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I think I might be asexual. (Kind of vent)

I mean, I will have sex but it's never about getting off for me, it's more about me being close to that person. But for the most part I just don't like sex at all, not a fan. I have a lot of sexual trauma and i really just feel uncomfortable with the the whole ordeal. Me and my finacé only have sex maybe once a month, and she's been so amazing and understanding of this and she doesn't demand me for sex like previous relationships I've had. I guess me being hypersexual in the past was a result of trauma and being pushed to have sex with people I was in relationships with, none of them respected my boundaries until my finacé came along.

Probably why I'm going to marry her honestly, she communicates with me, respects my boundaries, makes sure our sexual experiences feel safe and gentle. She also just... Lets me be who I am. She doesn't try to get me to change something about myself for her.

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Made myself an aroace pfp for this June! Need some advice (hopefully this isn't against the rules)
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I hate being asexual

I found out I was ace when I was 16, it took me so long because I was in huge denial. Since then, I absolutely hate this side of me.
I wish so damn bad I was allo, not only because of me and the need to feel anything. But also because it's always a problem in every relationship I have.
I'm currently dating an amazing dude, he doesn't mind and always respected my asexuality, I love him so much for it. But I can see that deep down, he does mind. All his attempts to make me feel something fails, he tries to hide but I know he does feel bad about it.
I also feel like him missing out on the teenager experience (I'm 18) because of my asexuality. Everyone is doing the deed or talking about it, and I just feel so left out because I don't relate at all...
Anyways, just venting

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People using our flag and invalidating demisexuals... Ignoring the gray strip and pretending It doesn't exist... I'm tired
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Two 30-somethings go to Pride for the first time
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Reasons you like being ace

A lot of times aces feel like we are missing out on love, me included. So I just wanted to list a few reasons why I enjoy being ace and would like for you to add your reasons in the comments:

1. Don't care about shaving. I don't lose time, money or energy on it.
2. I have a slight germaphobia so I love that I can just stay away from people.
3. Don't have to play mind games to see if someone likes me.
4. I can see relationships much clearer than my friends and I know when they are being used by guys.

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How did you know you were asexual?

I know that I like women like I know that much for sure but, when my friends start talking about sex and stuff like that I feel grossed out by it and I know that I never want that.
I can imagine fake scenarios in my head with fictional characters but when it comes to real life I can’t fathom it. I know I don’t mind a kiss because me and my friends have kissed before.
Please let me know because I am in internal confusion about it.

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