Advice for Men:

Never invest in a girl more than she invests in you.

Except in the early stages because you have to approach her.

But keep things light & casual.

Don't think of her as the potential mother of your children before you even hang out.

It takes 2 to tango.

Stop giving women more than they deserve.

Not every woman deserves princess treatment.

Ask yourself, what has she done for you?

Have she sacrificed everything for you?

Worked HARD for you?

Gave you the world?

Never accept less when you deserve more.

Respect yourself.

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What I’m about to share with you is not new knowledge, just a massively underappreciated piece of information.

Every single successful person uses it and you can too. Starting today, you can completely turn your life around if you prioritize this one thing.

Let’s call it the VOTING technique.
I’m not a big fan of democracy, but I think on a personal level, you can use the concept to very fruitful ends during your time on earth.

In the voting technique, every action is a vote for or against the life you aspire to.

I don’t just mean some actions, some of the time.

Every single action you take is a vote for or against the life you aspire to.

Everything you do either increases or decreases your chances of getting what you want.

Think about the things you do that you’re not very proud of, and think about the things you do that make you feel a sense of accomplishment and increase your self-respect (if you don’t respect yourself, you’re doing a lot wrong).

Let’s say you are A and you are trying to evolve/develop into B.

B is obviously different from A, and the degree to which A and B vary will determine the length of the gap you need to close to go from being A to become B.

The more the gap, the harder you’ll have to work.

It is a simple mental technique, but first, you have to use a pen and paper to get down some things [you won’t need these later on].

Write down all the important characteristics of B that make you want to be that person [don’t forget, B is not actually a person].

Before we continue, it is important I add ‘never model your B according to another living human’

Humans are too flawed and the day you see the flaws in your model [the person you’re aspiring to] you’ll likely lose the drive to want to become like them.

You don’t need such disruptions.
Your model must be flawless AKA imaginary.

Your goal is either to become that person or get as close as humanly possible.

Either way is a big win.

Back to the model building now:
Once you’ve written down the more important qualities of B, memorize them.

This should be easy since you wrote it yourself, so they are all things you already know.

You just need to have it at the highest level of your consciousness at all times.

Once you have these characteristics firmly in your head, at the highest level of consciousness [you can recall everything in an instant without having to think for long] you model all your actions to never violate any of these characteristics.

That’s basically it.

So, the question is always:
“Would B do xyz?”

If the answer is ‘no’ then don’t do XYZ.
“How would B approach/handle this situation?”
Do exactly that.

If you can do this for just 1 month, guaranteed your life will massively change.

The only thing that may be a problem is the stretch of your imagination and the quality of your ideals and the characteristics you’ve chosen for your persona.

The reason many are unable to follow this model is simply that we live in such a

hyper-distraction-based-attention-seeking-existence…

You may start now and end up forgetting you even had something like that going on and just end up reverting back to old habits.

Meditation helps a lot.

In the morning and in the evening.
Just the activity alone will constantly remind you of your goals and help you bring them to the forefront of your priorities.

Once this is all you think about, every single time, you are good to go.

To recap:

Step 1: Write down the characteristics of your ideal self

Step 2: Gauge every action/decision to ensure you don’t violate the items in Step 1

Step 3: Do this consistently for at least a month

Yes, this is the entire model, and it works as hell.

Now, important characteristics may include very strong principles like:

“B does not betray his brothers” but you don’t make big decisions like whether to rat on someone who trusted you or not every day.

Rather you’re faced with smaller, seemingly unimportant decisions.