If your child shows no interest in a particular field of study, don’t force them into it.
Ibn al-Qayyim (rahimahullah) advises parents approximately 700 years ago to observe their child's aptitudes and interests, and not force them into a particular field if they have no inclination towards it. Instead, guide them towards areas where they show a natural talent or enthusiasm, while ensuring they receive essential religious education. This approach will help them excel and make a positive contribution, whether in academics, skills like horsemanship, or useful handicrafts. (Tuhfat al-Mawdood fi Ahkaam al-Mawlood (p. 243, 244))
Imam Ibn Hazm said 1000 years ago:
من مال بطبعه إلى علم ما وإن كان أدنى من غيره فلا يشغلها بسواه فيكون كغارس النارجيل بالأندلس وكغارس الزيتون بالهند وكل ذلك لا ينجب
‘𝗜𝗳 𝘀𝗼𝗺𝗲𝗼𝗻𝗲 𝗵𝗮𝘀 𝗮 𝗽𝗮𝗿𝘁𝗶𝗰𝘂𝗹𝗮𝗿 𝗶𝗻𝘁𝗲𝗿𝗲𝘀𝘁 𝗶𝗻 𝘀𝗼𝗺𝗲 𝗳𝗶𝗲𝗹𝗱 - 𝗲𝘃𝗲𝗻 𝗶𝗳 𝗶𝘁’𝘀 𝗮𝗻 𝗶𝗻𝗳𝗲𝗿𝗶𝗼𝗿 𝘀𝗰𝗶𝗲𝗻𝗰𝗲 𝘁𝗼 𝘀𝗼𝗺𝗲 𝗼𝘁𝗵𝗲𝗿𝘀 - 𝗵𝗲 𝘀𝗵𝗼𝘂𝗹𝗱 𝗳𝗼𝗰𝘂𝘀 𝗼𝗻 𝘁𝗵𝗮𝘁 𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝗻𝗼𝘁 𝗱𝗶𝘃𝗲𝗿𝘁 𝗵𝗶𝘀 𝗲𝗳𝗳𝗼𝗿𝘁𝘀 𝘁𝗼𝘄𝗮𝗿𝗱𝘀 𝗼𝘁𝗵𝗲𝗿 𝘀𝗰𝗶𝗲𝗻𝗰𝗲𝘀 [𝘄𝗵𝗶𝗰𝗵 𝘁𝗵𝗲𝘆 𝗮𝗿𝗲𝗻’𝘁 𝗶𝗻𝘁𝗲𝗿𝗲𝘀𝘁𝗲𝗱 𝗶𝗻].
𝗢𝘁𝗵𝗲𝗿𝘄𝗶𝘀𝗲, 𝗶𝘁 𝘄𝗼𝘂𝗹𝗱 𝗯𝗲 𝗹𝗶𝗸𝗲 𝘁𝗿𝘆𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝘁𝗼 𝗴𝗿𝗼𝘄 𝗰𝗼𝗰𝗼𝗻𝘂𝘁𝘀 𝗵𝗲𝗿𝗲 𝗶𝗻 𝗔𝗻𝗱𝗮𝗹𝘂𝘀 [𝗦𝗽𝗮𝗶𝗻] 𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝗢𝗹𝗶𝘃𝗲𝘀 𝗶𝗻 𝗜𝗻𝗱𝗶𝗮!
𝗧𝗵𝗲𝘀𝗲 𝗳𝘂𝘁𝗶𝗹𝗲 𝗮𝘁𝘁𝗲𝗺𝗽𝘁𝘀 𝘄𝗶𝗹𝗹 𝗻𝗼𝘁 𝗯𝗲 𝗳𝗿𝘂𝗶𝘁𝗳𝘂𝗹.’
[‘Al-Akhlaaq wal-Siyar’, 1/22 credits: Mohmand Afghan]
Ibn al-Qayyim (rahimahullah) advises parents approximately 700 years ago to observe their child's aptitudes and interests, and not force them into a particular field if they have no inclination towards it. Instead, guide them towards areas where they show a natural talent or enthusiasm, while ensuring they receive essential religious education. This approach will help them excel and make a positive contribution, whether in academics, skills like horsemanship, or useful handicrafts. (Tuhfat al-Mawdood fi Ahkaam al-Mawlood (p. 243, 244))
Imam Ibn Hazm said 1000 years ago:
من مال بطبعه إلى علم ما وإن كان أدنى من غيره فلا يشغلها بسواه فيكون كغارس النارجيل بالأندلس وكغارس الزيتون بالهند وكل ذلك لا ينجب
‘𝗜𝗳 𝘀𝗼𝗺𝗲𝗼𝗻𝗲 𝗵𝗮𝘀 𝗮 𝗽𝗮𝗿𝘁𝗶𝗰𝘂𝗹𝗮𝗿 𝗶𝗻𝘁𝗲𝗿𝗲𝘀𝘁 𝗶𝗻 𝘀𝗼𝗺𝗲 𝗳𝗶𝗲𝗹𝗱 - 𝗲𝘃𝗲𝗻 𝗶𝗳 𝗶𝘁’𝘀 𝗮𝗻 𝗶𝗻𝗳𝗲𝗿𝗶𝗼𝗿 𝘀𝗰𝗶𝗲𝗻𝗰𝗲 𝘁𝗼 𝘀𝗼𝗺𝗲 𝗼𝘁𝗵𝗲𝗿𝘀 - 𝗵𝗲 𝘀𝗵𝗼𝘂𝗹𝗱 𝗳𝗼𝗰𝘂𝘀 𝗼𝗻 𝘁𝗵𝗮𝘁 𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝗻𝗼𝘁 𝗱𝗶𝘃𝗲𝗿𝘁 𝗵𝗶𝘀 𝗲𝗳𝗳𝗼𝗿𝘁𝘀 𝘁𝗼𝘄𝗮𝗿𝗱𝘀 𝗼𝘁𝗵𝗲𝗿 𝘀𝗰𝗶𝗲𝗻𝗰𝗲𝘀 [𝘄𝗵𝗶𝗰𝗵 𝘁𝗵𝗲𝘆 𝗮𝗿𝗲𝗻’𝘁 𝗶𝗻𝘁𝗲𝗿𝗲𝘀𝘁𝗲𝗱 𝗶𝗻].
𝗢𝘁𝗵𝗲𝗿𝘄𝗶𝘀𝗲, 𝗶𝘁 𝘄𝗼𝘂𝗹𝗱 𝗯𝗲 𝗹𝗶𝗸𝗲 𝘁𝗿𝘆𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝘁𝗼 𝗴𝗿𝗼𝘄 𝗰𝗼𝗰𝗼𝗻𝘂𝘁𝘀 𝗵𝗲𝗿𝗲 𝗶𝗻 𝗔𝗻𝗱𝗮𝗹𝘂𝘀 [𝗦𝗽𝗮𝗶𝗻] 𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝗢𝗹𝗶𝘃𝗲𝘀 𝗶𝗻 𝗜𝗻𝗱𝗶𝗮!
𝗧𝗵𝗲𝘀𝗲 𝗳𝘂𝘁𝗶𝗹𝗲 𝗮𝘁𝘁𝗲𝗺𝗽𝘁𝘀 𝘄𝗶𝗹𝗹 𝗻𝗼𝘁 𝗯𝗲 𝗳𝗿𝘂𝗶𝘁𝗳𝘂𝗹.’
[‘Al-Akhlaaq wal-Siyar’, 1/22 credits: Mohmand Afghan]
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Forwarded from Muslim Health Tips
Mix Rosemary with Cloves: A Secret Nobody Will Ever Tell You – Thank Me Later
A whisper from the past, wrapped in the scent of home
There’s something about the scent of rosemary that instantly brings me back to my childhood—the kind of memory wrapped in the sound of a wooden spoon stirring a pot and the warmth of a kitchen filled with laughter. My mother would hum old folk songs while gently bundling rosemary with cloves, her fingers always sure, always gentle.
She never wrote her recipes down. Her secrets lived in her hands, in the way she touched the herbs, and in the stories she passed on during quiet afternoons. One of her favorite natural blends—one she called her “little helper”—was a mix of rosemary and cloves. Not something you’d find on a pharmacy shelf, but something that lived in the cupboard, waiting for its moment.
And now, I share it with you. A simple, traditional tip that has been quietly comforting generations before us.
🌿 Why Rosemary and Cloves Were Always in Grandma’s Kitchen
Before the age of sprays, pills, and machines, people trusted what they could grow or gather. Rosemary and cloves were staples in many old households—not only for cooking, but for supporting everyday health and creating a sense of well-being. Here are some of the ways this combination has been treasured:
Supports mental clarity: The scent of rosemary is often said to help with focus and alertness, especially during long afternoons or quiet study.
Believed to ease tension: In folk traditions, the warm aroma of cloves paired with rosemary is thought to help the body and mind feel more balanced.
Freshens the air naturally: This duo is known for creating a clean, herbal scent that helps replace artificial air fresheners.
May help deter bugs: Just like your grandmother’s lemon and cloves, this mixture is often used to help keep unwanted little visitors away.
Used to support scalp and hair vitality: Some traditional hair rinses include rosemary and cloves, believed to help nour
A whisper from the past, wrapped in the scent of home
There’s something about the scent of rosemary that instantly brings me back to my childhood—the kind of memory wrapped in the sound of a wooden spoon stirring a pot and the warmth of a kitchen filled with laughter. My mother would hum old folk songs while gently bundling rosemary with cloves, her fingers always sure, always gentle.
She never wrote her recipes down. Her secrets lived in her hands, in the way she touched the herbs, and in the stories she passed on during quiet afternoons. One of her favorite natural blends—one she called her “little helper”—was a mix of rosemary and cloves. Not something you’d find on a pharmacy shelf, but something that lived in the cupboard, waiting for its moment.
And now, I share it with you. A simple, traditional tip that has been quietly comforting generations before us.
🌿 Why Rosemary and Cloves Were Always in Grandma’s Kitchen
Before the age of sprays, pills, and machines, people trusted what they could grow or gather. Rosemary and cloves were staples in many old households—not only for cooking, but for supporting everyday health and creating a sense of well-being. Here are some of the ways this combination has been treasured:
Supports mental clarity: The scent of rosemary is often said to help with focus and alertness, especially during long afternoons or quiet study.
Believed to ease tension: In folk traditions, the warm aroma of cloves paired with rosemary is thought to help the body and mind feel more balanced.
Freshens the air naturally: This duo is known for creating a clean, herbal scent that helps replace artificial air fresheners.
May help deter bugs: Just like your grandmother’s lemon and cloves, this mixture is often used to help keep unwanted little visitors away.
Used to support scalp and hair vitality: Some traditional hair rinses include rosemary and cloves, believed to help nour
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Forwarded from Signs B4 Day of Judgement
The Prophet Muhammad ﷺ said:
“A time will come when the nations will call one another against you just as people invite others to share a dish.”
The companions asked: “Will that be because we are few in number?”
He ﷺ replied:
“No, you will be many on that day, but you will be like the foam of the flood. Allah will remove the fear of you from the hearts of your enemies and will cast weakness into your hearts.”
They asked: “What is this weakness?”
He ﷺ said: “Love of the world (dunya) and hatred of death.”
(Sunan Abi Dawud 4297 — Hasan)
This is not just a prophecy, it is a mirror.
Foam looks large, but it has no weight, no direction, no strength. It moves wherever the current takes it.
And today, we see:
• A huge Ummah, yet divided
• Strength in numbers, but weakness in unity
• Knowledge available, but little action
• Attachment to dunya, but negligence of akhirah
The real problem is not external enemies, it is the internal condition.
Allah says in the Qur’an:
“Indeed, Allah will not change the condition of a people until they change what is in themselves.” (13:11)
This hadith is not meant to create fear, it is meant to awaken responsibility.
The solution is clear:
• Return to sincere faith (Iman)
• Hold firmly to unity (Ummah)
• Detach from excessive love of dunya
• Revive the Sunnah in our lives
Because real strength is not in numbers… it is in obedience to Allah and firmness upon
“A time will come when the nations will call one another against you just as people invite others to share a dish.”
The companions asked: “Will that be because we are few in number?”
He ﷺ replied:
“No, you will be many on that day, but you will be like the foam of the flood. Allah will remove the fear of you from the hearts of your enemies and will cast weakness into your hearts.”
They asked: “What is this weakness?”
He ﷺ said: “Love of the world (dunya) and hatred of death.”
(Sunan Abi Dawud 4297 — Hasan)
This is not just a prophecy, it is a mirror.
Foam looks large, but it has no weight, no direction, no strength. It moves wherever the current takes it.
And today, we see:
• A huge Ummah, yet divided
• Strength in numbers, but weakness in unity
• Knowledge available, but little action
• Attachment to dunya, but negligence of akhirah
The real problem is not external enemies, it is the internal condition.
Allah says in the Qur’an:
“Indeed, Allah will not change the condition of a people until they change what is in themselves.” (13:11)
This hadith is not meant to create fear, it is meant to awaken responsibility.
The solution is clear:
• Return to sincere faith (Iman)
• Hold firmly to unity (Ummah)
• Detach from excessive love of dunya
• Revive the Sunnah in our lives
Because real strength is not in numbers… it is in obedience to Allah and firmness upon
*أَبــــي وأُمّــــي* 👑 𝗠𝘆 𝗙𝗮𝘁𝗵𝗲𝗿 *&* 𝗠𝗼𝘁𝗵𝗲𝗿
_Take a moment and look at your father’s face, and the lines on your mother’s face… and realize that those pure faces have changed only through loving and raising you. Pause… look at their hair turning white...and know that they aged while giving you their best._
Gently hold their hands, feel the veins within them… those same hands once held you, protected you, fed you, wiped your tears, stayed awake for you, struggled and worked tirelessly…so that you could live with ease.
Sit beside them and notice the medicines they take… one for blood pressure, one for sugar, another for pain, another for cholesterol… until you realize how much they have endured for you, for your youth, your dreams, and even for the joy of your children.
When you see their backs bend and steps slow... know that the chance to earn Jannah through them is slipping, hold on tight and cherish them.
_Being dutiful to parents does not end. It continues in their lifetime and even after their death, through your duʿāʾ, your charity on their behalf, and every good you do for them._
*وَقَضَىٰ رَبُّكَ أَلَّا تَعْبُدُوا إِلَّا إِيَّاهُ وَبِالْوَالِدَيْنِ إِحْسَانًا ۚ إِمَّا يَبْلُغَنَّ عِندَكَ الْكِبَرَ أَحَدُهُمَا أَوْ كِلَاهُمَا فَلَا تَقُل لَّهُمَا أُفٍّ وَلَا تَنْهَرْهُمَا وَقُل لَّهُمَا قَوْلًا كَرِيمًا*
_*“And your Lord has decreed that you worship none but Him, and that you be kind to parents. Whether one or both of them reach old age with you, do not even say “uff” to them, nor repel them, but speak to them a noble word."*_
[سورة الإسراء ١٧:٢٣]
*رب ارحـمهـما كـما ربيـانـي صـغـيرا!*
_My Lord, have mercy upon them as they raised me when I was small. 🌸_
_Take a moment and look at your father’s face, and the lines on your mother’s face… and realize that those pure faces have changed only through loving and raising you. Pause… look at their hair turning white...and know that they aged while giving you their best._
Gently hold their hands, feel the veins within them… those same hands once held you, protected you, fed you, wiped your tears, stayed awake for you, struggled and worked tirelessly…so that you could live with ease.
Sit beside them and notice the medicines they take… one for blood pressure, one for sugar, another for pain, another for cholesterol… until you realize how much they have endured for you, for your youth, your dreams, and even for the joy of your children.
When you see their backs bend and steps slow... know that the chance to earn Jannah through them is slipping, hold on tight and cherish them.
_Being dutiful to parents does not end. It continues in their lifetime and even after their death, through your duʿāʾ, your charity on their behalf, and every good you do for them._
Nothing is greater after Tawḥīd than being good to your parents.*وَقَضَىٰ رَبُّكَ أَلَّا تَعْبُدُوا إِلَّا إِيَّاهُ وَبِالْوَالِدَيْنِ إِحْسَانًا ۚ إِمَّا يَبْلُغَنَّ عِندَكَ الْكِبَرَ أَحَدُهُمَا أَوْ كِلَاهُمَا فَلَا تَقُل لَّهُمَا أُفٍّ وَلَا تَنْهَرْهُمَا وَقُل لَّهُمَا قَوْلًا كَرِيمًا*
_*“And your Lord has decreed that you worship none but Him, and that you be kind to parents. Whether one or both of them reach old age with you, do not even say “uff” to them, nor repel them, but speak to them a noble word."*_
[سورة الإسراء ١٧:٢٣]
*رب ارحـمهـما كـما ربيـانـي صـغـيرا!*
_My Lord, have mercy upon them as they raised me when I was small. 🌸_
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Forwarded from Muslim Health Tips
♀️ WOMEN LIFE CHANGES BY AGE 💛
♀️ خواتین کی زندگی میں عمر کے ساتھ تبدیلیاں 💛
No one prepares women enough for how much the body changes with age — and that silence often leaves many feeling confused or “not like themselves.”
عورتوں کو اکثر یہ نہیں بتایا جاتا کہ عمر کے ساتھ جسم میں کتنی تبدیلیاں آتی ہیں — اور یہی خاموشی انہیں الجھن اور بے چینی میں ڈال دیتی ہے۔
But here’s the truth: these changes are natural, not a weakness.
لیکن حقیقت یہ ہے: یہ تبدیلیاں قدرتی ہیں، کمزوری نہیں۔
🧕 As women move through phases like Perimenopause and Menopause, the body gradually shifts:
👱♀️ جب خواتین پیری مینوپاز (Perimenopause) اور مینوپاز (Menopause) جیسے مراحل سے گزرتی ہیں، تو جسم میں بتدریج تبدیلیاں آتی ہیں:
🔸 Age 35–40
Hormonal changes quietly begin ♀️
ہارمونی تبدیلیاں خاموشی سے شروع ہوتی ہیں
🔸 Age 40–44
Sleep problems may start 😴
نیند کے مسائل شروع ہو سکتے ہیں
🔸 Age 45–47
Early symptoms (fatigue, mood swings)
ابتدائی علامات (تھکن، موڈ میں تبدیلی)
🔸 Age 47–49
Periods become irregular 📅
ماہواری بے قاعدہ ہو جاتی ہے
🔸 Age 48–50
Hot flashes & night sweats 🌡️
گرمی کے جھٹکے اور رات کو پسینہ
🔸 Age 50–51
Mood swings become common 💭
موڈ سوئنگ عام ہو جاتے ہیں
🔸 Age 52–53
1 year without a period = Menopause ♀️
ایک سال تک ماہواری نہ آئے = مینوپاز
🔸 Age 53–55
Symptoms gradually lessen
علامات آہستہ آہستہ کم ہو جاتی ہیں
🔸 Age 55–57
Heart health needs attention ❤️
دل کی صحت پر توجہ ضروری
🔸 Age 57–60
Bone loss risk increases 🦴
ہڈیوں کی کمزوری کا خطرہ بڑھتا ہے
🔸 Age 60–65
Vaginal & urinary discomfort
ویجائنل اور پیشاب سے متعلق مسائل
⚠️ Common symptoms:
عام علامات:
• Sleep disturbance 😴 — نیند کی خرابی
• Fatigue & brain fog 😵💫 — تھکن اور دماغی دھند
• Irregular cycles 📅 — بے قاعدہ ماہواری
• Mood swings 💭 — موڈ میں اتار چڑھاؤ
• Bone & heart changes 🦴❤️ — ہڈیوں اور دل کی تبدیلیاں
✨ This phase needs awareness, not shame.
یہ مرحلہ شرمندگی نہیں بلکہ آگاہی مانگتا ہے۔
You’re not weak. You’re evolving.
آپ کمزور نہیں — آپ بدل رہی ہیں۔
💬 Save & share with a woman who needs this reminder.
اس پوسٹ کو محفوظ کریں اور کسی ایسی خاتون کے ساتھ شیئر کریں جسے اس کی ضرورت ہو۔
♀️ خواتین کی زندگی میں عمر کے ساتھ تبدیلیاں 💛
No one prepares women enough for how much the body changes with age — and that silence often leaves many feeling confused or “not like themselves.”
عورتوں کو اکثر یہ نہیں بتایا جاتا کہ عمر کے ساتھ جسم میں کتنی تبدیلیاں آتی ہیں — اور یہی خاموشی انہیں الجھن اور بے چینی میں ڈال دیتی ہے۔
But here’s the truth: these changes are natural, not a weakness.
لیکن حقیقت یہ ہے: یہ تبدیلیاں قدرتی ہیں، کمزوری نہیں۔
🧕 As women move through phases like Perimenopause and Menopause, the body gradually shifts:
👱♀️ جب خواتین پیری مینوپاز (Perimenopause) اور مینوپاز (Menopause) جیسے مراحل سے گزرتی ہیں، تو جسم میں بتدریج تبدیلیاں آتی ہیں:
🔸 Age 35–40
Hormonal changes quietly begin ♀️
ہارمونی تبدیلیاں خاموشی سے شروع ہوتی ہیں
🔸 Age 40–44
Sleep problems may start 😴
نیند کے مسائل شروع ہو سکتے ہیں
🔸 Age 45–47
Early symptoms (fatigue, mood swings)
ابتدائی علامات (تھکن، موڈ میں تبدیلی)
🔸 Age 47–49
Periods become irregular 📅
ماہواری بے قاعدہ ہو جاتی ہے
🔸 Age 48–50
Hot flashes & night sweats 🌡️
گرمی کے جھٹکے اور رات کو پسینہ
🔸 Age 50–51
Mood swings become common 💭
موڈ سوئنگ عام ہو جاتے ہیں
🔸 Age 52–53
1 year without a period = Menopause ♀️
ایک سال تک ماہواری نہ آئے = مینوپاز
🔸 Age 53–55
Symptoms gradually lessen
علامات آہستہ آہستہ کم ہو جاتی ہیں
🔸 Age 55–57
Heart health needs attention ❤️
دل کی صحت پر توجہ ضروری
🔸 Age 57–60
Bone loss risk increases 🦴
ہڈیوں کی کمزوری کا خطرہ بڑھتا ہے
🔸 Age 60–65
Vaginal & urinary discomfort
ویجائنل اور پیشاب سے متعلق مسائل
⚠️ Common symptoms:
عام علامات:
• Sleep disturbance 😴 — نیند کی خرابی
• Fatigue & brain fog 😵💫 — تھکن اور دماغی دھند
• Irregular cycles 📅 — بے قاعدہ ماہواری
• Mood swings 💭 — موڈ میں اتار چڑھاؤ
• Bone & heart changes 🦴❤️ — ہڈیوں اور دل کی تبدیلیاں
✨ This phase needs awareness, not shame.
یہ مرحلہ شرمندگی نہیں بلکہ آگاہی مانگتا ہے۔
You’re not weak. You’re evolving.
آپ کمزور نہیں — آپ بدل رہی ہیں۔
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اس پوسٹ کو محفوظ کریں اور کسی ایسی خاتون کے ساتھ شیئر کریں جسے اس کی ضرورت ہو۔
Forwarded from Abu Zakariyya Ahmed Al-Hudaydi
In this fleeting life, we strive in many directions — some attempts crowned with success, others ending in failure. At times we are content, submitting to the decree of Allah, knowing that success and failure alike are written. Yet one sorrow lingers in the heart: the sadness of our parents when they see us stumble. Their eyes that once glowed with joy at our first steps now dim when our steps falter in the path of life.
It is reported in Tārīkh al-Khaṭīb that Imām Abū Ḥanīfah — may Allah have mercy on him — once refused the appointment to judge, and for this he was beaten. On one occasion he wept, and when released he said: “The grief of my mother was heavier upon me than the beating itself.” Such is the weight of a parent’s sorrow, heavier than pain, harsher than blows, and more piercing than failure itself.
So strive, my dear brother and sister, never to burden your parents with your sadness. Conceal your stumbles and hardships, and do not let your struggles become a cause for their grief or worry. When you are in their presence, let your face shine with smiles, your words flow with gentleness, and your company bring them peace — even if pain lingers silently in your own heart. For this, indeed, is from the greatest forms of dutifulness and righteousness towards one’s parents.
It is reported in Tārīkh al-Khaṭīb that Imām Abū Ḥanīfah — may Allah have mercy on him — once refused the appointment to judge, and for this he was beaten. On one occasion he wept, and when released he said: “The grief of my mother was heavier upon me than the beating itself.” Such is the weight of a parent’s sorrow, heavier than pain, harsher than blows, and more piercing than failure itself.
So strive, my dear brother and sister, never to burden your parents with your sadness. Conceal your stumbles and hardships, and do not let your struggles become a cause for their grief or worry. When you are in their presence, let your face shine with smiles, your words flow with gentleness, and your company bring them peace — even if pain lingers silently in your own heart. For this, indeed, is from the greatest forms of dutifulness and righteousness towards one’s parents.
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Forwarded from ســفيـنة الصـابريـن
Do not burden your parents with your disobedience.
A single tear that falls from the eyes of your mother or father can bring darkness into your life in ways you may never understand.
Be a source of comfort to them… not a cause of their pain.🍂
A single tear that falls from the eyes of your mother or father can bring darkness into your life in ways you may never understand.
Be a source of comfort to them… not a cause of their pain.🍂
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Forwarded from غيث
Ibn Qudamah رحمه الله said:
“A child is a trust in the care of his parents and his heart is a raw jewel capable of taking any shape. If he is raised upon goodness, he will grow with it and his parents and his educator will share in his reward. But if he is raised upon evil, it will cling to him and the burden will fall upon the guardian’s neck. Therefore, he must be protected, educated and disciplined, taught the virtues of good character, kept from bad companions, not indulged in luxury and not made to love the ways of comfort and ease.”
مختصر منهاج القاصدين 159
“A child is a trust in the care of his parents and his heart is a raw jewel capable of taking any shape. If he is raised upon goodness, he will grow with it and his parents and his educator will share in his reward. But if he is raised upon evil, it will cling to him and the burden will fall upon the guardian’s neck. Therefore, he must be protected, educated and disciplined, taught the virtues of good character, kept from bad companions, not indulged in luxury and not made to love the ways of comfort and ease.”
مختصر منهاج القاصدين 159
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_One day your parents will become your children. Not in age, but in need._
_There will come a time when they forget things you just told them. When they move slower, ask the same question twice, and need help with what used to be easy._
_Don't see it as a burden._
_See it as debt of love being paid back._
*Call them more*📱
*Visit them more*💜
*Speak softer while you still can. Because one day the phone will stop ringing.*
_There will come a time when they forget things you just told them. When they move slower, ask the same question twice, and need help with what used to be easy._
_Don't see it as a burden._
_See it as debt of love being paid back._
*Call them more*📱
*Visit them more*💜
*Speak softer while you still can. Because one day the phone will stop ringing.*
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Forwarded from Muslim Marriage Tips
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Forwarded from ســفيـنة الصـابريـن
الأم مـدرســة
The mother is a school, if you prepare her well, you prepare a nation of noble roots.
And the greatest testimony a woman can attain in her entire life is that it is said about her:
Behind every great man is a woman who raised him.
The mother is a school, if you prepare her well, you prepare a nation of noble roots.
And the greatest testimony a woman can attain in her entire life is that it is said about her:
“A mother of righteous children.” 🪻✨
Behind every great man is a woman who raised him.
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Parents are not just family they are a test of your iman.
Allah placed kindness to them right after His worship and the scholars linked honoring them to the strength of faith
Speak gently be patient lower your wing to them.
Allah placed kindness to them right after His worship and the scholars linked honoring them to the strength of faith
Speak gently be patient lower your wing to them.
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Forwarded from ســفيـنة الصـابريـن
Being dutiful to your parents is not a duty to be shared. It is an honor to compete for.
Not “your turn” and “my turn”, but who will be quicker to serve, who will speak more gently, who will earn a smile… or a du‘ā from them.
Because every moment with them is a door and every act of kindness brings you closer to Jannah. So rush to them before you are forced to wish for one more chance.
May Allah make us among those who honor their parents with sincerity. 🍃✨️
Not “your turn” and “my turn”, but who will be quicker to serve, who will speak more gently, who will earn a smile… or a du‘ā from them.
Because every moment with them is a door and every act of kindness brings you closer to Jannah. So rush to them before you are forced to wish for one more chance.
May Allah make us among those who honor their parents with sincerity. 🍃✨️
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“I will not force my children...”
Someone said: “I will not force my children to pray, nor will I impose the hijab upon them. Acts of worship must come from conviction, sincerity for the sake of Allah, and love for Him, and without it, it is unnecessary.”
We reply:
But when it comes to their worldly lives, you will wake them early for school, make them study, complete their assignments, and even give them medicine despite their dislike.
These are temporary matters, and you strive for them so they may succeed in this life.
As for striving to save them from the punishment of the Hereafter and guiding them toward eternal success, does that not also require care, effort, and a sense of responsibility?
Someone said: “I will not force my children to pray, nor will I impose the hijab upon them. Acts of worship must come from conviction, sincerity for the sake of Allah, and love for Him, and without it, it is unnecessary.”
We reply:
But when it comes to their worldly lives, you will wake them early for school, make them study, complete their assignments, and even give them medicine despite their dislike.
These are temporary matters, and you strive for them so they may succeed in this life.
As for striving to save them from the punishment of the Hereafter and guiding them toward eternal success, does that not also require care, effort, and a sense of responsibility?
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Kindness to Parents & Jihād
Al-Hassan Al-Basrī رحمه اللّٰه:
"Nothing in voluntary acts of worship compares to kindness to one's parents, not Hajj, nor Jihād."
[Adab Al-Hasan Al-Basri Dar An-Nawadir (p133) Trans: Abu Maryam]
Al-Hassan Al-Basrī رحمه اللّٰه:
"Nothing in voluntary acts of worship compares to kindness to one's parents, not Hajj, nor Jihād."
[Adab Al-Hasan Al-Basri Dar An-Nawadir (p133) Trans: Abu Maryam]
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Learn Manners before taking Knowledge
Malik ibn Anas, may Allah have mercy on him, said:
تَعَلَّمِ الأَدَبَ قَبْلَ أَنْ تَتَعَلَّمَ الْعِلْمَ
Learn good manners before seeking knowledge.
Source: Gharāʼib Mālik ibn Anas 45
And Malik said:
كانت أمي تعممني وتقول لي اذهب إلى ربيعة فتعلم من أدبه قبل علمه
My mother would dress me up and say to me: Go to Sheikh Rabi’ah and learn from his manners before his knowledge.
Source: Tartīb al-Madārik 1/130
Ibn Al-Mubarak, may Allah have mercy on him, said to the people of hadīth:
أنتم إِلَى قَلِيلٍ مِنَ الْأَدَبِ أَحْوَجُ منكم إِلَى كَثِيرٍ مِنَ الْعِلْمِ
You are in greater need of a little manners than a great deal of knowledge.
Source: Tārīkh Dimashq 32918
And Ibn Al-Mubarak said:
طلبت الأدب ثلاثين سنة وطلبت العلم عشرين سنة وكانوا يطلبون الأدب ثم العلم
I sought manners for thirty years and I sought knowledge for twenty years. The righteous predecessors would seek manners and then seek knowledge.
Source: Ghāyat al-Nihāyah 1/446
Sufyan Ath-Thawri, may Allah have mercy on him, said:
كَانَ الرَّجُلُ إِذَا أَرَادَ أَنْ يَكْتُبَ الْحَدِيثَ تَأَدَّبَ وَتَعَبَّدَ قَبْلَ ذَلِكَ بِعِشْرِينَ سَنَةً
If a man intended to write the hadīth, he would study good manners and worship for twenty years before doing so.
Source: Hilyat al-Awliyā 361
Al-Laith ibn Sa’d, may Allah have mercy on him, said to the people of hadīth:
تَعَلَّمُوا الْحِلْمَ قَبْلَ الْعِلْمِ
Learn forbearance before seeking knowledge.
Source: Jāmi’ Bayān al-‘Ilm 581
In fact, the righteous predecessors would learn more from a scholar’s manners than they would from his knowledge.
Az-Zuhri, may Allah have mercy on him, said:
كُنَّا نَأْتِي الْعَالِمَ فَمَا نَتَعَلَّمُ مِنْ أَدَبِهِ أَحَبُّ إِلَيْنَا مِنْ عِلْمِهِ
We would come to a scholar and what we learned from his manners was more beloved to us than his knowledge.
Source: Hilyat al-Awliyā 4575
Ibn Wahb, may Allah have mercy on him, said:
مَا تَعَلَّمْتُ مِنْ أَدَبِ مَالِكٍ أَفْضَلَ مِنْ عِلْمِهِ
What I learned from the manners of Malik was better than his knowledge.
Source: Jāmi’ Bayān al-‘Ilm 581
Malik ibn Anas, may Allah have mercy on him, said:
تَعَلَّمِ الأَدَبَ قَبْلَ أَنْ تَتَعَلَّمَ الْعِلْمَ
Learn good manners before seeking knowledge.
Source: Gharāʼib Mālik ibn Anas 45
And Malik said:
كانت أمي تعممني وتقول لي اذهب إلى ربيعة فتعلم من أدبه قبل علمه
My mother would dress me up and say to me: Go to Sheikh Rabi’ah and learn from his manners before his knowledge.
Source: Tartīb al-Madārik 1/130
Ibn Al-Mubarak, may Allah have mercy on him, said to the people of hadīth:
أنتم إِلَى قَلِيلٍ مِنَ الْأَدَبِ أَحْوَجُ منكم إِلَى كَثِيرٍ مِنَ الْعِلْمِ
You are in greater need of a little manners than a great deal of knowledge.
Source: Tārīkh Dimashq 32918
And Ibn Al-Mubarak said:
طلبت الأدب ثلاثين سنة وطلبت العلم عشرين سنة وكانوا يطلبون الأدب ثم العلم
I sought manners for thirty years and I sought knowledge for twenty years. The righteous predecessors would seek manners and then seek knowledge.
Source: Ghāyat al-Nihāyah 1/446
Sufyan Ath-Thawri, may Allah have mercy on him, said:
كَانَ الرَّجُلُ إِذَا أَرَادَ أَنْ يَكْتُبَ الْحَدِيثَ تَأَدَّبَ وَتَعَبَّدَ قَبْلَ ذَلِكَ بِعِشْرِينَ سَنَةً
If a man intended to write the hadīth, he would study good manners and worship for twenty years before doing so.
Source: Hilyat al-Awliyā 361
Al-Laith ibn Sa’d, may Allah have mercy on him, said to the people of hadīth:
تَعَلَّمُوا الْحِلْمَ قَبْلَ الْعِلْمِ
Learn forbearance before seeking knowledge.
Source: Jāmi’ Bayān al-‘Ilm 581
In fact, the righteous predecessors would learn more from a scholar’s manners than they would from his knowledge.
Az-Zuhri, may Allah have mercy on him, said:
كُنَّا نَأْتِي الْعَالِمَ فَمَا نَتَعَلَّمُ مِنْ أَدَبِهِ أَحَبُّ إِلَيْنَا مِنْ عِلْمِهِ
We would come to a scholar and what we learned from his manners was more beloved to us than his knowledge.
Source: Hilyat al-Awliyā 4575
Ibn Wahb, may Allah have mercy on him, said:
مَا تَعَلَّمْتُ مِنْ أَدَبِ مَالِكٍ أَفْضَلَ مِنْ عِلْمِهِ
What I learned from the manners of Malik was better than his knowledge.
Source: Jāmi’ Bayān al-‘Ilm 581
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You can be successful, respected, and admired by people… but if you’ve failed your parents, you’ve missed something huge.
They carried you before you could walk, fed you before you could earn, and loved you when you had nothing to offer in return.
Now roles reverse… and suddenly patience becomes “too much,” calls become “later,” and time becomes “when I’m free.”
Allah didn’t just recommend kindness to parents — He placed it right after His worship.
Not just obedience… but ihsaan — excellence.
Lower your voice.
Watch your tone.
Show up for them — not when it’s convenient, but when it matters. Because one day, that door will close… and no amount of regret will bring it back.
#Parents #RespectParents #LoveYourParents #FamilyFirst #IslamicReminder
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They carried you before you could walk, fed you before you could earn, and loved you when you had nothing to offer in return.
Now roles reverse… and suddenly patience becomes “too much,” calls become “later,” and time becomes “when I’m free.”
Allah didn’t just recommend kindness to parents — He placed it right after His worship.
Not just obedience… but ihsaan — excellence.
Lower your voice.
Watch your tone.
Show up for them — not when it’s convenient, but when it matters. Because one day, that door will close… and no amount of regret will bring it back.
#Parents #RespectParents #LoveYourParents #FamilyFirst #IslamicReminder
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Dear parents, know this.
Mobile is the world of your child (unfortunately) and if you take away his world, he/she will become crazy, aggressive, maniac, and what not and will make you an enemy.
All the rage, aggression and negative behaviors he/she exhibits is associated to their fear, anxiety and anger of being stopped, being surveilled. Their brain constantly releases dopamine and blocks their prefrontal cortex (which is the part of brain responsible for seeing consequences of an action. So literally they are a zombie at that time. And with the fear, anxiety and pressure of being stopped and watched, cortisol keeps releasing, which is the stress chemical, and adds to their rage and aggression.
So, your child does not hate religion.
Your child does not have mental health issue.
Your child does not have Nazar.
Your child does not have black magic.
He/she is simply being controlled by the strings that were designed 20 year ago to control and manipulate minds, and he/she is exactly the target of that and they have got trapped. Consider them as patients needing help, not normal. Forget about 20th century parenting methods. Research yourself about how to do parenting in the digital world. You will find lots and lots of stuff.
Mobile is the world of your child (unfortunately) and if you take away his world, he/she will become crazy, aggressive, maniac, and what not and will make you an enemy.
All the rage, aggression and negative behaviors he/she exhibits is associated to their fear, anxiety and anger of being stopped, being surveilled. Their brain constantly releases dopamine and blocks their prefrontal cortex (which is the part of brain responsible for seeing consequences of an action. So literally they are a zombie at that time. And with the fear, anxiety and pressure of being stopped and watched, cortisol keeps releasing, which is the stress chemical, and adds to their rage and aggression.
So, your child does not hate religion.
Your child does not have mental health issue.
Your child does not have Nazar.
Your child does not have black magic.
He/she is simply being controlled by the strings that were designed 20 year ago to control and manipulate minds, and he/she is exactly the target of that and they have got trapped. Consider them as patients needing help, not normal. Forget about 20th century parenting methods. Research yourself about how to do parenting in the digital world. You will find lots and lots of stuff.
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