The men who are the most frustrated with their results are almost always the men who have been consuming the longest.
Not approaching/ not messaging/not going on dates.
Just consuming. Podcasts, YouTube breakdowns, forum threads, Telegram channels like this one.
Building an enormous theoretical understanding of attraction while their actual experience stays completely flat.
They can tell you exactly why a particular approach failed.
They can diagnose another man’s situation with impressive accuracy but put them in front of a woman they actually like and the whole framework dissolves, because knowledge and experience are not the same thing and the brain doesn’t care how much you know.
I was guilty of this early on. There was a period where I was more interested in understanding why something worked than in going out and doing it. It felt productive. It felt like progress. It wasn’t. I was just getting more sophisticated at staying in my head.
Consuming never fully stops and it doesn’t need to but there’s a point where more information starts working against you, because it gives you more things to think about mid-interaction when thinking is the last thing you need to be doing.
The guy who’s read everything freezes because he’s quietly running through frameworks. The guy who’s read almost nothing just talks to her.
At some point the only question that matters is how many real reps you got this week and not how much you learned. It’s not how well you understood something.
Reps.
Not approaching/ not messaging/not going on dates.
Just consuming. Podcasts, YouTube breakdowns, forum threads, Telegram channels like this one.
Building an enormous theoretical understanding of attraction while their actual experience stays completely flat.
They can tell you exactly why a particular approach failed.
They can diagnose another man’s situation with impressive accuracy but put them in front of a woman they actually like and the whole framework dissolves, because knowledge and experience are not the same thing and the brain doesn’t care how much you know.
I was guilty of this early on. There was a period where I was more interested in understanding why something worked than in going out and doing it. It felt productive. It felt like progress. It wasn’t. I was just getting more sophisticated at staying in my head.
Consuming never fully stops and it doesn’t need to but there’s a point where more information starts working against you, because it gives you more things to think about mid-interaction when thinking is the last thing you need to be doing.
The guy who’s read everything freezes because he’s quietly running through frameworks. The guy who’s read almost nothing just talks to her.
At some point the only question that matters is how many real reps you got this week and not how much you learned. It’s not how well you understood something.
Reps.
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A lot of followers of TRP and game are obsessed with maxxing themselves out.
They have not realised that when girls love you they rationalise every one of your flaws as something great.
Your average penis becomes the perfect one, your body is the ideal.
Most guys just need to approach more, run their own mission, rack up masses of experience with girls and take them off the pedestal.
Max yourself out but do it for you, not the girls that will naturally love you by virtue of you being a G.
They have not realised that when girls love you they rationalise every one of your flaws as something great.
Your average penis becomes the perfect one, your body is the ideal.
Most guys just need to approach more, run their own mission, rack up masses of experience with girls and take them off the pedestal.
Max yourself out but do it for you, not the girls that will naturally love you by virtue of you being a G.
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Women ultimately want a man that has been around.
Not necessarily slept around.
Been around.
They give more shit nowadays than ever because that is the state of the game, which they accept as is.
Women giving shit to men.
They are just testing if you have been around enough to know it.
Not necessarily slept around.
Been around.
They give more shit nowadays than ever because that is the state of the game, which they accept as is.
Women giving shit to men.
They are just testing if you have been around enough to know it.
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You automatically become the best version of yourself when you are with a woman who is genuinely into you.
Every insecurity, everything you do not like about yourself goes away.
Your voice, your posture, your self image turn effortlessly perfect.
You become Tyler Durden.
Every insecurity, everything you do not like about yourself goes away.
Your voice, your posture, your self image turn effortlessly perfect.
You become Tyler Durden.
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Currently in Canada.
I’m doing a 90 day challenge on cold approach.
Goal is getting 3 dates per week through cold approach.
Trying to see if it’s a good alternative to the apps or another good source to combine with it.
Will be documenting the journey on my substack.
It’s for paid sub only so if you want to see how it goes then check it out
I’m doing a 90 day challenge on cold approach.
Goal is getting 3 dates per week through cold approach.
Trying to see if it’s a good alternative to the apps or another good source to combine with it.
Will be documenting the journey on my substack.
It’s for paid sub only so if you want to see how it goes then check it out
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Something that men don’t seem to understand is that unattractive women have the worst attitudes, not the best ones
They seem to think 'ahh she’s ugly so she must be nice to compensate'
No, the prettier she is the nicer people are to her so the better her attitude is
They seem to think 'ahh she’s ugly so she must be nice to compensate'
No, the prettier she is the nicer people are to her so the better her attitude is
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As corny as it sounds, men need battle.
Boredom kicks in after a long stretch of quiet and depression is right behind it and if you cannot manufacture your own wars, wars where winning actually improves your life, you will find yourself enlisting to fight wars that only benefit someone else.
Boredom kicks in after a long stretch of quiet and depression is right behind it and if you cannot manufacture your own wars, wars where winning actually improves your life, you will find yourself enlisting to fight wars that only benefit someone else.
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Sexual submission is the most reliable guage of a woman’s love.
If she's willing to do things that risk her honor in public like risqué sex at family gatherings or giving a hand job in packed theaters, you’re her everything.
Without that, you’re just a means to an end
If she's willing to do things that risk her honor in public like risqué sex at family gatherings or giving a hand job in packed theaters, you’re her everything.
Without that, you’re just a means to an end
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Your COMPETITION in 2026:
- guys who never go outside
- passport bros
- gymcels
- blackpillers
- looksmaxxers
- cringe PUAs
- MGTOW losers
- bald guys
- misogynists
- guys who wait for girls to approach
- pr0n addicts
- guys who wear H&M
NEVER BEEN EASIER
- guys who never go outside
- passport bros
- gymcels
- blackpillers
- looksmaxxers
- cringe PUAs
- MGTOW losers
- bald guys
- misogynists
- guys who wait for girls to approach
- pr0n addicts
- guys who wear H&M
NEVER BEEN EASIER
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Most men who follow dating advice content for more than six months don’t actually get better.
They get more informed. Those are different things and the gap between them is where most men spend years without realising it.
I’ve watched it happen in slow motion. A man finds the content, starts learning, feels the clarity that comes from finally having a framework for something that used to feel random and confusing. That clarity feels like progress and for the first two or three months it probably is but somewhere along the way the learning becomes the activity instead of the preparation for the activity, and nothing in his actual life changes because nothing in his actual behaviour changes.
The reason my paid channel exists is because I got tired of producing content that informed men without moving them. Free content, by its nature, has to stay general. It has to speak to everyone at once, which means it ends up being truly useful to almost no one in particular.
A man with specific sticking points needs specific answers, not another post about mindset that he can nod along to and then close his phone.
Inside the paid channel you get two things that free content structurally cannot give you. The first is depth - posts that go further into the mechanics of a situation than I can go here, because here I’m writing for a crowd and there I’m writing for men who have already decided they’re serious. The second is access. Every Monday I open the floor for questions and I answer them directly, specifically, without softening the answer to protect anyone’s feelings. If your situation needs a straight read, that’s where you get one.
The price is $10 a month. If you’ve been consuming content for months and your results haven’t moved, the problem probably isn’t that you need more free content. It’s that you need someone to actually look at what you’re doing and tell you what’s wrong with it.
The link below 👇
Manofstxxx.substack.com
They get more informed. Those are different things and the gap between them is where most men spend years without realising it.
I’ve watched it happen in slow motion. A man finds the content, starts learning, feels the clarity that comes from finally having a framework for something that used to feel random and confusing. That clarity feels like progress and for the first two or three months it probably is but somewhere along the way the learning becomes the activity instead of the preparation for the activity, and nothing in his actual life changes because nothing in his actual behaviour changes.
The reason my paid channel exists is because I got tired of producing content that informed men without moving them. Free content, by its nature, has to stay general. It has to speak to everyone at once, which means it ends up being truly useful to almost no one in particular.
A man with specific sticking points needs specific answers, not another post about mindset that he can nod along to and then close his phone.
Inside the paid channel you get two things that free content structurally cannot give you. The first is depth - posts that go further into the mechanics of a situation than I can go here, because here I’m writing for a crowd and there I’m writing for men who have already decided they’re serious. The second is access. Every Monday I open the floor for questions and I answer them directly, specifically, without softening the answer to protect anyone’s feelings. If your situation needs a straight read, that’s where you get one.
The price is $10 a month. If you’ve been consuming content for months and your results haven’t moved, the problem probably isn’t that you need more free content. It’s that you need someone to actually look at what you’re doing and tell you what’s wrong with it.
The link below 👇
Manofstxxx.substack.com
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This happened about two years ago and I still use it as an example when men ask me why logistics matter more than almost anything else.
I met a woman at a house party in the early part of the evening. Friend of a friend, nobody I’d been told about beforehand. We started talking near the kitchen, the conversation went well, she was laughing, touching my arm, the whole thing was moving in an obvious direction. About forty minutes in I suggested we get a drink somewhere quieter. She said yes without hesitating.
This is where I made the mistake.
The quieter place I had in mind was a bar about a fifteen minute drive away. I didn’t have a car that night. She didn’t offer hers. So we stood outside for a few minutes trying to sort out how to actually get there, the conversation broke its rhythm, her friend came out to check on her, and the whole thing that had been building for forty minutes just bled out on the pavement while we were figuring out an Uber.
She went back inside with her friend. We exchanged numbers. She was polite about it but the energy never came back and the text thread went nowhere.
I’ve thought about that night a lot. The attraction was real. The conversation was good. I did nothing wrong in the interaction itself. What I did wrong was suggest a move I hadn’t thought through, in a situation where the momentum was fragile enough that a fifteen minute logistical problem was enough to kill it.
What that night taught me is that the approach and the conversation are only part of the job. The other part is knowing before you suggest anything where you’re actually going to take it, how you’re going to get there, and whether the path between here and there is clean enough to survive real world friction.
Attraction moves, and if you stall it at the wrong moment it doesn’t always come back.
Night game especially exposes this because everything happens faster and the windows are shorter. A woman who is genuinely into you at 10pm has a different set of options by midnight, and the man who moves her smoothly from one location to the next without creating friction is almost always the one who ends up with her attention at the end of the night and it’s because he thought ahead.
Before you suggest moving anywhere, know exactly where you’re suggesting, know how you’re getting there, and make it sound like something you’ve already decided rather than something you’re figuring out in real time.
A man who says “let’s go to X, it’s ten minutes from here” reads completely differently than a man who says “we should go somewhere, what do you think?”
One of those men seems like he knows what he’s doing. The other one just created a committee.
I sorted out my own logistics after that. Small thing. Made a consistent difference.
I met a woman at a house party in the early part of the evening. Friend of a friend, nobody I’d been told about beforehand. We started talking near the kitchen, the conversation went well, she was laughing, touching my arm, the whole thing was moving in an obvious direction. About forty minutes in I suggested we get a drink somewhere quieter. She said yes without hesitating.
This is where I made the mistake.
The quieter place I had in mind was a bar about a fifteen minute drive away. I didn’t have a car that night. She didn’t offer hers. So we stood outside for a few minutes trying to sort out how to actually get there, the conversation broke its rhythm, her friend came out to check on her, and the whole thing that had been building for forty minutes just bled out on the pavement while we were figuring out an Uber.
She went back inside with her friend. We exchanged numbers. She was polite about it but the energy never came back and the text thread went nowhere.
I’ve thought about that night a lot. The attraction was real. The conversation was good. I did nothing wrong in the interaction itself. What I did wrong was suggest a move I hadn’t thought through, in a situation where the momentum was fragile enough that a fifteen minute logistical problem was enough to kill it.
What that night taught me is that the approach and the conversation are only part of the job. The other part is knowing before you suggest anything where you’re actually going to take it, how you’re going to get there, and whether the path between here and there is clean enough to survive real world friction.
Attraction moves, and if you stall it at the wrong moment it doesn’t always come back.
Night game especially exposes this because everything happens faster and the windows are shorter. A woman who is genuinely into you at 10pm has a different set of options by midnight, and the man who moves her smoothly from one location to the next without creating friction is almost always the one who ends up with her attention at the end of the night and it’s because he thought ahead.
Before you suggest moving anywhere, know exactly where you’re suggesting, know how you’re getting there, and make it sound like something you’ve already decided rather than something you’re figuring out in real time.
A man who says “let’s go to X, it’s ten minutes from here” reads completely differently than a man who says “we should go somewhere, what do you think?”
One of those men seems like he knows what he’s doing. The other one just created a committee.
I sorted out my own logistics after that. Small thing. Made a consistent difference.
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If you’re fat, broke and a dweeb, you should watch Solo leveling
You'll eventually realize that what the protagonist is doing is something you can do irl (stop being a loser)
Take for ex the gym: you’re not getting exp points to level up your strength after completing a task but one week you can lift 10lbs for 6 reps, then the next week 8 reps, then the next 10 reps, then the next you can lift 12 lbs for 6 reps and so on
Take whatever example you need to get out of the hole
You'll eventually realize that what the protagonist is doing is something you can do irl (stop being a loser)
Take for ex the gym: you’re not getting exp points to level up your strength after completing a task but one week you can lift 10lbs for 6 reps, then the next week 8 reps, then the next 10 reps, then the next you can lift 12 lbs for 6 reps and so on
Take whatever example you need to get out of the hole
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Every guy who dates hot women has “their thing” that they invite women into. They’re not just asking her out for drinks and praying that she doesn’t flake.
Examples:
- The musical guy has concerts and psychedelics
- The nightlife guy gets her into the best parties/clubs (and has drugs)
- The photography guy takes pics of her
- Outdoorsy guy takes her hiking/camping
- Country guy takes her 2 stepping/teaches her how to shoot guns
- Religious guy invites her to church events
Figure out what your “thing” is and bring girls into it.
Examples:
- The musical guy has concerts and psychedelics
- The nightlife guy gets her into the best parties/clubs (and has drugs)
- The photography guy takes pics of her
- Outdoorsy guy takes her hiking/camping
- Country guy takes her 2 stepping/teaches her how to shoot guns
- Religious guy invites her to church events
Figure out what your “thing” is and bring girls into it.
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