अभी मुझ में कहीं
बाक़ी थोड़ी सी है ज़िंदगी
जगी धड़कन नई
जाना ज़िंदा हूँ मैं तो अभी
If someone can stop believing in God and still whisper wishes into the void, hoping something hears them...
Maybe it's not about belief.
Maybe it's about wanting to be heard, even when no one is listening.
Then why is it unacceptable to question a place called "home" when it stops feeling like one?
Why is belief flexible, but relationships absolute?
Why does "dharma" ask me to carry lifelong debt to parents, even when what I receive is silence, suppression, or unhealed trauma passed down?
And when I say this out loud, people don't listen.
They just say, "many parents are like this."
they're not solving anything.
They're just normalizing your discomfort so they don't have to deal with it.
And maybe that's what hurts more.
Not the situation itself, but how easily it's dismissed.
That doesn't make it right.
That just makes it common.
I don't want to leave to escape pain.
I want to leave because I can't grow here.
There's a difference.
I'm not running away.
I'm trying to expand into a life that feels like mine.
Maybe one day..
I will build a place where I don't have to explain my pain to be taken seriously.
A place that finally feels like home.
Maybe it's not about belief.
Maybe it's about wanting to be heard, even when no one is listening.
Then why is it unacceptable to question a place called "home" when it stops feeling like one?
Why is belief flexible, but relationships absolute?
Why does "dharma" ask me to carry lifelong debt to parents, even when what I receive is silence, suppression, or unhealed trauma passed down?
And when I say this out loud, people don't listen.
They just say, "many parents are like this."
they're not solving anything.
They're just normalizing your discomfort so they don't have to deal with it.
And maybe that's what hurts more.
Not the situation itself, but how easily it's dismissed.
That doesn't make it right.
That just makes it common.
I don't want to leave to escape pain.
I want to leave because I can't grow here.
There's a difference.
I'm not running away.
I'm trying to expand into a life that feels like mine.
Maybe one day..
I will build a place where I don't have to explain my pain to be taken seriously.
A place that finally feels like home.
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Alex Never Dies! pinned «If someone can stop believing in God and still whisper wishes into the void, hoping something hears them... Maybe it's not about belief. Maybe it's about wanting to be heard, even when no one is listening. Then why is it unacceptable to question a place…»
A diamond in the dark is still a diamond.
But it needs light to be seen.
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If you keep staying in this space of questioning,
you'll become very good at understanding life
and very bad at living it.
At some point,
the answer won't come from thinking more.
It will come from
doing something real
even when it feels incomplete.
Research video
Introverts | Extroverts – what's difference scientifically? —
https://www.youtube.com/shorts/JuAPMC0xD0Q
Introverts | Extroverts – what's difference scientifically? —
https://www.youtube.com/shorts/JuAPMC0xD0Q
Oh, look at the plight of this poor soul, wandering helplessly. What kind of life is it for a nomad (banjara) without you? I remain lost in your memories, committing foolish acts, and I keep your tokens of love safely in my wallet. Life feels like a curse without you, I am not doing well. I fold my hands and pray to God to release me from this breath (meaning, I am in immense pain). I have sung of you in my songs and held you close to my heart. Wherever I went, I found your memory waiting for me.
#bairan
#bairan
Songs Directory
Jeet Gannguli & Arijit Singh – Title Track (From "Hamari Adhuri Kahani")
I can resist almost everything.
But.. I can't resist the tears of longing.
But.. I can't resist the tears of longing.
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A tragic incident has shaken the Indian Institute of Technology (IIT) Kharagpur, where a 22-year-old fourth-year student, Soham Haldar, was found dead in his hostel room on April 28, 2026. The discovery was made at the Radhakrishnan Hall of Residence after…
“The opposite of love is not hate, it’s indifference. The opposite of art is not ugliness, it’s indifference. The opposite of faith is not heresy, it’s indifference. And the opposite of life is not death, it’s indifference.”
– Elie Wiesel
If you come from a dysfunctional family, stop taking relationship advice from someone who comes from a functional family. You both have completely different perceptions of love and relationships.
A person from a functional family has a healthy attachment style. Their brain has developed since childhood to have a good understanding of attachment.
If you are from a dysfunctional family, your brain has been deprived of that healthy development. So you cannot compare yourself to your friends who are in relationships or navigating them with ease.
The relationship advice and healing approach for someone from a functional family versus a dysfunctional family is completely different.
Stop comparing yourself to the rest of the world if you come from a dysfunctional family, because the very foundation of attachment can be distorted at a neurological level.
Alex Never Dies!
Research video Introverts | Extroverts – what's difference scientifically? — https://www.youtube.com/shorts/JuAPMC0xD0Q
All that I want is to know undoubtedly
That you just have eyes for me
Could you make it clear?
All that I want is to sit here silently
And watch movies on TV
What a shame, you're not here
Here to witness my devotion
And my endless well of needs
I'm an anchor in the ocean
You know I could never leave
So, I'm patient, you're learning, pretend it's not hurting
'Cause they say it's a virtue to not let good love slip away
So, I'm cool and forgiving, I'll take what you're giving
But nothing's quite enough when I know that to get it, I begged
Yeah, to get it, I begged
That you just have eyes for me
Could you make it clear?
All that I want is to sit here silently
And watch movies on TV
What a shame, you're not here
Here to witness my devotion
And my endless well of needs
I'm an anchor in the ocean
You know I could never leave
So, I'm patient, you're learning, pretend it's not hurting
'Cause they say it's a virtue to not let good love slip away
So, I'm cool and forgiving, I'll take what you're giving
But nothing's quite enough when I know that to get it, I begged
Yeah, to get it, I begged