HOW ARE YOU GUYS DOING?

Most guys by 30 have a dead social life.

Unless you enjoy cold approach, if you want to meet women off apps you must be proactive and become the guy who makes things happen.

Keeping your social life alive as you age takes effort.

But the payoff of being socially connected and plugged in is massive.

Seen cows get herded by a small puppy

Fifty pound dog scaring half ton cattle. It is about what that dog believes it is. He moves like a wolf

The dog thinks like a predator and the cow thinks like prey.

It really is that simple.

If you do not have that mindset you are royally fucked

Girls have zero idea how money works. Think it grows on trees. Very cute

Comes from their weak grasp of size and proportion overall

Ask a girl to guess your height, or your weight; or say how many people live in the country

They’re always wildly wrong.

Even if they’re “smart”

Never seen a guy fall in love with a girl and come out of it without losing purpose, money, dignity, friends

You can feel love for a girl and it’s very different

“Falling” is sloppy, undisciplined, and guarantees you lose your identity

You control it like any other emotion

There’s something life affirming about stepping outside in the morning, breathing the air, face completely blank.

You don’t have exactly what you want yet, but you know you’ll get it.

You don’t know how, but you know you’ll get it.

You don’t care how, but you know you’ll get it.

Wild how many dudes lock down chicks and let them stay or get fat, then have the nerve to parade their fat or unkempt girl around town.

Extremely poor leadership and a deeper reflection of the quality of the man, not the woman.

The aura every man wants is built from years of facing brutal problems and solving them

It carves a certain look into you that nothing else can copy

Shoes, spray tans, TRT, teeth whitening, no cosmetic shortcut can fake it

You always recognize it when you see it

Girls who are interested in you DON’T stay interested forever.

There’s a set amount of time she’s interested, after which, if you do not CLOSE, she MOVES ON.

This is one of the most important rules for men to learn.

She ain’t going to wait around forever.

Seal the deal.

How to play the game the right way

Easy...

Don’t make her think she’ll get something you can’t give

During the early “free trial” time, show her a great time

So if she later wants more and you can’t offer that

She still left the situation better than when she came in

Could someone say you left her worse off because you didn’t offer commitment?

Maybe

But like most things in life, it’s about keeping a balance and meeting halfway

You want to stay free, so you stay free

And you did this without lying

That’s the key part

Let's do a thought experiment to cleanse your soul:

You see a video of a woman cheating on her man with another guy. Its morbid and disgusting. You think, "what a gross existence.."

Then you scroll and see another video, this time it's a podcast where guys bring on girls that will definitely get them views. She's an OF chick talking about how she wants a 6'5 chad who makes $1m/yr. You think what a gold digging hoe. Used up and expects all that from a man?

Then you repeat this a few more times with a bunch of more videos and stories over the next few days. Do you know what happens to you?

Youve become Grade A radicalized by handpicked propaganda. You become worn and torn on the topic of dating. You repeat weird things like "the West is done for" and "all women are whores"

You become calloused. You take what few viral videos you've seen on the internet and displace the entire existence of women as what you've seen on your phone. With some of the worlds worst examples of the most beautiful and softest creature.

You've become a women-fearing, angry little boy. And you use this online "truth" to run your mind and command of operations. You are miserable. Of course you have difficulty with women; you are suspicious of their every move to a mentally ill level.

Stop watching these videos if this is you. Become disciplined in scrolling right by them. Click you're not interested, rehash your algo. Your future wife and kids will thank you. This is all a show. You'll be better off for it.

Thank me later.

Overlooking a clear dealbreaker is just postponing the damage that will eventually hit you harder than if you had walked away at the start

Believing you can change someone is usually a way of avoiding a hard decision

Have dignity and end it when you see it clearly

Not dating women until you hit certain amount of 💵 or a certain stat is one of the wildest copes out there.

If you will not do it now I can promise you that you will not magically do it when you hit your mark.

You should be doing everything on the come up that you would be doing if you already made it big.

So many guys online be like “I can’t get girls, I’m not tall/hot/rich enough.”

Then you meet them: their personalities are flat, convo is awkward, and social skills bad.

Develop personality, conversation, and social aptitude.

Then see if you care about that other stuff (you won’t).

You have to go meet women IN PERSON.

Not just “learning about women” on red/black pill channels that freak you out with the “worst of women.”

Go talk to real women, OFTEN, and you’ll see the “worst of women” are tiny in number and you almost never meet them.

Also, dating apps don’t count.

The “worst of women” thrive on apps.

The proper way to build INTRIGUE:

=> Bring up interesting stuff, but don’t explain everything (plant the bait) => When she asks (takes the bait), give a bit more, but still leave things unsaid
=> She’ll keep asking if she’s intrigued

The proper way to build CONNECTION:

=> Talk to her and find out her attitudes / what she values
=> Connect with her over the attitudes and values you share

Do both right, and she’ll feel DEEPLY CONNECTED to you… yet still see you as a man full of intrigue and mystery.

New MOS Stack

Check it out:

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Do you want girls to CHOOSE you or do you want girls to CHASE you?

❌ CHOOSE: you talk about yourself, hoping she’s impressed.
✅ CHASE: you ask her what she does that’s impressive, and approve of what you like.

❌ CHOOSE: you pay for fancy dates, hoping she feels grateful.
✅ CHASE: you remove money from the equation so the focus is on the connection.

❌ CHOOSE: you act as respectful as possible, hoping she’ll like you.
✅ CHASE: you tease her, bust her balls, and make her qualify herself to you.

❌ CHOOSE: you never stop focusing on her, hoping she won’t run off.
✅ CHASE: you talk to friends and other people; sometimes SHE has to reengage YOU.

❌ CHOOSE: you fill every pause in conversation, hoping it never feels awkward.
✅ CHASE: you leave pauses sometimes, seeing if she’ll fill them.

❌ CHOOSE: you do everything for her, making it as easy as possible to be with you.
✅ CHASE: you ask her to do things for you, testing if she’s willing to invest.

❌ CHOOSE: you keep it platonic, hoping not to scare her by being sexual.
✅ CHASE: you sexualize things at some point, because it’s FUN, and that’s where you want it to go.

Some guys hope to be chosen. Some guys make girls chase them. Decide which one you’ll be, and act accordingly.

USING “ONLY” TO RESPOND TO WOMEN’S TESTS works extremely well for playful tests or teasing.

Example:
Her: “Do you do this with every girl?”
You: “Only the cool ones / naughty ones / etc.”

Her: “I bet you bring every girl here.”
You: “Only the really bad ones.”

It gives you a vibe of selectiveness while staying relaxed and playful with her test.

FRUSTRATION with women shows you at least ONE (1) thing:

=> You are with the wrong type of woman, OR
=> You are approaching women the wrong way

Most of the time, it’s BOTH: you are dealing with the wrong type of woman, in the wrong possible way.