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Mirror of /r/asexuality, /r/asexual, /r/aaaaaaacccccccce and /r/aromanticism.

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So in case you were wondering; no, the allos are not okay.
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How to go about pursuing relationship

So I’m an asexual heteroromantic woman and I’m starting to dread the pursuance of a romantic relationship. I am a hopeless romantic at heart who has always wished for a loving partner. I experience aesthetic attraction and even sometimes sensual attraction, but I’ve never in my life wished to engage in sexual activities. To the point, I’m terrified of falling in love and not being able to accommodate my partner. Not even sure what specific advice I’m asking for: maybe successful romance stories or ways y’all have approached the dating scene

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Aphobia at the therapist

So I've been going to this therapist for a while, let's call him P. For 2 years I've been wanting to get a radical breast reduction for aesthetic and sports reasons (I'm a female and not trans, just my preference). Also I dont like traditional feminine clothes and activities that much.
I've told that to P. For 2 hours they have been grilling me of how my chest might be essential for me and my sexual partner in the future. I'm 19 y o and I never wanted a sexual partner.
The next time P and 4 of his colleagues continued to press on the fact I need to explore my sexual and féminine side, and thaty sexual development is delayed.
Oh my days. I am quite annoyed and I dont want to go back. Sorry for mobile formatting and typos, I needed to vent 😶 thanks for reading!

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Ace Flag but with pluto representation... "asexuals + pluto= world domination 💜"
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No one really accepts me

When I came out as asexual everyone said they supported me, but at some point nearly everyone has said something along the lines of “you’ll change your mind in the future though” people like to do the “I accept and love you” speech to make themselves look good but after that they don’t care. Even with the people who are cool with me being ace, they don’t accept I’m not big on romance. I still don’t really know what I am, I get crushes and daydream about being cuddled but I don’t actually want to date, it’s confusing. I guess I’m lithromantic or something? But I just say I’m aro so people don’t get confused. Anyway a few people are ok with me being ace but only if i want romance, that’s the only way I’m somewhat acceptable. They probably also hope I’ll compromise and have sex too. I’m so tired of it and don’t know how to describe or explain myself. I can’t cut these people out because it’s all my family and friends. How do I make them understand me?

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Why do so many people think all relations need sex

Like bro I just wanna cute girlfriend to hug when I’m in a bad mood or comfort her when she’s in a bad mood. Drink hot chocolate while watching a movie or something. Go out on a nice walk during autumn. Is that too much to ask for?

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Ace and demi just chillin’ Even though they might look a bit frightening, they are actually really friendly. If you’re gentle enough you might be able to pet them. But do only feed them cake or garlic bread! If you give them anything else they might get sick!
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A friend posted this on Facebook. I was excited to see the ace colors included!!
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i rejected a girl who liked me sexually by coming out to her… n it didn’t go well

so this girl has had a crush on me for 4/5 years, i used to think she was jokingly flirting and through her i realised i didn’t really like women or men (as i’m a woman) and today she was making strange sexual innuendos towards me and i couldn’t really be bothered to try and escape them through awkward laughs and i just looked her in the eyes and said “i’m asexual” and she said that it “wasn’t true” because i “liked timothee chalamet” n i said that i could like someone without wanting to fuck them. she said that she would be making fun of me in her groupchat later and she told all of her friends. the funny thing is, she’s gay so i thought she could kind of understand the fear of telling people your sexuality and hoping they accept you. she gave me a weird judgemental look and went off. idk, i feel judged and i know she might be a little hurt but i can’t help but feel constantly alert of my sexuality now. i feel like i just shared a piece of me to her and she just denied it??? i thought it would be better to tell her so she could maybe stop flirting with me but now she thinks she can “change me” idk… i’m really uncomfortable by it, and she’s kinda scary sometimes so i’m scared if i tell her to stop she might be really rude and maybe be violent to me?? i hope the sexual comments stop but yeah… idk why i wanted to share this, but i just feel the need to let it out yk?

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