Do Not Befriend One Who Is Undutiful to His Parents: Whoever Betrays His Parents Will Betray You!

Shaykh Sulayman Ar-Ruhayli حفظه الله

📩 The Question:

A man married a woman, and after consummating the marriage with her, it became clear to him — as he says — that she is not a virgin, because not a drop of blood came out of her. And she is from a respected and noble family. What should he do?

📝 The Answer:

Answered by the Shaykh al-ʿAllāmah Muḥammad bin Ḥizām al-Baʿdānī — may Allah preserve him.

Accusing a woman of fornication because blood did not come out of her is from the actions of Jāhiliyyah, and from the practices of Jāhiliyyah — and this is not permissible.

And this questioner has already investigated the noble and respectable family, so it is not permissible for him to hold such an evil suspicion about this woman.
Some women do not have any blood come out from them — this is a matter that the people of knowledge have mentioned. The scholars have mentioned this matter.

And in the Muṣannaf of ʿAbd al-Razzāq, with an authentic chain, from ʿĀ’ishah, may Allah be pleased with her, who said: “Indeed, a woman may lose her virginity through menstruation or a jump.” Meaning: a leap.

So her hymen may go due to menstruation, or due to old age, or frequent menstruation, or by jumping. Or a woman may be created without a hymen.

And doctors in this modern era have mentioned that the hymen for some women is elastic; intercourse occurs, and no blood comes out of her, and it does not tear except at childbirth — as a group of doctors have mentioned that.

And some women may have a fluid come out that resembles water.

Thus, this statement is false — and it is not permissible to accuse the woman because blood did not come out of her.

And the saying of some people: “Cover her and do good to her for the sake of Allah!!!” — this is due to his evil suspicion.

For when you say, “I will do good to her,” what have you done that you are “doing good” to her?! Nothing has occurred that indicates fornication.

And none of the scholars mentioned in the books of fornication that among the signs of fornication is that a woman gets married and no blood comes out of her. No scholar mentioned this at all. This is not from the signs of fornication.

And the Muslim seeks a girl whose reputation is good, from a good family. And if no blood comes out of her, then nothing is upon him, nor upon him any sin, and he should not find anything in himself, nor think evil of her.

And a man came to our Shaykh, Imām Muqbil ibn Hādī al-Wādiʿī, may Allah have mercy on him, asking him about this same question, saying: “What do you advise me — should I divorce her, or should I cover her?”

So the Shaykh became extremely angry with him, and said: “How can you say ‘cover her’? Its meaning is that you are accusing her?!”

And the Shaykh became angry — may Allah have mercy on him.

This is a student of knowledge who knows the ruling of this issue — so how can he say, ‘cover her’? This is a false statement. It is not permissible to speak with such words.

May Allah grant us and you success.

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Do You Want Comfort and Light in Your Life? Upon You Is the Qur’an — Without It, You Will Be Lost!

Shaykh Khalid Isma’il حفظه الله

The Beautiful Character and Gentleness of the Prophet ﷺ: The Story of the Old Woman He Never Forgot!

Sheikh Muhammad Sa’eed Raslan حفظه الله

The Magnificent Virtue of Morning and Evening Adhkār: Your Daily Spiritual Shield — Don’t Ignore This Protection!

Shaykh Aziz Farhan Al-Anizi حفظه الله

The Morning Adhkār: The Blessed Supplication of the Prophet ﷺ Upon Entering the Morning!

Sheikh Muhammad Sa’eed Raslan حفظه الله

#DailyMorningAndEveningSupplications

🌅🌙 New Book Announcement: Morning and Evening Supplications

📝 Prepared by His Eminence Shaykh Dr. Abu ʿAbdillah Muhammad Saʿīd Raslan — may Allah preserve him

✨ A precious new release gathering the essential adhkār every believer needs at the break of dawn and the fall of night.

🔐 This short book brings together the authentic morning and evening remembrances — a shield for the heart, a protection against harm, and a daily renewal of one’s relationship with Allah.

🗓 Don’t let a day go by except you prepare your fortress and shield in the battlefield against an enemy who will show you no mercy.

🤲 I ask Allah to grant acceptance to this short book, and that my dear brothers and sisters read it daily and benefit from it.

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You Are The One To Blame!

If you are afflicted with something you dislike, then do not blame anyone except yourself.

The adhkār of the morning and evening — for example — are more important than breathing, and they should be a law that is adhered to; more important than breathing!

Beware that you neglect them, otherwise you have entered the battlefield without a weapon; you have exposed your chest and become a target for an enemy who will not show you mercy.

— Shaykh Muḥammad Saʿīd Raslān

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A Blessed Morning Supplication The Prophet ﷺ Would Say At The Break Of Day: “O Allah, By You We Enter The Morning…”

Sheikh Muhammad Sa’eed Raslan حفظه الله

#DailyMorningAndEveningSupplications

Beware of Excessiveness in Water When Performing Ablution: How the Prophet ﷺ Perfected Wudu’ Without Waste!

Shaykh Aziz Farhan Al-Anizi حفظه الله

A Question That Brought Tears to Shaykh Sulayman Ar-Ruhayli:

May Allah be good to you. This female questioner says that she fell into major sins from fornication and its types, and she mentioned many ugly reprehensible things, and after that she repented to Allah the Mighty and Majestic and regretted what was from her, and she wanted marriage, so what must she do? And she says: will the marriage be correct if I do not inform the husband about what previously came from me?

Shaykh Sulayman Ar-Ruhayli حفظه الله:

I ask Allah to forgive for us and for her, to accept repentance from us and from her, to accept her repentance, to forgive for us all. Firstly: let her repentance gladden her — how beautiful is repentance and returning to Allah, exalted and glorified is He. Secondly: it is not required of her to inform anyone about what she did from the reprehensible matters, nor inform the one who wants to marry her, but if he thinks that she is a virgin then she informs him that she is not a virgin — this is necessary. And it is not required that she informs him of the reason, so she informs him that she is not a virgin; she does not inform him of the reason, meaning she says that she is not a virgin. As for after that, it is not required — it is not required to inform about what occurred from her before her repentance.

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Why Do You Answer the Alarm for Work but Not Fajr? The Heaviest Prayer for the Hypocrites – A Wake-Up Call for Believers!

Shaykh Aziz Farhan Al-Anizi حفظه الله

When Abū Dharr Laid His Cheek in the Dust for Bilāl: A Prophetic Word That Shattered Pride and Healed Hearts!

Sheikh Muhammad Sa’eed Raslan حفظه الله

اللَّهُمَّ صَلِّ عَلَى مُحَمَّدٍ وَعَلَى آلِ مُحَمَّدٍ كَمَا صَلَّيْتَ عَلَى إِبْرَاهِيمَ وَعَلَى آلِ إِبْرَاهِيمَ إِنَّكَ حَمِيدٌ مَجِيدٌ، وَبَارِكْ عَلَى مُحَمَّدٍ وَعَلَى آلِ مُحَمَّدٍ كَمَا بَارَكْتَ عَلَى إِبْرَاهِيمَ وَعَلَى آلِ إِبْرَاهِيمَ إِنَّكَ حَمِيدٌ مَجِيدٌ.

O Allah, send Your Ṣalāh (praise, grace, honour, and mercy) upon Muḥammad and upon the family of Muḥammad, as You sent Your Ṣalāh (praise, grace, honour, and mercy) upon Ibrāhīm and upon the family of Ibrāhīm; indeed, You are Praiseworthy, Most Glorious. And bless Muḥammad and the family of Muḥammad, as You blessed Ibrāhīm and the family of Ibrāhīm; indeed, You are Praiseworthy, Most Glorious.

A Common Mistake Among Many Wives: Beautifying Herself for Weddings, But Not for Her Husband!

Shaykh Aziz Farhan Al-Anizi حفظه الله