"What you avoid controls you. Avoidance feels like relief in the short term, but every time you dodge discomfort, you strengthen fear, shame, procrastination, or resentment. Go take that one small step today that scares you."
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"The world is full of people suffering from the effects of their own unlived life. They become bitter, critical, or rigid, not because the world is cruel to them, but because they have betrayed their own inner possibilities. The artist who never makes art becomes cynical about those who do. The lover who never risks loving mocks romance. The thinker who never commits to a philosophy sneers at belief itself. And yet, all of them suffer, because deep down they know: the life they mock is the life they were meant to live."
Β© Carl Jung
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Β© Carl Jung
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This one should settle all the questions about my background (who am I), what am I focused on and all of my projects)
π acceptthyself.com - it's all there (my digital passport) π
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I don't understand one thing about us humans, we tend to follow what others are doing, copy them and imitate like it's encoded to our DNA. The weird thing is even if the group of some people doing something "stupid" - (in a good way) others who are watching would do the same at the very least (even if they don't have their own reasoning behind it they still follow what others are doing)
Is it because of FOMO and Survival mechanism? Like, if we do not do something that gets accepted and approval of the group it threatens our survival. Mostly because we might get outcasted by them, and our brain does anything it takes to survive and pass out the genes for the next generation. History proves this, Sapiens outcompeted Neanderthals because they could cooperate and work in big groups, hunt, and be efficient this way.
Yet, we don't live in the caves anymore nor cooperating on a large scale, cooperating is good but the instinct of getting the approval of the group is the notorious remnant of that narrative from the past?
#unfiltered_shower_thoughts
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Is it because of FOMO and Survival mechanism? Like, if we do not do something that gets accepted and approval of the group it threatens our survival. Mostly because we might get outcasted by them, and our brain does anything it takes to survive and pass out the genes for the next generation. History proves this, Sapiens outcompeted Neanderthals because they could cooperate and work in big groups, hunt, and be efficient this way.
Yet, we don't live in the caves anymore nor cooperating on a large scale, cooperating is good but the instinct of getting the approval of the group is the notorious remnant of that narrative from the past?
#unfiltered_shower_thoughts
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Being understood is the best form of art and an indirect therapy on its own. Not being understood is the core of all the conflicts, fights and arguments.
Ironically, we want to be understood but at the same time don't work on improving the delivery of the message, what is it that we want from the other party isn't always clear, even to ourselves, and the worst part is we don't even look at ourselves from a third person perspective because it's easy to blame someone else instead of us, we don't reflect and forget who we actually wanted to be in our pages of life.
Jordan Peterson once said, "articulate" person is the most dangerous person in a society, and my take from that is if you are good at expressing yourself you can do like anything, you have all the keys to any doors. But this still gets paradoxical, even if you are 100% well-spoken the other party interprets what you say in their own way not the way you wanted, which still causes a conflict. So wouldn't life be better if only all of us had our "point-of-view gun" from Hitchhiker's guide to the galaxy?)
#raw_reflections
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Ironically, we want to be understood but at the same time don't work on improving the delivery of the message, what is it that we want from the other party isn't always clear, even to ourselves, and the worst part is we don't even look at ourselves from a third person perspective because it's easy to blame someone else instead of us, we don't reflect and forget who we actually wanted to be in our pages of life.
Jordan Peterson once said, "articulate" person is the most dangerous person in a society, and my take from that is if you are good at expressing yourself you can do like anything, you have all the keys to any doors. But this still gets paradoxical, even if you are 100% well-spoken the other party interprets what you say in their own way not the way you wanted, which still causes a conflict. So wouldn't life be better if only all of us had our "point-of-view gun" from Hitchhiker's guide to the galaxy?)
#raw_reflections
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- What do you miss?
- I miss the way I viewed the world before I knew too much about it
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- I miss the way I viewed the world before I knew too much about it
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Gradual but beautiful, getting there (lunar eclipse)
And I am getting a telescope for the next one for sure (phone missed the red parts)
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And I am getting a telescope for the next one for sure (phone missed the red parts)
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Forwarded from Ahror's BlogβοΈ
Be crazy enough to believe you can do anything in life. The soldier who does not want to become a general is bad. Maybe it's loudly said, but when you set goals and reach your dreams, it's worth a lot.
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How to live a miserable life in 5 easy steps:
1. Donβt decide. Spend tons of time planning and thinking, very little doing.
2. Don't set goals. And certainly don't track progress (or lack thereof).
3. Switch from thing to thing every quarter or year. Mastery and compounding are for suckers. Starting from scratch will be easier.
4. Don't have a best friend. Tons of acquaintances will suffice! Loving a buddy like family and caring for them is gay!
5. Donβt find a partner that makes you happy and is there for you through all the peaks and valleys. Love is cringe. Being a loner forever allowed to roam wild is the key.
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1. Donβt decide. Spend tons of time planning and thinking, very little doing.
2. Don't set goals. And certainly don't track progress (or lack thereof).
3. Switch from thing to thing every quarter or year. Mastery and compounding are for suckers. Starting from scratch will be easier.
4. Don't have a best friend. Tons of acquaintances will suffice! Loving a buddy like family and caring for them is gay!
5. Donβt find a partner that makes you happy and is there for you through all the peaks and valleys. Love is cringe. Being a loner forever allowed to roam wild is the key.
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A boy asks Mozart how to write a symphony.
Mozart tells the boy he's too young and should study more first.
The boy says, "But you were writing symphonies at age 10."
Mozart: "But I wasn't asking people how to do it."
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Mozart tells the boy he's too young and should study more first.
The boy says, "But you were writing symphonies at age 10."
Mozart: "But I wasn't asking people how to do it."
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I've been trying to announce it ever since I made this novel breakthrough in @ReadNETbot (been experimenting). Well, today is the day.
So, as you know our bot has access to over 5 million books and millions of research papers (including gate-kept textbooks) but still this is not the biggest in the world. What I did flipped that claim completely (not biggest) upside down, a new novel way of searching the web.
This is huge because, after it is implemented @ReadNETbot will have access to 99% of the books that have ever been digitalized on net, we are talking about 10s even 20s of millionsπ of books here (which will make it the biggest in the world). To test the capability I asked 2-3 AI models to list 10 books that are almost hard to find digitally let alone physically and it FOUND 9 out of 10 π€― . The way it searches is so efficient that it passes by all the gates of internet with some dark magic so to speak, BUT it is heavily compute intensive, meaning that I cannot make it available to all instantly, we should first try beta testing to see how much load it can handle. That's about it, and @ReadNETbot is up and working like a charm again btw! π
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So, as you know our bot has access to over 5 million books and millions of research papers (including gate-kept textbooks) but still this is not the biggest in the world. What I did flipped that claim completely (not biggest) upside down, a new novel way of searching the web.
This is huge because, after it is implemented @ReadNETbot will have access to 99% of the books that have ever been digitalized on net, we are talking about 10s even 20s of millions
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If you hold a gun and I hold a gun, we can talk about the law.
If you hold a knife and I hold a knife, we can talk about rules.
If you come empty-handed and I come empty-handed, we can talk about reason.
But if you have a gun and I only have a knife, then the truth lies in your hands.
If you have a gun and I have nothing, what you hold isn't just a weapon - it's my life.
The concepts of law, rules, and morality only hold meaning when they are based on equality.
The harsh truth of this world is that when money speaks, truth goes silent.
Β© "King of the hill"
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If you hold a knife and I hold a knife, we can talk about rules.
If you come empty-handed and I come empty-handed, we can talk about reason.
But if you have a gun and I only have a knife, then the truth lies in your hands.
If you have a gun and I have nothing, what you hold isn't just a weapon - it's my life.
The concepts of law, rules, and morality only hold meaning when they are based on equality.
The harsh truth of this world is that when money speaks, truth goes silent.
Β© "King of the hill"
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Ahror
Before: Quantity π©βπ» After: Quality π€© π Total Inactive Users Found: 6,967 β
Successfully Removed: 6,967 All users with (seen last month + long ago), I am not going to remove premium users (so chill) @acceptthyself
It is indeed slowly turning into tradition at this point.
Cleaned up around 7k inactive users again (with last seen long time ago and a month ago)
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Cleaned up around 7k inactive users again (with last seen long time ago and a month ago)
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π The Adventures of Huckleberry Finn, Mark Twain
π Book 41/50
π 359/359β
βοΈ 4.5/5
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π Book 41/50
π 359/359β
βοΈ 4.5/5
Well well well, the beginning was a bit muddy in comprehension to me, maybe it's because of the authentic narration from a boy (grammar mistakes, colloquial), and different dialects spoken by other characters (Jim). So, it took me a few chapters to get adjusted to and I did. This is not just a simple adventure book for kids, it gets really dark. We see Huck (protagonist) grappling with his conscience as he helps out a black man escape from slavery, he has dilemma with what society taught him and acting against that out of his moral compass. He is very practical unlike his friend Tom Sawyer who romanticizes adventure to serve his own fantasies, we see it when Jim (black man) gets imprisoned and at the beginning when they form a gang to ransom people, Tom acting only out of bookish principles while Huck questions everything and is very much pragmatic. His father is a drunk man and always beats him up and locks him just because of his insecurity, he doesn't want his son (his own son!) to level up and wants him to be at his level so that he cannot outwit him and remain dumb just like him.. Huck escapes this trauma in a brilliant way anyway. One of the striking themes of the plot is Huck developing friendship with Jim against any prejudices, he realizes he is just like other white folks, he has empathy, reasoning and all the traits we can name of, unlike what society taught him, this is one of the biggest cognitive shifts a protagonist has throughout the novel.
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Ahror
Being understood is the best form of art and an indirect therapy on its own. Not being understood is the core of all the conflicts, fights and arguments. Ironically, we want to be understood but at the same time don't work on improving the delivery of theβ¦
"People spend their whole lives trying to be understood, but their deepest growth happens in the moments when they finally understand someone else."
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