Anyone who is asexual has lots of sex, but then realised they’re asexual?
Hi everyone really confused at the moment. I’m a 40-year-old woman and I’ve always been really sexual in terms of my behaviour but I’ve never actually fully enjoyed sex.
I used to think I was maybe demi sexual or Sapiosexual but I feel like I’ll be quite happy never having sex again and I do it for the validation and dopamine (I have ADHD)
Does this sound like anyone else? And does anyone else have an expert? I can share? Thank you so much.
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Hi everyone really confused at the moment. I’m a 40-year-old woman and I’ve always been really sexual in terms of my behaviour but I’ve never actually fully enjoyed sex.
I used to think I was maybe demi sexual or Sapiosexual but I feel like I’ll be quite happy never having sex again and I do it for the validation and dopamine (I have ADHD)
Does this sound like anyone else? And does anyone else have an expert? I can share? Thank you so much.
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I'm an artist who created a bunch of what I call Garden Cats, kitties with petals growing around their necks. Meet Periwinkle, the Ace Kitty!
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Ace webtoons?
I’m demiromantic and asexual and I’m dying for some good webtoons that represent that sort of relationship, whether is explicitly representation or just fits it/you still enjoy it. I really enjoy broomtail and my vampire roomate but they’re not finished and I’m all caught up 😭veil is another one of my absolute favorite webcomics even though it’s left a lot more up for interpretation (but the occasional vague implication/fan reactions that they’re both miserably waiting for a sexual relationship makes me want to drive my head through a wall). I’d appreciate any suggestions!!
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I’m demiromantic and asexual and I’m dying for some good webtoons that represent that sort of relationship, whether is explicitly representation or just fits it/you still enjoy it. I really enjoy broomtail and my vampire roomate but they’re not finished and I’m all caught up 😭veil is another one of my absolute favorite webcomics even though it’s left a lot more up for interpretation (but the occasional vague implication/fan reactions that they’re both miserably waiting for a sexual relationship makes me want to drive my head through a wall). I’d appreciate any suggestions!!
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Love kissing as an asexual???
I am currently 32.
I am a tomboy lesbian with a pixie cut.
I could care less about sex. Not because of anything at all. I just don't want to.
But I love kissing.
Only problem is that I only know how to French kiss tilted to the right.
I came here for support if others relate because most women aren't fond of that. One relationship I had couldn't understand why I kiss the way I do.
Like what? I'm too 90's grunge tomboy lesbian into 90's butch stereotypically driven and I'm mildly autistic with a facial structure that goes to the left instead of the usual right to care if other cis butch women are annoyed by the fact.
Sigh. Does anyone understand?
Edit: I feel like the only one. Kind of like the odd one out. I thought maybe Reddit would be a great place for me to go to and also; I prefer to use nonsexual over the asexual terms but don't know if that goes here.
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I am currently 32.
I am a tomboy lesbian with a pixie cut.
I could care less about sex. Not because of anything at all. I just don't want to.
But I love kissing.
Only problem is that I only know how to French kiss tilted to the right.
I came here for support if others relate because most women aren't fond of that. One relationship I had couldn't understand why I kiss the way I do.
Like what? I'm too 90's grunge tomboy lesbian into 90's butch stereotypically driven and I'm mildly autistic with a facial structure that goes to the left instead of the usual right to care if other cis butch women are annoyed by the fact.
Sigh. Does anyone understand?
Edit: I feel like the only one. Kind of like the odd one out. I thought maybe Reddit would be a great place for me to go to and also; I prefer to use nonsexual over the asexual terms but don't know if that goes here.
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HELP WHAT IM I
Does this make me asexual I'm confused?
So I'm 18 and ftm I am gay like 100% gay I like trans and cis guys but the thought of having sex really grosses me out like I can't explain it.
Like I don't mind kissing but both dicks and vaginas gross me out like I don't feel anything sexual
Like maybe one day with the right person if I know them really good i MIGHT want to have sex but I just can't picture myself giving or receiving oral it seems so icky imo
Idk if this makes me ace or demisexual I've been so confused for years going back and forth so can y'all please help I'm answer any questions y'all have in comments
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Does this make me asexual I'm confused?
So I'm 18 and ftm I am gay like 100% gay I like trans and cis guys but the thought of having sex really grosses me out like I can't explain it.
Like I don't mind kissing but both dicks and vaginas gross me out like I don't feel anything sexual
Like maybe one day with the right person if I know them really good i MIGHT want to have sex but I just can't picture myself giving or receiving oral it seems so icky imo
Idk if this makes me ace or demisexual I've been so confused for years going back and forth so can y'all please help I'm answer any questions y'all have in comments
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the A is missing, saw it at a bookstore recently. I wonder why?
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Am I Asexual?
If you are questioning whether or not you are asexual (including all microlabels), reply to this post with what made you start questioning, and why.
If you are too shy to post a reply, then you can scroll through the responses for the advice you may be searching for.
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Psychologist, asexual and ADHD
Hi folks, so I'm the person who posted this thread and thank you to those who were able to reply.
https://www.reddit.com/r/asexuality/s/X8w24kzb8c
In follow up to this thread, my wife asked me to go a doctor in case there is some underlying reason for my inactivity and inaction sex wise. Which I did. But i would like to point out that since it was suggested I was asexual that it seems to actually fit a lot of the boxes and makes me feel better about myself. But it also makes me over think that I'm simply finding the easiest solution to another underlying problem.
I don't know what I was expecting, but I wasn't expecting her to get quite as intense as she did, This doctor was acting almost offended on behalf of my wife, using words like 'massive problem' and 'critical issue.' Which i don't dispute to be fair.
She asked me if I was bisexual? I said no, she asked me if I was secure in my heterosexuality and I said yes.
She then said that because i was talking to her very rationally and openly, stating it matter of fact that she wanted me tested for ADHD. I'm 44 years of age, and its something that possible but I've never been tested. She also wants me to go see a Psychologist.
I'm just wondering, is that kind of answer/experience with a doctor normal? I'm sorry if its a dumb question
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Hi folks, so I'm the person who posted this thread and thank you to those who were able to reply.
https://www.reddit.com/r/asexuality/s/X8w24kzb8c
In follow up to this thread, my wife asked me to go a doctor in case there is some underlying reason for my inactivity and inaction sex wise. Which I did. But i would like to point out that since it was suggested I was asexual that it seems to actually fit a lot of the boxes and makes me feel better about myself. But it also makes me over think that I'm simply finding the easiest solution to another underlying problem.
I don't know what I was expecting, but I wasn't expecting her to get quite as intense as she did, This doctor was acting almost offended on behalf of my wife, using words like 'massive problem' and 'critical issue.' Which i don't dispute to be fair.
She asked me if I was bisexual? I said no, she asked me if I was secure in my heterosexuality and I said yes.
She then said that because i was talking to her very rationally and openly, stating it matter of fact that she wanted me tested for ADHD. I'm 44 years of age, and its something that possible but I've never been tested. She also wants me to go see a Psychologist.
I'm just wondering, is that kind of answer/experience with a doctor normal? I'm sorry if its a dumb question
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From the asexuality community on Reddit: really struggling and need help.
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