Characteristics of a Righteous Wife in Light of the Qurān and Sunnah ― Part 1 (Free to share Pdf book)

Shaykh Abū Khadeejah حفظه الله على خير ورعاه

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My profile:
Age: 22
Gender: Female
Height: 5ft4
Marital status: Single
Place of residence: Manchester, UK
Nationality: British
Ethnicity: Bengali
 
Career/job: Not currently working
Living with parents after marriage: Not a problem
Scholars & students of knowledge you take from:
 
I try to increase my knowledge of Islam by reading books from scholars such as:
Sheikh Muhammad bin Salih Al-Uthaymin,
Sheikh Fawzaan,
Sheikh Al-Albaani
 
I also take knowledge from students of knowledge in the west such as Abu Khadeejah & Abu Iyaad.
 
Masājid you frequent: Salafi Centre of Manchester

Preference in spouse:
 
• Ethnicity: Bengali
• Age: 23 +
 
I am looking for someone who adheres to the Qur'aan and Sunnah with the understanding of the Salaf.
Someone who understands the role and responsibilities of a son, husband and father and the same for a woman.
A spouse who has a very good relationship with his parents, is easygoing and has good character.
 
About yourself:
 
I am a shy individual, I try my best to practice my religion according to the Qur'aan and Sunnah.
My family and friends say that I am a caring and an easygoing person.
I am the youngest of 5 siblings - 4 brothers and 1 sister. I enjoy attending to my home, and spending time with family.
 
Contact details of walī/guardian:
 
Brother contact number:

07534045583 (Brother)
Female contact number: 07512751519 (Mother)
 
Profile can be shared outside the group: Yes (salafi only)

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My profile:

Age: 21

Gender [male/female]: female

Height: 5ft 0in

Marital status [married/single/divorced/widowed]: single never married

Place of residence:nigeria

Nationality:nigerian

Ethnicity:

Career/job: student

Polygyny:NO!

Living with parents after marriage, yes/no/to be discussed:NO!

Scholars & students of knowledge you take from:

Shaykh Al-Albani
Shaykh Ibn Baz
Shaykh Ibn Uthaymeen 
Shakyh Salih Al-Fawzan
Imam Ibn Taymiyyah
Sheikh abdul ilah lahmami
Umar Quinn 
Hasan Somali 
Mustafa George
Kashif Khan
Rahaa Batts 
Abu Khadeejah 
Germantown masjid, markaz muadh and others affiliated with them

Masājid you frequent: none as there are no salafi masajid where i live


Preference in spouse: some upon salafiyyah who strives to hold onto the kitaab and sunnah. Someone who earns halal no matter how little as Allah is the one who provides. A man who is actively learning about the deen. A man who prays all his salah in the masjid. A man who is protective of his family especially the women under his care. A family man. A man who not only provides financially but also emotionally, spiritually etc. Good with kids and loves to spend time at home and with family. A man who is a leader but There's an Arabic saying سيد القومي خا دمهم
Which means  ‘the master of the people is their servant.’ A man who is easy going and finds happiness and contentment in the little things. A man who takes care of his health and loves to keep fit. Someone who focuses more on his relationship with Allah than anything else.a  man who is very neat and not lazy. A man who loves learning (islamic or non islamic) and is teachable. Someone with plans for hijrah. A man who is monogamous and contented with only one wife.

Preference: open to any ethnicity 

Dressing: niqab,jilbab, socks and gloves(occasionally)

About yourself: I am upon salafiyyah alhamdulillah and try my best to follow the kitaab and sunnah in every affair. I am actively learning arabic language and memorising the Quran. I attend duroos online both live sessions and recorded sessions. I am currently a pharmacy student and i wish to complete my bsc in Sha Allah. I love nature. I love to cook, bake, garden and sew. I love reading as well. I am mostly a quiet and reserved person. I love spending time with my family and friends. I mostly stay home. I try to live a healthy life from the food i eat to my lifestyle. I love things that have to do with selfcare. I find happiness in these things. I love neatness and dislike messiness and dirtiness. I understand the rulings and wisdom behind marriage. I have learnt and understood the rights of spouses. I wish to make hijrah in the future to an islamic land or salafi community in sha Allah.


Contact details of walī/guardian:
Umms1073@gmail.com (sisters only)

Profile can be shared outside the group — yes/no: yes

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Gender: Male

Age: 33

Height: about 5ft 11

Marital Status: Single, never previously married.

Ethnicity: Albanian

City/country: London, UK

Education: Bachelor’s degree Economics

Qualification/job: Bricklaying business-owner

Want Polygyny: No.

Children: None.

Beard/Niqab: Beard.

How long practicing/convert: 6 years reverted

Shaykh Rabee’ bin Hādī
Shaykh ‘Abdul Muhsin Al ‘Abbād
Shaykh Sālih Al Fawzān
Shaykh ‘Abdullāh Al-Bukhārī
Imām Al-Albānī
Imām Ibn Bāz
Shaykh Sālih Āl Ash-Shaykh
Shaykh ‘Ubayd Al-Jābirī

UK:

Shaykh Abū 'Iyād Amjad Rafīq
Shaykh Abdulilāh Lahmāmī
Shaykh Abū Khadeejah Abdul-Wāhid
Shaykh Abū Hakeem Bilāl bin Ahmad

Masājid you frequent:

Masjid ‘Abd Al-Azīz Bin Baz (Athariyyah) in Plaistow

About myself:

I believe myself to be simple hearted, courageous, laid-back, energetic and serious, someone who strives to be sincere, honest in dealings. I am self-employed [owner of a small bricklaying business] and consider myself financially stable wa lilāhi al-hamd, and someone who works hard, in my free time I usually exercise, boxing, running. I also like reading books of religion, meeting family, and exploring, visiting new places, hiking, travelling, swimming, martial artsetc.

Requirements in spouse (only UK-based sisters please):

I’m looking for a sister who prays ,understands fundamentals of Tawhīd ,dresses modestly, wears Jilbab or Niqab, has good realionships with their parents, strive to seek and implement whatever they have of knowledge, with a sense of humour (not moody), is understanding and very optimistic.

Phone No: +44 7733 406407 or 07311 350070

Profile can be shared outside of group: yes

Jazākumallāhu khayra

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Gender: Male

Age: 26 (1997)

Height: 6’1”

Marital Status: Divorced, no children 

Nationality: American/Canadian 

Ethnicity: Somali

City/country: Minnesota, USA

Education: Bachelors 

Qualification/job: working in the hospital 

*Masjid you attend, classes , names of scholars , sheikhs etc is a must add *!!! 
I take from the salafi scholars past and present such as: Sheikh Al Albani, Uthaimeen, Ibn Taymiyah, Ibnul Qayyim, Imam sa'di, Bin Baz, Sheikh Fawzan, Luhaydan, Rabi' Madhkali, Zayd Al Madhkahli, Ubayd Al Jabiri, Ahmed An Najmee. As well as the students of knowledge from salafi publications and others in America and Canada. I attend Masjid Al-Wahyain(Minnesota) and study with the brothers there.

About me: Returned from Egypt ولله الحمد after studying for a bit. I came back to work and continuing to study Arabic online. Continuously looking for ways to improve my ‘Ibadah to Allah by studying books with the brothers at the masjid. Im planning to stay here for a few years before making plans to make hijrah inshaAllah. I’m quite close to my family and the brothers at masjid Al-Wahyaīn. Striving on staying close to what He has permitted and staying away from what He has prohibited.

Requirements in spouse: 
A sister who obeys her future husband, who doesn’t share secrets of the home or relationship of her husband outside of the home. Who is supportive of her husband and gives advice according to the Quran and Sunnah.  Someone who is patient/mature and doesn’t rush to divorce when issues do come up. Meaning that issues do come up in marital life and that we should be patient about the situation or find ways for solution or even speak to someone to resolve it.

A wife that knows that staying at home is more important than constantly going out. Doesn’t use social media and understands the many harm that can come from it. Has modesty, shyness and proper covering.

Ethnicity: My preference is Somali but open minded 

Age: Preferably 22-26 but I’m not too strict on the age range

Location: preferably in the U.S. or Canada

Contact details of wali/home/mobile please.

For Males Only: +1 (651) 460-0475 on WhatsApp/Telegram

For Sisters Only: My mother +1 (651) 336-9717WhatsApp Only


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Jazaaki Allaahu khayran

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If the fasting Person has sex with his Wife and he forces her to do so against her will

~ Al-'Allāmah Muhammad bin Sālih al-‘Uthaymīn رحمه الله تعالى رحمة واسعة

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Gender: Male

Age: 22

Height: 5'7

Marital Status: Single

Nationality: British

Ethnicity: Bengali

City/country: London/Madinah

Education: Completed GCSE's and A levels

Qualification/job: Studying

Masjid I attend: Masjid Bin Baz

About me: By the blessing of Allah, I completed my memorisation of the Qur'an at 16. I am fluent in Arabic, able to hold full conversation, listen to lectures and read books in Arabic. 
Again, by the blessings of Allah, I have been accepted to study at the Islamic University of Madinah and am currently studying at the University.
I listen to the lectures of Sheikh Rabee', Sheikh Abdullah Al Bukhari, Sheikh Arafaat, Sheikh Abdul Muhsin, Sheikh Al Fawzān etc.
I am an easy going brother who strives to fear Allah in all affairs. I enjoy reading and spending time with friends and family.

Requirements in spouse:
A Bengali sister preferably from London but open to other locations in the UK. Similar in age, preferably younger, who has a passion for knowledge and is very family orientated.
A sister that fears Allah, observes the proper hijab and strives to adhere to the Qur'an and the Sunnah.
She must be willing to be patient upon hardships that may come and be accommodating of the studies I am undertaking.


Contact details: 07494895738
Father's contact: 07950835725

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My profile:

Age: 30

Gender [male/female]: female

Height: 5’4

Marital status [married/single/divorced/widowed]: single, never married

Place of residence: Greater Manchester, UK

Nationality: British

Ethnicity: Pakistani

Career/job: Clinical Pharmacist

Polygyny: No

Living with parents after marriage, yes/no/to be discussed: To be discussed

Scholars & students of knowledge you take from:
Shaykh Fawzan, Shaykh Rabi, Shaykh Al Albani, Shaykh bin Baaz
Abu Muadh, Abu Hakim, Abu Iyaad, Abu Khadeejah.

Masājid you frequent: Salafi centre Manchester

Preference in spouse: Uk resident, 5’8+ and preferably from the Pakistani community. Someone who knows Arabic or is learning.
Someone who takes pride in his appearance and looks after himself. Someone who is practicing and is willing to increase himself in beneficial knowledge. Someone who is educated and has a shariah complaint job. Someone who is honest, humble, kind and loving. Someone who will aid me in my religion. Willing to (or seriously considering) making hijrah.


About yourself: I like to spend time with my family (including my nephews and niece, reading books and going for walks. I try my best to attend the weekly lessons at my local Salafi masjid and listen to lessons online. I am currently going through Madina Book 2 and Kitab At Tawhid with Ustadh Abu Muadh. I am trying my best to build my Islamic library. I wear the Hijab and dress modestly. I would describe myself as honest, caring and thoughtful. I speak English and Punjabi fluently. My family (excluding my sister) are currently not salafi, but are supportive.

Contact details of walī/guardian:
Sister - 07479 309699 (sisters only)

Profile can be shared outside the group — yes/no: yes

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Birth Year: 1994

Gender: Female

Height: 5’2”

Marital status: Single 

Place of residence: Doha, Qatar

Nationality: Portuguese 

Ethnicity: Indian (Goa)

Career/job: Dietitian/Teaching

Education: Bachelor of Science in Nutrition/Dietetics from Qatar University 

Polygyny: No

Living with parents after marriage, yes/no/to be discussed: To be discussed 

Scholars & students of knowledge you take from:
Shaykh Salih ibn Fawzān al-Fawzan
Shaykh Rabi ibn Hadi al-Madkhali
Shaykh ʿUbayd ibn ʿAbdullāh al-Jabiri
Shaykh Shamim Salafi
Mostly listens to English speakers such as Abu Khadeeja, Abu Iyad, Musa Richardson, Abu Muadh Taqwim, etc. 

Preference in spouse:
• Looking for someone residing in Qatar/Gulf or willing to reside in a Muslim country.
• Should be upon the Manhaj of the Salaf, follow the Sunnah, be strictly away from Biddah & Shirk.
• Looking for someone with good akhlaq, supportive and fun-loving with the wife. Someone who is respectful and honest in all matters. 
• Keen on acquiring Islamic knowledge and implementing it in one's life. Should be helpful towards the wife in religious matters; correct himself & the wife whenever wrong; and should make an utmost effort, along with the wife, to strive hard in strengthening the Imaan and becoming a better Muslim. 

About yourself:
• Born and brought up in Qatar, belonging to a Salafi family residing in Qatar.
• Is kind-hearted, calm, honest, family-oriented with an optimistic personality.
• Strictly away from Bidah & Shirk, strictly avoids free mixing
 • Is steadfast in offering 5 daily prayers & fasting. Observes voluntary fasts too. Wears Niqab Alhumdullillah. Always makes an effort to increase knowledge on the Deen. Currently doing Hifdh at a center in Qatar.

Contact details of walī/guardian:
▪️Wali: +974-55223237 (Father)
▪️For the Ladies: +974-55609021 (Mother)

Profile can be shared outside the group — yes/no: Yes 

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My profile:

Age: 31

Gender : Female

Height: 5ft5

Marital status: Single (never married)

Place of residence: London

Nationality: British

Ethnicity: Somali

Career/job: Education

Polygyny: No

Living with parents after marriage, yes/no/to be discussed: No

Scholars & students of knowledge you take from: I take from the well known Scholars and students of knowledge such as Shaykh Albaani, Shaykh Bin Baz & shaykh Uthaymeen. Some of the students of knowledge I take from are Hassan As Somali, Abu Khadeeja and Moosa Richardson and the likes.

Masājid you frequent:
I attend my local masjids but for lessons and lectures I would attend the known salafi masjids like Markaz us sunnah and Daar us sunnah.


Preference in spouse:


A brother that's been practicing for a good while upon salaffiyah. Known for being generous, kind, patient, selfless, friendly, truthful, with good character, and responsible. Someone who prioritises seeking knowledge and who's also looking to move abroad in the future, preferably to Muslim country at some point.

He should be financially fit to care for the family and bear his responsibilities.

The brother should be no younger than 29 and no older than 37.



About yourself:

In my spare time, I enjoy spending quality moments with my family and friends. I've often been described as bubbly, friendly, calm, and laid-back by those around me. I strive to maintain a balanced approach to life, focused on living a life pleasing to Allah whilst working toward my goals. Open to most ethnicities.

Contact details of walī/guardian:
 
Email: MAbdullah202012@gmail.com


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If a husband calls his wife to bed..

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Be Careful Of Being Like This With Your Wife


Ash-Shawkaani [رحمه الله] said:

❝Indeed those of the people who have the highest status in goodness and are the most rightful in being characterised with the truth are those who are the best of the people to their wives.

Indeed the wife and family are those who have the most right to joy and happiness, deserving of good manners and kindness, and bringing them benefit and repelling harm from them.

When a man is like this then he is the best of the people and if he is the opposite of that, then he is at the other extreme of evil.

There are many of the people who fall into this dilemma, so you see a man who when he meets his family he is the worst of the people in manners, the most miserly person and the least of the people with goodness.

When he meets other than his family, non-relatives he becomes soft and timid, has delightful manners, and improves himself, and his goodness increases.

There is no doubt that the person who is like this then he is prohibited from success, has deviated away from the correct path. We ask Allaah for security.❞

[Nail Awtaar, (8/121) | Translated By Abbas Abu Yahya Miraath Al-Anbiyya]

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Male/Female: Male

Age: 29

Year of birth: 1994

Ethnicity: Pakistani


Country of residence: England 

City of residence: London

Nationality: British

Height: 5ft 9

Build: Average 

Married/Single/Divorced/Widow: Single

In/Seeking/Willing to Accept Polygyny: N/A

Children/Step Children: N/A

Willing to Consider Someone with a Child/Children: N/A

Education/Learning: Educated at degree level

Job/Business/Income: Business Analyst 

Beard/Niqab/Jilbab/Abaya: Beard

How long practicing/convert/Muslim since birth: Practicing upon salayfiyyah for the past 7 years 

How much Qur’an memorised: Completed tajweed for Juz Amma Alhamdulliah, currently taking tajweed and memorisation classes.

Memorised/studied any ahadeeth/knowledge texts: Kitaab at Tawheed, Enrolled on tafseer lesson. Attend lesson at Masjid Bin Baz, East London.

Scholars/Student of Knowledge: Abu Khadeejah, Moosa Richardson, Shaykh Rabee, Shaykh Fawzaan, Shaykh Raslan and other Salafi Scholars 

Speak Arabic & any other languages (little, medium or fluent): Completed Madinah Book 1 and started Madinah Book 2

Spouse preference (For example; race, height, education level, etc.):
Pakistani from UK or Pakistan, 5ft -5ft 8 inch, Minimum college educated upon salafiyyah between the age 19-30 and should be Single unmarried. Dress code should be loose abayah, jilbaab or niqab.

Contact Number: 07400909884

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A woman who is like a friend with whom you can talk about everything, who understands you. 

A woman who is fun to be with and who has a sense of humor. 

A woman whose goal is to worship Allah through marriage and to raise righteous children. 

She should be a woman who supports me in my life and in my goals and who pushes me to success. 

⚜Age: Approx. Between 20-30 years. 

⚜Appearance: Preferably white or light brown skin, not overweight, pretty 

⚜Other wishes: I prefer that she can speak Arabic. 

If she can't, then it's good if she learns it and if she strives to learn the Quran, that's good too.

⚜Contact: +41 78 715 53 83 (Whatsapp or Telegram)

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Gender: Male

Age: 33

Height: about 5ft 11

Marital Status: Single, never previously married.

Ethnicity: Albanian

City/country: London, UK

Education: Bachelor’s degree Economics

Qualification/job: Bricklaying business-owner

Want Polygyny: No.

Children: None.

Beard/Niqab: Beard.

How long practicing/convert: 6 years reverted

Shaykh Rabee’ bin Hādī
Shaykh ‘Abdul Muhsin Al ‘Abbād
Shaykh Sālih Al Fawzān
Shaykh ‘Abdullāh Al-Bukhārī
Imām Al-Albānī
Imām Ibn Bāz
Shaykh Sālih Āl Ash-Shaykh
Shaykh ‘Ubayd Al-Jābirī

UK:

Shaykh Abū 'Iyād Amjad Rafīq
Shaykh Abdulilāh Lahmāmī
Shaykh Abū Khadeejah Abdul-Wāhid
Shaykh Abū Hakeem Bilāl bin Ahmad

Masājid you frequent:

Masjid ‘Abd Al-Azīz Bin Baz (Athariyyah) in Plaistow

About myself:

I believe myself to be simple hearted, courageous, laid-back, energetic and serious, someone who strives to be sincere, honest in dealings. I am self-employed [owner of a small bricklaying business] and consider myself financially stable wa lilāhi al-hamd, and someone who works hard, in my free time I usually exercise, boxing, running. I also like reading books of religion, meeting family, and exploring, visiting new places, hiking, travelling, swimming, martial artsetc.

Requirements in spouse (only UK-based sisters please):

I’m looking for a sister who prays ,understands fundamentals of Tawhīd ,dresses modestly, wears Jilbab or Niqab, has good realionships with their parents, strive to seek and implement whatever they have of knowledge, with a sense of humour (not moody), is understanding and very optimistic.

Whatsapp No: +44 7733 406407 or
Phone: 07311 350070

Profile can be shared outside of group: yes

Jazākumallāhu khayra

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