How Do You Accept Feedback?

What's a mistake you made in a previous relationship that you would never make again?

Share it so others can learn from you.

What are your goals before you get older?

For me, these are one of my goals:

1. Invest my time and effort to something worthwhile
2. More gratitude for the blessings and pain that makes me stronger
3. Overall good well being
4. Healthy and quality relationships
5. Spread love and kindness

Always clean your reusable drinking containers with soap, brush and water on a daily basis.
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How do you be confident when you have nothing to be confident about?

Your belief in yourself is irrelevant as long as you focus on doing what's right, not what makes you feel good.

Have a system, get the tasks done, and with time, confidence will come from competence.

The "swinging" lifestyle reminds me to pause and evolve my priorities. 
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Depending on how we set our mind and sexual interpretations, a healthy, balanced sexual desire will help us gain knowledge to connect with our inner selves and understand the needs of others.
 
If we had this kind of awareness, being discreet, responsible, and respectful would be easier and more enjoyable.
 
Please be mindful and educate yourself before joining the community.


@EroticasVictoria

Hello 👋🏻

I'm inviting all of you to join in the upcoming meet-up on June 29th with Swingers.

No fees to be collected, just pay as you order.

This is a small gathering so do not expect any play unless you have a prior agenda with other members.

Location: South Metro Manila (nearby Alabang/Parañaque)

Time: Tentative in the afternoon

Please message @EroticasVictoria for the confirmation of your attendance.

Sending heartfelt appreciation to all the superstar dads and father-figures out there! We salute you.🫡

From the little things to the big moments, you’ve been there through it all.😊

Happy Father’s Day!

@EroticasVictoria ⭐

"WAG KANG MAGSALITA PAG GALIT KA."

Pag galit ka sa partner mo, piliin mong wag muna magsalita.

Take time and ask the Lord to take over the situation. Wala kasing magandang bagay na lalabas sa bibig mo kapag puno ng galit puso mo. Maybe you are right, but it always matter on how you deliver your word or approach the person.

You cannot correct someone if they feel offended. Gentleness is the key. Always remember, na hindi mo na mababalik yung mga sasabihin mo. Once na nasabi mo na, it will forever remain sa puso ng partner mo. Be careful sa kung ano ang mga lalabas sa bibig mo because it can cause them pain that will last forever. Iisip isipin yan ng partner mo. It can cause them anxiety, insecurity and lack of confidence.

It will really affect your relationship.

YOU ARE NOT YOU WHEN YOU ARE ANGRY. Before ka magsalita at pagsabihan partner mo, alamin mo din muna kung ano ang side nila. Wag ka lang magfocus sa kung ano nararamdaman mo. It will also help you para bumaba emotion mo at marealise mo din if may mali ka. The most important thing, before you start a confrontation, PRAY together. Let the Lord be the one who will council you. And I tell you, He will fix it in no time.

CTTO

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No to verbally abuse when you're angry. Don't be manipulative. This will affect how they view themselves and it'll take time to uplift their confidence. For them, building trust with others will be hard too.

If you cannot manage your anger, you'll be cursed for the rest of your life because Karma is everywhere.

@EroticasVictoria

Update on June 29 Meet and Greet

To be rescheduled next month (July).

I'll keep you posted in the private chatroom with those who inquired.

Apologies for the inconveniences.

Words of Wisdom

Weekend Reflection

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I know how strong and independent you are.

I know that you value self-care a lot.

And, because our body is on autopilot on this familiarity (routine), we tend to ignore that this kind of space is not effective sometimes especially when we are dealing with different triggers and challenges in life.

Yes, I've learned that there are some moments that you don't need to be alone.

We may not need a friend, a family or special someone close to us because we thought that they couldn't help us.

And yet, here we are...

We have observed that our source of energy also comes from other people.

That we need to refuel a good energy and be with people who is willing to be there for us when we need them the most.

We have a few hours left to relax and please enjoy it more.

I hope you had a full blast this weekend with your loved ones.

@EroticasVictoria

GET HER SUPER WET DURING SEX 💦

Say her name during sex or when...

you're thrusting her
you have an orgasm
you're super horny

Women (and men) love to hear their name. It makes us feel special and important.

And, it’s even more powerful during sex.

Don’t say it too often but when you say it, mean it.

What do you like to be called in the bedroom? Your name or something else?

Announcement 🥳

⚠️Warning⚠️

Always check the ingredients of your medicines before taking it.

Aside from that, taking sildenafil on a daily basis will harm your liver if you have pre-existing conditions and or if not intending to engage in sexual activity daily.

Please take extra caution especially with overdosing. You should never use Viagra more than once in any 24-hour period.

Ideas are like fragile seeds that require protection. And they must be provided the proper conditions to thrive.

Find people who will support your visions.

Your growth is stunted because you surround yourself with people who don’t challenge you.

LEARNED HELPLESSNESS

A Social Experiment

When you start a business everything is hard & inefficient.

You have: No skills. No money. No friends.

You only have time.

And you have to invest time inefficiently to become efficient. You can’t skip it.

It’s what creates the skill, money & connections that makes it easy.

~Alex Hormozi