Forever young!

Getting older is something many people dread. As we age, we often have to let go of parts of our lives, especially when we stop working. Retirement can feel like a gloomy chapter. But it doesn't have to be.

📎Researchers found what helps older adults find joy and fulfilment in life – and how to make it happen for those who haven't yet.

As you'd expect, health plays a big role – it's harder to feel satisfied with life when dealing with a disability. Yet, some elderly people find happiness despite physical challenges. Their secret? They stay focused on the present, keep up with current events, and mentally feel younger than they are regardless of their physical condition.

People with jobs are generally more satisfied, especially with their financial status. That said, the real game-changer is whether they feel younger than their age and keep up with what's happening around. Those who do are optimistic about their lives even without an occupation, but to those who don’t even their job doesn’t bring much pleasure. The same goes for education: while having a degree increases the chances of happy retirement, it only works if the degree holder feels younger at heart.

Religious beliefs hugely help elderly people cope and view their life in the positive light. However, their outlook on life matters even more. Believing in a higher power brings comfort, but constantly thinking about the future steals much of its magic. That’s likely because thoughts of what might come — like boredom or loneliness — make it harder to fully embrace this chapter of life.

Seems like happiness in later life isn’t about circumstances but mindset. Work, education, and faith help, while disabilities put up obstacles. However, the secret lies in living in the present and staying active and curious which leads to feeling younger than the age. Good news is, these are the mental habits that can be nurtured through psychological training. And let’s not forget, we all have a role to play — whether as family or community members — by keeping older adults engaged and valued.

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Why are some kids ready for school while others aren’t?
It’s no mystery — it all starts at home. Before kids even pick up a book or pencil, parents can help them build early language skills, setting them up not just for academic success, but for easily connecting with others once they hit school.

What decides if a kid picks up early literacy skills quickly?
Well-read, educated parents and homes rich in books, print materials, and other opportunities to explore language will increase the chances. But more important is one simple question, “Do parents see it as their role to shape their child’s literacy journey?” Some, unsure of where to start, leave it all to teachers. That’s a missed opportunity because the family is the most powerful influence in those early years.

Good intentions, bad execution
Many parents mean well but miss the mark when it comes to how they engage.
📎Take reading together: research by scholars from Mexico shows that while most parents believe in its value, they often treat it like a one-sided lecture. They don’t pause to ask questions and spark curiosity.
Besides, many parents center their language activities with kids on correcting their mistakes, which certainly is important but overdoing it without adding fun can dampen a child’s enthusiasm. Most caregivers also fail to show examples by reading themselves — and kids need role models.

How to get it right
Here’s the good news: creating a thriving learning environment isn’t rocket science. It’s about simple, thoughtful steps that make a big impact.
Make it interactive: turn reading and conversations into shared adventures. Ask questions, spark curiosity, and encourage your child to take the lead.
Mix in rhymes, riddles, and word games. Learning through fun beats endless corrections.
Create a warm, supportive environment where mistakes are okay and exploration is encouraged. Ultimately, it’s about raising confident, curious, and connected individuals ready to take on the world.

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What’ve been your plans for these winter holidays? Is it turkey and gifts with family at Christmas or a romantic day and KFC like in modern Japan? Or are you skipping Christmas and set to party till dawn on New Year’s? How we celebrate often reflects the norms of our age group and the cultural traditions. In fact, they influence everything, from how much personal space we give to each other to how we go about our day.

But can true creativity thrive within the boundaries of societal norms? After all, many great minds were nonconformists who defied them. So, is it possible to think outside the box while playing by society’s rules?

📎Researchers took a closer look at teenagers, known for questioning rules and authority. Surprisingly, a third strongly aligned with cultural norms, while over half were quite in tune with them — so full-blown rebellion isn’t as common as you’d think.

What about creativity? One set of rules stood out: safety guidelines like “Don’t stay out late” or “Don’t talk to strangers.” Teens with high creative thinking were more likely to break these, driven by curiosity and a thirst for experimentation that often outweighed fear of consequences.

Other than that, creativity and rule-following seem to coexist perfectly. Teens can be imaginative and curious while staying polite, organized, and mindful of boundaries — perhaps a sign of growing maturity and their ability to balance freedom with responsibility.

Human nature is wonderfully complex, able to embrace contrasting qualities and make them work together. This holiday season, we wish for your different sides to always be in harmony. Thank you for being part of this incredible journey with us!

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Screens are everywhere! We’ve talked about how to protect teens online and limit screen time for kids, but what about 1-3 years olds?

Colorful interactive games and animated fairy tales all sound good. But more time spent on the screen sends kids struggling with social interactions and even affects brain development, making them crave instant rewards. Is it all black and white though?

📎Researchers from Argentina have sorted it all out. While toddlers’ phone use was around an hour—already very concerning—the real shocker was the 5 hours of background TV kids were exposed to every day! Don't underestimate its impact: it disrupts communication and adds unnecessary distractions. Kids who grew up with TV constantly on usually talk less while playing and have more trouble learning and controlling their behaviour.

Contrary to that, playing together with parents using real toys has a positive impact on kids’ self-control, memory, task-switching, and speech. Sharing toys encourages storytelling, naming objects, moving them around, and making sounds to help the toddler interact. Moreover, parents simply engage more with their kids during toy play than when playing on the phones together.

Does it mean that toddlers should be guarded from screens altogether?

Surprisingly, TV can have some benefits—like helping toddlers respond more when someone tries to engage them in real play. But the downsides outweigh the positives, especially when kids are left alone with screens for long periods. Yet, if parents join in, pointing out characters or situations on the screen, it encourages interaction and reduces the negative effects screens have on kids' development.

Screens aren’t inherently bad, but parents should avoid using them as a quick distraction. Instead, they can be a fun and educational tool when used together, with minimal negative effects, as long as screen time is properly limited. And remember: real play is still the best way to boost your child’s cognitive growth!

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Have you ever felt the urge to pull back from your work and just do the bare minimum? That’s called “quiet quitting” and it can happen for different reasons – you may feel lack of support and recognition or your priorities have shifted.

📎Spanish researchers focused on teachers — a group especially vulnerable to work stress and burnout. They discovered that while job satisfaction and motivation are generally high among them, it’s not the same story for everyone.

Teachers with less than 5 years on the job often feel more emotionally drained and less committed to their work than their experienced peers. Without the right knowledge, they might not handle stress well or have a clear idea of what to expect. They also have less authority at work, making it harder for them to take initiative.

On the flip side, teachers with over 25 years of experience are less active and flexible than those with 16-25 years under their belt. They face their own struggles: outdated skills and the stress of keeping up with technology. Interestingly, older professors in humanities are often more motivated than their counterparts in science and tech — likely because their fields don’t require adapting to as many new tools.

That said, professors of over 25 years are actually the most satisfied, confident, and emotionally steady — at times more so than their younger, more driven peers. Likely because over time they’ve gained a strong sense of control and understanding of what they need and how to cope.

It doesn’t mean young professionals are doomed to feel burned out or that older workers need to avoid science and tech. Building positivity can help prevent burnout and boost job satisfaction. Plus, workplaces that support and pay attention to both younger and older staff can make a big difference.

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What sets our kids up to grow into happy, accomplished adults? Lots of things, sure, but one big factor is their ability to set goals, adapt, reflect, and manage emotions — their “executive function skills”. We’ve seen how playing with real toys helps — but what else can we do to support them?

Painting? Music? Dance? Lots of parents sign their kids up for extracurriculars to help them grow into a well-rounded personality.
📎Researchers in Moscow set to see if these activities really make an impact.

There wasn’t much difference between kids who took extra classes and those who didn’t when it came to visual memory, flexibility, and self-control. Perhaps, that’s because both groups spent much of their time in kindergarten, where they had a good mix of learning and play, which helps develop these skills. Likely, some extra classes could really help those starting out with lower levels.

Yet, one effect did stand out: 6-7-year-olds who attended extracurricular classes for a year had better verbal working memory, the core skill for learning. They could remember details in conversations, follow multi-step directions, guide themselves better through problem-solving and stay focused in tasks. This might be because teachers give out lots of verbal discussions, and kids learn to listen and use what they hear. Besides, kids in extra classes spend less time on screens, which spares them from some negative effects on brain development.

Kids' executive function has many sides, and while extracurriculars boost one, other activities can help too. The key is making them regular, challenging, and supported by an adult, while keeping things fun, motivating, and social. So, get exploring and find what works best for you and your child!

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Remember the Covid lockdowns? Stuck at home for months — a dark time for many. But for some, it was a relief: no more long commutes to class. So, did students truly miss face-to-face learning?

A research team set out to compare how students felt in Portugal and Russia. Different education systems, mentalities, and even digital literacy levels. Yet, remarkably similar in their attitude toward the lockdown.

Regardless of the country, remote learning during Covid felt depressing and isolating for many students. For example, in Portugal, top-performing students turned to anxiety medication, likely because they missed the structure and teacher support they were used to.

Who handled it better, though, – men or women? Since some women had to juggle studies with childcare, you’d think men had it easier — but that wasn’t the case.

In both Russia and Portugal, men struggled more with remote learning — they found it harder to perform well, connect with teachers and peers online, and create a good study environment. They also faced more challenges adjusting to tech demands. Meanwhile, women’s higher motivation likely helped them adapt more easily.

Surprisingly, younger students struggled more with remote learning than those over 23—despite growing up with technology. Perhaps, their older colleagues managed it better thanks to higher motivation and everyday tech use for work.

In any case, that was an uneasy time for many, and the fact that the two countries so different felt the same way shows just how challenging this was. Let’s hope we never face something like that again, but in the meantime, let’s stay motivated to learn so we can tackle anything that comes our way, no matter the circumstances!

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Play is more than just fun for kids — it’s how they learn and grow, as we’ve discussed before. But do teachers truly understand how crucial it is? And more importantly, do they act on it?

Researchers asked preschool teachers in Russia and India, and the answer was a clear ‘yes’ — they admit the full value of play. But when it comes to practice, free play is often overlooked: parental expectations and academic pressures leave little room for it. Still, when children do have the opportunity to play, are teachers making the most of it?

Teachers of the two countries take different approaches, each with its pros and cons. Russian teachers are more engaged, easily stepping into roles and shaping role-play scenarios, while their Indian colleagues prefer to let play unfold naturally, offering support when needed. On the one hand, active involvement is crucial as it helps spot learning opportunities, but too much control can limit children’s creativity and suppress the initiative.

This is especially true for play-fight games, which are often discouraged in Russia. Concerned about safety, teachers calm children down and redirect their attention. However, this deprives kids of essential physical exercise, emotional release, and social development opportunities.

What about digital play?

Contrary to what one might expect, experienced teachers of both countries view digital play rather positively. Likely, their knowledge helps them use digital tools to support educational goals in ways that suit both the child’s current development and future learning stages.

Role-play and active play are key to a child’s growth — and even the debated digital play, when used wisely, has its benefits. Since screens are here to stay, teachers play a crucial role in turning digital time into a learning opportunity. At the same time, it’s a crucial task for teachers to keep traditional play exciting and strike that perfect balance between guiding children and giving them the freedom to explore.

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It's just a cartoon, why are you crying?

Last time, we mentioned how digital devices can help preschoolers develop — time to talk
about cartoons. What lessons do they teach kids? And what can a child's reaction to them reveal about their inner world?

As researchers explored how children connect with cartoon characters, they realized they were looking at how a child’s ability to sense right and wrong takes shape. Some children saw the story from the outside: they put themselves in the character’s shoes just to logically understand the situation. Instead of feeling the conflict, they viewed it through the basic moral rules they’d learned from adults.

Then came the next stage — where empathy kicked in. Seeing the world through the character’s eyes, such children picked up on hidden emotions and connected deeply. They recalled their own emotional experiences, layering them onto the story. This let them go beyond simple moral judgments — they truly
understood what the character was going through.

An even more advanced stage is when children could switch between characters — at times
seeing the story through the main character’s eyes, at others identifying with a more objective viewpoint. This flexibility showed their ability to grasp different motivations, balancing emotion with logic as they viewed the story from multiple angles.

Concerns arose with kids who couldn’t connect with any character. Their focus was scattered as if they could not follow a character’s full journey. This could point to a lack of emotional depth or defense mechanism against emotional pressure: in any case, not being able to relate your life to a cartoon or movie means missing out on the power of art that helps us grow, learn, and understand life deeper.

Who knew cartoons could be the perfect test for empathy, emotional awareness, and perception? Next time you watch one with your child, pay close attention to their reactions — you might discover something new! And don’t forget to test yourself too — a bit of self-reflection will never hurt!

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“You are just a machine. An imitation of life. Can a robot write a symphony? Can a robot turn a canvas into a beautiful masterpiece?”

AI like GPT-4 is part of our daily lives, assisting us at work and chatting with us when we’re bored. But does it need its own feelings to act human? And can it develop them as it learns — like a child picking up emotions along with language?

Researchers tested ChatGPT-4’s emotional intelligence — and it actually outperformed humans in understanding complex emotions and mixed feelings! And it was no worse than us when it came to managing emotions.

However, when it came to using emotions to think — grounding the right decisions in feelings or connecting sensations to emotions — AI fell short. Unlike verbal understanding, this skill is deeply tied to personal experiences, intuition, and the subconscious — things AI simply doesn’t have.

Here’s the twist: GPT-4 can sound emotional, but this is only to make interaction more comfortable for us. Unlike us, it doesn’t need feelings to think: it can mimic emotions flawlessly, but those emotions don’t shape its thoughts or decisions — they’re just part of the script.

What’s interesting, when GPT-4 makes mistakes, it tends to do one of two things — either give a meaningless answer with no explanation or back its response with wrong logic. Funny enough, that’s how people often get things wrong too — either missing the bigger picture or thinking in unexpected ways. So maybe, just maybe, some parts of our thought processes aren’t that different after all.

Still, GPT-4 doesn’t have emotional intelligence like we do. But hey, at least it’s a good actor! So, if saying ‘thank you’ or ‘please’ to GPT makes you feel better, go ahead — let's keep the good manners going!

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Caution! We’re entering the Norm Distortion Fields

The Internet offers endless opportunities, but also a shield for those who exploit its anonymity. Cyberbullying thrives in this moral grey zone, but what kind of mindset fuels it? What beliefs and traits make someone more likely to be a bully?

Researchers from Lomonosov MSU found that those who justify harmful behavior online often see communication as a way to manipulate others and believe that only strict control can keep society in order. In contrast, those who make ethical choices are guided by universal moral values and choose to support and protect the well-being of others.

But there’s more to the story. People who truly understand what cyberbullying is are far more likely to take the ethical route. This means, some unethical actions aren’t intentional but happen because people fail to see how their actions harm others.

Here’s what’s interesting: people with strong communication skills are much better at spotting cyberbullying and handling it without harming themselves or others. So, online cruelty may stem from both a lack of awareness and struggles to understand others.

That’s good news because then education can be the cure — teaching people how their online actions affect others may be the key to wiping out internet bullies.

We live in a blended reality where our online actions shape our real-world behavior too. The more important it is to stay alert — and, above all, stay human—both on and off the screen.

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Put your own de-stress mask on first before assisting children

Kids today are facing more mental struggles than ever, which affects their confidence, focus, emotional balance, resilience, and ability to trust themselves in the future. And perhaps, only you — their parents — have the power to change that.

Researchers found that the way mothers treat their children makes all the difference. Punitive methods – strict discipline and control – naturally raise stress levels, especially if they involve yelling or physical punishment. Contrary to that, when mothers show warmth, support, and are involved with their children emotionally, it helps keep stress levels in check.

It all sounds very logical; however, in many cases, mothers are not really to blame. Many choose punitive parenting because they’re stressed themselves. When parents are overwhelmed, their focus shifts to managing their own stress, leaving less time, patience, and energy for positive interactions with their children.

What’s interesting, when mothers are stressed but still act supportive, their kids may remain upset. This might be because kids are very attuned to their mothers’ moods, and even if stress is hidden, they can still sense it. Remarkably, the stress levels of mothers and children often mirror each other, suggesting that their bond is tighter than one might think.

One thing’s for sure: to feel safe and confident, kids need that special person by their side, always ready with a hug or a comforting word. So, if you want your children to thrive, start by taking care of yourself. Find ways to unwind and recharge in this busy world — it’ll make all the difference!

Out of the pixelated rabbit hole

Preschoolers spend twice as much time on screens as they should. Too many cartoons and video games can make it harder for kids to control themselves and stay focused — and yet, their still-developing brains easily fall into the screen trap. But is it all that bad? And if so, what can be done?

Indeed, researchers found that too many videos and games throw off kids' ability to control their impulses, switch tasks and understand new rules. However, the impact was not as strong as expected, possibly because 2 hours a day is — true, exceeding all the limits — but not too as extreme as 9 hours for teenagers.

It’s surprising how screen time actually helped boys in one thing: those who played games and watched cartoons seemed to remember better, whether it’s something they just heard or saw — perhaps, their memory could sharpen somewhat while completing digital quests. But for girls, it’s the opposite — those hooked on digital entertainment struggled with short memory more.

So, digital devices aren't all bad, but the effect is still mostly negative if left unchecked. Limit screen time? But we all know how tough screen tantrums can be. Plus, kids pick up screen habits from their parents and friends. So, what’s the answer?

Here’s a twist that could hold the key: mind-sharpening exercise works much better when combined with movement. Plus, being active helps kids stay off screens while doing what comes so naturally: running around, exploring, tumbling — in other words, just being kids! Looks like sports is the ultimate ally for brain function, so some changes in lifestyle are needed — and perhaps, not just for kids!

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Was everything really better back in the day, or is that just nostalgia talking?

Well, we won’t say for sure, but researchers found that today’s teens feel much more anxious, angry, and sad than those in the late ‘90s — and there are some reasons why.

First off, they feel less motivated — they’re often do things out of obligation rather than genuine desire. Plus, they feel less in control of their lives and struggle to set and chase goals in a way that feels meaningful.

Since school takes up much of their day, some educational reforms might be to blame here — like those in 2000s Russia, where schools merged into large complexes, and standardized knowledge was prioritized over deep and diverse interests. Of course, this might be just one piece of the puzzle.

Teens today also feel less connected to their friends and family. One reason might be social media replacing meaningful connections and weakening the sense of community.

Girls are affected harder than boys – possibly because they are usually more stressed over education and more vulnerable to bullying and negative comparisons that have risen on social media.

While a more personalized education system will help, a little emotional support goes a long way — it reminds them they're not alone and shows them they can take charge. So, look out — your rebel sister or defiant son might need you more than you think!

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Why do some remember a fairy tale's lesson for life, while others forget it by morning?

Every book, movie, or conversation – every moment in life – shapes us differently. For something to truly stick, we must really think it through and connect emotionally. As kids begin to understand their emotions, they must learn to reflect on what they are going through – the only way they can develop fully. So, how can we help kids truly absorb their experiences?

Researchers say there’s no guaranteed way to make something truly sink in, but we can try. One way is through art — visuals, music, stories, etc. But just showing a picture isn’t enough: you need to talk about it. Questions like, “Why is the boy in the picture crying?” or “Why is his sister smirking?” help a child understand it more deeply.

Moreover, encourage kids to draw what they feel, so they can share thoughts through both words and pictures — at younger age, these two forms work together allowing kids to express themselves more fully.

And still, there are no guarantees. The key is whether it connects with their own feelings and memories. For example, a boy deeply related to a painting of a child left behind from a fishing trip because he had felt the same rejection before. Meanwhile, his younger sister was indifferent to the drama — likely because she had never faced similar struggles.

We can’t force a child to feel an experience — but we can guide them toward it. By discussing complex emotions and connecting them to their own experiences, we give them the tools to understand and empathize. The more we help them reflect, the more they grow.

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We’ve seen how harsh parenting stresses kids out – who wouldn’t feel overwhelmed when they’re yelled at? But in the long term, you might think strict discipline leads to better grades – kids learn to push themselves no matter what. But is it really a good thing?

Researchers found that children who are pressured to succeed and made to feel bad if they don’t often lose the drive to do things because they enjoy them. As a result, they don’t study out of curiosity or a love of learning — they do it to avoid feeling guilty or to earn a pat on the back from their parents.

And that’s the lesser evil. Others raised this way can lose all motivation altogether. After being constantly pushed to do things they didn’t want and punished for messing up, they just stop believing they can ever get it right.

Kids raised without such pressure — who were listened to, given choices, and supported in their initiatives — might struggle to force themselves to do things they don’t enjoy. But the best part is they don’t need to, since they’re often driven by genuine interest. They dive into learning because they want to, not because they’re scared not to. The truth is, this kind of motivation actually leads to better results — higher grades included.

Looks like you'll achieve far more by following your genuine interests than by chasing praise, grades, or success for the sake of it. That’s why it’s so important for parents to help children connect with what they truly enjoy and give them space to grow at their own pace. Don’t raise children to chase success — inspire their curiosity and passion, and success will find them. Science backs it up!

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A strong and loved heart weathers any storm

Kids go through so much as they grow and change, especially closer to their teenage years. Yet, when they have to deal with not having enough food, or when their classmates laugh at their worn shoes, they feel more fragile than ever. Not everyone, though.

Children can still live a happy and full life even when it isn't a fairy tale on the outside. But for this, they need to be able to handle stress and regain balance. So, what does it take?

Researchers found that it has a lot to do with kids’ self-esteem. Those who believe in themselves face stress with a positive mindset, confident that their circumstances don’t define them – which ultimately helps them rise above. Those who don’t, however, may feel like they deserve their struggles, which can lead to hopelessness.

Even more important is their belief that they can handle challenges. It’s not just about knowing they have value — it’s about feeling in control, confident that they can take action and help themselves through tough situations.

Moreover, family support plays a key role in helping kids stay balanced, because at this age, family is their biggest source of safety, comfort, and acceptance. It’s all about how loved and valued they feel by the people closest to them.

So, children with confidence in their abilities and supportive families are equipped to weather any storm — not just now, but in the future too. That’s why even a simple “You’ve got this” can go a long way, no matter the situation.

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Built-in struggles, built-in solutions!

What do figuring out who ate the last cookie and cracking a new math puzzle have in common? Kids can do both thanks to “fluid intelligence”: the power of our brain to think fast, spot patterns, think abstractly, and solve problems we've never seen before.

It’s not just a superpower for tricky situations: we use it to solve everyday tasks and learn new things quickly. And for kids with learning challenges — from ADHD, autism, brain injury, etc. — a lack of fluid intelligence is the biggest reason they struggle to build new skills, as found by the scholars.

The problem is, fluid intelligence mostly comes from how the brain is built, meaning it’s not so easy to "develop" it like a habit. But good news is, there are still ways to train it — by working on the skills that are closely linked to it.

Memory, how well kids can picture things, and how easily they use language — all of this plays a big role. And for kids with delayed development, fluid intelligence affects even more areas, including how well they remember things over time and how quickly they can make sense of information.

Such kids have all their thinking processes connected more tightly, as their brains have fewer mental resources to work with. When it comes to fluid intelligence, this “curse” can become their “blessing”: training one skill can boost their problem-solving and abstract thinking powers more than you’d expect.

So, by training skills like memory and language, these special kids can really add fuel to an engine that helps them tackle their learning challenges with more confidence and ease!

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Let them play!

Life can be overwhelming, even more so when you’re little. Fears, frustrations, confusing emotions, especially in our time of information overload: it’s a lot for a child to carry. But there’s a powerful way to help them make sense of it all, as found by researchers: just let them play.

Even video games can do part of the job. Well, a small one: they do ease anxiety, and some can even help with self-regulation. Yet, they lack real social interaction, which kids need to grow emotionally.

Now picture outdoor play — running, climbing, negotiating who gets the swing next. Here, children move their bodies, connect with peers, and learn social skills on the fly. Or think play with rules, like Freeze Dance: these help kids learn self-control: they have to stop, wait, take turns, and follow directions. Add a bit of imagination — like in Charades — and it becomes even more powerful.

The same goes for play with toys — the more imagination is involved, the better. Spinning a toy car in circles might be soothing. But give that car a backstory — say, it’s racing to deliver medicine — and your child is learning to understand emotions.

Yet, the most beneficial kind of play for kids is pretend play: they stretch their imagination to the fullest, explore adult roles, and navigate complex emotions. In these make-believe worlds, they become teachers, firefighters, astronauts. They make the rules, solve the problems, and experience a sense of control that’s hard to find elsewhere.

And when a caring adult joins in, the effect grows stronger. Whether they’re helping build a castle or playing the villain in a superhero saga, adults can guide, support, and make kids feel seen.

So maybe, in a world that often feels upside down, the way forward for our little ones is to imagine, explore, and connect. Because children aren’t just playing — they’re planting seeds of strength that will carry them through the real world.

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Simplicity is the soul of wit

We talked about the benefits of play for kids. Yet, what are they playing with? Today’s toys are colourful, multifunctional, and packed with beloved characters! But what if that’s exactly the issue?

Play should spark kids’ imagination, because adults can hardly learn this “skill”. In play, kids come up with their situations and explore the impossible. But character-based toys can get in the way. Robot puppies and Peppa Pig plushies come with fixed stories and limited functions, leaving little space for kids to invent their own worlds.

Yet, recent research showed that nearly half of preschoolers prefer flashy, character-based toys. Toy companies know it, flooding stores with figures from the popular shows. These do promise instant fun, and owning one can even be social gold: “I’ve got the newest Paw Patrol — do you?” And still, they leave no room for imagination. What is a better alternative then?

Simple toys, like wooden blocks or Legos. These don’t come with stories but invite kids to invent their own. A block can be a car, a castle, or a spaceship. No rules, no scripts, just pure creativity. In fact, blocks act like a language of play, helping kids share ideas and build stories together. Bad news is, this type of toys is the least popular. So, who is to blame and what to do?

Marketing plays a huge part, but let’s hear the kids out. Some say blocks are “just squares” and “boring.” Others admit, “I don’t know what to build.” And that’s the heart of it: such toys ask kids to create, not just consume. But if they are used to toys doing all the entertaining, they may not know how to start imagining on their own.

So, if you want your child to grow into a true creator, someone who dreams big — you’ve got to show them how. Take their hand, step into that open-ended world together. Show them how a simple wooden block can become anything. Once they see the magic, they’ll never lose it.

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