“Set and enforce an aspirational personal hourly rate. If fixing a problem will save less than your hourly rate, ignore it. If outsourcing a task will cost less than your hourly rate, outsource it.”
Excerpt From
The Almanack of Naval Ravikant
Excerpt From
The Almanack of Naval Ravikant
“Allah does not look at your appearance or wealth, but rather he looks at your hearts and actions.”
“On those who believe and perform righteous deeds the Lord of Mercy will bestow love for them.”
“On those who believe and perform righteous deeds the Lord of Mercy will bestow love for them.”
With all the uncertainty in the world, it’s easy to feel hopeless. Don’t waste time wishing things were different. Where you are right now is where the Almighty wants you to be. Do your best. Trust Him. Believe in Him. Whether it’s a blessing or a lesson, thank Him.
Aytganingdek qilaman. Qilmoqchi bo'lgan ishlarimni yozib beraman.
O'zimni kuzatib, kunimni tahlil qilaman.
Bu foydali mashg'ulot.
Bizni yomon odam qiladigan ishlardan biri – orqaga qaramaslik.
Qilmoqchi bo'lgan ishlarimiz haqida o'ylaymiz. (Yetarlicha ko'p bo'lmasa ham)
Qilgan ishlarimiz haqida esa o'ylamaymiz.
Axir, rejalar bo'lib o'tgan ishlarga ham bog'liq!
O'zimni kuzatib, kunimni tahlil qilaman.
Bu foydali mashg'ulot.
Bizni yomon odam qiladigan ishlardan biri – orqaga qaramaslik.
Qilmoqchi bo'lgan ishlarimiz haqida o'ylaymiz. (Yetarlicha ko'p bo'lmasa ham)
Qilgan ishlarimiz haqida esa o'ylamaymiz.
Axir, rejalar bo'lib o'tgan ishlarga ham bog'liq!
Bringing yourself to account is called muhasabahin Arabic. And we will all get the hisaab (the account) of all that we did in this life on the Day of Judgement.
Umar ibn al-Khattab radiyallahu ‘anhu said in one of his most powerful statements:
“Bring yourself to account before you are taken to account (on the Day of Judgement),” and, “Weigh your deeds before your deeds are weighed.” (“Hasibu anfusakum qabla antuhasabu, wazinu anfusakum qabla antuzanu.”)
This issue of questioning yourself and bringing yourself to account was practiced by the salaf (predecessors) of our Ummah. Many of the sahaaba would make up the account for themselves at the end of each day, repenting for the wrong they did and determining to do better the next day.
Umar ibn al-Khattab radiyallahu ‘anhu said in one of his most powerful statements:
“Bring yourself to account before you are taken to account (on the Day of Judgement),” and, “Weigh your deeds before your deeds are weighed.” (“Hasibu anfusakum qabla antuhasabu, wazinu anfusakum qabla antuzanu.”)
This issue of questioning yourself and bringing yourself to account was practiced by the salaf (predecessors) of our Ummah. Many of the sahaaba would make up the account for themselves at the end of each day, repenting for the wrong they did and determining to do better the next day.
Son! Offering advice is simple; the problem is its acceptance, for it is bitter in the palates of those who follow their vain desires.
This is so because forbidden acts are captivating to hearts. Accepting advice is particularly difficult on a student going through the motions in his course whilst being lost in vanity and the wonders of the world.
He labors under the impression that the abstract knowledge he possesses will be his redemption and salvation, and that he is not in need of action.
...
This person, trapped in delusion, is unaware that studying knowledge without putting it into action makes the case against him stronger.
...
Son! Do not be bankrupt in deeds and empty of its seeds – spiritual excellences.
Rest assured that abstract knowledge cannot be held with the hand. For example, a man is in the wilderness.
He has ten lethal swords together with other weapons and he is brave and bellicose.
A huge and ferocious lion attacks him. Now what is your opinion? Do you think that his weapons will ward off the danger without him using them and putting them into action?
Of course the weapons cannot ward off the danger without being wielded and put into motion.
Similarly, if a person reads and learns a hundred masaa’il but does not practically apply them the masaa’il will not benefit him. Their benefit is in applying them practically.
If you study for a hundred years and collect a thousand kitaabs, still you will not be qualified for the mercy of Allah unless you
practice.
This is so because forbidden acts are captivating to hearts. Accepting advice is particularly difficult on a student going through the motions in his course whilst being lost in vanity and the wonders of the world.
He labors under the impression that the abstract knowledge he possesses will be his redemption and salvation, and that he is not in need of action.
...
This person, trapped in delusion, is unaware that studying knowledge without putting it into action makes the case against him stronger.
...
Son! Do not be bankrupt in deeds and empty of its seeds – spiritual excellences.
Rest assured that abstract knowledge cannot be held with the hand. For example, a man is in the wilderness.
He has ten lethal swords together with other weapons and he is brave and bellicose.
A huge and ferocious lion attacks him. Now what is your opinion? Do you think that his weapons will ward off the danger without him using them and putting them into action?
Of course the weapons cannot ward off the danger without being wielded and put into motion.
Similarly, if a person reads and learns a hundred masaa’il but does not practically apply them the masaa’il will not benefit him. Their benefit is in applying them practically.
If you study for a hundred years and collect a thousand kitaabs, still you will not be qualified for the mercy of Allah unless you
practice.
Don’t be distracted by human knowledge, as AI has been historically.
Instead focus on methods for creating knowledge that scale with computation, like search and learning.
Instead focus on methods for creating knowledge that scale with computation, like search and learning.
50 million odam saraton bilan kurashmoqda
173000 odam bugun uyg’onmadi
80 million odam yura olmaydi
300 million odam rang ajrata olmaydi
55 million odam xotirasini eslay olmaydi
430 million odam eshita olmaydi
6 milliard inson hali samalyotga minmagan
Sanasak oxiri yoq
Siz uchun oddiy bo’lgan narsa, boshqalar uchun orzu!
Shukr qiling!
173000 odam bugun uyg’onmadi
80 million odam yura olmaydi
300 million odam rang ajrata olmaydi
55 million odam xotirasini eslay olmaydi
430 million odam eshita olmaydi
6 milliard inson hali samalyotga minmagan
Sanasak oxiri yoq
Siz uchun oddiy bo’lgan narsa, boshqalar uchun orzu!
Shukr qiling!
There are fundamentally two huge games in life that people play. One is the money game. Because money is not going to solev all of your problems, but it's going to sovle all of your money problems. People realize that, so they want to make money.
But a t the same time, many of them deep down, belive they can't make money. They don't want any wealth creation to happen. SO, they attack the whole enterprice by saying, Well, making money is evil. You shouldn't do it.
But they're actually playing the other game, which is the status game. THey're trying to be high status in they eyes of other people wathing by saying " WEll , I don't need money. WE don't want money." Status is your ranking in the social hierarchy.
But a t the same time, many of them deep down, belive they can't make money. They don't want any wealth creation to happen. SO, they attack the whole enterprice by saying, Well, making money is evil. You shouldn't do it.
But they're actually playing the other game, which is the status game. THey're trying to be high status in they eyes of other people wathing by saying " WEll , I don't need money. WE don't want money." Status is your ranking in the social hierarchy.
There is one the most important thing to do for younger people starting out
Spend more time making the big decisions. There are basically three really big decisions you make in your early life: where you live, who you're with, wand what you do.
We spend very little time deciding which relationship to get into. We spend so much time in a job, but we spend so little time deciding which job to get into. CHoosing what city to live in can almost completely determine the trajectory of your life, but we spend so little time trying to figure out waht city to live in.
Advice to a young engineer considering moving from his mother country: "Do you want to leave your freinds behind? Or be the one left behind?"
If you're going to live in a city for ten years, if you're going to be in a job for five years, if you're in a relationship for a decade, you should be spending one to two years deciding these things. These are highly dominating decisions. THose three decisions really matter.
You have to say no to everything and free up your time so you can solve the important problems. Those three are probably the three biggest ones.
@abdujabbor_ahmadjonov
Spend more time making the big decisions. There are basically three really big decisions you make in your early life: where you live, who you're with, wand what you do.
We spend very little time deciding which relationship to get into. We spend so much time in a job, but we spend so little time deciding which job to get into. CHoosing what city to live in can almost completely determine the trajectory of your life, but we spend so little time trying to figure out waht city to live in.
Advice to a young engineer considering moving from his mother country: "Do you want to leave your freinds behind? Or be the one left behind?"
If you're going to live in a city for ten years, if you're going to be in a job for five years, if you're in a relationship for a decade, you should be spending one to two years deciding these things. These are highly dominating decisions. THose three decisions really matter.
You have to say no to everything and free up your time so you can solve the important problems. Those three are probably the three biggest ones.
@abdujabbor_ahmadjonov
Dangasalik 1
Xalqimizda bir ibora bor “Bekorchidan Xudo bezor.”
Oxirgi paytlarda ko’p insonlardan eshitayotgan narsam bir xil, o’zining ishidan nolishlari bo’lmoqda
Ularning aytishicha Cristiano kabi boy bo’lib ketib, har kuni damni olsa, hech nima qilmasa.
Oxirgi paytlarda insonlar haftasiga 40 soat emas, 4 soat ishlashni hohlashmoqda. Eng achinarlisi shundaki, qolgan vaqtlarini boshqa mashg’ulot uchun emas, shunchaki hech narsa qilmaslik yoki dam olish (enjoying life) bilan o’tkazishmoqchi.
Hayotdan ma’no topa olmaslik, ya’ni dangasalik, maqsadsizlik, bu o’lim bilan tengdir.
Statistikaga ko’ra dunyodagi eng ko’p umr ko’ruvchi insonlar bular ustozlar ekan
Estonida olib borilgan tadqiqotda aytilishicha universitet professorlari boshqalardan ko’ra 9 yil ko’proq umr ko’radi.
Sababi ularda har doim maqsad bor, ertaga universitetda bolalarga dars o’tish kerak.
Yoshligimizda ko’p eshitganmiz, munkillab yurgan o’qituvchilar degan so’zni
Lekin bu iborani dasturchilar uchun, shifokorlar uchun aytilganini kamdan kam holatda eshitganman.
Michigan State Daily yozishicha, odamlar orasidagi dangasalik COVID paytida ko’paygan
Natijada, o’quvchilar topshiriqlarni kunlik emas, deadline vaqtida topshirishgan, va ana shu vaqt orasida academic achievement eng quyi darajada bo’lgan.
NLM ga ko’ra, COVID davridagi dangasalik, Amerikdagi 42% odamlarning o’rtacha 13 kg vazn olishiga sababchi bo’lgan.
EveryDayHealth nashriga ko’ra 2022-yilda 1.8 milliard, ya’ni dunyoning 31% aholisi jismonan faol bo’lmagan, va bu ko’rsatkichlar 2030-yilgacha 35% bo’lishi mumkinligi ta’kidlangan. Bu davr ham COVID davriga yaqin bo’lgan.
The worst thing that can happen to a man is to become civilized.” - David Goggins
Erkak uchun sodir bo‘lishi mumkin bo‘lgan eng yomon narsa bu haddan tashqari qulaylikka o‘rganib, chiniqishni yo‘qotishidir.
Garry Varnechukning bir postini ko'rib qoldim
Hozir oddiygina dangasa emas, Shunchaki ular hech narsa qilishni hohlamaydi
Chunki dangasa inson eng kamida qisqa yo'lni topishga harakat qiladi. Lekin hozir unday emas.
2025-yil workout ga borishni boshlagan edim. Bir kichik odat, ana o'sha zalga borishimni chekladi.
Bu esa social media while working out. Ijtimoiy tarmoqda cheksiz kontent bor.
Va uning algoritmi sizga yoqqanlarini taqdim qiladi
Va uni ishlatishni to'xtatdim. Natijada hayotim tubdan o'zgardi.
Dr. Dimitri Christakisga ko'ra ijtimoiy tarmoqlardan foydalanish aqliy rivojlanishni to'xtatadi hamda attention spanni tushiradi
Bunga qo'shimcha If you’re bored with life — you don’t get up every morning with a burning desire to do things — you don’t have enough goals.” — Lou Holtz
Ko'p insonlarning orzusi boy bo'lib ketish
Qanday boy? Kambag'allarga yordam bera oladigan? Maktablar qura oladigan? Yokida ko'proq xayriya qiladigan?
Yo'q unday emas, ular hayotdan shunchaki zavq olish uchun boy bo'lishni hohlashadi. Qimmatbaho uy, mashina hamda boshqalar.
Va bunday fikrlash ularni oson yo'lni topishga undaydi.
Ya'ni ular oson yechimni topishga intilishadi.
Haqiqiy rich insonlar bir narsaga erishgandan keyin, boshqa maqsadni ham o'z oldiga qo'yadi
Masalan Jeff Bezos. Uning maqsadi dunyodagi eng katta kutubxonani qurish bo'lgan. Lekin Amazon hozirgi kunda dunyodagi eng katta har narsa bor bo'lgan do'kon.
Demak hech narsaga dangasalik orqalik erishib bo’lmaydi. No pain, no gain!
@TweetLab
Xalqimizda bir ibora bor “Bekorchidan Xudo bezor.”
Oxirgi paytlarda ko’p insonlardan eshitayotgan narsam bir xil, o’zining ishidan nolishlari bo’lmoqda
Ularning aytishicha Cristiano kabi boy bo’lib ketib, har kuni damni olsa, hech nima qilmasa.
Oxirgi paytlarda insonlar haftasiga 40 soat emas, 4 soat ishlashni hohlashmoqda. Eng achinarlisi shundaki, qolgan vaqtlarini boshqa mashg’ulot uchun emas, shunchaki hech narsa qilmaslik yoki dam olish (enjoying life) bilan o’tkazishmoqchi.
Hayotdan ma’no topa olmaslik, ya’ni dangasalik, maqsadsizlik, bu o’lim bilan tengdir.
Statistikaga ko’ra dunyodagi eng ko’p umr ko’ruvchi insonlar bular ustozlar ekan
Estonida olib borilgan tadqiqotda aytilishicha universitet professorlari boshqalardan ko’ra 9 yil ko’proq umr ko’radi.
Sababi ularda har doim maqsad bor, ertaga universitetda bolalarga dars o’tish kerak.
Yoshligimizda ko’p eshitganmiz, munkillab yurgan o’qituvchilar degan so’zni
Lekin bu iborani dasturchilar uchun, shifokorlar uchun aytilganini kamdan kam holatda eshitganman.
Michigan State Daily yozishicha, odamlar orasidagi dangasalik COVID paytida ko’paygan
Natijada, o’quvchilar topshiriqlarni kunlik emas, deadline vaqtida topshirishgan, va ana shu vaqt orasida academic achievement eng quyi darajada bo’lgan.
NLM ga ko’ra, COVID davridagi dangasalik, Amerikdagi 42% odamlarning o’rtacha 13 kg vazn olishiga sababchi bo’lgan.
EveryDayHealth nashriga ko’ra 2022-yilda 1.8 milliard, ya’ni dunyoning 31% aholisi jismonan faol bo’lmagan, va bu ko’rsatkichlar 2030-yilgacha 35% bo’lishi mumkinligi ta’kidlangan. Bu davr ham COVID davriga yaqin bo’lgan.
The worst thing that can happen to a man is to become civilized.” - David Goggins
Erkak uchun sodir bo‘lishi mumkin bo‘lgan eng yomon narsa bu haddan tashqari qulaylikka o‘rganib, chiniqishni yo‘qotishidir.
Garry Varnechukning bir postini ko'rib qoldim
Hozir oddiygina dangasa emas, Shunchaki ular hech narsa qilishni hohlamaydi
Chunki dangasa inson eng kamida qisqa yo'lni topishga harakat qiladi. Lekin hozir unday emas.
2025-yil workout ga borishni boshlagan edim. Bir kichik odat, ana o'sha zalga borishimni chekladi.
Bu esa social media while working out. Ijtimoiy tarmoqda cheksiz kontent bor.
Va uning algoritmi sizga yoqqanlarini taqdim qiladi
Va uni ishlatishni to'xtatdim. Natijada hayotim tubdan o'zgardi.
Dr. Dimitri Christakisga ko'ra ijtimoiy tarmoqlardan foydalanish aqliy rivojlanishni to'xtatadi hamda attention spanni tushiradi
Bunga qo'shimcha If you’re bored with life — you don’t get up every morning with a burning desire to do things — you don’t have enough goals.” — Lou Holtz
Ko'p insonlarning orzusi boy bo'lib ketish
Qanday boy? Kambag'allarga yordam bera oladigan? Maktablar qura oladigan? Yokida ko'proq xayriya qiladigan?
Yo'q unday emas, ular hayotdan shunchaki zavq olish uchun boy bo'lishni hohlashadi. Qimmatbaho uy, mashina hamda boshqalar.
Va bunday fikrlash ularni oson yo'lni topishga undaydi.
Ya'ni ular oson yechimni topishga intilishadi.
Haqiqiy rich insonlar bir narsaga erishgandan keyin, boshqa maqsadni ham o'z oldiga qo'yadi
Masalan Jeff Bezos. Uning maqsadi dunyodagi eng katta kutubxonani qurish bo'lgan. Lekin Amazon hozirgi kunda dunyodagi eng katta har narsa bor bo'lgan do'kon.
Demak hech narsaga dangasalik orqalik erishib bo’lmaydi. No pain, no gain!
@TweetLab
Dangasa 2
Ota-onalar o’qimaydigan farzandlariga eng ko’p beradigan ta’rif. - Dangasa
Kattalar orasida ham - aqlli, dangasalar uchrab turadi. Istalgan mavzuda fikri bor. Bir nimani qoyillatmagan.
Do’stlar, aqllilik va dangasalik bitta odamda yig’ilmaydi.
Putin aytganidek, hammamiz dangasamiz)
Aqlli odam, dangasaligini yenga olgan odam.
Aqlli odam, o’sha aqlini ishlatib, bir nima qila olgan odam.
Dangasalikka yengilgan, o’yin kulgiga berilganlarda - haqiqiy aqlni ko’ra olmaymiz.
Yo’qotilgan dahoning aqliy qoldiqlari sezilib turadi, xolos.
Dasturchi bo'lishimga ham dangasalikim sababchi bo'lgan.
Bu haqida keyingi postda gaplashamiz
@tweetLab
Ota-onalar o’qimaydigan farzandlariga eng ko’p beradigan ta’rif. - Dangasa
Kattalar orasida ham - aqlli, dangasalar uchrab turadi. Istalgan mavzuda fikri bor. Bir nimani qoyillatmagan.
Do’stlar, aqllilik va dangasalik bitta odamda yig’ilmaydi.
Putin aytganidek, hammamiz dangasamiz)
Aqlli odam, dangasaligini yenga olgan odam.
Aqlli odam, o’sha aqlini ishlatib, bir nima qila olgan odam.
Dangasalikka yengilgan, o’yin kulgiga berilganlarda - haqiqiy aqlni ko’ra olmaymiz.
Yo’qotilgan dahoning aqliy qoldiqlari sezilib turadi, xolos.
Dasturchi bo'lishimga ham dangasalikim sababchi bo'lgan.
Bu haqida keyingi postda gaplashamiz
@tweetLab
Growth and Fixed Mindset
2 xil fikrlaydigan insonlar bo’ladi.
Birinchisi o’zini mukammal yoki o’zgartirib bo’lmaydigan deb hisoblaydigan odamlar. Ikkinchisi esa hali ham o’zini tolibi ilm hisoblaydiganlardir.
Birinchi toifadagi insonlar o’z ayblarini tan olishni istamaydilar. Bunga misol, avtohalokatlarning 75% da haydovchi boshqa bir aybdorni topar ekan. Undanda qizig’i avtohalokat faqatgina 1 insondan iborat bo’lgan bo’lsa ham 37% da boshqa aybdorni topar kena.
Dweck kitobida birinchi toifa odamlar, ya’ni o’zgarmaslar haqida gapiradi
Ularga aqllisan, iqtidorlisan, mukammalsan maqtovlari yoki dangasasan, ahmoqsan, dovdirsan ayblovlari ko’p aytilgan.
Ikkinchi toifadagi insonlar aybini tez tan olar ekan. Talaba qanday qilib adashmasin.
Talaba kabi fikrlaydiganlarga esa, talabalarga aytiladigan gaplar aytilgan.
Bu safar o’xshamasa, keyingisi.
Boshqa bu xatoni takrorlama.
Qilgan ishing noto’g’ri bo’libdi.
Ya’ni inson sifatiga emas, qilgan ishga baho berilgan. Kelajakka umid berilgan.
Bu fikrlarimni o’qiyotgan bo’lsangiz demak siz men tengi yoki shu yosh atrofidagi insonsiz.
Fikrlaysiz, sizga ham ana o’sha talabadek gaplashishmagan bo’lsa nima qilamiz? O’tmishni o’zgartira olamizmi?
Psixolog Dr Kennedi ajoyib kuzatuvni aytadi: Ota-onamizning biz bilan gaplashish usuli, katta bo’lganimizda ichki gaplashish usulimizga aylanadi. Mavzuni tushunganimizda otamiz bizni himoya qilib, o’qituvhcimizdni ayblagan bo’lsa, katta bo’lib, biz ham muammolarda atrofni ayblay boshlaymiz.
Bizga bog’liq bo’lmagan ishlarda ham onamiz bizni ayblagan bo’lsa, katta bo’lib, kunlik aybdorlikni his qilamiz.
Agar biz ayblarimizni tan oladigan bo’lsak, ichki tuyg’uyimiz ham o’zgarib boradi.
Sog’ligi o’z qo’lida deb o’ylagan qariyalar, sog’ligi hamshiralar qo’lida deb o’ylagan qariyalardn ko’proq yashashgan.
Shu mantiqqa asosan, bilim olishni o’qituvchisida emas, o’z harakatida deb ko’rganlar yaxshiroq o’rganadi.
Oylik olishni boshlig’iga emas, o’z qobilyatlariga asosan o’lchaydigan insonning oyligi tezroq oshadi.
Ko’p talabalarni ko’rayapman, universitetni tashlashmoqda
Ularning gaplari: o’ylaganimdakamasakansan.
Yomon talaba bo’lishni o’qituvchilarga to’nkab qo’ya qolishadi.
Lekin ba'zi bir talabalar professor o'rgatmaganini kitobdan o'rganishmoqda. Ma'suliyatni o'zlariga olmoqda
@TweetLab
2 xil fikrlaydigan insonlar bo’ladi.
Birinchisi o’zini mukammal yoki o’zgartirib bo’lmaydigan deb hisoblaydigan odamlar. Ikkinchisi esa hali ham o’zini tolibi ilm hisoblaydiganlardir.
Birinchi toifadagi insonlar o’z ayblarini tan olishni istamaydilar. Bunga misol, avtohalokatlarning 75% da haydovchi boshqa bir aybdorni topar ekan. Undanda qizig’i avtohalokat faqatgina 1 insondan iborat bo’lgan bo’lsa ham 37% da boshqa aybdorni topar kena.
Dweck kitobida birinchi toifa odamlar, ya’ni o’zgarmaslar haqida gapiradi
Ularga aqllisan, iqtidorlisan, mukammalsan maqtovlari yoki dangasasan, ahmoqsan, dovdirsan ayblovlari ko’p aytilgan.
Ikkinchi toifadagi insonlar aybini tez tan olar ekan. Talaba qanday qilib adashmasin.
Talaba kabi fikrlaydiganlarga esa, talabalarga aytiladigan gaplar aytilgan.
Bu safar o’xshamasa, keyingisi.
Boshqa bu xatoni takrorlama.
Qilgan ishing noto’g’ri bo’libdi.
Ya’ni inson sifatiga emas, qilgan ishga baho berilgan. Kelajakka umid berilgan.
Bu fikrlarimni o’qiyotgan bo’lsangiz demak siz men tengi yoki shu yosh atrofidagi insonsiz.
Fikrlaysiz, sizga ham ana o’sha talabadek gaplashishmagan bo’lsa nima qilamiz? O’tmishni o’zgartira olamizmi?
Psixolog Dr Kennedi ajoyib kuzatuvni aytadi: Ota-onamizning biz bilan gaplashish usuli, katta bo’lganimizda ichki gaplashish usulimizga aylanadi. Mavzuni tushunganimizda otamiz bizni himoya qilib, o’qituvhcimizdni ayblagan bo’lsa, katta bo’lib, biz ham muammolarda atrofni ayblay boshlaymiz.
Bizga bog’liq bo’lmagan ishlarda ham onamiz bizni ayblagan bo’lsa, katta bo’lib, kunlik aybdorlikni his qilamiz.
Agar biz ayblarimizni tan oladigan bo’lsak, ichki tuyg’uyimiz ham o’zgarib boradi.
Sog’ligi o’z qo’lida deb o’ylagan qariyalar, sog’ligi hamshiralar qo’lida deb o’ylagan qariyalardn ko’proq yashashgan.
Shu mantiqqa asosan, bilim olishni o’qituvchisida emas, o’z harakatida deb ko’rganlar yaxshiroq o’rganadi.
Oylik olishni boshlig’iga emas, o’z qobilyatlariga asosan o’lchaydigan insonning oyligi tezroq oshadi.
Ko’p talabalarni ko’rayapman, universitetni tashlashmoqda
Ularning gaplari: o’ylaganimdakamasakansan.
Yomon talaba bo’lishni o’qituvchilarga to’nkab qo’ya qolishadi.
Lekin ba'zi bir talabalar professor o'rgatmaganini kitobdan o'rganishmoqda. Ma'suliyatni o'zlariga olmoqda
@TweetLab
Dangasalik odamga xos. Odamga dangasalik xos.
3-qism
Dangasa bo’lishimizga katta sabablardan biri bu nafs.
Nafsimiz kam kaloriya sarflab, ko’p mukoflofotlar olishni xohlaydi.
Kam ishlab, ko’p pul topishni xohlaydi.
Kam yurib, uzoqlarga yetishni hohlaydi.
Hohishlarimiz katta, lekin unga qarab bosayotgan qadamlarimiz kichkina.
Natijani juda ham tez kutadigan bo’lib qolganmiz. Kam vaqt ichida, ko’pga erishishni hohlaymiz.
IELTS ni 2 oyda 7.0 olib beramiz deganlar hozir qayerda? Booknomy degan kitob bo’larmidi?
Biror narsaga erishish uchun katta mehnat qilish kerak. Dangasalik oson yo’lni oxtarishga undaydi.
Lekin u hech qachon ijobiy natija olib kelmaydi. Ijobiy bo’lganda ham uzoqqa bormaydi.
Uzoqqa borganda ham ichi kovak bo’ladi. Bir ursangiz ovozi chiqadi.
Do’stlarimiz bo’lar edi, men o’qigan IDUM ga pul hamda tanish bilan kirishgan edi. Hayotni oson tasavvur qilishgan edi. 1 yil ham o’qimasdan, o’qishni tashlagan edi. Hamma narsa pul bilan, tanish bilish bilan bitaversa, barcha ana o’shanga qarab yuradi.
Dangasa - vaqtni kelajakdan qarzga olib turgan insonning bir sifati.
Maktab paytimda bolalar hamma narsaga ulgirishar edi. Aylanishga, video o’yinlar, qizlar bilan gaplashishga, uzoqlarga ketib qolishga. Shuncha vaqtni qayerdan olishadi deb o’ylar edim.
Yaqinda tushindim. “Yoshligimda matematikani o’qimagan ekanman, rosa qiynalyapman” deb qoldi biri. “Yaxshiroq o’qish kerak ekan, endi vaqtim yetmayapti” deb aytib qoldi ikkinchisi.
Ular vaqtini kelajakdan olib turishga. Qarz bo’lib qolishgan. Endi esa to’lashyapti.
Yoshliklarida nafsini nazorat qila olmaganlar, yoki nazoratsiz qoldirayotgan ota onalar bir narsani bilib oling.
Bo’sh vaqtingizda o’qib o’rganmay, bekorchilik qilayotganda, kelajakdan qarz olayapsiz.
Qarzniku olaverasiz. Lekin qarz bu farz. Ya’ni albatta to’laysiz.
Demak dangasalikimzning asosiy sababi bu bizning nafsimiz.
Ko’p mehnat qilib nima qilaman, oson yo’l bilan erishaman deganlar “Jannat mashaqqatlar bilan o‘ralgan, do‘zax esa shahvatlar (nafs istaklari) bilan o‘ralgan.” Abu Hurayra R.A
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3-qism
Dangasa bo’lishimizga katta sabablardan biri bu nafs.
Nafsimiz kam kaloriya sarflab, ko’p mukoflofotlar olishni xohlaydi.
Kam ishlab, ko’p pul topishni xohlaydi.
Kam yurib, uzoqlarga yetishni hohlaydi.
Hohishlarimiz katta, lekin unga qarab bosayotgan qadamlarimiz kichkina.
Natijani juda ham tez kutadigan bo’lib qolganmiz. Kam vaqt ichida, ko’pga erishishni hohlaymiz.
IELTS ni 2 oyda 7.0 olib beramiz deganlar hozir qayerda? Booknomy degan kitob bo’larmidi?
Biror narsaga erishish uchun katta mehnat qilish kerak. Dangasalik oson yo’lni oxtarishga undaydi.
Lekin u hech qachon ijobiy natija olib kelmaydi. Ijobiy bo’lganda ham uzoqqa bormaydi.
Uzoqqa borganda ham ichi kovak bo’ladi. Bir ursangiz ovozi chiqadi.
Do’stlarimiz bo’lar edi, men o’qigan IDUM ga pul hamda tanish bilan kirishgan edi. Hayotni oson tasavvur qilishgan edi. 1 yil ham o’qimasdan, o’qishni tashlagan edi. Hamma narsa pul bilan, tanish bilish bilan bitaversa, barcha ana o’shanga qarab yuradi.
Dangasa - vaqtni kelajakdan qarzga olib turgan insonning bir sifati.
Maktab paytimda bolalar hamma narsaga ulgirishar edi. Aylanishga, video o’yinlar, qizlar bilan gaplashishga, uzoqlarga ketib qolishga. Shuncha vaqtni qayerdan olishadi deb o’ylar edim.
Yaqinda tushindim. “Yoshligimda matematikani o’qimagan ekanman, rosa qiynalyapman” deb qoldi biri. “Yaxshiroq o’qish kerak ekan, endi vaqtim yetmayapti” deb aytib qoldi ikkinchisi.
Ular vaqtini kelajakdan olib turishga. Qarz bo’lib qolishgan. Endi esa to’lashyapti.
Yoshliklarida nafsini nazorat qila olmaganlar, yoki nazoratsiz qoldirayotgan ota onalar bir narsani bilib oling.
Bo’sh vaqtingizda o’qib o’rganmay, bekorchilik qilayotganda, kelajakdan qarz olayapsiz.
Qarzniku olaverasiz. Lekin qarz bu farz. Ya’ni albatta to’laysiz.
Demak dangasalikimzning asosiy sababi bu bizning nafsimiz.
Ko’p mehnat qilib nima qilaman, oson yo’l bilan erishaman deganlar “Jannat mashaqqatlar bilan o‘ralgan, do‘zax esa shahvatlar (nafs istaklari) bilan o‘ralgan.” Abu Hurayra R.A
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4-qism
Hayot xuddiki pastga tushayotgan eskalator ga o’xshaydi.
Turgan pastga tushib ketadi
Yurgan o’z o’rnida qoladi
Yugirgan esa oldinga siljiydi
Bugun erta turishni amal qilamiz, ertaga kitob o’qishni, undan keyin esa telefon ishlatishni kamaytiramiz. Va biz boshida yechgan muammolar keyinchalik muammo sifatida ko’rilmaydi.
Yoshlikka qaytamiz, bizni dada deb tiilimiz chiqishini 1 yil kutishgan
Birinchi qadamimizni tashlaganimizda necha marta yiqilgan edik?
Bular haqida man ham aniq bilmayman, lekin kichik ukalarimning yurishni, gapirishni boshlashgani mani ham hayratga qoldirgan.
Hozirchi, sayrashadi, yugirishadi, lekin bu kichik ishlarga biz avvalgidek ahamiyat bermay qo’yganmiz. Chunki yurish, gapirish, yeyish endi muammo emas.
Kunlar o’tgani sari boshqa katta muammolar kelib chiqaveradi.
Masalan ishga joylashish, universitetga kirish, oila tebratish va boshqalar.
Shu haqida bir kun bir do’stim bilan gaplashib qolgan edim.
Hamma ham bir xil sharoitda bo’lmaydiku, ba’zilar 10 yoshida otasiz qolib, oila tebratishni boshlasa, ba’zilari 20 ga kirganda ham akalari yordam berishadi. Ba’zilar kitoblari javonlarga to’la oilalarda tug’ilsa, ba’zilarning kitob sotib olishga sharoiti yo’q bo’ladi deb qoldi.
Biz bundan norizo bo’la olmaymiz. Biz daraxtlarning urug’iga o’xshaymiz.
Taqdir shamoli qayerga qo’ndirsa o’sha yerdan o’sib chiqmiz. Biri ko’klamdagi daraxtlar orasida o’sadi. Boshqasi esa suvsiz cho’lga tushadi.
Tug’ilish, muhit hamda shakllanish nuqtamiz har xil ekan, demak ish faoliyatimizni qanday boshlash ham o’zimizga bog’liq emas ekan. Aksarimiz oylika, o’zimiz emas, bozor tanlab bergan ishlarda pul topoishni boshlaymiz. Vaziyatni o’zgartira olmaganimiz sabab, vaziyatga qarab ish tutamiz.
Ba’zilarning esa o’qishni bitirishiga ish kutib turibdi.
Bunga hayotimdagi bir misolni aytib o’taman. Yaqinda bir tanishim tibbiyot universitetini tamomladi, va qaysidir kichik shifoxonada o’z ishini boshladi. Manimcha yordamchi sifatida.
Bir qarindoshim esa chet-elda hirurga sifatida ishlab, katta tajribaga ega bo’lib, hozirgi kunda vatanimizda o’z klinikasini ochmoqda. Ko’p insonlar bilmaydiki o’sha kuchli mutaxassilarning ham o’z jiyanlari va farzandlari bor. Uning farzandi ham hozirda tibbiyot universitetida o’qiyapti.
Ya’ni ikki insonning boshlanish nuqtasi bir xil emas, lekin o’sish tezligi ikki xil bo’lishi mumkin.
Birinchi ishimizni tanlay olmasak ham, qanday qilishni bemalol tanlay olamiz.
Agar biz har kuni o’sishda davom etadigan bo’lsak, biz albatta hohlagan natijamizga erisha olamiz.
Nafsimiz qonganidan keyin to’xtadikmi? Demak, biz tilla kishanlar ga o’z qo’limizni qo’yganimiz bilan barobardir.
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4-qism
Hayot xuddiki pastga tushayotgan eskalator ga o’xshaydi.
Turgan pastga tushib ketadi
Yurgan o’z o’rnida qoladi
Yugirgan esa oldinga siljiydi
Bugun erta turishni amal qilamiz, ertaga kitob o’qishni, undan keyin esa telefon ishlatishni kamaytiramiz. Va biz boshida yechgan muammolar keyinchalik muammo sifatida ko’rilmaydi.
Yoshlikka qaytamiz, bizni dada deb tiilimiz chiqishini 1 yil kutishgan
Birinchi qadamimizni tashlaganimizda necha marta yiqilgan edik?
Bular haqida man ham aniq bilmayman, lekin kichik ukalarimning yurishni, gapirishni boshlashgani mani ham hayratga qoldirgan.
Hozirchi, sayrashadi, yugirishadi, lekin bu kichik ishlarga biz avvalgidek ahamiyat bermay qo’yganmiz. Chunki yurish, gapirish, yeyish endi muammo emas.
Kunlar o’tgani sari boshqa katta muammolar kelib chiqaveradi.
Masalan ishga joylashish, universitetga kirish, oila tebratish va boshqalar.
Shu haqida bir kun bir do’stim bilan gaplashib qolgan edim.
Hamma ham bir xil sharoitda bo’lmaydiku, ba’zilar 10 yoshida otasiz qolib, oila tebratishni boshlasa, ba’zilari 20 ga kirganda ham akalari yordam berishadi. Ba’zilar kitoblari javonlarga to’la oilalarda tug’ilsa, ba’zilarning kitob sotib olishga sharoiti yo’q bo’ladi deb qoldi.
Biz bundan norizo bo’la olmaymiz. Biz daraxtlarning urug’iga o’xshaymiz.
Taqdir shamoli qayerga qo’ndirsa o’sha yerdan o’sib chiqmiz. Biri ko’klamdagi daraxtlar orasida o’sadi. Boshqasi esa suvsiz cho’lga tushadi.
Tug’ilish, muhit hamda shakllanish nuqtamiz har xil ekan, demak ish faoliyatimizni qanday boshlash ham o’zimizga bog’liq emas ekan. Aksarimiz oylika, o’zimiz emas, bozor tanlab bergan ishlarda pul topoishni boshlaymiz. Vaziyatni o’zgartira olmaganimiz sabab, vaziyatga qarab ish tutamiz.
Ba’zilarning esa o’qishni bitirishiga ish kutib turibdi.
Bunga hayotimdagi bir misolni aytib o’taman. Yaqinda bir tanishim tibbiyot universitetini tamomladi, va qaysidir kichik shifoxonada o’z ishini boshladi. Manimcha yordamchi sifatida.
Bir qarindoshim esa chet-elda hirurga sifatida ishlab, katta tajribaga ega bo’lib, hozirgi kunda vatanimizda o’z klinikasini ochmoqda. Ko’p insonlar bilmaydiki o’sha kuchli mutaxassilarning ham o’z jiyanlari va farzandlari bor. Uning farzandi ham hozirda tibbiyot universitetida o’qiyapti.
Ya’ni ikki insonning boshlanish nuqtasi bir xil emas, lekin o’sish tezligi ikki xil bo’lishi mumkin.
Birinchi ishimizni tanlay olmasak ham, qanday qilishni bemalol tanlay olamiz.
Agar biz har kuni o’sishda davom etadigan bo’lsak, biz albatta hohlagan natijamizga erisha olamiz.
Nafsimiz qonganidan keyin to’xtadikmi? Demak, biz tilla kishanlar ga o’z qo’limizni qo’yganimiz bilan barobardir.
@TweetLab
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