My aunt said I should get married
Hi, I'm 22 years old.
I'm half Mexican, half white.
All throughout my life, it felt like my whole identity was split.
I'm half race, I like both genders (like bisexual) but I have little to no attraction to actual people (asexual).
I'm confused about everything in general, but all of this causes nothing but troubles fitting in with "normal" people with their attraction radars working. I just felt...broken at birth. My radar never really worked.
My tía was talking to my mom the other day on the phone, and I said a quick,"Hi." I haven't seen her in years. And she told me I should get married before it's over.
I've never even been in a relationship, and I have little interest in one. But after this...I feel even more broken.
I never want to get pregnant and have to worry about feeling awkward to do normal "se" acctivies with my partner without feeling naked down to my soul and feel like throwing up while doing said acctivies.
...I already struggle with my mental health, and this is really weighing me down. I can't stop thinking about what she said.
It makes me feel more like an alien (abnormal) than usual.
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Hi, I'm 22 years old.
I'm half Mexican, half white.
All throughout my life, it felt like my whole identity was split.
I'm half race, I like both genders (like bisexual) but I have little to no attraction to actual people (asexual).
I'm confused about everything in general, but all of this causes nothing but troubles fitting in with "normal" people with their attraction radars working. I just felt...broken at birth. My radar never really worked.
My tía was talking to my mom the other day on the phone, and I said a quick,"Hi." I haven't seen her in years. And she told me I should get married before it's over.
I've never even been in a relationship, and I have little interest in one. But after this...I feel even more broken.
I never want to get pregnant and have to worry about feeling awkward to do normal "se" acctivies with my partner without feeling naked down to my soul and feel like throwing up while doing said acctivies.
...I already struggle with my mental health, and this is really weighing me down. I can't stop thinking about what she said.
It makes me feel more like an alien (abnormal) than usual.
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Is it still ace to want "sexual activities" but not actual sex?
Well as the title says, im ace,have been labeling myself as such for years now ,and i never had as much as a crush (even on fictional characters) until i was sixteen .
I've only ever had two crushes on two people so far .and after a couple of months of these crushes developing I started feeling attracted to these guys (no overlapping)
But even with the attraction the idea of sex still feels repulsive to me,and on some days tolerable.but I don't want it,I don't want anything taht can be considered "sex" it feels so disgusting to me.
But i want some things,like making out and what not that can lean over the "sexual activities" area
(I don't consider myself demiasexual cus I don't feel sexual attraction to people after i get to know them,just these two,I consider it as a "exeptions" of a sort)
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Well as the title says, im ace,have been labeling myself as such for years now ,and i never had as much as a crush (even on fictional characters) until i was sixteen .
I've only ever had two crushes on two people so far .and after a couple of months of these crushes developing I started feeling attracted to these guys (no overlapping)
But even with the attraction the idea of sex still feels repulsive to me,and on some days tolerable.but I don't want it,I don't want anything taht can be considered "sex" it feels so disgusting to me.
But i want some things,like making out and what not that can lean over the "sexual activities" area
(I don't consider myself demiasexual cus I don't feel sexual attraction to people after i get to know them,just these two,I consider it as a "exeptions" of a sort)
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Pervasive sexual stuff in movies
I tried to watch 'one battle after another' and stopped after the first 10 mins. The sexual stuff jammed into that first 10 mins was just a turn off. Was it relevant to the plot, to the story? Was it symbolism? I don't know, but I am getting tired of the constant in your face sexual content that's pervasive in all media.
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I tried to watch 'one battle after another' and stopped after the first 10 mins. The sexual stuff jammed into that first 10 mins was just a turn off. Was it relevant to the plot, to the story? Was it symbolism? I don't know, but I am getting tired of the constant in your face sexual content that's pervasive in all media.
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