Every Good Deed A Righteous Child Does, There Is A Share In that for his/her Father & Mother
A child is an extension of their parents’ legacy, and every righteous deed they perform continues to elevate the status of their parents with Allāh.
Reflect on this deeply:
Our prayers, acts of worship, and service to others are not just personal gains but gifts that transcend our individual lives, flowing back to those who gave us life.
A truly beneficial son or daughter is one who recognizes this profound connection and strives tirelessly to please Allāh, knowing their every act of goodness is a sadaqah jariyah for their parents.
What greater honour could we offer them than to be the reason they find shade under Allāh’s mercy?
Let us not waste the chance to be a source of goodness for them, for this is the ultimate expression of love and devotion.
A child is an extension of their parents’ legacy, and every righteous deed they perform continues to elevate the status of their parents with Allāh.
Reflect on this deeply:
Our prayers, acts of worship, and service to others are not just personal gains but gifts that transcend our individual lives, flowing back to those who gave us life.
A truly beneficial son or daughter is one who recognizes this profound connection and strives tirelessly to please Allāh, knowing their every act of goodness is a sadaqah jariyah for their parents.
What greater honour could we offer them than to be the reason they find shade under Allāh’s mercy?
Let us not waste the chance to be a source of goodness for them, for this is the ultimate expression of love and devotion.
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Forwarded from EvilEyes&BlackMagic
Can the evil eye cause physical sickness or financial or social problems ?
Dr. ‘Abdullah as-Sadhaan – who is a specialist in matters of ruqyah and whose doctoral thesis was entitled Diraasah Muqaarinah ‘an ar-Ruqyah ash-Shar‘iyyah (A Comparative Study of Ruqyah as prescribed in Islam) was asked:
Can the evil eye cause physical sickness or financial or social problems ?
He replied:
Yes, the evil eye can cause a lack of healing from many physical problems and may even make them worse. It may also cause financial and marital problems, breakdown in relationships and a lot of calamities. How can it be otherwise, when the Prophet ( صلى الله عليه وسلم ) said: “Death among my ummah is mostly caused, after the will and decree of Allah, by the evil eye.” So whatever occurs of calamities that are less serious than death are more likely to be caused by the evil eye.
Majallat ad-Da‘wah, issue no. 2018, 15 Shawwaal 1426 AH/17 November 2005 CE
Dr. ‘Abdullah as-Sadhaan – who is a specialist in matters of ruqyah and whose doctoral thesis was entitled Diraasah Muqaarinah ‘an ar-Ruqyah ash-Shar‘iyyah (A Comparative Study of Ruqyah as prescribed in Islam) was asked:
Can the evil eye cause physical sickness or financial or social problems ?
He replied:
Yes, the evil eye can cause a lack of healing from many physical problems and may even make them worse. It may also cause financial and marital problems, breakdown in relationships and a lot of calamities. How can it be otherwise, when the Prophet ( صلى الله عليه وسلم ) said: “Death among my ummah is mostly caused, after the will and decree of Allah, by the evil eye.” So whatever occurs of calamities that are less serious than death are more likely to be caused by the evil eye.
Majallat ad-Da‘wah, issue no. 2018, 15 Shawwaal 1426 AH/17 November 2005 CE
Protect Children from Sexual Abuse
🚨 What Is Sexual Abuse?
Sexual abuse refers to any act of a sexual nature imposed on a child or adolescent without their consent. It may be committed by an adult or by another child. Sexual abuse falls into two main categories:
🔴 First Type: Physical Contact
This includes inappropriate kissing, improper hugging, touching a child’s private parts, or attempting to engage in sexual acts.
🔴 Second Type: Non-Contact Abuse
This includes forcing a child to view pornographic images, videos, or scenes, engaging the child in sexually explicit conversations, or sending inappropriate romantic or sexual messages, words, or offensive images and stickers.
▪️ All children, regardless of their social or economic background, may be vulnerable to abuse.
🚨 What Does a Child Abuser Look Like?
In many cases, an abuser does not appear suspicious and may be someone trusted in the child’s life. The abuser may be:
🔴 A man or a woman
🔴 An adult, an adolescent, or even a child
🔴 A stranger, a family member, or a close friend
They may appear completely normal in daily life—married, with children, and known for having a good reputation.
🚨 Can One Child Abuse Another Child?
Yes. The abuser may be:
🔴 An older adolescent
🔴 A child who has authority or influence over younger children
Sometimes, the adolescent who commits abuse is themselves a victim of previous abuse. However, this does not mean that every victim will become an abuser in the future. In such cases, both parties should receive psychological and social support and appropriate rehabilitation.
🚨 How Can You Protect Your Children from Sexual Abuse?
Awareness is the first line of defense
1️⃣ Be alert to warning signs. Maintain communication with the school, caregivers, or babysitters. Do not blindly trust anyone with your child; excessive trust can sometimes place a child at greater risk, and regret will not undo harm.
2️⃣ Get to know the people in your child’s life. Encourage your child to speak openly and confidently with you about who they spend time with, what they do together, and what topics are discussed.
3️⃣ Teach your child about privacy and boundaries. Make it clear that they have the right to refuse any unwanted touch, even from adults. No one is allowed to touch their private parts or kiss them inappropriately.
4️⃣ Explain the difference between a “safe secret” and a “dangerous secret.” Teach your child that any secret they are asked to keep from their parents must be disclosed immediately. No one has the right to say, “Do not tell your parents.” Make it clear that such behavior is wrong.
5️⃣ Teach your child the correct names for body parts and emphasise that their body belongs to them alone. Physical greetings should be limited to appropriate gestures such as a handshake.
6️⃣ Reassure your child that they will never be punished for telling you about anything uncomfortable or inappropriate. Repeatedly remind them: “My child, never stay silent. If anyone says inappropriate or disturbing words to you, tell me immediately, and you will not be punished.”
🚨 What Is Sexual Abuse?
Sexual abuse refers to any act of a sexual nature imposed on a child or adolescent without their consent. It may be committed by an adult or by another child. Sexual abuse falls into two main categories:
🔴 First Type: Physical Contact
This includes inappropriate kissing, improper hugging, touching a child’s private parts, or attempting to engage in sexual acts.
🔴 Second Type: Non-Contact Abuse
This includes forcing a child to view pornographic images, videos, or scenes, engaging the child in sexually explicit conversations, or sending inappropriate romantic or sexual messages, words, or offensive images and stickers.
▪️ All children, regardless of their social or economic background, may be vulnerable to abuse.
🚨 What Does a Child Abuser Look Like?
In many cases, an abuser does not appear suspicious and may be someone trusted in the child’s life. The abuser may be:
🔴 A man or a woman
🔴 An adult, an adolescent, or even a child
🔴 A stranger, a family member, or a close friend
They may appear completely normal in daily life—married, with children, and known for having a good reputation.
🚨 Can One Child Abuse Another Child?
Yes. The abuser may be:
🔴 An older adolescent
🔴 A child who has authority or influence over younger children
Sometimes, the adolescent who commits abuse is themselves a victim of previous abuse. However, this does not mean that every victim will become an abuser in the future. In such cases, both parties should receive psychological and social support and appropriate rehabilitation.
🚨 How Can You Protect Your Children from Sexual Abuse?
Awareness is the first line of defense
1️⃣ Be alert to warning signs. Maintain communication with the school, caregivers, or babysitters. Do not blindly trust anyone with your child; excessive trust can sometimes place a child at greater risk, and regret will not undo harm.
2️⃣ Get to know the people in your child’s life. Encourage your child to speak openly and confidently with you about who they spend time with, what they do together, and what topics are discussed.
3️⃣ Teach your child about privacy and boundaries. Make it clear that they have the right to refuse any unwanted touch, even from adults. No one is allowed to touch their private parts or kiss them inappropriately.
4️⃣ Explain the difference between a “safe secret” and a “dangerous secret.” Teach your child that any secret they are asked to keep from their parents must be disclosed immediately. No one has the right to say, “Do not tell your parents.” Make it clear that such behavior is wrong.
5️⃣ Teach your child the correct names for body parts and emphasise that their body belongs to them alone. Physical greetings should be limited to appropriate gestures such as a handshake.
6️⃣ Reassure your child that they will never be punished for telling you about anything uncomfortable or inappropriate. Repeatedly remind them: “My child, never stay silent. If anyone says inappropriate or disturbing words to you, tell me immediately, and you will not be punished.”
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Protect Children from Sexual Abuse
🚨 What Is Sexual Abuse?
Sexual abuse refers to any act of a sexual nature imposed on a child or adolescent without their consent. It may be committed by an adult or by another child. Sexual abuse falls into two main categories:
🔴 First Type: Physical Contact
This includes inappropriate kissing, improper hugging, touching a child’s private parts, or attempting to engage in sexual acts.
🔴 Second Type: Non-Contact Abuse
This includes forcing a child to view pornographic images, videos, or scenes, engaging the child in sexually explicit conversations, or sending inappropriate romantic or sexual messages, words, or offensive images and stickers.
▪️ All children, regardless of their social or economic background, may be vulnerable to abuse.
🚨 What Does a Child Abuser Look Like?
In many cases, an abuser does not appear suspicious and may be someone trusted in the child’s life. The abuser may be:
🔴 A man or a woman
🔴 An adult, an adolescent, or even a child
🔴 A stranger, a family member, or a close friend
They may appear completely normal in daily life—married, with children, and known for having a good reputation.
🚨 Can One Child Abuse Another Child?
Yes. The abuser may be:
🔴 An older adolescent
🔴 A child who has authority or influence over younger children
Sometimes, the adolescent who commits abuse is themselves a victim of previous abuse. However, this does not mean that every victim will become an abuser in the future. In such cases, both parties should receive psychological and social support and appropriate rehabilitation.
🚨 How Can You Protect Your Children from Sexual Abuse?
Awareness is the first line of defense
1️⃣ Be alert to warning signs. Maintain communication with the school, caregivers, or babysitters. Do not blindly trust anyone with your child; excessive trust can sometimes place a child at greater risk, and regret will not undo harm.
2️⃣ Get to know the people in your child’s life. Encourage your child to speak openly and confidently with you about who they spend time with, what they do together, and what topics are discussed.
3️⃣ Teach your child about privacy and boundaries. Make it clear that they have the right to refuse any unwanted touch, even from adults. No one is allowed to touch their private parts or kiss them inappropriately.
4️⃣ Explain the difference between a “safe secret” and a “dangerous secret.” Teach your child that any secret they are asked to keep from their parents must be disclosed immediately. No one has the right to say, “Do not tell your parents.” Make it clear that such behavior is wrong.
5️⃣ Teach your child the correct names for body parts and emphasise that their body belongs to them alone. Physical greetings should be limited to appropriate gestures such as a handshake.
6️⃣ Reassure your child that they will never be punished for telling you about anything uncomfortable or inappropriate. Repeatedly remind them: “My child, never stay silent. If anyone says inappropriate or disturbing words to you, tell me immediately, and you will not be punished.”
🚨 What Is Sexual Abuse?
Sexual abuse refers to any act of a sexual nature imposed on a child or adolescent without their consent. It may be committed by an adult or by another child. Sexual abuse falls into two main categories:
🔴 First Type: Physical Contact
This includes inappropriate kissing, improper hugging, touching a child’s private parts, or attempting to engage in sexual acts.
🔴 Second Type: Non-Contact Abuse
This includes forcing a child to view pornographic images, videos, or scenes, engaging the child in sexually explicit conversations, or sending inappropriate romantic or sexual messages, words, or offensive images and stickers.
▪️ All children, regardless of their social or economic background, may be vulnerable to abuse.
🚨 What Does a Child Abuser Look Like?
In many cases, an abuser does not appear suspicious and may be someone trusted in the child’s life. The abuser may be:
🔴 A man or a woman
🔴 An adult, an adolescent, or even a child
🔴 A stranger, a family member, or a close friend
They may appear completely normal in daily life—married, with children, and known for having a good reputation.
🚨 Can One Child Abuse Another Child?
Yes. The abuser may be:
🔴 An older adolescent
🔴 A child who has authority or influence over younger children
Sometimes, the adolescent who commits abuse is themselves a victim of previous abuse. However, this does not mean that every victim will become an abuser in the future. In such cases, both parties should receive psychological and social support and appropriate rehabilitation.
🚨 How Can You Protect Your Children from Sexual Abuse?
Awareness is the first line of defense
1️⃣ Be alert to warning signs. Maintain communication with the school, caregivers, or babysitters. Do not blindly trust anyone with your child; excessive trust can sometimes place a child at greater risk, and regret will not undo harm.
2️⃣ Get to know the people in your child’s life. Encourage your child to speak openly and confidently with you about who they spend time with, what they do together, and what topics are discussed.
3️⃣ Teach your child about privacy and boundaries. Make it clear that they have the right to refuse any unwanted touch, even from adults. No one is allowed to touch their private parts or kiss them inappropriately.
4️⃣ Explain the difference between a “safe secret” and a “dangerous secret.” Teach your child that any secret they are asked to keep from their parents must be disclosed immediately. No one has the right to say, “Do not tell your parents.” Make it clear that such behavior is wrong.
5️⃣ Teach your child the correct names for body parts and emphasise that their body belongs to them alone. Physical greetings should be limited to appropriate gestures such as a handshake.
6️⃣ Reassure your child that they will never be punished for telling you about anything uncomfortable or inappropriate. Repeatedly remind them: “My child, never stay silent. If anyone says inappropriate or disturbing words to you, tell me immediately, and you will not be punished.”
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Mamas..... 👑
LET YOUR CHILDREN SEE YOU....
Let them see a woman unafraid to stand for what is right even when it’s uncomfortable.
Let them see a woman who prioritises herself, without guilt and without apology.
Let them see a mother who loves deeply, but never at the expense of her own dignity.
A mother who does what she loves, who smiles, laughs, and still holds space for them.
Let them see a woman with boundaries with herself and with others.
Let them see a mother who feels pain, who cries, who stumbles… and who gets back up anyway.
Let them see a woman whose centre is anchored in her Creator, not in people, moments, or things.
Let them see a mother who cares for her home,her body, her health, and her appearance because she values herself and her space.
Let them see a woman who lives with purpose, intention, and meaningful contribution to their lives.
Let them see a mother who walks away from anything that demands the sacrifice of her self-respect.
Let them see a woman they will one day admire.
A woman they will be inspired by.
Not a woman they felt sorry for, pitied, felt responsible for, afraid of or never want to be like growing up.
Because the greatest lesson you’ll ever teach them…
is who you choose to be.
May Allah(SWT) grant us the ability and strength to be good mothers in order to raise good adults.
Aameen Ya Rabbal Aalimeen
H. H
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LET YOUR CHILDREN SEE YOU....
Let them see a woman unafraid to stand for what is right even when it’s uncomfortable.
Let them see a woman who prioritises herself, without guilt and without apology.
Let them see a mother who loves deeply, but never at the expense of her own dignity.
A mother who does what she loves, who smiles, laughs, and still holds space for them.
Let them see a woman with boundaries with herself and with others.
Let them see a mother who feels pain, who cries, who stumbles… and who gets back up anyway.
Let them see a woman whose centre is anchored in her Creator, not in people, moments, or things.
Let them see a mother who cares for her home,her body, her health, and her appearance because she values herself and her space.
Let them see a woman who lives with purpose, intention, and meaningful contribution to their lives.
Let them see a mother who walks away from anything that demands the sacrifice of her self-respect.
Let them see a woman they will one day admire.
A woman they will be inspired by.
Not a woman they felt sorry for, pitied, felt responsible for, afraid of or never want to be like growing up.
Because the greatest lesson you’ll ever teach them…
is who you choose to be.
May Allah(SWT) grant us the ability and strength to be good mothers in order to raise good adults.
Aameen Ya Rabbal Aalimeen
H. H
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Dear teachers
“Not every child will remember what you taught them, but they will remember how you made them feel.”
“Not every child will remember what you taught them, but they will remember how you made them feel.”
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Parenthood is an enduring investment whose returns transcend generations. The righteousness of a child is, in part, an extension of their upbringing, instruction, supplication, and sacrifice. It is said:
"Whatever good deeds a righteous child offers, his parents share in the reward without diminishing his own,
For the child is the fruit of their effort and the product of their drive."
• أحكام الجنائز للألباني (ص١٢٦)
"Whatever good deeds a righteous child offers, his parents share in the reward without diminishing his own,
For the child is the fruit of their effort and the product of their drive."
• أحكام الجنائز للألباني (ص١٢٦)
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Ibn Sirin رحمه الله said, “We were with Abu Hurayra one night and he said, “O Allah forgive Abu Hurayra and his mother and whoever asks for forgiveness for both of them.”
Muhammad said, "We used to ask for forgiveness for them so that we would be included in Abu Hurayra's supplication."
[Al Adab Al Mufrad 37]
Muhammad said, "We used to ask for forgiveness for them so that we would be included in Abu Hurayra's supplication."
[Al Adab Al Mufrad 37]
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In Ottoman Schools, every child was evaluated due to his/her talents and every child had different courses.
The Motto of the schools which was written as grafitti on the walls was:
"Here no Fish will be forced to fly and no Bird will be forced to swim"
#Knowledge
The Motto of the schools which was written as grafitti on the walls was:
"Here no Fish will be forced to fly and no Bird will be forced to swim"
#Knowledge
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Let's stop chastising our children for not coming 1st in class.
Do not scold your kids for not attaining the 1st, 2nd or 3rd position.
These positions are just numbers, they are not the ultimate determinant of success or failure.
Rate your kid's performance by the grade or score attained in each subject, and not by overall position.
There can be 50 students in a class, your child would score 30th position, and he would still be considered to have passed.
Stop putting unnecessary pressure on your children, they are too young to be experiencing tension and trauma for fear of not meeting expectation.
Back in school days, the vacation day was such a scary day that every student would be tensed and terrified, not kmowing what their results would look like, and what their parents would do.
Some parents still consider anything beyond 3rd position as failure, irrespective of your cummulative scores.
The same pressure is extended to O'level final exams, which accounts for the reason why some students commit sulcide once they fail these exams, imagine the tongue-lashing they must have gotten from their parents.
There is more to life than Western education, even if your child fails in school, they haven't failed in life, you can enrol them to learn technical skills, handwork or trade, success isn't tied to education alone.
We should even show more concern about their Masrasah performance than their western educational performance, we should prioritize their hereafter knowledge over the others.
Let's embrace them and show them love, encourage them to work harder irrespective of their performance, so that they won't be forced to use biro to alter result figures just to impress you or dodge your wrath.
May Allah bless our kids with intellect. ameen.
Do not scold your kids for not attaining the 1st, 2nd or 3rd position.
These positions are just numbers, they are not the ultimate determinant of success or failure.
Rate your kid's performance by the grade or score attained in each subject, and not by overall position.
There can be 50 students in a class, your child would score 30th position, and he would still be considered to have passed.
Stop putting unnecessary pressure on your children, they are too young to be experiencing tension and trauma for fear of not meeting expectation.
Back in school days, the vacation day was such a scary day that every student would be tensed and terrified, not kmowing what their results would look like, and what their parents would do.
Some parents still consider anything beyond 3rd position as failure, irrespective of your cummulative scores.
The same pressure is extended to O'level final exams, which accounts for the reason why some students commit sulcide once they fail these exams, imagine the tongue-lashing they must have gotten from their parents.
There is more to life than Western education, even if your child fails in school, they haven't failed in life, you can enrol them to learn technical skills, handwork or trade, success isn't tied to education alone.
We should even show more concern about their Masrasah performance than their western educational performance, we should prioritize their hereafter knowledge over the others.
Let's embrace them and show them love, encourage them to work harder irrespective of their performance, so that they won't be forced to use biro to alter result figures just to impress you or dodge your wrath.
May Allah bless our kids with intellect. ameen.
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Muhammad bin Sulaymān rahimahuLlaah said:
"Sons are blessings, and daughters are good deeds. Alläh, the Almighty and Majestic, will call one to account for the blessings, and He will reward for the good deeds."
Al-Adab al-Shar iyyah by Ibn Muflih, 1/154
"Sons are blessings, and daughters are good deeds. Alläh, the Almighty and Majestic, will call one to account for the blessings, and He will reward for the good deeds."
Al-Adab al-Shar iyyah by Ibn Muflih, 1/154
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Fatima رضي الله عنها felt valued simply because the Prophet ﷺ acknowledged her.
Not because she achieved something.
Not because she behaved perfectly.
Not because she needed correction.
But because he noticed her.
When Fatima رضي الله عنها entered a room,
The Prophet ﷺ would stand up for her.
He would kiss her forehead.
He would seat her where he had been sitting.
(Sahih hadith)
That acknowledgment told her something powerful:
“You matter. You are seen. You are loved.”
This is how the Prophet ﷺ built hearts
not with pressure,
but with presence.
For our children, acknowledgment works the same way.
When we:
• pause what we’re doing
• look them in the eye
• respond with warmth
we’re not “spoiling” them.
We’re securing them.
A child who feels seen
doesn’t beg for attention through misbehavior.
They rest in connection.
And that’s where character grows 🤍
Not because she achieved something.
Not because she behaved perfectly.
Not because she needed correction.
But because he noticed her.
When Fatima رضي الله عنها entered a room,
The Prophet ﷺ would stand up for her.
He would kiss her forehead.
He would seat her where he had been sitting.
(Sahih hadith)
That acknowledgment told her something powerful:
“You matter. You are seen. You are loved.”
This is how the Prophet ﷺ built hearts
not with pressure,
but with presence.
For our children, acknowledgment works the same way.
When we:
• pause what we’re doing
• look them in the eye
• respond with warmth
we’re not “spoiling” them.
We’re securing them.
A child who feels seen
doesn’t beg for attention through misbehavior.
They rest in connection.
And that’s where character grows 🤍
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Advice to parents of daughters
Your daughters are the most precious responsibility for which we will be held to account so do not take it lightly.
Do not be fooled by believing she will choose the hijab when she becomes of age. The society is the most dominant influencer, it will choose for her while she thinks she made the choice willingly.
The society is not neutral but upon secular-liberal ideals, it will choose to not wear the hijab wa jilbab, and in the eyes of the shariah she’ll be committing indecent crime of nudity.
And the shariah will hold you as parents also responsible for not protecting her honour and teaching her the obligations.
I say this as many parents have come to me asking for advice on how to encourage their daughters to wear the hijab, and in most cases they left it for their daughters too late.
The love for hijab, protection of awrah and consolidation of these must be instilled at an early age. When they reach their teenage it becomes very difficult to convince them to wear it as it’s no longer a problem of thoughts (most will not object on the obligations of hijab) but of nafs (disposition).
Your daughters are the most precious responsibility for which we will be held to account so do not take it lightly.
Do not be fooled by believing she will choose the hijab when she becomes of age. The society is the most dominant influencer, it will choose for her while she thinks she made the choice willingly.
The society is not neutral but upon secular-liberal ideals, it will choose to not wear the hijab wa jilbab, and in the eyes of the shariah she’ll be committing indecent crime of nudity.
And the shariah will hold you as parents also responsible for not protecting her honour and teaching her the obligations.
I say this as many parents have come to me asking for advice on how to encourage their daughters to wear the hijab, and in most cases they left it for their daughters too late.
The love for hijab, protection of awrah and consolidation of these must be instilled at an early age. When they reach their teenage it becomes very difficult to convince them to wear it as it’s no longer a problem of thoughts (most will not object on the obligations of hijab) but of nafs (disposition).
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IF U HAVE A FATHER💚 WHO, PRAYS, WORKS & TAUGHT U DEEN THANK ALLAH, THESE MEN ARE RARE & PRICELESS!
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Do Not Burden Your Children With Liabilities - Leave Assets for Them
Consider this: you are a hardworking executive or a teacher with numerous awards and a good salary, too. But after you retire,
1. Your income ceases, and you are dependent upon your children's income, which they already have to support their families.
2. While your income is zero or a little pension, your debt, which you borrowed for your children's education and marriages stay there.
3. You realise that your savings do not increase, nor do you have income to buy assets.
4. You undergo anxiety every time your creditor calls for the return of money.
5. You or your spouse is sick but cannot afford medical expenses.
At the sunset of life, what are your options? Borrow more money? Beg for charity from friends and relatives who might be reluctant to give or wait for your death, leaving your debt for your unwilling children to repay.
On the other hand, if during your prime youth, that's between 30 to 45, if you had invested in a small business with little profit but a steady growth, at 60, it would be fetching you enough money to spend on your needs and repay the debt too. No small businesses are small if they have survived few years with a small unit of profits.
I know many people who have run a parallel small business during their employment days, whether they sold goods, started a small tea shop or even owned a running cafeteria. Upon retiring, these people had an established income and remained busy. They bore the weight of their children's marriage and also sponsored a few poor people's weddings and education, too.
My course, 'Business For Beginners', has successfully reached 500 learners, and many of them have successfully applied my advice.
This course has improved my own business analytical skills and helped a few clients of mine to revive their terminally sick businesses.
Never waste time scrolling through reels, but invest time in learning. If you have not done my Business For Beginners course, it's time you invest in and benefit from it. It is half the price of your mobile and multiple times more precious than your entire wardrobe.
Consider this: you are a hardworking executive or a teacher with numerous awards and a good salary, too. But after you retire,
1. Your income ceases, and you are dependent upon your children's income, which they already have to support their families.
2. While your income is zero or a little pension, your debt, which you borrowed for your children's education and marriages stay there.
3. You realise that your savings do not increase, nor do you have income to buy assets.
4. You undergo anxiety every time your creditor calls for the return of money.
5. You or your spouse is sick but cannot afford medical expenses.
At the sunset of life, what are your options? Borrow more money? Beg for charity from friends and relatives who might be reluctant to give or wait for your death, leaving your debt for your unwilling children to repay.
On the other hand, if during your prime youth, that's between 30 to 45, if you had invested in a small business with little profit but a steady growth, at 60, it would be fetching you enough money to spend on your needs and repay the debt too. No small businesses are small if they have survived few years with a small unit of profits.
I know many people who have run a parallel small business during their employment days, whether they sold goods, started a small tea shop or even owned a running cafeteria. Upon retiring, these people had an established income and remained busy. They bore the weight of their children's marriage and also sponsored a few poor people's weddings and education, too.
My course, 'Business For Beginners', has successfully reached 500 learners, and many of them have successfully applied my advice.
This course has improved my own business analytical skills and helped a few clients of mine to revive their terminally sick businesses.
Never waste time scrolling through reels, but invest time in learning. If you have not done my Business For Beginners course, it's time you invest in and benefit from it. It is half the price of your mobile and multiple times more precious than your entire wardrobe.
EVIL EYE.
Protect your children.
Your grandchildren.
And others.
From the evil eye.
Evil eye is the truth.
A real phenomenon.
Brought about by,
A malevolent gaze,
Usually inspired by envy
Can cause harm.
Regret not an option.
Use not social media to brag.
Do not compete for shares, likes,
A child is a trust.
Maintain that trust.
With Allah's permission.
Ibn Jamā'ah
Protect your children.
Your grandchildren.
And others.
From the evil eye.
Evil eye is the truth.
A real phenomenon.
Brought about by,
A malevolent gaze,
Usually inspired by envy
Can cause harm.
Regret not an option.
Use not social media to brag.
Do not compete for shares, likes,
A child is a trust.
Maintain that trust.
With Allah's permission.
Ibn Jamā'ah
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Your Child Was Not Created to Fulfill Your Unfinished Dreams
Alhamdulillah.
One of the quiet harms in parenting is turning a single, narrow prestige path into the definition of “success.” When this happens, tarbiyah is reduced to pressure, comparison, and anxiety, rather than guidance and cultivation.
Part of sound tarbiyah is helping a young person recognize the gifts Allah has placed within them and to pursue a ḥalāl path where they can excel, contribute, and serve with dignity. Not every child is meant for the same vocation, temperament, or public role.
The Prophet ﷺ set the framework clearly:
«اعْمَلُوا فَكُلٌّ مُيَسَّرٌ لِمَا خُلِقَ لَهُ»
“Work, for everyone will be facilitated toward that for which he was created.” (al-Bukhārī; Muslim)
Your role, then, is not to script your child’s destiny, but to protect dīn and character, to build real skill and competence, and to guide ambition with humility and responsibility. Parenting becomes distorted when a child is asked to carry a parent’s unfulfilled hopes, social anxieties, or wounded pride.
Success in Islam is about faithfulness to one’s purpose, integrity in one’s effort, and benefit to others.
وصلى الله على محمد، والحمد لله رب العالمين.
Alhamdulillah.
One of the quiet harms in parenting is turning a single, narrow prestige path into the definition of “success.” When this happens, tarbiyah is reduced to pressure, comparison, and anxiety, rather than guidance and cultivation.
Part of sound tarbiyah is helping a young person recognize the gifts Allah has placed within them and to pursue a ḥalāl path where they can excel, contribute, and serve with dignity. Not every child is meant for the same vocation, temperament, or public role.
The Prophet ﷺ set the framework clearly:
«اعْمَلُوا فَكُلٌّ مُيَسَّرٌ لِمَا خُلِقَ لَهُ»
“Work, for everyone will be facilitated toward that for which he was created.” (al-Bukhārī; Muslim)
Your role, then, is not to script your child’s destiny, but to protect dīn and character, to build real skill and competence, and to guide ambition with humility and responsibility. Parenting becomes distorted when a child is asked to carry a parent’s unfulfilled hopes, social anxieties, or wounded pride.
Success in Islam is about faithfulness to one’s purpose, integrity in one’s effort, and benefit to others.
وصلى الله على محمد، والحمد لله رب العالمين.
Honoring our parents is among the greatest paths to Allah’s pleasure. Through their love, sacrifice, and dua, doors open that no one else can open.
May Allah ﷻ allow us to serve them with gentleness, to be a source of joy for them in this life, and to meet them again through the gate of Paradise Ameen
May Allah ﷻ allow us to serve them with gentleness, to be a source of joy for them in this life, and to meet them again through the gate of Paradise Ameen
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