Intrusive thoughts

I’ve been getting intrusive sexual thoughts lately and it’s making me feel disgusting- and it’s making me question myself and my sexuality- it sucks and I just want these gross thoughts to stop. Any advice-?

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@asexualityonreddit

What would you tell them?

Hey guys! Next year, I will take part in a pageant and my platform is asexuality visibility and hypersexualisation awareness. For me, they go hand in hand. I consider myself as a simply asexual person.

To help me raise awareness I am slowly writing a « diary » that will be available online for people to read for free, just so people know we exist, but also our reality.

I am curious. If you could say anything to allosexual people, to people that say that sex sells and that’s why there is so much sexuality everywhere, or whatever, what would you tell them? I would love to give a voice to our community, but I know my reality isn’t the same as others.

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@asexualityonreddit

Was banned from r/truths for being Asexual

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Made a post, was removed, I debated it via DM, they banned me for the DM. Please report this subreddit for Anti LGBTQ!!!

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@asexualityonreddit

Intrusive thoughts

I’ve been getting intrusive sexual thoughts lately and it’s making me feel disgusting- and it’s making me question myself and my sexuality- it sucks and I just want these gross thoughts to stop. Any advice-?

https://redd.it/1ndbuet
@asexualityonreddit

Being ACE = Being Me 🌈
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@asexualityonreddit

Which of these do you relate with
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@asexualityonreddit

Looking for asexual partner

Hi. I'm a 21 year old girl from pakistan. I'm looking for an asexual partner preferably a male. I want a bond, a connection rather than anything sexual. I feel like when in relationships, sexual talk is a turn off for me. Meaningful, intelligent conversations are what matter to me. Romance is good too. Getting close to people takes a really long time and a lot of effort for me. I want a partner who respects that. Since i don't know where to look for that, i came here. Yall please guide me for that i did smth wrong, I'm sorry idk how reddit works. I'm new. Take care. Bye.


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@asexualityonreddit

Are You Aro (Advice)?

**Hi everyone!**



Welcome to our weekly Advice post about Aromanticism! Aromantic people experience little to no romantic attraction.



**Do any of these resonate with you?**

\* You rarely (if ever) experience crushes on others.

\* You find the idea of a romantic relationship unappealing, and prefer strong platonic bonds.

\* You've been in romantic relationships but felt like you were going through the motions.

\* You've researched what crushes are "supposed" to feel like, but can't relate.



These are just a few signs you might be Aromantic. Aromanticism is a spectrum, and every person's experience is unique.



\*\*Have questions about aromanticism or your own identity?\*\* Ask away in the comments below, and we'll and your fellow Aro’s will do the best to help!

* [**More signs that you are Aro**](https://aromanticguide.com/am-i-aro)

* [**Honeymoon Phase**](https://health.clevelandclinic.org/what-is-the-honeymoon-phase)

* [**Types of attraction (might be incomplete)**](https://types-of-attraction.carrd.co/)

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@asexualityonreddit

I logged on just now and saw what is happening. I wanted to take a moment to thank everyone who supported me by mass posting on r/truths I am so flattered right now and I am forever grateful for everyone’s contribution. ASEXUALITY IS A REAL SEXUALITY
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@asexualityonreddit

Is there a way to deactivate my libido so it goes away?

I think it is physical sensations. I really would like that to stop. It feels like my body is being hijacked and I hate it. Please help.

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@asexualityonreddit

Found this book a couple months ago but I was with my mum so I couldn't get it :(
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@asexualityonreddit

Help with a conversation :)

Hiya everyone, first post in this specific subreddit and I’m asking for a bit of advice if nobody minds.
I’m 18F, and I’ve recently gotten a girlfriend - my first relationship after realising that I am somewhere on the ace spectrum. I’m pretty far on the side of sex-repulsed.
The thing I wanted to ask about is how I would bring this up to my gf, because it’s something that does need to be talked about. This may be a deal breaker for her, which is okay, everyone has wants/needs in a relationship. Also when is an excellent question. I don’t want to wait too long so that I’m not wasting her time, but also it’s still very new and may be an incredibly awkward/uncomfortable situation.
So, has anyone ever been in a similar situation? If so, I’d greatly appreciate some words of wisdom. Thank you for reading this pile of words that somehow constitutes a post, have a lovely day everyone! :)

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@asexualityonreddit

I feel like a faker

Hello! I'm Omniromantic Asexual. I've identified as such and been open about it for three years now. But sometimes I feel like I'm faking...

I haven't ever felt sexual attraction to anyone. I've had crushes, found people and characters to be super aesthetically attractive, and I have a partner of over a year now who knows about my asexuality and respects it, even if they don't understand it in depth.

But sometimes I fantasize about fictional characters in sexual situations. I read smut for fun on occasion. I make sex jokes with my partner. But I feel guilty. I feel like a faker sometimes. I can never imagine myself or a real person in such a situation. That makes me uncomfortable on so many levels, I could probably gag.

Maybe it's just weird imposter syndrome. But I feel icky every time because what if I am a faker? What if I read this all wrong or I'm giving the wrong impression?

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@asexualityonreddit

Why are women reduced to their chests all the time?

Like, I’ve even seen women be referred to as a “walking pair of breasts” one time. I don’t find breasts attractive, I never have. In fact I hate mine and want top surgery. I just hate how hypersexualized breasts are I can’t stand it yet our entire society is built around it. What is even attractive about them I just want mine off im so sick and tired of being reduced to a body part I didn’t ask for all day every day

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@asexualityonreddit