Hello 👋🏻

I'm inviting all of you to join in the upcoming meet-up on June 29th with Swingers.

No fees to be collected, just pay as you order.

This is a small gathering so do not expect any play unless you have a prior agenda with other members.

Location: South Metro Manila (nearby Alabang/Parañaque)

Time: Tentative in the afternoon

Please message @EroticasVictoria for the confirmation of your attendance.

Sending heartfelt appreciation to all the superstar dads and father-figures out there! We salute you.🫡

From the little things to the big moments, you’ve been there through it all.😊

Happy Father’s Day!

@EroticasVictoria ⭐

"WAG KANG MAGSALITA PAG GALIT KA."

Pag galit ka sa partner mo, piliin mong wag muna magsalita.

Take time and ask the Lord to take over the situation. Wala kasing magandang bagay na lalabas sa bibig mo kapag puno ng galit puso mo. Maybe you are right, but it always matter on how you deliver your word or approach the person.

You cannot correct someone if they feel offended. Gentleness is the key. Always remember, na hindi mo na mababalik yung mga sasabihin mo. Once na nasabi mo na, it will forever remain sa puso ng partner mo. Be careful sa kung ano ang mga lalabas sa bibig mo because it can cause them pain that will last forever. Iisip isipin yan ng partner mo. It can cause them anxiety, insecurity and lack of confidence.

It will really affect your relationship.

YOU ARE NOT YOU WHEN YOU ARE ANGRY. Before ka magsalita at pagsabihan partner mo, alamin mo din muna kung ano ang side nila. Wag ka lang magfocus sa kung ano nararamdaman mo. It will also help you para bumaba emotion mo at marealise mo din if may mali ka. The most important thing, before you start a confrontation, PRAY together. Let the Lord be the one who will council you. And I tell you, He will fix it in no time.

CTTO

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No to verbally abuse when you're angry. Don't be manipulative. This will affect how they view themselves and it'll take time to uplift their confidence. For them, building trust with others will be hard too.

If you cannot manage your anger, you'll be cursed for the rest of your life because Karma is everywhere.

@EroticasVictoria

Update on June 29 Meet and Greet

To be rescheduled next month (July).

I'll keep you posted in the private chatroom with those who inquired.

Apologies for the inconveniences.

Words of Wisdom

Weekend Reflection

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I know how strong and independent you are.

I know that you value self-care a lot.

And, because our body is on autopilot on this familiarity (routine), we tend to ignore that this kind of space is not effective sometimes especially when we are dealing with different triggers and challenges in life.

Yes, I've learned that there are some moments that you don't need to be alone.

We may not need a friend, a family or special someone close to us because we thought that they couldn't help us.

And yet, here we are...

We have observed that our source of energy also comes from other people.

That we need to refuel a good energy and be with people who is willing to be there for us when we need them the most.

We have a few hours left to relax and please enjoy it more.

I hope you had a full blast this weekend with your loved ones.

@EroticasVictoria

GET HER SUPER WET DURING SEX 💦

Say her name during sex or when...

you're thrusting her
you have an orgasm
you're super horny

Women (and men) love to hear their name. It makes us feel special and important.

And, it’s even more powerful during sex.

Don’t say it too often but when you say it, mean it.

What do you like to be called in the bedroom? Your name or something else?

Announcement 🥳

⚠️Warning⚠️

Always check the ingredients of your medicines before taking it.

Aside from that, taking sildenafil on a daily basis will harm your liver if you have pre-existing conditions and or if not intending to engage in sexual activity daily.

Please take extra caution especially with overdosing. You should never use Viagra more than once in any 24-hour period.

Ideas are like fragile seeds that require protection. And they must be provided the proper conditions to thrive.

Find people who will support your visions.

Your growth is stunted because you surround yourself with people who don’t challenge you.

LEARNED HELPLESSNESS

A Social Experiment

When you start a business everything is hard & inefficient.

You have: No skills. No money. No friends.

You only have time.

And you have to invest time inefficiently to become efficient. You can’t skip it.

It’s what creates the skill, money & connections that makes it easy.

~Alex Hormozi

What is Shingles?

Shingles, also known as herpes zoster, is a viral disease characterized by a painful skin rash with blisters in a localized area. Typically the rash occurs in a single, wide mark either on the left or right side of the body or face. Wikipedia

Is shingles an STD?

Is shingles considered an STD? Shingles is not a sexually transmitted disease (STD) and cannot be passed from person to person. However, direct contact with fluid from the blisters caused by shingles can spread the varicella-zoster virus — which can lead to the possibility of developing shingles in the future.

https://youtu.be/e53ZWmGXWew?si=Pt0FRgn9BxL8p-gz

Figure out what you fear.

And force yourself to face it until you're no longer afraid.

Someone shared this with me, and yes it's funny and horny to listen to 🥴

Is there someone who is willing to abduct me with chemistry, thrusting and pumping?

Oh, big YES!

I wanna feel the motion of your U.F.O.🍆

You can INSTANTLY shed yourself of past, negative, and limiting, behaviours, by changing the language and labels around them.

Understand that what you THINK is your default… is actually just a habit well practiced.

Let me explain:

Imagine somebody considers themselves to be shy. How do they describe it?

“I’m a naturally shy person.”

Believing this, and framing it like that, FUCKS them from changing out of it.

Because any effort they make towards NOT becoming shy, is—by their own parameters: UNNATURAL behaviour.

This means that, subconsciously, they are fighting against their own true nature.

FUCK THAT.
IMAGINE IF THEY TRIED THIS INSTEAD:

“In the past, I’ve habitually chosen to be shy.”

This is much better because,
1 - it’s already framing future success by describing the behaviour as “in the past”
2 - it’s shifted ‘NATURAL’ to ‘HABITUAL’
3 - it accepts responsibility by acknowledging the element of free will in the equation. That is not some curse. But a CHOICE they have repeatedly decided to make.

You are NOT “NATURALLY x y and z”
You have simply made it HABITUAL.

AND YOU CAN CHANGE YOUR HABITS.

Just through language alone, we separated the issue from being one of CORE IDENTITY into being one of HABITUAL BEHAVIOUR.

As humans, there is no single greater mover of behaviour than IDENTITY - be ultra careful what you identify with.

Be extra careful in the WORDS you use to describe yourself. WORDS is an anagram for SWORD. Don’t cut yourself on them.

Namaste.

Credits: DejaRu22

Flexibility of the word "FUCK"

Normal na Nag-aaway ang Magasawa

Pero mas maganda alam niyo rin ito.

Ang babae ay may Estrogen hormones na nakaka-apekto ng kanilang emotions.

Kaya after manganak pwedeng magkaroon ng postpartum depression o yung pagiging malungkot na connected sa pagbaba ng estrogen.

Nangyayari rin po monthly ang pagtaas baba ng estrogen ng babae.

Mga days before menstruation mababa rin ito kaya nagiging depressed or irritable then few days after mens, nagnonormalize na.

Premenstrual syndrome (PMS) ay common sa 90% ng mga babae, which starts after ovulation. To be exact day 14 after menstruation hangang day 28. Yan yung mga days na medyo irritable sila. Hormones pala akala ko dati may topak!

On the good side naman yung fertile sya like day 12, 13, 14 from menstruation, yun po yung in the mood sya. Masayahin. At yun yung gwapong gwapo sya sayo, so basically hormones niya ang cause nun, di ka talaga gumwapo. Hehehe

Kung pumalo na yung PMS, yan na yung sasabihin nilang “naiinis ako sayo, di ko lang alam bakit.”

The point is wala sila talagang toyo sa ulo, or nababaliw, nasisiraan ng bait, possessed or may topak (teka parang may hugot na ako ah), hormonal effect rin yun.

Both must learn this. The woman must be able to identify, so you will not be too hard on yourself. Normal ka.

Si husband naman di kailangang sabayan yung emotional mood swings ni Misis. Swerte tayo we dont have this kind of monthly rollercoaster cycle ng hormones.

That’s why we are called gentlemen. Kung kailan nagiging mainit ulo niya, pinapagalitan lahat ng tao, aso, pusa sa bahay, we, on our part needs to be gentle. Wag mo ng sigawan or sabayan. It will just pass.

Di rin natin pwede sabihan na labanan mo yang pakiramdam mo, dahil ni isang kusing na idea, di natin talaga alam yan. Only kapwa babae lang ang pwedeng magsabi ng labanan mo yan Sis! Kaya mo yan!

Too sad many marriages have made wrong decisions to part ways, not even thinking that hormones played a role on all those none sense fights. Wag naman sana tayo sumali sa lista. Alam ko kaya natin, ang kawawa ang mga bata.

Doesn't anybody ever stay together anymore?
And if love never lasts forever
Tell me what's forever for?

Dr. Richard Mata
Di lang pampamilya, pangmarites pa!