So I am increasingly receiving lots and lots of below cases. Many parents come, cry, tell this situation. The unbelievable increase of such cases is scary. So what is the case?
Parents noticing their son/daughter, teenager, or even in mid 20s and even early 30s, loving complete isolation, doing absolutely nothing, hating to be interfered, stay in rooms all day, having no routines what so ever, and bursting and exploding when confronted and even threatening suicide if confronted.
So what’s happening out there?
It’s either porn addiction. And definitely dopamine based life style addiction. An individual full of dope hates being social, hates to be disturbed, hates to leave screen addiction. Such a person becomes a zombie and complete slave of screens. That person’s whole life now revolves around watching porn, chatting to opposite gender (multiple), Netflix, reels, TikTok and every thing giving dope. Their will power is dead. Their motivation is dead. They have no aspirations in life. They don’t want to do anything in life.
Now imagine, having a huge number of such teens/adults and in almost every home. Thats scary.
What’s the solution? Sorry I really don’t have one. This is the biggest addiction of this century. This is the biggest fitnah of this age. It’s so big that once someone is in it, there’s little to no hope. It paralyses the individual completely as he/she is not at all willing to talk to someone, listen to someone, or change something. Yes I may sound very pessimistic, but I know how addictive this lifestyle is. Do you guys have a solution? Comment below if you have one or have some motivational story to tell.
As for parents whose children are still just born, my question to them, are you ready and well equipped to save your child from this fitnah?
Parents noticing their son/daughter, teenager, or even in mid 20s and even early 30s, loving complete isolation, doing absolutely nothing, hating to be interfered, stay in rooms all day, having no routines what so ever, and bursting and exploding when confronted and even threatening suicide if confronted.
So what’s happening out there?
It’s either porn addiction. And definitely dopamine based life style addiction. An individual full of dope hates being social, hates to be disturbed, hates to leave screen addiction. Such a person becomes a zombie and complete slave of screens. That person’s whole life now revolves around watching porn, chatting to opposite gender (multiple), Netflix, reels, TikTok and every thing giving dope. Their will power is dead. Their motivation is dead. They have no aspirations in life. They don’t want to do anything in life.
Now imagine, having a huge number of such teens/adults and in almost every home. Thats scary.
What’s the solution? Sorry I really don’t have one. This is the biggest addiction of this century. This is the biggest fitnah of this age. It’s so big that once someone is in it, there’s little to no hope. It paralyses the individual completely as he/she is not at all willing to talk to someone, listen to someone, or change something. Yes I may sound very pessimistic, but I know how addictive this lifestyle is. Do you guys have a solution? Comment below if you have one or have some motivational story to tell.
As for parents whose children are still just born, my question to them, are you ready and well equipped to save your child from this fitnah?
Quote of the day
Ibnul Qayyim said:
Most of the children only
become corrupt by way of the parents and their neglect of them and their abandonment of teaching them the obligations and Sunan of the Religion.
Tuhfah al-Mawdud 229
Ibnul Qayyim said:
Most of the children only
become corrupt by way of the parents and their neglect of them and their abandonment of teaching them the obligations and Sunan of the Religion.
Tuhfah al-Mawdud 229
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A powerful message i came across today :
"The hardest part about being a Dad is realising you're raising the ones you cant live without ...to live without you"
"The hardest part about being a Dad is realising you're raising the ones you cant live without ...to live without you"
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Attach your sons to the Masjid from a young age
Before they get used to hanging out in the streets with evil people
Before they get used to hanging out in the streets with evil people
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Dear Dad,
I miss you in ways that break me every single day. Sometimes it feels like the world kept moving, but I stayed behind, stuck in the moment you left. I search for you in the stars, in the quiet, in the pieces of my heart that will never feel whole again.
I would give anything for one more hug, one more laugh, one more chance to hear your voice. The silence without you is unbearable. People say time heals, but time has only taught me how to carry the pain, never erase it.
You were more than just my father—you were my strength, my safe place, my home. Now I walk through life with tears that no one sees, carrying a love that will never fade, and a longing that will never end.
I miss you, Dad. Always.
Dear Dad,
I miss you in ways that break me every single day. Sometimes it feels like the world kept moving, but I stayed behind, stuck in the moment you left. I search for you in the stars, in the quiet, in the pieces of my heart that will never feel whole again.
I would give anything for one more hug, one more laugh, one more chance to hear your voice. The silence without you is unbearable. People say time heals, but time has only taught me how to carry the pain, never erase it.
You were more than just my father—you were my strength, my safe place, my home. Now I walk through life with tears that no one sees, carrying a love that will never fade, and a longing that will never end.
I miss you, Dad. Always.
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💕 Parents Don’t Die,
They live with us forever...
People say that when parents die,
the world comes to an end.
The house looks empty.
But I feel that parents live forever
and they stay with us.
It's us who forget them.
The matter of the fact is that
a brother has eyes of his beloved father,
a sister has the pretty face
like the compassionate mother,
a sibling smiles like dad or
a sister cooks like mom.
Parents don't die.
They never leave us.
They live among us.
They live in us.
We are the reflections of our parents.
Despite their physical absence,
they continue to live in us.
When you want to remember parents,
when you want to see them,
when you want to be with them,
simply gather your siblings around you.
You will find the mesmerizing smile
of the mother in one sibling,
the soothing voice of the father in another. You will feel the parents very close to you.
All around you. Deep inside you..
The garden of love that parents cultivate and grow with love, from the time that you are born, with the hard work of their tears and blood; it will continue to bloom,..
unaffected by the cycles of tough weathers of life.. They shelter us in tough times..
But there are times,
when we forget all their hard work and destroy their paradise that they built, with our selfishness, hatred, and opportunistic attitudes.
Parents don't die.
They live with us forever...
(Unknown)
YA Allah grant all our parents a long and healthy life and for those parents who have passed away, May Allah bless them with Jannathol Firdous... Aameen ♥️
They live with us forever...
People say that when parents die,
the world comes to an end.
The house looks empty.
But I feel that parents live forever
and they stay with us.
It's us who forget them.
The matter of the fact is that
a brother has eyes of his beloved father,
a sister has the pretty face
like the compassionate mother,
a sibling smiles like dad or
a sister cooks like mom.
Parents don't die.
They never leave us.
They live among us.
They live in us.
We are the reflections of our parents.
Despite their physical absence,
they continue to live in us.
When you want to remember parents,
when you want to see them,
when you want to be with them,
simply gather your siblings around you.
You will find the mesmerizing smile
of the mother in one sibling,
the soothing voice of the father in another. You will feel the parents very close to you.
All around you. Deep inside you..
The garden of love that parents cultivate and grow with love, from the time that you are born, with the hard work of their tears and blood; it will continue to bloom,..
unaffected by the cycles of tough weathers of life.. They shelter us in tough times..
But there are times,
when we forget all their hard work and destroy their paradise that they built, with our selfishness, hatred, and opportunistic attitudes.
Parents don't die.
They live with us forever...
(Unknown)
YA Allah grant all our parents a long and healthy life and for those parents who have passed away, May Allah bless them with Jannathol Firdous... Aameen ♥️
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HOW GRIEF LEFT THE MAN
WHEN HIS SON DIED
A man’s child passed away, so Sufyan ibn Uyaynah رحمه الله and others gave him condolence, for he was in severe grief. Until Fudail ibn Iyad رحمه الله came and said,
"O you! Do you not see if you and your son were in prison and your son was released before you, would you not then be pleased?" The man replied, "Of course." Fudail said, "Then your son has left the prison of this dunya before you." The grief left the man, and he said, “You have consoled me.”
[Tasliya Ahlul Masaib, 120]
WHEN HIS SON DIED
A man’s child passed away, so Sufyan ibn Uyaynah رحمه الله and others gave him condolence, for he was in severe grief. Until Fudail ibn Iyad رحمه الله came and said,
"O you! Do you not see if you and your son were in prison and your son was released before you, would you not then be pleased?" The man replied, "Of course." Fudail said, "Then your son has left the prison of this dunya before you." The grief left the man, and he said, “You have consoled me.”
[Tasliya Ahlul Masaib, 120]
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Shaykh ibn Uthaymeen رحمه الله said:
“It is from wisdom that a person performs the optional prayers in his home, so his children can see and learn from him, and so the womenfolk can follow his example. Also this is so his house does not become a grave in which there is no prayer prayed therein.”
Sharh Bulūgh al-Marām 3/46 | Shaykh ibn Uthaymeen رحمه الله
Translation: Authentic Quotes
“It is from wisdom that a person performs the optional prayers in his home, so his children can see and learn from him, and so the womenfolk can follow his example. Also this is so his house does not become a grave in which there is no prayer prayed therein.”
Sharh Bulūgh al-Marām 3/46 | Shaykh ibn Uthaymeen رحمه الله
Translation: Authentic Quotes
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Indian parents are infectiously delusional.
They keep telling themselves they sacrificed everything so the children would stay clean.
What I have starkly observed and what they fail to realise is that they actually passed on was the 'unexamined life'. That typical Indian father, who never got time to introspect his own rage produced sons who either explode or disappear.
That stereotypical "bechari mother" who swallowed every wound raised daughters who inherited the same silence and called it inner strength.
Indian #GenZs can name the pattern now and still feel trapped inside it. They smell the rot their parents spent decades hiding behind duty and adjustment. And somehow it pains the parents that they are being called out.
Unfaced shadows do not stay in one generation. In this country they travel as family tradition and are inherited with pride. That's the level of delusion, we survive daily.
They keep telling themselves they sacrificed everything so the children would stay clean.
What I have starkly observed and what they fail to realise is that they actually passed on was the 'unexamined life'. That typical Indian father, who never got time to introspect his own rage produced sons who either explode or disappear.
That stereotypical "bechari mother" who swallowed every wound raised daughters who inherited the same silence and called it inner strength.
Indian #GenZs can name the pattern now and still feel trapped inside it. They smell the rot their parents spent decades hiding behind duty and adjustment. And somehow it pains the parents that they are being called out.
Unfaced shadows do not stay in one generation. In this country they travel as family tradition and are inherited with pride. That's the level of delusion, we survive daily.
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𝗔𝗿𝗮𝗯𝗶𝗰 𝗣𝗿𝗼𝘃𝗲𝗿𝗯𝘀 & 𝗜𝗱𝗶𝗼𝗺𝘀 :
من شبَّ على شيء شابَ عليه
Whoever grows up upon something, will grow old upon it.
Explanation: A person’s early upbringing and habits strongly shape their character and behaviour for life. Whatever they become accustomed to in their youth is likely to remain with them into adulthood and old age.
This proverb is often used as advice to instill good morals, manners, and habits in children from a young age, because changing deeply ingrained habits later is much harder.
Sheikh ʿUthaymīn (may Allāh have mercy on him) said:
“Children should be given great care in being raised upon the manners and etiquette of Islam. In fact, we may even say it is obligatory to raise them upon the morals and manners of Islam, for if a child grows up accustomed to something, he will remain upon it. It is difficult, once he becomes older, to instill in him something he was unfamiliar with from a young age.”
[Fatḥ Dhil-Jalāl wal-Ikrām, vol. 5, p. 40]
من شبَّ على شيء شابَ عليه
Whoever grows up upon something, will grow old upon it.
Explanation: A person’s early upbringing and habits strongly shape their character and behaviour for life. Whatever they become accustomed to in their youth is likely to remain with them into adulthood and old age.
This proverb is often used as advice to instill good morals, manners, and habits in children from a young age, because changing deeply ingrained habits later is much harder.
Sheikh ʿUthaymīn (may Allāh have mercy on him) said:
“Children should be given great care in being raised upon the manners and etiquette of Islam. In fact, we may even say it is obligatory to raise them upon the morals and manners of Islam, for if a child grows up accustomed to something, he will remain upon it. It is difficult, once he becomes older, to instill in him something he was unfamiliar with from a young age.”
[Fatḥ Dhil-Jalāl wal-Ikrām, vol. 5, p. 40]
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