Ok sooo, i have a question



( fyi, this post is not abt me bc i am not really into naked cuddling. I dont really care abt it )


Is there anyone here who likes naked cuddling or just like feeling someones skin in a romantic or sensual manner but not sexually?

Bc i know there are some asexuals who are into different types of intimacy and all but i never heard some who would mention naked cuddling


And i got curious abt asking that ig


So yeah, like i said. Os there anyone who is into naked cuddling or just likes feeling someones skin without it being sexual.
Or just desire skin to skin contacts with someone but dont desire sex with them and still be asexual ( i dont Even know if it counts as sexual attraction…..tbh…attractions are complicated )

I would like to know!


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Anybody else find it difficult

It’s so hard making any connections with people when they hear you’re asexual.

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Blursed warning

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The time that a man told me to return to christ because of a meme i made on the ace sub.

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It’s the little things honestly

I very recently came out to my partner (of 6 years) as graysexual. I have been super nervous to do this because we’ve already been having trouble with sex drives not matching for the last several years and I felt like this would just be another thing that caused problems…

However, we were recently in a little comic shop looking around and as we were leaving he stopped me to show me these mini DnD dice that he had got for me. He excitedly explained that he picked them out because they are the color of the ace flag.

I know it is such a small little thing but it honestly melted my heart into a freaking puddle. He told me he had looked up the flag because he wasn’t sure of the colors and wanted to confirm before showing them to me. It was just so thoughtful and validating and I just feel so seen.

It really is the littlest of things sometimes!


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Pretty sure I’m asexual.

I (30f) haven’t had sex in years and can see myself never having it again. I have had some nice hookups, but I have gone through looong lags of sexual inactivity over many years. Never have had a boyfriend. Most of the guys I see really gross me out and I wouldn’t let them come anywhere near me.

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Am I really a asexual

So I am a teen and in my whole life I have never found someone attractive or had any infatuation like I might find someone beautiful or handsome but I have never seen myself with them like the idea of me with someone involved in sexual way repulsed me but I can read smut books or manhwa which includes sex between other people but in real life I can't imagine but other people discussing doesn't disgust me but when it comes to me I never join the conversation but I am not aromantic for sure cause I see myself dating in future doesn't matter the gender but never sexual way cause I can't imagine myself and the idea of it gives me disgust or creeps but i don't feel disgust reading the sex scenes ...generally i ship other people it's cute but if any person like me it scares me ..please help me

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I got a license plate cover, some garlic bread crackers, and made a meme!

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No sé, pero yo pienso que la atracción sexual y el deseo de interacción física es diferente.

Para mí, la atracción sexual no es más que solo un tipo de atracción hacia otra persona de manera sexual pero sin que quieras acostarte con ella; en cambio el deseo de interacción física es cuando literalmente quieres acostarte con esa persona. No sé qué piensen ustedes.

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Sighh

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Scared of Gyno Appointment

Aight so I need to get this off my chest. Went to another subreddit about it and one of the first comments was from someone who said they had been pregnant for their first appointment and I was like ah, this is not the space for me then.

I obviously know that a gyno appointment is not sexual at all, but part of the reason I’m ace is because I am deeply terrified of anyone seeing that part of my body. It is humiliating, it is viscerally horrifying to me. I am contemplating rescheduling my appointment (which is scheduled for Monday) because I can’t stop ruminating on it and how the thought of having that be my first appointment ever on a Monday morning at 8 am makes me feel ill lol. I would love to talk to someone who feels the same way as I do. A lot of my friends are sexually active (or want to be) and have 0 fear of going to the gyno but because I’m so anxious about sex in general that translates to the gyno. I wish they had a sedative option genuinely.

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Do Sirens have to bake garlic bread in order to drown us?

Sirens (the mythical see creatures) attract allos by beeing incredibly attraktiv. That’s their thing to attract mortals and drown them. Their typical approach wouldn’t work so how do you guys think they would try to trick us into the water?

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