This does not mean turning a daughter into a maid or expecting her to shoulder the burdens of the home alone. Rather, it means teaching her responsibility and how to manage life's affairs, and helping both spouses understand that a family can only succeed through cooperation and each partner complementing the other.
God Almighty says: “And live with them in kindness.” And He says: “And they have rights similar to those over them, according to what is fair.”
The Prophet, peace and blessings be upon him, said: “The best of you are those who are best to their families.”
We need to revive a culture of family life and raise a generation that understands the meaning of marriage, the rights of spouses, patience, respect, sacrifice, and responsibility.
Success is not merely marrying off our sons and daughters. True success lies in raising them well so that they can build good homes, preserve their families, and raise a generation that enjoys stability, affection, and mercy.
Homes are not always destroyed by major problems. They can also be destroyed by a harsh word, repeated stubbornness, a lack of wisdom, and a misunderstanding of what married life means.
Raise your sons and daughters to understand the values of marriage before you rejoice at their weddings, for building a family is a responsibility of upbringing before it is a wedding celebration.
Written by/
Dr. Hussein Al-Fifi
God Almighty says: “And live with them in kindness.” And He says: “And they have rights similar to those over them, according to what is fair.”
The Prophet, peace and blessings be upon him, said: “The best of you are those who are best to their families.”
We need to revive a culture of family life and raise a generation that understands the meaning of marriage, the rights of spouses, patience, respect, sacrifice, and responsibility.
Success is not merely marrying off our sons and daughters. True success lies in raising them well so that they can build good homes, preserve their families, and raise a generation that enjoys stability, affection, and mercy.
Homes are not always destroyed by major problems. They can also be destroyed by a harsh word, repeated stubbornness, a lack of wisdom, and a misunderstanding of what married life means.
Raise your sons and daughters to understand the values of marriage before you rejoice at their weddings, for building a family is a responsibility of upbringing before it is a wedding celebration.
Written by/
Dr. Hussein Al-Fifi
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Imam Malik considers secret marriage = prostitute marriage
Ibn Taymiyyah said:
“Malik holds that public announcement (iʿlān) of the marriage is obligatory. As for the secret marriage, it belongs to the same category as the marriage of prostitutes.”
▫️Majmūʿ al-Fatāwā, 32/102
Ibn Taymiyyah said:
“Malik holds that public announcement (iʿlān) of the marriage is obligatory. As for the secret marriage, it belongs to the same category as the marriage of prostitutes.”
▫️Majmūʿ al-Fatāwā, 32/102
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Many of the religious brothers and sisters are committing errors when they prepare to get married. They do not care about personalities, compatibilities and character of the intending partners. They are very quick to fall for 'dress code', rather than considering the person wearing the beard, hijab, Khimar and niqab. The appearance is not the same as the person. If we do not want to change men or women like clothes, we must invest in a proper process before marriage. It is a good thing to carry Islamic apparel and appreance, it will make you unique. But when it comes to relationship and marriage, you need to go further to know the person wearing the appearance through a thorough background check.
This is very important to our teaming sisters, religious people can also make terrible mistakes when choosing partners. 'I want to marry him because of his Deen', that is very good, the religious consideration should top the list, but there are other factors. This is because the person you want to marry is not like the Deen, you are getting married to human, so he has his shortcomings, that he wears beards does not say he can't get angry or disappoint you, that is why all marriage seekers must invest in thorough background check.
Our dress code is our logo, but that is not our character, remember, our beloved Prophet (saw) was described with examplary character, so this is what you should look for in a partner, not appearance. I have always maintained that people can be praying five times daily and they're still not practicing Muslims. If you have the opportunity to listen to some horrible stories coming from our ma sha sisters and what they have gone through in the hands of some brothers, you will feel bad, though, these sisters are to be blamed because they fail to differentiate between religiousity and compatibility. Obviously, religious people without character will treat you like a slave.
Considering the true character is paramount, you do not get know it by what people say of themselves, you get to know it through what you are able to find out, character is more than what we notice about a person from the outside, it is who they are even when no one is watching.
We have taught this in the relationship and marriage class, we have to know that when we want to work on a relationship, it is better to focus on ourselves first, this will help us to understand our needs and wants before selecting a partner, unfortunately so many people want to fix and change the other person. Do not just marry beards, Khimar or Niqab, rather marry the person that wears them.
Always pay attention to details.
COPIED
This is very important to our teaming sisters, religious people can also make terrible mistakes when choosing partners. 'I want to marry him because of his Deen', that is very good, the religious consideration should top the list, but there are other factors. This is because the person you want to marry is not like the Deen, you are getting married to human, so he has his shortcomings, that he wears beards does not say he can't get angry or disappoint you, that is why all marriage seekers must invest in thorough background check.
Our dress code is our logo, but that is not our character, remember, our beloved Prophet (saw) was described with examplary character, so this is what you should look for in a partner, not appearance. I have always maintained that people can be praying five times daily and they're still not practicing Muslims. If you have the opportunity to listen to some horrible stories coming from our ma sha sisters and what they have gone through in the hands of some brothers, you will feel bad, though, these sisters are to be blamed because they fail to differentiate between religiousity and compatibility. Obviously, religious people without character will treat you like a slave.
Considering the true character is paramount, you do not get know it by what people say of themselves, you get to know it through what you are able to find out, character is more than what we notice about a person from the outside, it is who they are even when no one is watching.
We have taught this in the relationship and marriage class, we have to know that when we want to work on a relationship, it is better to focus on ourselves first, this will help us to understand our needs and wants before selecting a partner, unfortunately so many people want to fix and change the other person. Do not just marry beards, Khimar or Niqab, rather marry the person that wears them.
Always pay attention to details.
COPIED
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Muslim Marriage Tips
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CHOOSE A RIGHTEOUS HUSBAND, NOT JUST A MAN TO MARRY
O Muslimah, when choosing a husband, do not allow wealth, physical appearance, or social status to become your primary criteria.
Look beyond what the eyes can see. Consider his religion, his character, and his relationship with Allāh.
A righteous husband is not merely someone who promises you a beautiful life; he is someone who helps you obey Allāh, treats you with kindness, fulfills his responsibilities, and strives to become a good father to your children.
The Messenger of Allāh ﷺ said:
(إِذَا أَتَاكُمْ مَنْ تَرْضَوْنَ دِينَهُ وَخُلُقَهُ فَزَوِّجُوهُ)
“If someone whose religious commitment and character please you comes to you (seeking marriage), then marry him off.”
(Jāmiʿ al-Tirmidhī)
Remember, marriage is not only about finding someone to share your happiness with. It is also about choosing someone with whom you can build a household upon Tawhīd, obedience to Allāh, and the teachings of the Qur’ān and Sunnah.
Ask yourself:
Will this man help me become closer to Allāh? Will he lead our family towards righteousness? Will he be a good example for our children?
Do not be blinded by temporary attractions while overlooking the qualities that truly matter.
A righteous husband is a blessing, and a righteous marriage can become a means of raising a generation that worships Allāh upon sound faith.
Choose the man whose religion and character you can trust, not merely the man whose appearance captures your attention.
May Allāh grant our sisters righteous husbands and bless our marriages with love, mercy, faith, and obedience to Him. Āmīn.
#ChoosingARighteousHusband #IslamicMarriage #TarbiyatulAwlād #QurānAndSunnah
— أم رسلان💎 👑
O Muslimah, when choosing a husband, do not allow wealth, physical appearance, or social status to become your primary criteria.
Look beyond what the eyes can see. Consider his religion, his character, and his relationship with Allāh.
A righteous husband is not merely someone who promises you a beautiful life; he is someone who helps you obey Allāh, treats you with kindness, fulfills his responsibilities, and strives to become a good father to your children.
The Messenger of Allāh ﷺ said:
(إِذَا أَتَاكُمْ مَنْ تَرْضَوْنَ دِينَهُ وَخُلُقَهُ فَزَوِّجُوهُ)
“If someone whose religious commitment and character please you comes to you (seeking marriage), then marry him off.”
(Jāmiʿ al-Tirmidhī)
Remember, marriage is not only about finding someone to share your happiness with. It is also about choosing someone with whom you can build a household upon Tawhīd, obedience to Allāh, and the teachings of the Qur’ān and Sunnah.
Ask yourself:
Will this man help me become closer to Allāh? Will he lead our family towards righteousness? Will he be a good example for our children?
Do not be blinded by temporary attractions while overlooking the qualities that truly matter.
A righteous husband is a blessing, and a righteous marriage can become a means of raising a generation that worships Allāh upon sound faith.
Choose the man whose religion and character you can trust, not merely the man whose appearance captures your attention.
May Allāh grant our sisters righteous husbands and bless our marriages with love, mercy, faith, and obedience to Him. Āmīn.
#ChoosingARighteousHusband #IslamicMarriage #TarbiyatulAwlād #QurānAndSunnah
— أم رسلان💎 👑
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all women need strong male leadership throughout their lives. alone, we don’t make good decisions.
obey your father, then obey your husband.
it’s that simple.
obey your father, then obey your husband.
it’s that simple.
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Book of Marriage – Shaykh ibn Uthaymeen – Dr Saleh as Saleh [Audio|En]
https://abdurrahman.org/2014/12/12/book-of-marriage-shaykh-ibn-uthaymeen-dr-saleh-as-saleh/
Book of Marriage – 01- Book of Marriage – Shaykh Ibn Al-‘Uthaymeen – Saleh-As-Saleh
Book of Marriage – 02- Forbidden To Marry a Mahram – One in Ihraam – One in ‘Iddaah- – Saleh-As-Saleh
Book of Marriage – 03- Introduction to Marriage – Its Rank and Importance – Saleh-As-Saleh
Book of Marriage – 04- Seeking Advices Before Marriage – Saleh-As-Saleh
Book of Marriage – 05- Marriage Is Half of the Deen – What Does This Mean – Saleh-As-Saleh
Book of Marriage – 06- Advice Concerning Net Relationships – Meeting Future Spouse on the Net – Saleh-As-Saleh
Book of Marriage – 07- Marriage Status When One Spouse Takes Shahaadah – Saleh-As-Saleh
Book of Marriage – 08- Discussion Following Topic of Spouse’s Shahaadah – Saleh-As-Saleh
https://abdurrahman.org/2014/12/12/book-of-marriage-shaykh-ibn-uthaymeen-dr-saleh-as-saleh/
Book of Marriage – 01- Book of Marriage – Shaykh Ibn Al-‘Uthaymeen – Saleh-As-Saleh
Book of Marriage – 02- Forbidden To Marry a Mahram – One in Ihraam – One in ‘Iddaah- – Saleh-As-Saleh
Book of Marriage – 03- Introduction to Marriage – Its Rank and Importance – Saleh-As-Saleh
Book of Marriage – 04- Seeking Advices Before Marriage – Saleh-As-Saleh
Book of Marriage – 05- Marriage Is Half of the Deen – What Does This Mean – Saleh-As-Saleh
Book of Marriage – 06- Advice Concerning Net Relationships – Meeting Future Spouse on the Net – Saleh-As-Saleh
Book of Marriage – 07- Marriage Status When One Spouse Takes Shahaadah – Saleh-As-Saleh
Book of Marriage – 08- Discussion Following Topic of Spouse’s Shahaadah – Saleh-As-Saleh
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Book of Marriage – Shaykh ibn Uthaymeen – Dr Saleh as Saleh
Book of MarriageShaykh Ibn ‘Uthaymeen · Dr. Saleh as-Saleh (rahimahullah) · English8Lessons2h 41mTotalPlay from the start 1Book of Marriage – Shaykh Ibn Al-‘Utha…
Setting: Wedding Hall. Stage in the centre and draped with soft silks.
Music playing in the background. Six hundred eager people conversing and anticipating the arrival of the bride.
Enter the bride.
A dazzling young beauty, laden with only the finest and softest materials enters the hall. Glittery ornaments sparkling in her hair and diamond earrings hanging low, result in some favourable murmurs and nods of approval amongst the women and leaves others baffled at how she managed to grow double her hair length overnight. She smiles, walks down the aisle, and approaches her husband who carefully hands her an exquisite bouquet of the choicest flowers and takes her seat next to him on centre stage. She holds her head and shoulders as a proper bride should—high and elegant. Some start making their way to the front for family photos, handing over gifts, and congratulating the newlyweds. The slideshow on the wall project family photos over the years and the live DJs engage the audience with some heartwarming tunes to get the mood rolling.
Amidst the clattering of forks and knives enjoying the five-course meal, eyes focus on the young lady who has taken the mike on stage. The bride’s sister says thanks the guests for attending, despite the big derby game, City vs. United, drawing some laughs in the audience, especially amongst the brothers. She says a few words to embarrass the bride, wishes her well on her life ahead and jokingly threatens the groom to make sure he takes care of her (not-so) little sister. She proceeds by adding,
“We pray Allah makes her a wife like Fatimah (R) and him a husband like Ali (R). May they live the lives of the Sahabahs before us and follow in the footsteps of Nabi ﷺ ...”
I tuned out, too busy looking around me. Everyone clapped and happily resumed their meals.
Exeunt. Curtains fall.
Was I the only one who found her speech a little pretentious? Ameen to the beautiful Du’aas and Allah is the sole judge of our hearts, but to make a mockery of the Sunnah like that? I was offended. Couples want to court before marriage; they want to choose a best man for their wedding; brothers want the best cars to take their new bride home; sisters demand a mind-blowing Mahr and want a henna ceremony dancing to Bollywood tunes, an over-night hen party (the list goes on and on and on) and then they expect a marriage like the queen of the women of Jannah? We have functions of rife as a public challenge to Allah, inviting his wrath and then expect His Mercy and blessings in it as if we have a right to it? The audacity! My beloved Nabi’s ﷺ life and his families’ lives aren’t there to flower our events and to tick the box for the more “religious” in the crowd; or to balance all the wrongs in the event by adding a few Islamic lines; or to appease our guilt in carrying out such an event. The life of Nabi ﷺ and the lives of the Sahabah (R) and Sahabiyaat (R) are there as examples for you and I to emulate in EVERY aspect of our lives including marriage. A marriage is a sacred union between two people, and it is our duty to keep it sacred. My beloved Nabi ﷺ said,
اعظم النكاح ايسرها مؤنة
“The most blessed Nikah is the one with the least expenditure.”
When my Nabi ﷺ asked his soon to be son-in-law Ali (R) what he had as Mahr to present to his daughter Fatimah (R), he replied that he only owned a sword, an armour, and a horse.
He sold his armour for four hundred and eighty dirhams which was then presented as a very simple dowry to Fatimah (R). For the wedding feast, Sa’d bin Ubadah (R) offered a sheep and some Ansar offered some corn.
The simplicity and ease of their weddings was what put so much Barakah and happiness in their marriages. Nabi ﷺ instructed,
“Hold a wedding feast, even if only with a sheep.”
Nabi ﷺ himself, gave simple wedding feasts to mark his marriages. Safiyya Bint Shaibah (R) narrates, “The Prophet ﷺ gave a banquet of two Mudds (3.5 kg) of barley on marrying some of his wives.”
Music playing in the background. Six hundred eager people conversing and anticipating the arrival of the bride.
Enter the bride.
A dazzling young beauty, laden with only the finest and softest materials enters the hall. Glittery ornaments sparkling in her hair and diamond earrings hanging low, result in some favourable murmurs and nods of approval amongst the women and leaves others baffled at how she managed to grow double her hair length overnight. She smiles, walks down the aisle, and approaches her husband who carefully hands her an exquisite bouquet of the choicest flowers and takes her seat next to him on centre stage. She holds her head and shoulders as a proper bride should—high and elegant. Some start making their way to the front for family photos, handing over gifts, and congratulating the newlyweds. The slideshow on the wall project family photos over the years and the live DJs engage the audience with some heartwarming tunes to get the mood rolling.
Amidst the clattering of forks and knives enjoying the five-course meal, eyes focus on the young lady who has taken the mike on stage. The bride’s sister says thanks the guests for attending, despite the big derby game, City vs. United, drawing some laughs in the audience, especially amongst the brothers. She says a few words to embarrass the bride, wishes her well on her life ahead and jokingly threatens the groom to make sure he takes care of her (not-so) little sister. She proceeds by adding,
“We pray Allah makes her a wife like Fatimah (R) and him a husband like Ali (R). May they live the lives of the Sahabahs before us and follow in the footsteps of Nabi ﷺ ...”
I tuned out, too busy looking around me. Everyone clapped and happily resumed their meals.
Exeunt. Curtains fall.
Was I the only one who found her speech a little pretentious? Ameen to the beautiful Du’aas and Allah is the sole judge of our hearts, but to make a mockery of the Sunnah like that? I was offended. Couples want to court before marriage; they want to choose a best man for their wedding; brothers want the best cars to take their new bride home; sisters demand a mind-blowing Mahr and want a henna ceremony dancing to Bollywood tunes, an over-night hen party (the list goes on and on and on) and then they expect a marriage like the queen of the women of Jannah? We have functions of rife as a public challenge to Allah, inviting his wrath and then expect His Mercy and blessings in it as if we have a right to it? The audacity! My beloved Nabi’s ﷺ life and his families’ lives aren’t there to flower our events and to tick the box for the more “religious” in the crowd; or to balance all the wrongs in the event by adding a few Islamic lines; or to appease our guilt in carrying out such an event. The life of Nabi ﷺ and the lives of the Sahabah (R) and Sahabiyaat (R) are there as examples for you and I to emulate in EVERY aspect of our lives including marriage. A marriage is a sacred union between two people, and it is our duty to keep it sacred. My beloved Nabi ﷺ said,
اعظم النكاح ايسرها مؤنة
“The most blessed Nikah is the one with the least expenditure.”
When my Nabi ﷺ asked his soon to be son-in-law Ali (R) what he had as Mahr to present to his daughter Fatimah (R), he replied that he only owned a sword, an armour, and a horse.
He sold his armour for four hundred and eighty dirhams which was then presented as a very simple dowry to Fatimah (R). For the wedding feast, Sa’d bin Ubadah (R) offered a sheep and some Ansar offered some corn.
The simplicity and ease of their weddings was what put so much Barakah and happiness in their marriages. Nabi ﷺ instructed,
“Hold a wedding feast, even if only with a sheep.”
Nabi ﷺ himself, gave simple wedding feasts to mark his marriages. Safiyya Bint Shaibah (R) narrates, “The Prophet ﷺ gave a banquet of two Mudds (3.5 kg) of barley on marrying some of his wives.”
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To consummate his ﷺ’s marriage with Safiyyah Bint Huyay (R), Anas (R) narrates, “The Prophet ﷺ ordered for the leather dining sheets to be spread, and then dates, dried yoghurt and butter were provided over it, and that was the Walimah of the Prophet."
If we tried to emulate these Sunnahs of our beloved Nabi ﷺ in our weddings, then we’d see them naturally turn into beautiful marriages In sha Allah
If we tried to emulate these Sunnahs of our beloved Nabi ﷺ in our weddings, then we’d see them naturally turn into beautiful marriages In sha Allah
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Polygany with justice .
Feminist women who hate Polygany, please read this.
Allah ﷻ says in the Holy Qur’an: Made beautiful for mankind is the love of desires for women and offspring, of hoarded heaps of gold and silver, of branded horses, cattle and plantations. [Surah Imran 3:14]
Yes, it's a hatred towards women that makes them automatically assume the worst of their sisters, and even if you put differencs of madhaib aside, the prophet (pbuh) said women and perfume have been made dear to him (Hasan). They have no excuse to be saying all that
Feminist women who hate Polygany, please read this.
Allah ﷻ says in the Holy Qur’an: Made beautiful for mankind is the love of desires for women and offspring, of hoarded heaps of gold and silver, of branded horses, cattle and plantations. [Surah Imran 3:14]
Yes, it's a hatred towards women that makes them automatically assume the worst of their sisters, and even if you put differencs of madhaib aside, the prophet (pbuh) said women and perfume have been made dear to him (Hasan). They have no excuse to be saying all that
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Al-Rūyānī:
"An old man is not a suitable match for a young woman, and an ignorant man is not a suitable match for a woman of knowledge."
[l'anat al-Țalibin - Vol. 3, p. 381]
"An old man is not a suitable match for a young woman, and an ignorant man is not a suitable match for a woman of knowledge."
[l'anat al-Țalibin - Vol. 3, p. 381]
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THE SCHOOL CALLED MARRIAGE
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Marriage is the only school where you get the Certificate before you start.
It's also a school where you will never graduate.
It's a school without a break or a free period.
It's a school where no one is allowed to drop out.
It's a school you will have to attend every day of your life.
It's a school where there is no sick leave or holidays.
It's a miraculous school founded by Allah swt
1.On the foundation of love.
2.The walls are made out of trust.
3.The door made out of acceptance.
4.The windows made out of understanding
5.The furniture made out of blessings
6.The roof made out of faith.
Be reminded that you are just a student not the principal.
Allah swt is the only Principal.
Even in times of storms, don't be unwise and run outside.
Keep in mind that, this school is the safest place to be.
Never go to sleep before completing your assignments for the day.
Never forget the C-word...Communicate.
Communicate with your classmate and with the Principal.
If you find out something in your classmate (spouse) that you do not appreciate,
Remember your classmate is also just a student not a graduate,
Allah swt is not finished with him/her yet.
So take it as a positive challenge and work on it together.
Do not forget to study the Qur’an and Sunnah (these are the main text books of this school).
Start each day with a sacred assembly and end it the same way knowing that Allah swt is watching each and everything that you do.
Sometimes you will feel like not attending classes, yet you have to.
When tempted to quit find courage and continue.
Some tests and exams may be tough but remember,
the Principal - Allah swt knows how much you can bear and yet
it's a school better than any other.
It's one of the best and miraculous schools on earth;
Joy, peace and happiness accompany each lesson of the day and night.
Different subjects are offered in this school, yet love
SHEIKH UMRAN
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Marriage is the only school where you get the Certificate before you start.
It's also a school where you will never graduate.
It's a school without a break or a free period.
It's a school where no one is allowed to drop out.
It's a school you will have to attend every day of your life.
It's a school where there is no sick leave or holidays.
It's a miraculous school founded by Allah swt
1.On the foundation of love.
2.The walls are made out of trust.
3.The door made out of acceptance.
4.The windows made out of understanding
5.The furniture made out of blessings
6.The roof made out of faith.
Be reminded that you are just a student not the principal.
Allah swt is the only Principal.
Even in times of storms, don't be unwise and run outside.
Keep in mind that, this school is the safest place to be.
Never go to sleep before completing your assignments for the day.
Never forget the C-word...Communicate.
Communicate with your classmate and with the Principal.
If you find out something in your classmate (spouse) that you do not appreciate,
Remember your classmate is also just a student not a graduate,
Allah swt is not finished with him/her yet.
So take it as a positive challenge and work on it together.
Do not forget to study the Qur’an and Sunnah (these are the main text books of this school).
Start each day with a sacred assembly and end it the same way knowing that Allah swt is watching each and everything that you do.
Sometimes you will feel like not attending classes, yet you have to.
When tempted to quit find courage and continue.
Some tests and exams may be tough but remember,
the Principal - Allah swt knows how much you can bear and yet
it's a school better than any other.
It's one of the best and miraculous schools on earth;
Joy, peace and happiness accompany each lesson of the day and night.
Different subjects are offered in this school, yet love
SHEIKH UMRAN
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Enough of hoping the world to produce one. Why not be one?
#BeWhatTheWorldNeeds
#BeWhatTheWorldNeeds
The first loneliness in human history was answered not by a friend, but by a spouse. Allah created Hawwa (عليها السلام) for Adam (عليه السلام), establishing the first relationship between husband and wife.
So value your spouse. Don’t take their presence, love, or sacrifices for granted. Treat them with mercy, kindness, and respect, and remember that marriage is a blessing from Allah.
A righteous spouse is not just a life partner, but a companion who can help you grow in Deen and walk towards Jannah together.
So value your spouse. Don’t take their presence, love, or sacrifices for granted. Treat them with mercy, kindness, and respect, and remember that marriage is a blessing from Allah.
A righteous spouse is not just a life partner, but a companion who can help you grow in Deen and walk towards Jannah together.
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(Your need for marriage is like your need for food and drink,
so do not rebel against your innate nature…).
What is meant here is that marriage is a fundamental, innate need, and the soul is drawn to it just as it is drawn to food and drink.
Ibn al-Qayyim al-Jawziyyah mentioned in his book Madarij al-Salikin:
“Marriage is one of the soul’s greatest needs; indeed, it is one of its essential needs.”
so do not rebel against your innate nature…).
What is meant here is that marriage is a fundamental, innate need, and the soul is drawn to it just as it is drawn to food and drink.
Ibn al-Qayyim al-Jawziyyah mentioned in his book Madarij al-Salikin:
“Marriage is one of the soul’s greatest needs; indeed, it is one of its essential needs.”
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Marriage isn’t dying because men have stopped believing in commitment. It’s dying because too many women have turned marriage into a list of demands without understanding the responsibilities that come with it.
Unrealistic expectations from husbands.
Entitlement disguised as empowerment.
Treating compromise as oppression.
Expecting traditional treatment without traditional responsibilities.
Walking away instead of working through problems.
Prioritising validation over loyalty and partnership.
Believing a husband is supposed to adjust to everything while they answer to nothing.
And then we wonder why men are becoming increasingly hesitant about marriage.
Unrealistic expectations from husbands.
Entitlement disguised as empowerment.
Treating compromise as oppression.
Expecting traditional treatment without traditional responsibilities.
Walking away instead of working through problems.
Prioritising validation over loyalty and partnership.
Believing a husband is supposed to adjust to everything while they answer to nothing.
And then we wonder why men are becoming increasingly hesitant about marriage.
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Shaykh al-Albānī (may Allah have mercy on him) said:
"A woman going out of her house wearing perfume and adornment(as against the Sunnah) are among the major sins, even if her husband has given her permission."
Jilbāb al-Mar’ah al-Muslimah (p. 144)
"A woman going out of her house wearing perfume and adornment(as against the Sunnah) are among the major sins, even if her husband has given her permission."
Jilbāb al-Mar’ah al-Muslimah (p. 144)
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A HUSBAND MUST MONITOR THE ACTIVITIES OF HIS WIFE IN THE SOCIAL MEDIA AND AT ALL OTHER NECESSARY PLACES.
One of the things that will protect a married woman from misbehaving in the social media with non-mahram men is, let her husband have access to all what she does there.
The awareness that she could be under watch most of the time, and what she does can be accessed at anytime, will have a cautioning effects on her. It is of human character that whoever has unchecked freedom would definitely misbehaves at some points.
A married woman resisting been under watch by her husband in her activities anywhere is a red flag! It is a clear proof of dishonesty and untrustworthiness. Those who are trustworthy neither frowns nor resist being monitored. Because monitoring them only confirms and reinforces their honesty, truthfulness, trustworthiness, reliability and uprightness.
It is those with intentions and plans to do evils that resist monitoring. May Allah protect us against them.
One of the things that will protect a married woman from misbehaving in the social media with non-mahram men is, let her husband have access to all what she does there.
The awareness that she could be under watch most of the time, and what she does can be accessed at anytime, will have a cautioning effects on her. It is of human character that whoever has unchecked freedom would definitely misbehaves at some points.
A married woman resisting been under watch by her husband in her activities anywhere is a red flag! It is a clear proof of dishonesty and untrustworthiness. Those who are trustworthy neither frowns nor resist being monitored. Because monitoring them only confirms and reinforces their honesty, truthfulness, trustworthiness, reliability and uprightness.
It is those with intentions and plans to do evils that resist monitoring. May Allah protect us against them.
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