My friend taught me:
1) We should always focus on our own rectification before rectifying anybody else.

2) We should seek knowledge regularly.

3) We should gaurd our tongue & treat others with kindness & respect. & If somebody is disrespecting you then move on without arguing.

4) There will be two kind of people
Firstly who will be sincere in his speech and actions. His goal is to Gain the pleasure of Ar-Rahmān.

This person will never backbites, lies & slander others reputation because he keeps remembering his own flaws.

Secondly: Social media fame seekers. Who don't seek knowledge seriously nor do they focus on self rectification, they are just busy with finding faults of others, accusing others of being a Sinner etc without knowing the people they preoccupy in refuting & arguing & wasting their time. Such ppl don't deserve your attention, put your relience upon Allāh & don't respond, eventually these fitnah makers will be humiliated, refute them with your silence.

In shaa Allāh 🌷

Yes, we want people around us to correct us & to uplift us & to assist us in seeking the pleasure of Allāh.

The way people treat you will help you to decide whether they deserve your time or not.

Sometimes, we can learn good lessons even from the Evil people.

Whenever you see someone treating others badly then you remind yourself to not adopt his mannerisms.

And before you open mouth your about others imagine yourself on that person's place.

This will help you to become a good person.

Allah will treat us in the similar way like we treat others.

Don't Curse The Companions


From Ibn Umar that the Prophet [ﷺ] said:

«لَعَنَ اللهُ مَنْ سَبَّ أصحابي.»

❝Allaah curses the one who curses my Companions.❞

[Collected By Tabarani | Graded Hasan By Al-Albaani In 'Saheeh Al-Jamia', (No. 5111) | Translated By Abbas Abu Yahya Miraath Al-Anbiyya]

Free-mixing should be avoided for the sake of Allāh. It means prevention is better than the cure. You act like a pious in public or infront of your family or a spouse & yet you cheat behind there back that shows you're not sincere to Allāh.

Because He watches all the time.

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Two functions of the heart.
1.Al-Ilm (Good understanding of the religion)
2.Al-Iraadah (To achieve good)

To know Allāh and to love what Allāh loves.
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When Imaam al-Bukhari was critisized by the people he secluded himself from the people & he started focusing on his own rectification.

Because whenever he used to meet the people they used to ask him about the fitnah.

So secluding yourself is better in some situations.

It was Imaam Muslim who defended his honor in his absence.

When Aisha (رضي الله عنه) was accused & the hypocrites were discussing about her some women from her companions defended her.

There will be two types of people one who accuse you & cause you feel stress & and there will some positive people who will say positive words infront of you & behind your back & try to bring happiness on your face.

So be with the positive people who are there to defend you & who will be having good thoughts & respect for you.

Your life will be at ease.

And ignore the foolish people who dig pit for others.

Let them to consider themselves to be a righteous let them to praise themselves & to humiliate others they will reap what they sow.

Your life is precious cherish every moment. 🌷

If someone is insulting you & you have ability to reply them & to insult them back yet you prefer silence then that shows your wisdom. They can hide their mistakes from the people and praise themselves & find other's fault but Allāh is aware of their faults. 🔇

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[Know Your Level & Don’t Stick Your Nose in Things that Don’t Concern You]

Shaykh al-ʿAllāmah Muḥammad Amān al-Jāmī (رحمة الله عليه) said:

This is not at all the way of daʿwah, nor is it the way of rectification. It is nothing but agitation, confusion, and the stirring up of the youth. This is what I said before, and what I said before is exactly what I say now and will continue to say thereafter.

The one who responds and engages in discussion is the shaykh; and the shaykh, by the praise of Allah, is still alive. So we advise our students not to involve themselves in matters between the seekers of knowledge and the scholars.

If a shaykh deems another shaykh to be mistaken, then let the response come from the shaykh. As for you—why do you exhaust yourself? What do you gain from inserting yourself between the scholars?

You end up falling into backbiting and into attacking the scholars and the seekers of knowledge. You gain nothing—rather, you lose.

Therefore, we advise our youth to stay far away from this conduct, for it does not befit them.

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Rectify My Hearing & Sight


From Jabir [رضي الله عنه] who said that the Messenger of Allaah [ﷺ] used to say:

«اللهُمَّ أَصلِح لِي سَمعِي وبَصرِي واجعَلهُما الوَارِثَيْنِ مِني، وانصُرنِي عَلى مَن ظَلمَنِي، وأَرنِي مِنه ثَأري»
 
❝O Allaah rectify for me my hearing, my sight and make them both healthy and strong until old age. Make me victorious over the one who oppressed me and show me his destruction and do not make me an oppressor.❞

[Saheehah, (No. 3606) | Sh. Albāni: Saheeh | Translated By Abbas Abu Yahya Miraath Al-Anbiyya]
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Aameen

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