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I think midlife is when the Universe gently places her hands upon your shoulders, pulls you close, and whispers in your ear:
I’m not screwing around. It’s time. All of this pretending and performing – these coping mechanisms that you’ve developed to protect yourself from feeling inadequate and getting hurt – has to go.
Your armour is preventing you from growing into your gifts. I understand that you needed these protections when you were small. I understand that you believed your armor could help you secure all of the things you needed to feel worthy of love and belonging, but you’re still searching and you’re more lost than ever.
Time is growing short. There are unexplored adventures ahead of you. You can’t live the rest of your life worried about what other people think. You were born worthy of love and belonging.
Courage and daring are coursing through you. You were made to live and love with your whole heart. It’s time to show up and be seen.👀❤️👍
I think midlife is when the Universe gently places her hands upon your shoulders, pulls you close, and whispers in your ear:
I’m not screwing around. It’s time. All of this pretending and performing – these coping mechanisms that you’ve developed to protect yourself from feeling inadequate and getting hurt – has to go.
Your armour is preventing you from growing into your gifts. I understand that you needed these protections when you were small. I understand that you believed your armor could help you secure all of the things you needed to feel worthy of love and belonging, but you’re still searching and you’re more lost than ever.
Time is growing short. There are unexplored adventures ahead of you. You can’t live the rest of your life worried about what other people think. You were born worthy of love and belonging.
Courage and daring are coursing through you. You were made to live and love with your whole heart. It’s time to show up and be seen.👀❤️👍
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Lately I have the impression that people are being forced to face their inner shadows whether they want to or not. I have several friends whose life circumstances are pushing them to have to look inside and figure out why they are the way they are.
They mostly resist, for it is those who hide more trauma, that wish not to face it. They tend to be people that have learned all sorts of coping mechanisms to hide their inner ghosts; they lie a lot, they make bad choices, they lie some more to justify their bad choices, they then feel bad about it and try to cover the pain with more bad choices and the vicious circle is perpetuated.
The underlying problem is, generally, that they grew up not liking themselves, feeling like they weren’t enough because perhaps they weren’t loved enough by those that should have been there for them. And the more bad choices they make, the more they disapprove of themselves, until they shy away from anyone that gets too close, scared that what they perceive as their inner ‘ugliness’ might show.
So they sabotage meaningful friendships and relationships in favour of meaningless, superficial interactions which don’t compromise them.
But now the time has come when they can no longer run away or hide from their inner chaos because their lives are falling apart, now they can see that they can’t go on like this; life is forcing them to deal with the pain, to understand it, to process it, to learn from it and to let it go.
The less they like themselves the harder it is to help them, for they are too afraid you might see them how they see themselves and the fake facade they’ve so carefully crafted all their lives will come crumbling down leaving them vulnerable and ‘naked’.
Be there for them without judgement, be the listening ear, the open heart and the shoulder to cry on. It’s a difficult time for a lot of people right now because it is time to get on the right path, but only those that have done the inner work will be able to access it. So help those that need support and encouragement right now. We need to ‘save’ as many people as possible.
❤️❤️❤️
https://t.me/LauraAbolichannel
They mostly resist, for it is those who hide more trauma, that wish not to face it. They tend to be people that have learned all sorts of coping mechanisms to hide their inner ghosts; they lie a lot, they make bad choices, they lie some more to justify their bad choices, they then feel bad about it and try to cover the pain with more bad choices and the vicious circle is perpetuated.
The underlying problem is, generally, that they grew up not liking themselves, feeling like they weren’t enough because perhaps they weren’t loved enough by those that should have been there for them. And the more bad choices they make, the more they disapprove of themselves, until they shy away from anyone that gets too close, scared that what they perceive as their inner ‘ugliness’ might show.
So they sabotage meaningful friendships and relationships in favour of meaningless, superficial interactions which don’t compromise them.
But now the time has come when they can no longer run away or hide from their inner chaos because their lives are falling apart, now they can see that they can’t go on like this; life is forcing them to deal with the pain, to understand it, to process it, to learn from it and to let it go.
The less they like themselves the harder it is to help them, for they are too afraid you might see them how they see themselves and the fake facade they’ve so carefully crafted all their lives will come crumbling down leaving them vulnerable and ‘naked’.
Be there for them without judgement, be the listening ear, the open heart and the shoulder to cry on. It’s a difficult time for a lot of people right now because it is time to get on the right path, but only those that have done the inner work will be able to access it. So help those that need support and encouragement right now. We need to ‘save’ as many people as possible.
❤️❤️❤️
https://t.me/LauraAbolichannel
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Happiness vs Pleasure…
Lately, I’ve been thinking about these two very important emotions, and it seems to me, that we have confused, and in fact, equated, their meaning.
We seek pleasure under the false notion that happiness will come with it, or in fact that one is the same as the other, but is this the case?
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https://www.lauraaboli.com/post/happiness-vs-pleasure
Lately, I’ve been thinking about these two very important emotions, and it seems to me, that we have confused, and in fact, equated, their meaning.
We seek pleasure under the false notion that happiness will come with it, or in fact that one is the same as the other, but is this the case?
Continue reading:
https://www.lauraaboli.com/post/happiness-vs-pleasure
Laura Aboli
Happiness vs Pleasure
Lately, I’ve been thinking about these two very important emotions, and it seems to me, that we have confused, and in fact, equated, their meaning. We seek pleasure under the false notion that happiness will come with it, or in fact that one is the same as…
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