Forwarded from K Day 🇺🇸🌸💕
Truer words were never spoken. I have a book that helped me to understand it. I read it long after i got away from it. The effects do linger 😢 I gained such clarity & understanding. Go protect yourself because there isn’t much else you can do once You know what your dealing with. Book 👇
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There are two types of narcissists: overt and covert.
The overt ones are the people that come to mind when we think of the word “narcissist”. They are grandiose, often openly rude and their need for attention is obvious.
The covert ones are much more difficult to recognize and to deal with. On the surface they seem nice. Many people will think they are wonderful, but their targets are tortured with a cruel form of abuse and because many don’t believe them when they try to articulate what is happening, it adds to the gaslighting effect.
Understanding this difference is very important. It’s also important to realize that many people do not understand what a narcissist actually is and they certainly don’t understand the covert form. It takes experience and/or research to truly get it.
So, don’t be surprised when people who may be trying to help advise you to just work it out with the narcissist or give you helpful advice that’s just not really very helpful.
I learned to keep my mouth shut about it long ago unless I knew the person was actually familiar with the issue.
Just thought someone might need to hear it 💕
The overt ones are the people that come to mind when we think of the word “narcissist”. They are grandiose, often openly rude and their need for attention is obvious.
The covert ones are much more difficult to recognize and to deal with. On the surface they seem nice. Many people will think they are wonderful, but their targets are tortured with a cruel form of abuse and because many don’t believe them when they try to articulate what is happening, it adds to the gaslighting effect.
Understanding this difference is very important. It’s also important to realize that many people do not understand what a narcissist actually is and they certainly don’t understand the covert form. It takes experience and/or research to truly get it.
So, don’t be surprised when people who may be trying to help advise you to just work it out with the narcissist or give you helpful advice that’s just not really very helpful.
I learned to keep my mouth shut about it long ago unless I knew the person was actually familiar with the issue.
Just thought someone might need to hear it 💕
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Lots of great conversation going on in the chat.
If anyone is dealing with narcissistic abuse, please know you’re not alone.
Holy moly it’s a freaking epidemic!
Kinda makes sense tho.
The world is a vampire and all. 😂
If anyone is dealing with narcissistic abuse, please know you’re not alone.
Holy moly it’s a freaking epidemic!
Kinda makes sense tho.
The world is a vampire and all. 😂
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Just to clarify. My personal opinion is that by the time this is all said and done, people will have learned, either by choice or out of necessity, that they can only truly trust their inner guidance. They will remember that they are Sovereign Beings and all this worldly BS will fall away.
All heroes will be removed from pedestals and all Saviors removed from the altars of worship.
That process can either be painful as the result of having the rug yanked out from under you, or you can do the work now to figure out who you are and the power of your inner connectedness to God.
Then, it won’t matter when the rug gets yanked.
Carry on.
In Love,
—TR ✨💕✨
@TruthRascalHQ
All heroes will be removed from pedestals and all Saviors removed from the altars of worship.
That process can either be painful as the result of having the rug yanked out from under you, or you can do the work now to figure out who you are and the power of your inner connectedness to God.
Then, it won’t matter when the rug gets yanked.
Carry on.
In Love,
—TR ✨💕✨
@TruthRascalHQ
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