How do y’all feel about sex in general?
Hey y’all! I’m aromantic, pansexual and very much hypersexual. I very much love sex, but my best friend, who is asexual, is the opposite where they said that they feel repulsed by being involved in sex. It just leads me to wonder how people on the aro or ace spectrum feel about sex. Is it complicated or just pretty simple? I like learning about people feelings about it cuz I just like hearing about people different from me
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Hey y’all! I’m aromantic, pansexual and very much hypersexual. I very much love sex, but my best friend, who is asexual, is the opposite where they said that they feel repulsed by being involved in sex. It just leads me to wonder how people on the aro or ace spectrum feel about sex. Is it complicated or just pretty simple? I like learning about people feelings about it cuz I just like hearing about people different from me
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i keep having sexual dreams even though im repulsed by it😕
hi, im only 16 but im asexual, and have been ever since i knew what sex was, but i keep having dreams about sex and i hate it so much!! just last night i had a dream where i was having sex multiple times and i woke up feeling disgusted with myself, angry with myself and i just dont know why it keeps happening!! even in my dreams im not enjoying it but it happens anyway?? its so uncomfortable especially because when i wake up i feel like a pervert😖 why does this keep happening even though i hate it?! its like my dreams like making me suffer😭
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hi, im only 16 but im asexual, and have been ever since i knew what sex was, but i keep having dreams about sex and i hate it so much!! just last night i had a dream where i was having sex multiple times and i woke up feeling disgusted with myself, angry with myself and i just dont know why it keeps happening!! even in my dreams im not enjoying it but it happens anyway?? its so uncomfortable especially because when i wake up i feel like a pervert😖 why does this keep happening even though i hate it?! its like my dreams like making me suffer😭
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I appreciate you all but like 80% of my friends are ace and I'd like a bit more diversity in there so could you please ease up on it a bit
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How long until you can identify as Ace?
Had to block someone on this sub right now because they said that people who are newly Ace don't really count as Ace because they don't understand Ace suffering.
So is there a waiting period after identifying as Ace before you can call yourself Ace, or is there a requisite amount of suffering before you're properly Ace as they seemed to believe?
(They also said you become Ace and seem to believe it's not something you're born as. I know some people can become Ace from trauma, but that's different.)
Edit: if you down voted this, person I'm talking about, stop gatekeeping. The other Ace sub is right there and waiting.
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Had to block someone on this sub right now because they said that people who are newly Ace don't really count as Ace because they don't understand Ace suffering.
So is there a waiting period after identifying as Ace before you can call yourself Ace, or is there a requisite amount of suffering before you're properly Ace as they seemed to believe?
(They also said you become Ace and seem to believe it's not something you're born as. I know some people can become Ace from trauma, but that's different.)
Edit: if you down voted this, person I'm talking about, stop gatekeeping. The other Ace sub is right there and waiting.
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Problems with my project to put up 100 asexual flags in Denmark
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I'm a little frustrated
As the title suggests I'm a little frustrated with the asexual community. I've seen quite a few posts of people asking if SA trauma can cause asexuality and a lot of comments saying "no it can't that's not asexuality that's just trauma" and completely invalidating the persons feelings. On the other hand I've seen some comments saying "yes I believe it can be caused by trauma but some people are just asexual because that's simply how they feel." which I really appreciated cause I feel they didn't try to invalidate anyone. The reason this frustrates me so much is because, whatever your opinion is I'm not judging you, it can be caused by that type of trauma especially CSA(Which I am a victim of) it's called caedsexual(it is a subdivision of asexual) and it literally means that you are asexual as a result of some type of trauma usually SA related. I'm not saying you have to be traumatized in order to be asexual but that doesn't mean that someone can't be asexual as a result of it. Idk I guess I'm just frustrated I know not everyone in the asexual community is likethat but still it's frustrating to see this in a community that is so diverse and usually pretty understanding of peoples situation.
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As the title suggests I'm a little frustrated with the asexual community. I've seen quite a few posts of people asking if SA trauma can cause asexuality and a lot of comments saying "no it can't that's not asexuality that's just trauma" and completely invalidating the persons feelings. On the other hand I've seen some comments saying "yes I believe it can be caused by trauma but some people are just asexual because that's simply how they feel." which I really appreciated cause I feel they didn't try to invalidate anyone. The reason this frustrates me so much is because, whatever your opinion is I'm not judging you, it can be caused by that type of trauma especially CSA(Which I am a victim of) it's called caedsexual(it is a subdivision of asexual) and it literally means that you are asexual as a result of some type of trauma usually SA related. I'm not saying you have to be traumatized in order to be asexual but that doesn't mean that someone can't be asexual as a result of it. Idk I guess I'm just frustrated I know not everyone in the asexual community is likethat but still it's frustrating to see this in a community that is so diverse and usually pretty understanding of peoples situation.
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Like how does that work?! I’d still be mad as hell about the situation. What kind of beastly urges make you forget what has happened??
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I may be asexual but I’m not sure
I (21 F) have always had a bad relationship with sex and intimacy. I almost never masturbate, most of the time I don’t want to do it and even if I do it’s always the other one who has to initiate. Right now I’m seeing a guy and this thing created conflicts between us, since he felt like I wasn’t sexually attracted to him and he wanted to have intercourse. I explained to him that I’ve been struggling with the topic all my life and that it’s not that easy for me to just let go and enjoy the moment.
It’s been better the last days, we did foreplay and had sex, it went well, the thing is, I get horny, I’m able to have orgasms and if I’m in the mood the thing is pleasant overall. On the other hand, I could live without and be fine and I prefer cuddling and late night talking over sex, if I don’t feel like it and the person in front of me suggests it or initiate it I shut down and refuse to do it. This guy, along with some other people, suggested I may be asexual, I think it’s a possibility as well but I can’t say it with certainty. What do you think?
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I (21 F) have always had a bad relationship with sex and intimacy. I almost never masturbate, most of the time I don’t want to do it and even if I do it’s always the other one who has to initiate. Right now I’m seeing a guy and this thing created conflicts between us, since he felt like I wasn’t sexually attracted to him and he wanted to have intercourse. I explained to him that I’ve been struggling with the topic all my life and that it’s not that easy for me to just let go and enjoy the moment.
It’s been better the last days, we did foreplay and had sex, it went well, the thing is, I get horny, I’m able to have orgasms and if I’m in the mood the thing is pleasant overall. On the other hand, I could live without and be fine and I prefer cuddling and late night talking over sex, if I don’t feel like it and the person in front of me suggests it or initiate it I shut down and refuse to do it. This guy, along with some other people, suggested I may be asexual, I think it’s a possibility as well but I can’t say it with certainty. What do you think?
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