I guarantee you, one of the best things you will ever do is stop telling certain people what’s going on in your life.
The healing you need is coming. The money you need is coming. God will make a way for you.
Sometimes you just have to stop being scared and go for it. Either it will work or it won’t. That’s life
My love language is quality time. I want to see your face. I want to hang out and go on dates nights or we can cook and stay in, order a pizza and watch movies, or bake some cakes. It's about that quality time spent together.
My intuition never lies. I know when someone not feeling me anymore & they don’t wanna say it. I know when I’m in danger. I know when another person has interest in the same person I do. I just know these things, it’s weird
The highest form of love is consideration. When someone thinks about how things would make you feel. Pays attention to detail. Holds you in regard when making decisions that could affect you. In any bond, how much they care about you can be found in how much they consider you.
It hurts my heart when I come across people who are ashamed of their situation. Your credit is in the 500s? You must’ve been through some things. It’ll get back up. You’re broke? Been there. You don’t have a car? You will eventually. LIFE HAPPENS and we all go through stuff. We all make mistakes. I’ve been through some things in life that have humbled me beyond belief and because of that, I will never judge the next person. Keep going, y’all. It gets better. Sometimes the ‘lows’ are just a part of the process. Don’t stop.
I don't care what anybody says, you can sense a jealous spirit, negative energy and a miserable person.
I'm finally coming to peace with the fact that you can't keep tripping over what you can't control, all you can do is stay solid on your end. Everyone gonna do what they want regardless of how you feel. Don't lose your mind tryna figure out where you went wrong.
I’m not even going to lie, every time people tell me “I’m proud of you.” I tear up a little. I don’t think anyone understands how hard I am on myself and how much I beat myself up believing I’m not doing good. So thank you.
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Stop letting people consume you. They didn’t call? Go to sleep. They didn’t message you? Put your phone down and have a better day. They left you on read? Delete the conversation. They didn’t make an effort? Match their energy. Never let your happiness depend on anyone.
When I like someone, I instantly start going too hard. I am too available, too giving, too loyal, too thoughtful, too reliable. I need to calm down and only be what someone is to me. That's my problem. I always love how I want to be loved, hoping it gets reciprocated.
I used to think I was toxic, and I was. but I was only toxic because I needed a defense mechanism. I'm not toxic to those that are good to me. I'm not toxic to those that make me feel loved. I'm nice. I'm kind. I'm loving. I'm all of those things until I'm given a reason not to be.
If someone isn’t choosing you, choose yourself. No more trying to be enough. No more jumping through hoops to be chosen, no more trying to heal them into loving you and no more trying to convince them of your value. Life is hard enough, don’t make it harder by chasing love that isn’t available to you. Let them go.
Will always care for you, even if we are not together and even if we are far, far away from each other.
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Tomorrow will be better!
Then you say it again tomorrow. Because it might be. You never know, right? At some point, tomorrow will be better.
Then you say it again tomorrow. Because it might be. You never know, right? At some point, tomorrow will be better.
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Every day you wake up, think about what a privilege it is to simply be alive and healthy.
Stop focusing on the negatives and everything that could go wrong and start thinking about what could go right.
Better yet, think of everything that already is right.
Stop focusing on the negatives and everything that could go wrong and start thinking about what could go right.
Better yet, think of everything that already is right.
Sometimes when I wake up in the morning and go for my daily run and workout, I try to visualize what my perfect day would look like, and play this beautiful scene inside my head over and over again.
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It’s really powerful stuff, and I’m getting more clear of what I want and desire the most each time I do it.