A stands for ally... Love r/AreTheStraightsOk but erasure still feels 🤮
https://redd.it/r8wjmb
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Should I tell my husband I'm asexual?

I'm 24F, got married in August, and have internally thought of myself as asexual since around age 15.

I came out to a few friends when I was younger, and when I started dating my husband when I was 19, I got a lot of "ha ha, how crazy, I can't believe you ever thought you were asexual!" comments.

He is the first person I've properly dated. I've had sex with multiple people before him (varying genders), never felt anything, and never pursued relationships with them. This was a kind of phase where I was "testing" my sexuality, if I have to explain it so bluntly.

I absolutely LOVE my husband. He's the most beautiful person I've ever seen, we have so much in common, we have so much fun together. When we have sex, I feel love for him, but I don't feel sexually aroused.

I don't want to tell him because I don't want him to think I'm "faking" anything when we have sex. I'm happy to do it and I know that sex makes him happy, so I don't want to tell him something that will compromise his enjoyment.

This has been my dilemma for over 5 years now. Please tell me what to do, and if I'm hurting him more by keeping this a secret from him.

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I don't know. The joys of being Quoi.
https://redd.it/r8tnjh
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Didn't get bingo, but looks pretty AroAce.
https://redd.it/r8yltb
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[OC] My first time “viewing it”
https://redd.it/r914i5
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My bingo.
https://redd.it/r91hv3
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Does sex/masturbation feel clinical to you?

hey! I recently figured out that I'm somewhere on the ace spectrum and I was wondering if anyone else feels like a robot when they have sex. I'm not sex repulsed and I only really do it to make my husband happy, since I'm indifferent to it. But it always feels like work, or a task I need to complete. And then afterwards I just feel nothing. Am I alone in this??

https://redd.it/r8ztni
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I also did the bingo (original on right, credits to the creator)

https://redd.it/r94yqr
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Asexual Energy (Game is Fallout New Vegas with the DLC old world blues, there is more LGBTQ rep in this game)

https://redd.it/r961sz
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I don't belong here

2020 was the year I came out to myself as asexual and I was very proud to be a part of this amazing community. Always found support and felt amazing!

However, for the last few months, I've been thinking and finally reached a conclusion. I'm gay. I like girls and I do find some of them sexually attractive, now that I have given it some proper thought.

Thanks a lot you guys, for every bit of support! :)

(I'm not sure I used the right flair but I am happy, so it doesn't seem entirely wrong)

https://redd.it/r96pcd
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Bingo 🙋🏼‍♀️

https://redd.it/r94k0f
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My dad texted me something about me being ace but he capitalized it like “ACE” as if it was an acronym, which got me wondering. What would it be an acronym for?



https://redd.it/r96b56
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Also me trying to explain that I dont want to fuck the video game characters I have crushes on, to my allo friends
https://redd.it/r97lqw
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Planks for one min
https://redd.it/r919ge
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