Ever since I came out to my parents, my dad tells me he loves me more often.
My dad has never been one to express feelings or any sort of affection. He's a hardened individual on the outside and he chose to raise his only daughter like a son. Things were always "macho" and stoic between us. The last time he told me he loved me was when I got married several years ago. A few months ago I decided to talk to my parents about being asexual. I know my dad struggled to come to terms about it. He is very traditional in his ways and him learning I was also biromantic did not help my situation. Some days pass and I'm on speaker phone with my mom. The call eventually comes to an end and after she says her goodbyes I hear my dad in the background say "I love you _____". And ever since then every phone call ends with those words I longed to hear from him my whole life. I was terrified my dad would never speak to me again. Instead, I feel validated and more loved than I ever have before.
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My dad has never been one to express feelings or any sort of affection. He's a hardened individual on the outside and he chose to raise his only daughter like a son. Things were always "macho" and stoic between us. The last time he told me he loved me was when I got married several years ago. A few months ago I decided to talk to my parents about being asexual. I know my dad struggled to come to terms about it. He is very traditional in his ways and him learning I was also biromantic did not help my situation. Some days pass and I'm on speaker phone with my mom. The call eventually comes to an end and after she says her goodbyes I hear my dad in the background say "I love you _____". And ever since then every phone call ends with those words I longed to hear from him my whole life. I was terrified my dad would never speak to me again. Instead, I feel validated and more loved than I ever have before.
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Ever since I came out to my parents, my dad tells me he loves me...
My dad has never been one to express feelings or any sort of affection. He's a hardened individual on the outside and he chose to raise his only...
I think thinking about my sexual identity is messing me up
I accepted myself as asexual maybe 2 months ago. Sexuality was never a forefront in my mind and I just never thought too much about it. I knew I never experienced sexual attraction hence I know and accept myself to be asexual.
Now, for the past months I was at home a lot. Recently restrictions have loosen and I had the chance to meet up with friends, go out and socialize etc etc. I realize that because I've been thinking so much about sexual orientation and the different types of attraction, it's popping up in my head more often now. Sometimes when I see someone that is aesthetically attractive / personality is attractive, the question of "hey, do I find them sexually attractive" is pops up. And I don't exactly like these thoughts it's so disturbing. I imagine sex with them and I recoil and while that affirms that I am asexual, I DON'T LIKE HAVING THESE THOUGHTS. How to stop?????
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I accepted myself as asexual maybe 2 months ago. Sexuality was never a forefront in my mind and I just never thought too much about it. I knew I never experienced sexual attraction hence I know and accept myself to be asexual.
Now, for the past months I was at home a lot. Recently restrictions have loosen and I had the chance to meet up with friends, go out and socialize etc etc. I realize that because I've been thinking so much about sexual orientation and the different types of attraction, it's popping up in my head more often now. Sometimes when I see someone that is aesthetically attractive / personality is attractive, the question of "hey, do I find them sexually attractive" is pops up. And I don't exactly like these thoughts it's so disturbing. I imagine sex with them and I recoil and while that affirms that I am asexual, I DON'T LIKE HAVING THESE THOUGHTS. How to stop?????
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I think thinking about my sexual identity is messing me up
I accepted myself as asexual maybe 2 months ago. Sexuality was never a forefront in my mind and I just never thought too much about it. I knew I...
What of these things counts as sexual or not and can asexuals still do them and still be ace?
1: Make out. Maybe with tongue. I hate it with tongue.
2: Give or take oral sex
3: Want to do the motorboat between a woman's boobs.
4: Lay naked or exposed beside someone.
5. Have low libido and can barely get aroused.
6: Like to watch naked women.
7: Kinks. Are kinks like dominatrix a kink an ace can have? Because I have this fantasy of dominating a partner (of course someone who enjoys it as well), naked, and there may or may not involve a knife in my hand playing along their body while I wear a thick choker. Only none of this involves genitals. Just boobs.
8: Is sexual actions about putting one genital into another one? Because that has always confused me. Is sex just the meaning of intercourse between people of all genders?
9: Are things like caressing sensually and kissing considered sex? Are touching someone else's genital considered sex? If you would want to do this, I'm not, I think, are you still ace?
10: What is really the defination of sex?
I can't figure out any more rn but happy for answers,
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1: Make out. Maybe with tongue. I hate it with tongue.
2: Give or take oral sex
3: Want to do the motorboat between a woman's boobs.
4: Lay naked or exposed beside someone.
5. Have low libido and can barely get aroused.
6: Like to watch naked women.
7: Kinks. Are kinks like dominatrix a kink an ace can have? Because I have this fantasy of dominating a partner (of course someone who enjoys it as well), naked, and there may or may not involve a knife in my hand playing along their body while I wear a thick choker. Only none of this involves genitals. Just boobs.
8: Is sexual actions about putting one genital into another one? Because that has always confused me. Is sex just the meaning of intercourse between people of all genders?
9: Are things like caressing sensually and kissing considered sex? Are touching someone else's genital considered sex? If you would want to do this, I'm not, I think, are you still ace?
10: What is really the defination of sex?
I can't figure out any more rn but happy for answers,
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What of these things counts as sexual or not and can asexuals...
1: Make out. Maybe with tongue. I hate it with tongue. 2: Give or take oral sex 3: Want to do the motorboat between a woman's boobs. 4: Lay...
Got the idea from another person here months ago, tweaked it.
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Reddit, I promise you that there is absolutely NOTHING like what you're asking happening here!!!!!
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Do you guys know other animated TV series that has good asexuality representation?
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