something you materialize verbally or mentally, it's something you build gradually from your actions over time.
Once your self image changes, your beliefs change as a result.
Ex: If you previously thought that social interactions were hard (because you were timid and had low self esteem), you'll start to think that social interactions are easy once you gain self confidence.
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Forwarded from Symposium (Nishmeet)
Competence will open up more opportunities than entitlement.
It is upto you what you want to focus on.
Either cry for 'rights, equality & representation,' or, make yourself the most competent person in any given scenario.
It is upto you what you want to focus on.
Either cry for 'rights, equality & representation,' or, make yourself the most competent person in any given scenario.
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Forwarded from Verissimus
System is against you
Society is against you
Very few people will inform you about this brutal truth
Why?
Because most of them are puppets of the system, who are not aware of their own enslavement
They have never experienced life discretely
They don't care about their individuality
Everything that they pursue, is placed externally upon them and they are not even aware of it. This is conditioning.
Are they following what they truly want?
Perhaps, it would be more appropriate to ask a different kind of question
Are they even aware of their wants and needs?
Conformity is an essential component of most systems
They don't want you to know. By "they", I refer to corporate overlords, politicians, state and elites.
Recognise that they don't have your best interest at heart
They want you to be their slaves
They want to create a society where the individuals do not raise questions and functions like a cogwheel that perfectly integrates into the system so that they can continue their ever lasting business of exploitation powered by endless greed
Don't give in. Resist.
Keep the spirit inside you alive.
Find ways to hack the system.
Find loopholes and exploit them to your advantage.
Use the system to get out of the system.
Complaining about this won't work.
You have to find a solution.
Society is against you
Very few people will inform you about this brutal truth
Why?
Because most of them are puppets of the system, who are not aware of their own enslavement
They have never experienced life discretely
They don't care about their individuality
Everything that they pursue, is placed externally upon them and they are not even aware of it. This is conditioning.
Are they following what they truly want?
Perhaps, it would be more appropriate to ask a different kind of question
Are they even aware of their wants and needs?
Conformity is an essential component of most systems
They don't want you to know. By "they", I refer to corporate overlords, politicians, state and elites.
Recognise that they don't have your best interest at heart
They want you to be their slaves
They want to create a society where the individuals do not raise questions and functions like a cogwheel that perfectly integrates into the system so that they can continue their ever lasting business of exploitation powered by endless greed
Don't give in. Resist.
Keep the spirit inside you alive.
Find ways to hack the system.
Find loopholes and exploit them to your advantage.
Use the system to get out of the system.
Complaining about this won't work.
You have to find a solution.
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“The conscious and intelligent manipulation of the organized habits and opinions of the masses is an important element in democratic society. Those who manipulate this unseen mechanism of society constitute an invisible government which is the true ruling power of our country. ...We are governed, our minds are molded, our tastes formed, our ideas suggested, largely by men we have never heard of. This is a logical result of the way in which our democratic society is organized. Vast numbers of human beings must cooperate in this manner if they are to live together as a smoothly functioning society. ...In almost every act of our daily lives, whether in the sphere of politics or business, in our social conduct or our ethical thinking, we are dominated by the relatively small number of persons...who understand the mental processes and social patterns of the masses. It is they who pull the wires which control the public mind.”
― Edward Bernays, Propaganda
― Edward Bernays, Propaganda
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