Dear teachers
“Not every child will remember what you taught them, but they will remember how you made them feel.”
“Not every child will remember what you taught them, but they will remember how you made them feel.”
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Parenthood is an enduring investment whose returns transcend generations. The righteousness of a child is, in part, an extension of their upbringing, instruction, supplication, and sacrifice. It is said:
"Whatever good deeds a righteous child offers, his parents share in the reward without diminishing his own,
For the child is the fruit of their effort and the product of their drive."
• أحكام الجنائز للألباني (ص١٢٦)
"Whatever good deeds a righteous child offers, his parents share in the reward without diminishing his own,
For the child is the fruit of their effort and the product of their drive."
• أحكام الجنائز للألباني (ص١٢٦)
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Ibn Sirin رحمه الله said, “We were with Abu Hurayra one night and he said, “O Allah forgive Abu Hurayra and his mother and whoever asks for forgiveness for both of them.”
Muhammad said, "We used to ask for forgiveness for them so that we would be included in Abu Hurayra's supplication."
[Al Adab Al Mufrad 37]
Muhammad said, "We used to ask for forgiveness for them so that we would be included in Abu Hurayra's supplication."
[Al Adab Al Mufrad 37]
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In Ottoman Schools, every child was evaluated due to his/her talents and every child had different courses.
The Motto of the schools which was written as grafitti on the walls was:
"Here no Fish will be forced to fly and no Bird will be forced to swim"
#Knowledge
The Motto of the schools which was written as grafitti on the walls was:
"Here no Fish will be forced to fly and no Bird will be forced to swim"
#Knowledge
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Let's stop chastising our children for not coming 1st in class.
Do not scold your kids for not attaining the 1st, 2nd or 3rd position.
These positions are just numbers, they are not the ultimate determinant of success or failure.
Rate your kid's performance by the grade or score attained in each subject, and not by overall position.
There can be 50 students in a class, your child would score 30th position, and he would still be considered to have passed.
Stop putting unnecessary pressure on your children, they are too young to be experiencing tension and trauma for fear of not meeting expectation.
Back in school days, the vacation day was such a scary day that every student would be tensed and terrified, not kmowing what their results would look like, and what their parents would do.
Some parents still consider anything beyond 3rd position as failure, irrespective of your cummulative scores.
The same pressure is extended to O'level final exams, which accounts for the reason why some students commit sulcide once they fail these exams, imagine the tongue-lashing they must have gotten from their parents.
There is more to life than Western education, even if your child fails in school, they haven't failed in life, you can enrol them to learn technical skills, handwork or trade, success isn't tied to education alone.
We should even show more concern about their Masrasah performance than their western educational performance, we should prioritize their hereafter knowledge over the others.
Let's embrace them and show them love, encourage them to work harder irrespective of their performance, so that they won't be forced to use biro to alter result figures just to impress you or dodge your wrath.
May Allah bless our kids with intellect. ameen.
Do not scold your kids for not attaining the 1st, 2nd or 3rd position.
These positions are just numbers, they are not the ultimate determinant of success or failure.
Rate your kid's performance by the grade or score attained in each subject, and not by overall position.
There can be 50 students in a class, your child would score 30th position, and he would still be considered to have passed.
Stop putting unnecessary pressure on your children, they are too young to be experiencing tension and trauma for fear of not meeting expectation.
Back in school days, the vacation day was such a scary day that every student would be tensed and terrified, not kmowing what their results would look like, and what their parents would do.
Some parents still consider anything beyond 3rd position as failure, irrespective of your cummulative scores.
The same pressure is extended to O'level final exams, which accounts for the reason why some students commit sulcide once they fail these exams, imagine the tongue-lashing they must have gotten from their parents.
There is more to life than Western education, even if your child fails in school, they haven't failed in life, you can enrol them to learn technical skills, handwork or trade, success isn't tied to education alone.
We should even show more concern about their Masrasah performance than their western educational performance, we should prioritize their hereafter knowledge over the others.
Let's embrace them and show them love, encourage them to work harder irrespective of their performance, so that they won't be forced to use biro to alter result figures just to impress you or dodge your wrath.
May Allah bless our kids with intellect. ameen.
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Muhammad bin Sulaymān rahimahuLlaah said:
"Sons are blessings, and daughters are good deeds. Alläh, the Almighty and Majestic, will call one to account for the blessings, and He will reward for the good deeds."
Al-Adab al-Shar iyyah by Ibn Muflih, 1/154
"Sons are blessings, and daughters are good deeds. Alläh, the Almighty and Majestic, will call one to account for the blessings, and He will reward for the good deeds."
Al-Adab al-Shar iyyah by Ibn Muflih, 1/154
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Fatima رضي الله عنها felt valued simply because the Prophet ﷺ acknowledged her.
Not because she achieved something.
Not because she behaved perfectly.
Not because she needed correction.
But because he noticed her.
When Fatima رضي الله عنها entered a room,
The Prophet ﷺ would stand up for her.
He would kiss her forehead.
He would seat her where he had been sitting.
(Sahih hadith)
That acknowledgment told her something powerful:
“You matter. You are seen. You are loved.”
This is how the Prophet ﷺ built hearts
not with pressure,
but with presence.
For our children, acknowledgment works the same way.
When we:
• pause what we’re doing
• look them in the eye
• respond with warmth
we’re not “spoiling” them.
We’re securing them.
A child who feels seen
doesn’t beg for attention through misbehavior.
They rest in connection.
And that’s where character grows 🤍
Not because she achieved something.
Not because she behaved perfectly.
Not because she needed correction.
But because he noticed her.
When Fatima رضي الله عنها entered a room,
The Prophet ﷺ would stand up for her.
He would kiss her forehead.
He would seat her where he had been sitting.
(Sahih hadith)
That acknowledgment told her something powerful:
“You matter. You are seen. You are loved.”
This is how the Prophet ﷺ built hearts
not with pressure,
but with presence.
For our children, acknowledgment works the same way.
When we:
• pause what we’re doing
• look them in the eye
• respond with warmth
we’re not “spoiling” them.
We’re securing them.
A child who feels seen
doesn’t beg for attention through misbehavior.
They rest in connection.
And that’s where character grows 🤍
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Advice to parents of daughters
Your daughters are the most precious responsibility for which we will be held to account so do not take it lightly.
Do not be fooled by believing she will choose the hijab when she becomes of age. The society is the most dominant influencer, it will choose for her while she thinks she made the choice willingly.
The society is not neutral but upon secular-liberal ideals, it will choose to not wear the hijab wa jilbab, and in the eyes of the shariah she’ll be committing indecent crime of nudity.
And the shariah will hold you as parents also responsible for not protecting her honour and teaching her the obligations.
I say this as many parents have come to me asking for advice on how to encourage their daughters to wear the hijab, and in most cases they left it for their daughters too late.
The love for hijab, protection of awrah and consolidation of these must be instilled at an early age. When they reach their teenage it becomes very difficult to convince them to wear it as it’s no longer a problem of thoughts (most will not object on the obligations of hijab) but of nafs (disposition).
Your daughters are the most precious responsibility for which we will be held to account so do not take it lightly.
Do not be fooled by believing she will choose the hijab when she becomes of age. The society is the most dominant influencer, it will choose for her while she thinks she made the choice willingly.
The society is not neutral but upon secular-liberal ideals, it will choose to not wear the hijab wa jilbab, and in the eyes of the shariah she’ll be committing indecent crime of nudity.
And the shariah will hold you as parents also responsible for not protecting her honour and teaching her the obligations.
I say this as many parents have come to me asking for advice on how to encourage their daughters to wear the hijab, and in most cases they left it for their daughters too late.
The love for hijab, protection of awrah and consolidation of these must be instilled at an early age. When they reach their teenage it becomes very difficult to convince them to wear it as it’s no longer a problem of thoughts (most will not object on the obligations of hijab) but of nafs (disposition).
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IF U HAVE A FATHER💚 WHO, PRAYS, WORKS & TAUGHT U DEEN THANK ALLAH, THESE MEN ARE RARE & PRICELESS!
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Do Not Burden Your Children With Liabilities - Leave Assets for Them
Consider this: you are a hardworking executive or a teacher with numerous awards and a good salary, too. But after you retire,
1. Your income ceases, and you are dependent upon your children's income, which they already have to support their families.
2. While your income is zero or a little pension, your debt, which you borrowed for your children's education and marriages stay there.
3. You realise that your savings do not increase, nor do you have income to buy assets.
4. You undergo anxiety every time your creditor calls for the return of money.
5. You or your spouse is sick but cannot afford medical expenses.
At the sunset of life, what are your options? Borrow more money? Beg for charity from friends and relatives who might be reluctant to give or wait for your death, leaving your debt for your unwilling children to repay.
On the other hand, if during your prime youth, that's between 30 to 45, if you had invested in a small business with little profit but a steady growth, at 60, it would be fetching you enough money to spend on your needs and repay the debt too. No small businesses are small if they have survived few years with a small unit of profits.
I know many people who have run a parallel small business during their employment days, whether they sold goods, started a small tea shop or even owned a running cafeteria. Upon retiring, these people had an established income and remained busy. They bore the weight of their children's marriage and also sponsored a few poor people's weddings and education, too.
My course, 'Business For Beginners', has successfully reached 500 learners, and many of them have successfully applied my advice.
This course has improved my own business analytical skills and helped a few clients of mine to revive their terminally sick businesses.
Never waste time scrolling through reels, but invest time in learning. If you have not done my Business For Beginners course, it's time you invest in and benefit from it. It is half the price of your mobile and multiple times more precious than your entire wardrobe.
Consider this: you are a hardworking executive or a teacher with numerous awards and a good salary, too. But after you retire,
1. Your income ceases, and you are dependent upon your children's income, which they already have to support their families.
2. While your income is zero or a little pension, your debt, which you borrowed for your children's education and marriages stay there.
3. You realise that your savings do not increase, nor do you have income to buy assets.
4. You undergo anxiety every time your creditor calls for the return of money.
5. You or your spouse is sick but cannot afford medical expenses.
At the sunset of life, what are your options? Borrow more money? Beg for charity from friends and relatives who might be reluctant to give or wait for your death, leaving your debt for your unwilling children to repay.
On the other hand, if during your prime youth, that's between 30 to 45, if you had invested in a small business with little profit but a steady growth, at 60, it would be fetching you enough money to spend on your needs and repay the debt too. No small businesses are small if they have survived few years with a small unit of profits.
I know many people who have run a parallel small business during their employment days, whether they sold goods, started a small tea shop or even owned a running cafeteria. Upon retiring, these people had an established income and remained busy. They bore the weight of their children's marriage and also sponsored a few poor people's weddings and education, too.
My course, 'Business For Beginners', has successfully reached 500 learners, and many of them have successfully applied my advice.
This course has improved my own business analytical skills and helped a few clients of mine to revive their terminally sick businesses.
Never waste time scrolling through reels, but invest time in learning. If you have not done my Business For Beginners course, it's time you invest in and benefit from it. It is half the price of your mobile and multiple times more precious than your entire wardrobe.
EVIL EYE.
Protect your children.
Your grandchildren.
And others.
From the evil eye.
Evil eye is the truth.
A real phenomenon.
Brought about by,
A malevolent gaze,
Usually inspired by envy
Can cause harm.
Regret not an option.
Use not social media to brag.
Do not compete for shares, likes,
A child is a trust.
Maintain that trust.
With Allah's permission.
Ibn Jamā'ah
Protect your children.
Your grandchildren.
And others.
From the evil eye.
Evil eye is the truth.
A real phenomenon.
Brought about by,
A malevolent gaze,
Usually inspired by envy
Can cause harm.
Regret not an option.
Use not social media to brag.
Do not compete for shares, likes,
A child is a trust.
Maintain that trust.
With Allah's permission.
Ibn Jamā'ah
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Your Child Was Not Created to Fulfill Your Unfinished Dreams
Alhamdulillah.
One of the quiet harms in parenting is turning a single, narrow prestige path into the definition of “success.” When this happens, tarbiyah is reduced to pressure, comparison, and anxiety, rather than guidance and cultivation.
Part of sound tarbiyah is helping a young person recognize the gifts Allah has placed within them and to pursue a ḥalāl path where they can excel, contribute, and serve with dignity. Not every child is meant for the same vocation, temperament, or public role.
The Prophet ﷺ set the framework clearly:
«اعْمَلُوا فَكُلٌّ مُيَسَّرٌ لِمَا خُلِقَ لَهُ»
“Work, for everyone will be facilitated toward that for which he was created.” (al-Bukhārī; Muslim)
Your role, then, is not to script your child’s destiny, but to protect dīn and character, to build real skill and competence, and to guide ambition with humility and responsibility. Parenting becomes distorted when a child is asked to carry a parent’s unfulfilled hopes, social anxieties, or wounded pride.
Success in Islam is about faithfulness to one’s purpose, integrity in one’s effort, and benefit to others.
وصلى الله على محمد، والحمد لله رب العالمين.
Alhamdulillah.
One of the quiet harms in parenting is turning a single, narrow prestige path into the definition of “success.” When this happens, tarbiyah is reduced to pressure, comparison, and anxiety, rather than guidance and cultivation.
Part of sound tarbiyah is helping a young person recognize the gifts Allah has placed within them and to pursue a ḥalāl path where they can excel, contribute, and serve with dignity. Not every child is meant for the same vocation, temperament, or public role.
The Prophet ﷺ set the framework clearly:
«اعْمَلُوا فَكُلٌّ مُيَسَّرٌ لِمَا خُلِقَ لَهُ»
“Work, for everyone will be facilitated toward that for which he was created.” (al-Bukhārī; Muslim)
Your role, then, is not to script your child’s destiny, but to protect dīn and character, to build real skill and competence, and to guide ambition with humility and responsibility. Parenting becomes distorted when a child is asked to carry a parent’s unfulfilled hopes, social anxieties, or wounded pride.
Success in Islam is about faithfulness to one’s purpose, integrity in one’s effort, and benefit to others.
وصلى الله على محمد، والحمد لله رب العالمين.
Honoring our parents is among the greatest paths to Allah’s pleasure. Through their love, sacrifice, and dua, doors open that no one else can open.
May Allah ﷻ allow us to serve them with gentleness, to be a source of joy for them in this life, and to meet them again through the gate of Paradise Ameen
May Allah ﷻ allow us to serve them with gentleness, to be a source of joy for them in this life, and to meet them again through the gate of Paradise Ameen
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Investing in Your Child’s Education: Sacrifice, Not Convenience
Alhamdulillah.
Investing in a child’s education is among the most consequential investments a parent makes, even when it is financially and emotionally burdensome. It is striking - and tragic - that some will stretch themselves for comforts or status symbols, yet hesitate to spend for the intellectual and moral formation of their own children. Education shapes not only earning potential, but discernment, confidence, agency, and the ability to carry faith with competence into the world.
The Salaf understood this intuitively. Some mothers bore poverty, labor, and long patience so their children could carry knowledge that would benefit others for generations. Ibn al-Jawzī records the well-known maternal counsel to Sufyān al-Thawrī: "يا بني اطلب العلم وأنا أكفيك بمغزلي" — “My son, seek knowledge, and I will provide for you with my loom.” (1) She did not promise him luxury; she promised him sacrifice.
And there is a striking story about Rabīʿah ibn Abī ʿAbd al-Raḥmān—Rabīʿat al-Raʾy—whose mother chose knowledge over wealth with a clarity that still shames many of our modern priorities. Al-Khaṭīb al-Baghdādī relates that Rabīʿah’s father left for a military campaign while his wife was pregnant, leaving thirty thousand dinars with her. He returned to Madīnah after twenty-seven years, arriving as a stranger. Not recognizing the grown son who emerged from the house, each accused the other with harsh words, and the dispute nearly turned violent until neighbors gathered. Then the mother came out and ended the confusion: “This is my husband, and this is my son.” They embraced and wept. Later, the father entered the Masjid of the Prophet ﷺ and saw a large circle of students gathered, the scholars and notable men attending—then learned it was his own son’s gathering. He said, in wonder: “لقد رفع الله ابني” — “Allah has raised my son.” When he returned home, his wife asked him: “Which is more beloved to you—thirty thousand dinars, or this station he has attained?” When he replied that nothing was dearer than this, she told him that she had spent the entire sum on their son’s education—and he answered: “فوالله ما ضيعته” — “By Allah, you did not waste it.” (2)
These women did not know the future stature of their sons. They did not invest because of guaranteed outcomes, but because they recognized that knowledge, character, and discernment are never wasted.
وصلى الله على محمد والحمد لله رب العالمين
(1) Ibn al-Jawzī, Ṣifat al-Ṣafwah, ed. Aḥmad b. ʿAlī (Cairo: Dār al-Ḥadīth, 1421/2000), 2:110.
(2) al-Khaṭīb al-Baghdādī, Tārīkh Baghdād (Tārīkh Madīnat al-Salām), ed. Muṣṭafā ʿAbd al-Qādir ʿAṭā (Beirut: Dār al-Kutub al-ʿIlmiyyah, 1st ed. 1417/1997; repr. 2nd ed. 1425/2004), 8:421.
Alhamdulillah.
Investing in a child’s education is among the most consequential investments a parent makes, even when it is financially and emotionally burdensome. It is striking - and tragic - that some will stretch themselves for comforts or status symbols, yet hesitate to spend for the intellectual and moral formation of their own children. Education shapes not only earning potential, but discernment, confidence, agency, and the ability to carry faith with competence into the world.
The Salaf understood this intuitively. Some mothers bore poverty, labor, and long patience so their children could carry knowledge that would benefit others for generations. Ibn al-Jawzī records the well-known maternal counsel to Sufyān al-Thawrī: "يا بني اطلب العلم وأنا أكفيك بمغزلي" — “My son, seek knowledge, and I will provide for you with my loom.” (1) She did not promise him luxury; she promised him sacrifice.
And there is a striking story about Rabīʿah ibn Abī ʿAbd al-Raḥmān—Rabīʿat al-Raʾy—whose mother chose knowledge over wealth with a clarity that still shames many of our modern priorities. Al-Khaṭīb al-Baghdādī relates that Rabīʿah’s father left for a military campaign while his wife was pregnant, leaving thirty thousand dinars with her. He returned to Madīnah after twenty-seven years, arriving as a stranger. Not recognizing the grown son who emerged from the house, each accused the other with harsh words, and the dispute nearly turned violent until neighbors gathered. Then the mother came out and ended the confusion: “This is my husband, and this is my son.” They embraced and wept. Later, the father entered the Masjid of the Prophet ﷺ and saw a large circle of students gathered, the scholars and notable men attending—then learned it was his own son’s gathering. He said, in wonder: “لقد رفع الله ابني” — “Allah has raised my son.” When he returned home, his wife asked him: “Which is more beloved to you—thirty thousand dinars, or this station he has attained?” When he replied that nothing was dearer than this, she told him that she had spent the entire sum on their son’s education—and he answered: “فوالله ما ضيعته” — “By Allah, you did not waste it.” (2)
These women did not know the future stature of their sons. They did not invest because of guaranteed outcomes, but because they recognized that knowledge, character, and discernment are never wasted.
وصلى الله على محمد والحمد لله رب العالمين
(1) Ibn al-Jawzī, Ṣifat al-Ṣafwah, ed. Aḥmad b. ʿAlī (Cairo: Dār al-Ḥadīth, 1421/2000), 2:110.
(2) al-Khaṭīb al-Baghdādī, Tārīkh Baghdād (Tārīkh Madīnat al-Salām), ed. Muṣṭafā ʿAbd al-Qādir ʿAṭā (Beirut: Dār al-Kutub al-ʿIlmiyyah, 1st ed. 1417/1997; repr. 2nd ed. 1425/2004), 8:421.
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*A message to all our Parents*
Take heed of this advice.
The messenger (May Allah’s peace and blessings be upon him) put his hand on the chest of a young boy and he recited:
*اَللّٰهُمَّ اغْفِرْ ذَنْبَه وَ طَهِـّرْ قَلْبَهُ وَحَصِّنْ فَرْجَهُ*
Oh Allah forgive his sins and purify his heart and protect his private parts
The sheikh Abdul Razzaak al Badr- breaks down and cries and gives us sincere advice from his heart.
*Listen and follow it*
The youth of today are in the times of fitan (music, dancing, woman, drinking, drugs ) all very easily available for them.
The youth in the time of the messenger ﷺ were not exposed to this kind of fitan yet he made this dua.
Our youth need to be protected even more . They need duas of their parents because parents duas for their children are always accepted by Allah.
Be careful 😮 mothers , O fathers : Do not curse your children, do not make dua for Allah to curse them, be very careful , for duas that come from a mother’s or father’s broken heart against their children are readily accepted by Allah.
Hold your tongues!!! And say only that which will benefit them.
Our youth are in need of these sincere duas from the heart of their parents . They are in need of sincere advice , they are in need of love , win their hearts and befriend them , show them affection and try to understand them. Do not let shaithaan overpower them because of your curses.
*May Allah guide and protect our children , keep them steadfast on* *deen and make them the coolness of our eyes and the leaders of the Muslim ummah.*
*Aameen*🤲🏻
Take heed of this advice.
The messenger (May Allah’s peace and blessings be upon him) put his hand on the chest of a young boy and he recited:
*اَللّٰهُمَّ اغْفِرْ ذَنْبَه وَ طَهِـّرْ قَلْبَهُ وَحَصِّنْ فَرْجَهُ*
Oh Allah forgive his sins and purify his heart and protect his private parts
The sheikh Abdul Razzaak al Badr- breaks down and cries and gives us sincere advice from his heart.
*Listen and follow it*
The youth of today are in the times of fitan (music, dancing, woman, drinking, drugs ) all very easily available for them.
The youth in the time of the messenger ﷺ were not exposed to this kind of fitan yet he made this dua.
Our youth need to be protected even more . They need duas of their parents because parents duas for their children are always accepted by Allah.
Be careful 😮 mothers , O fathers : Do not curse your children, do not make dua for Allah to curse them, be very careful , for duas that come from a mother’s or father’s broken heart against their children are readily accepted by Allah.
Hold your tongues!!! And say only that which will benefit them.
Our youth are in need of these sincere duas from the heart of their parents . They are in need of sincere advice , they are in need of love , win their hearts and befriend them , show them affection and try to understand them. Do not let shaithaan overpower them because of your curses.
*May Allah guide and protect our children , keep them steadfast on* *deen and make them the coolness of our eyes and the leaders of the Muslim ummah.*
*Aameen*🤲🏻
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*A message to all our Parents*
Take heed of this advice.
The messenger (May Allah’s peace and blessings be upon him) put his hand on the chest of a young boy and he recited:
*اَللّٰهُمَّ اغْفِرْ ذَنْبَه وَ طَهِـّرْ قَلْبَهُ وَحَصِّنْ فَرْجَهُ*
Oh Allah forgive his sins and purify his heart and protect his private parts
The sheikh Abdul Razzaak al Badr- breaks down and cries and gives us sincere advice from his heart.
*Listen and follow it*
The youth of today are in the times of fitan (music, dancing, woman, drinking, drugs ) all very easily available for them.
The youth in the time of the messenger ﷺ were not exposed to this kind of fitan yet he made this dua.
Our youth need to be protected even more . They need duas of their parents because parents duas for their children are always accepted by Allah.
Be careful 😮 mothers , O fathers : Do not curse your children, do not make dua for Allah to curse them, be very careful , for duas that come from a mother’s or father’s broken heart against their children are readily accepted by Allah.
Hold your tongues!!! And say only that which will benefit them.
Our youth are in need of these sincere duas from the heart of their parents . They are in need of sincere advice , they are in need of love , win their hearts and befriend them , show them affection and try to understand them. Do not let shaithaan overpower them because of your curses.
*May Allah guide and protect our children , keep them steadfast on* *deen and make them the coolness of our eyes and the leaders of the Muslim ummah.*
*Aameen*🤲🏻
Take heed of this advice.
The messenger (May Allah’s peace and blessings be upon him) put his hand on the chest of a young boy and he recited:
*اَللّٰهُمَّ اغْفِرْ ذَنْبَه وَ طَهِـّرْ قَلْبَهُ وَحَصِّنْ فَرْجَهُ*
Oh Allah forgive his sins and purify his heart and protect his private parts
The sheikh Abdul Razzaak al Badr- breaks down and cries and gives us sincere advice from his heart.
*Listen and follow it*
The youth of today are in the times of fitan (music, dancing, woman, drinking, drugs ) all very easily available for them.
The youth in the time of the messenger ﷺ were not exposed to this kind of fitan yet he made this dua.
Our youth need to be protected even more . They need duas of their parents because parents duas for their children are always accepted by Allah.
Be careful 😮 mothers , O fathers : Do not curse your children, do not make dua for Allah to curse them, be very careful , for duas that come from a mother’s or father’s broken heart against their children are readily accepted by Allah.
Hold your tongues!!! And say only that which will benefit them.
Our youth are in need of these sincere duas from the heart of their parents . They are in need of sincere advice , they are in need of love , win their hearts and befriend them , show them affection and try to understand them. Do not let shaithaan overpower them because of your curses.
*May Allah guide and protect our children , keep them steadfast on* *deen and make them the coolness of our eyes and the leaders of the Muslim ummah.*
*Aameen*🤲🏻
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Some parents give their children whatever they desire and lavishly bestow on them materialistic things thinking: "Take what you want and just let me be"!
The father/mother occupy themselves with work and fulfilling their ambitions, and in their free time occupy themselves with relationships with friends, social media and whatever else the parents find more enjoyment in than raising children.
He is busy, but he loves his son and is ‘concerned' for him... He expresses his love and ‘care’ through gifts and material luxuries.
My son asks me for something that is not in his best interest... To explain to him why, convince him, and provide him with the right alternative... is a difficult and "boring" process and the child is obstinate...
So take what you want, son... I will buy from you my ‘peace of mind’ and my time through this device that distracts you from me, so that I may invest my time more enjoyably than arguing with you!
These parents may appear ‘loving’ and doting towards their children, when in fact they are ruining them!
I am afraid that the statement of the Prophet ﷺ: "It is sufficient sin for a man that he neglects those whom he maintains." includes not only those who do not provide their children with the food and clothing they require, but also includes those who destroy them by giving them everything they want to spare themselves the effort of education and guidance!
Ibn al-Qayyim - may Allah have mercy on him - said in [Tuhfat Al-Mawlud]:
"How many have ruined both the Dunya and Akhirah for their child, their own blood, by neglecting him and abandoning his discipline and helping him fulfill his desires, while he claims that he has honored him when, in fact, he has insulted him, and claims to be showing mercy to the child when he has, in fact, done him an injustice and deprived him of goodness."
When you deprive your child of something he desires, explain it to him thus: ‘Oh my dear child, I can give you this device that you ask for, and you and I shall both be at ease for a short term, but it is not in your interest, and I am not giving it to you for your own good, because I love you and care about you. Giving your child whatever he wants is ‘sometimes’ an indication of neglect my dear child. It is not you who should envy your friends for their materialistic things, but rather it is them who should envy you for the care shown to you by your father.'
📝𝐃𝐫. 𝐄𝐲𝐚𝐝 𝐐𝐮𝐧𝐚𝐢𝐛𝐢
Dr. Eyad Qunaibi - English
The father/mother occupy themselves with work and fulfilling their ambitions, and in their free time occupy themselves with relationships with friends, social media and whatever else the parents find more enjoyment in than raising children.
He is busy, but he loves his son and is ‘concerned' for him... He expresses his love and ‘care’ through gifts and material luxuries.
My son asks me for something that is not in his best interest... To explain to him why, convince him, and provide him with the right alternative... is a difficult and "boring" process and the child is obstinate...
So take what you want, son... I will buy from you my ‘peace of mind’ and my time through this device that distracts you from me, so that I may invest my time more enjoyably than arguing with you!
These parents may appear ‘loving’ and doting towards their children, when in fact they are ruining them!
I am afraid that the statement of the Prophet ﷺ: "It is sufficient sin for a man that he neglects those whom he maintains." includes not only those who do not provide their children with the food and clothing they require, but also includes those who destroy them by giving them everything they want to spare themselves the effort of education and guidance!
Ibn al-Qayyim - may Allah have mercy on him - said in [Tuhfat Al-Mawlud]:
"How many have ruined both the Dunya and Akhirah for their child, their own blood, by neglecting him and abandoning his discipline and helping him fulfill his desires, while he claims that he has honored him when, in fact, he has insulted him, and claims to be showing mercy to the child when he has, in fact, done him an injustice and deprived him of goodness."
When you deprive your child of something he desires, explain it to him thus: ‘Oh my dear child, I can give you this device that you ask for, and you and I shall both be at ease for a short term, but it is not in your interest, and I am not giving it to you for your own good, because I love you and care about you. Giving your child whatever he wants is ‘sometimes’ an indication of neglect my dear child. It is not you who should envy your friends for their materialistic things, but rather it is them who should envy you for the care shown to you by your father.'
📝𝐃𝐫. 𝐄𝐲𝐚𝐝 𝐐𝐮𝐧𝐚𝐢𝐛𝐢
Dr. Eyad Qunaibi - English
Forwarded from Hijama of The Prophet ﷺ
What a Man or Woman Must Do To Become a Magician.pdf
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What a Man or Woman Must Do To Become a Magician:
After reading this, you will, in shā Allāh, come to know that the magicians are from the most vile and despicable people on this earth
[7pgs ex. cover – feel free to share BārakAllāhu feekum]
T.me/HijamaOTP
After reading this, you will, in shā Allāh, come to know that the magicians are from the most vile and despicable people on this earth
[7pgs ex. cover – feel free to share BārakAllāhu feekum]
T.me/HijamaOTP
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