"🎀t's not like that. I don't like asking for this.The guys I sleep with want to have sex with me," I cringe. It didn't come out quite right. "I mean," I say hastily, as my hands flare up, "that they're actively looking for acquaintances, too." Not relaxing on the couch or surfing the internet. 🎀don't want this to be a chore or for my problems to invade your personal life. — I assure you, having sex is not a chore, especially with you. As for your problems, well, that's the essence of a relationship, Lil. Your problem is now my problem. In fact, this has almost always been my problem. Now I just get an award instead of watching some jerk take it away."