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Dunno if she did it cause of the specific groom, or she didn't want to marry in general, or a bunch of other possibilities other than being ace. But I like her. Legally, she has a point: "people may not be forced to marry" + "killing to stop rape is okay" = "No means no. Don't make me end y'all."
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When you want pride merch but your not out yet
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gonna give a girl my eggplant with sauce if you catch my drift 😉😏
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Was going to the mall and this beanie caught my eye. Halloween is Ace, confirmed
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My boyfriend got mad at me for being ace

We've been together for a few years, and we do have sex. I recently realised that while I do enjoy sex, I dont experience sexual attraction/really care about anything else than the physical sensations of sex. I came out to him and now he's offended, because I dont find him sexually attractive/hot. I said I dont feel that way about anyone, but he still feels like I've lied to him throughout the relationship, that I'm just using him as a way to masturbate. I told him he's being a dick and now he wont talk to me....

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Hello everyone! I make these rings with my own hands. What do you think about this?
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My bf probably falls under the Asexual umbrella and I'm allo. Advice for how to communicate about emotional+physical needs as well as attraction would be lovely.

My bf is a lovely person and I'm trying to piece together their sexuality and their needs for both of our benefit. He is in his early/mid 20s and I am his first SO and he hasn't thought much on the topic. I'm someone with a high libido but I can mostly handle myself with that as long as I get emotional attention in other ways. That said I can't say I'm afraid that I'm not romantically or physically attractive to my SO at some points which is probably just me being nervous for no reason. What would be some things that yall would say on this? What would be some reasonable expectations for me to have in this sort of relationship physically and emotionally? As an allo person I definitely don't experience things the same.

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Sick of being called “innocent”

It just really bothers me when people call me “innocent” or “pure” just cuz I’m pretty sex averse most of the time. Like, I still know how it works and everything I just don’t like discussing it cuz it makes me feel uncomfortable most of the time. It’s not like I’m some cluesless kid who needs to be protected I’m just not interested. People seem to thinks it cute or something and it really rubs me the wrong way.

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Am I ace if i “enjoy” sex but feel no sexual attraction towards anyone?

The title is pretty self explanatory but I thought I’d elaborate a bit more to really get my point across

I’ve been questioning if I’m ace for about a year now. That started about 7-8 months after I lost my virginity. I had what could be considered pretty good sex but I don’t know if I really enjoyed it (it was always consensual!!!).

Now the way I would describe my feelings towards it would be saying I did not not enjoy it because I did experience the sexual/bodily pleasure but I’ve never felt attracted to anyone sexually.

I also recently realised that I just thought I had to want sex because everyone else did but if I think about it I never sincerely thought something like “Damn, I’m really in the mood to screw” or something like that.

So this is my situation and thought process. Can I still identify as asexual? I really want to but I’m scared to invalidate (other) aces.

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