🔥 DAY 5: THE OPENER 🔥
Today: Approach 1 woman you find attractive and start a conversation. Doesn't matter what you say.
Simple openers that work:
- 'Hey, I noticed you and wanted to say hi. I'm [name]'
- 'Excuse me, I think you're cute. What's your name?'
- Situational: 'That book looks interesting, what's it about?'
Say SOMETHING. Get experience. Doesn't matter if it goes anywhere.
This is the most important day so far.
Don't skip it.
'DAY 5 DONE ✅'
Today: Approach 1 woman you find attractive and start a conversation. Doesn't matter what you say.
Simple openers that work:
- 'Hey, I noticed you and wanted to say hi. I'm [name]'
- 'Excuse me, I think you're cute. What's your name?'
- Situational: 'That book looks interesting, what's it about?'
Say SOMETHING. Get experience. Doesn't matter if it goes anywhere.
This is the most important day so far.
Don't skip it.
'DAY 5 DONE ✅'
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Field Report Friday:
Was at the coffee shop earlier.
Saw a dude approach a girl. His opener? 'Are you single?'
She said no and he walked away immediately.
The problem is simple: He led with the outcome. He made it transactional.
Better approach: Start a normal conversation. Build a vibe. THEN escalate.
'Hey, I'm working on my laptop and needed a break. What are you reading?'
See the difference?
One is desperate.
One is natural.
Stop leading with your dick.
Lead with curiosity and confidence.
Was at the coffee shop earlier.
Saw a dude approach a girl. His opener? 'Are you single?'
She said no and he walked away immediately.
The problem is simple: He led with the outcome. He made it transactional.
Better approach: Start a normal conversation. Build a vibe. THEN escalate.
'Hey, I'm working on my laptop and needed a break. What are you reading?'
See the difference?
One is desperate.
One is natural.
Stop leading with your dick.
Lead with curiosity and confidence.
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🔥 DAY 6: WEEKEND WARRIOR 🔥
Weekend mission: Approach 2 women today. Get their reactions. Learn from it.
You've built up to this all week. You can do it.
Bonus: If you get a number, screenshot it (blur her info) and DM me. I'll review your text game for free.
'DAY 6 DONE ✅'
Weekend mission: Approach 2 women today. Get their reactions. Learn from it.
You've built up to this all week. You can do it.
Bonus: If you get a number, screenshot it (blur her info) and DM me. I'll review your text game for free.
'DAY 6 DONE ✅'
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WIN OF THE WEEK
Drop your biggest win from this week below 👇
Did you:
- Complete all 6 challenge days?
- Get a number?
- Have a successful date?
- Finally approach someone?
Let's celebrate.
Best win gets featured in tomorrow's post.
Drop your biggest win from this week below 👇
Did you:
- Complete all 6 challenge days?
- Get a number?
- Have a successful date?
- Finally approach someone?
Let's celebrate.
Best win gets featured in tomorrow's post.
🔥 DAY 7: REST & REFLECT🔥
No mission today.
This is your rest day but here's your homework:
Reflect on the week:
- What did you learn?
- What felt uncomfortable?
- What got easier?
- What are you avoiding?
Write it down.
Self-awareness is how you grow.
Tomorrow we level up.
No mission today.
This is your rest day but here's your homework:
Reflect on the week:
- What did you learn?
- What felt uncomfortable?
- What got easier?
- What are you avoiding?
Write it down.
Self-awareness is how you grow.
Tomorrow we level up.
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🔥 DAY 8: THE NUMBER CLOSE 🔥
Today's mission: Approach 1 woman and ask for her number.
It doesn't matter if the conversation is perfect.
Just:
1. Start the conversation
2. Talk for 2-3 minutes
3. Say: 'I gotta run, but I'd like to continue this. What's your number?'
That's it.
If she says no, who cares.
You're building reference experiences.
'DAY 8 DONE ✅ (+ 📱 if you got the number)'
Today's mission: Approach 1 woman and ask for her number.
It doesn't matter if the conversation is perfect.
Just:
1. Start the conversation
2. Talk for 2-3 minutes
3. Say: 'I gotta run, but I'd like to continue this. What's your number?'
That's it.
If she says no, who cares.
You're building reference experiences.
'DAY 8 DONE ✅ (+ 📱 if you got the number)'
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Most guys never ask for the number.
They have a good conversation, vibe with her, then... just walk away.
Why?
Fear of rejection.
Look, she's probably WAITING for you to ask. If you don't, she thinks you're not interested or you're a pussy.
Ask for the number.
Worst case: She says no and you never see her again anyway.
Best case: You've got a date lined up.
Stop self-rejecting.
They have a good conversation, vibe with her, then... just walk away.
Why?
Fear of rejection.
Look, she's probably WAITING for you to ask. If you don't, she thinks you're not interested or you're a pussy.
Ask for the number.
Worst case: She says no and you never see her again anyway.
Best case: You've got a date lined up.
Stop self-rejecting.
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🔥 DAY 9: ENVIRONMENT SWITCH 🔥
Today: Approach someone in a NEW environment.
If you've been doing coffee shops, try a bookstore.
If you've been doing bars, try daytime on the street.
If you've been doing gym, try a park.
Different environments = different energy.
Expand your comfort zone.
1 approach minimum.
'DAY 9 DONE ✅'
Today: Approach someone in a NEW environment.
If you've been doing coffee shops, try a bookstore.
If you've been doing bars, try daytime on the street.
If you've been doing gym, try a park.
Different environments = different energy.
Expand your comfort zone.
1 approach minimum.
'DAY 9 DONE ✅'
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SHOUTOUT OF THE WEEK
Big respect to everyone who completed all 9 days this week.
Special shoutout to @vane478 who went from being nervous to make eye contact to actually approaching and getting numbers (5 so far).
This is what happens when you actually DO THE WORK.
If you haven't started the challenge yet, jump in tomorrow. We're just getting started.
Big respect to everyone who completed all 9 days this week.
Special shoutout to @vane478 who went from being nervous to make eye contact to actually approaching and getting numbers (5 so far).
This is what happens when you actually DO THE WORK.
If you haven't started the challenge yet, jump in tomorrow. We're just getting started.
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Quick question: How many of you are doing cold approach but STRUGGLING with what to say after the opener?
You start the conversation... then it dies in 30 seconds.
This is why I created the Cold Approach Guide ($24).
It's not just openers. It's:
- How to keep the conversation flowing
- Reading her signals
- When to ask for the number
- Handling rejections
- Situational strategies
https://manofstxxx.gumroad.com/l/aypjk
You start the conversation... then it dies in 30 seconds.
This is why I created the Cold Approach Guide ($24).
It's not just openers. It's:
- How to keep the conversation flowing
- Reading her signals
- When to ask for the number
- Handling rejections
- Situational strategies
https://manofstxxx.gumroad.com/l/aypjk
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🔥 DAY 10: THE DOUBLE 🔥
Today: Approach 2 women. Back to back if possible.
Why? Because approaching once and being done is weak.
Real confidence = approaching, getting rejected, and IMMEDIATELY approaching again.
That's abundance mentality.
'DAY 10 DONE ✅'
Today: Approach 2 women. Back to back if possible.
Why? Because approaching once and being done is weak.
Real confidence = approaching, getting rejected, and IMMEDIATELY approaching again.
That's abundance mentality.
'DAY 10 DONE ✅'
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"Just be yourself" is the worst dating advice ever given.
Your "self" right now might be:
- Anxious on dates
- Doesn't know how to create attraction
- Gets friend-zoned constantly
- Struggles to even get dates
Why would you "be yourself" when that version isn't working?
"Be yourself" is advice for people who already have their shit together. Not for guys still learning the game.
Instead, do this:
=> Learn the skills (conversation, escalation, reading interest)
=> Build real confidence (gym, career, style)
Develop genuine charisma (social practice, not pickup lines)
THEN be yourself.
Because that version of "yourself" will actually be attractive.
This isn't about being fake. It's about leveling up FIRST so your authentic self is someone women want to be around.
The man you are today isn't your final form.
Stop settling for him.
Disagree?
Think I'm wrong?
Drop your take below. 👇
Your "self" right now might be:
- Anxious on dates
- Doesn't know how to create attraction
- Gets friend-zoned constantly
- Struggles to even get dates
Why would you "be yourself" when that version isn't working?
"Be yourself" is advice for people who already have their shit together. Not for guys still learning the game.
Instead, do this:
=> Learn the skills (conversation, escalation, reading interest)
=> Build real confidence (gym, career, style)
Develop genuine charisma (social practice, not pickup lines)
THEN be yourself.
Because that version of "yourself" will actually be attractive.
This isn't about being fake. It's about leveling up FIRST so your authentic self is someone women want to be around.
The man you are today isn't your final form.
Stop settling for him.
Disagree?
Think I'm wrong?
Drop your take below. 👇
🔥 DAY 11: NIGHT GAME🔥
If you've been doing daytime approaches, tonight switch to a bar/club/social venue.
If you've been doing nighttime, switch to daytime.
1 approach in the opposite time zone.
Learn that game is game - time doesn't matter.
'DAY 11 DONE ✅'
If you've been doing daytime approaches, tonight switch to a bar/club/social venue.
If you've been doing nighttime, switch to daytime.
1 approach in the opposite time zone.
Learn that game is game - time doesn't matter.
'DAY 11 DONE ✅'
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Q&A Drop
What's your biggest sticking point with women right now?
Drop it below.
I'll answer the best questions.
What's your biggest sticking point with women right now?
Drop it below.
I'll answer the best questions.
🔥 DAY 12: THE INSTANT DATE 🔥
Today's challenge: If the conversation goes well, invite her to grab a coffee/drink RIGHT NOW.
'I'm about to grab a coffee, join me for 10 minutes.'
This is next-level.
Most guys never do this.
Instant dates convert better than planned dates because:
- Momentum is high
- No flaking
- Immediate vibe check
Try it. Even if she says no, you're building boldness.
'DAY 12 DONE ✅ (+ ☕ if you got the instant date)'
Today's challenge: If the conversation goes well, invite her to grab a coffee/drink RIGHT NOW.
'I'm about to grab a coffee, join me for 10 minutes.'
This is next-level.
Most guys never do this.
Instant dates convert better than planned dates because:
- Momentum is high
- No flaking
- Immediate vibe check
Try it. Even if she says no, you're building boldness.
'DAY 12 DONE ✅ (+ ☕ if you got the instant date)'
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#AskMOS
"I know how to ignite the love but not how to maintain it this is why I can't have long term relationships they are all in the first few months then ghost"
The Answer:
Man, I feel this. That early phase is intoxicating - everything's new, you're both on your best behavior, the sex is incredible, you can't wait to see them. Then around month 3 or 4, something shifts and you don't know why.
You have to understand that change is supposed to happen. The butterflies can't last forever - your brain literally can't sustain that chemical high but we've all been fed this bullshit idea that if the excitement fades, you're with the wrong person.
So we bail and start over with someone new, chasing that same high.
You're not broken for struggling with this. Most people do. The difference is some people push through the awkward middle part and figure out what's on the other side.
What usually happens is the mystery fades, you both relax, and suddenly you're dealing with a real person - not the idealized version you fell for. Maybe you get scared they'll see the real you and leave. Maybe you get bored because they're not performing anymore.
Either way, your instinct is to ghost before it gets messy.
The solution isn't sexy, but here goes:
=> Stay yourself: Don't abandon your friends or hobbies to become "we." People who lose themselves in relationships become boring, then resentful.
=> Get comfortable with uncomfortable conversations: Every relationship worth having will piss you off sometimes. Learn to say "hey, this bothered me" instead of letting it build.
Realize that choosing someone every day is harder than falling for them once. Some days you won't feel it. That's normal.
The real question: do you actually want a long-term thing, or do you just think you should? Because if you're happy cycling through connections, that's fine too.
But if you genuinely want something lasting, you've gotta sit with the discomfort when it stops feeling easy.
You've already figured out the hard part - making someone fall for you. Now you just need to learn how to stay.
-MOS
"I know how to ignite the love but not how to maintain it this is why I can't have long term relationships they are all in the first few months then ghost"
The Answer:
Man, I feel this. That early phase is intoxicating - everything's new, you're both on your best behavior, the sex is incredible, you can't wait to see them. Then around month 3 or 4, something shifts and you don't know why.
You have to understand that change is supposed to happen. The butterflies can't last forever - your brain literally can't sustain that chemical high but we've all been fed this bullshit idea that if the excitement fades, you're with the wrong person.
So we bail and start over with someone new, chasing that same high.
You're not broken for struggling with this. Most people do. The difference is some people push through the awkward middle part and figure out what's on the other side.
What usually happens is the mystery fades, you both relax, and suddenly you're dealing with a real person - not the idealized version you fell for. Maybe you get scared they'll see the real you and leave. Maybe you get bored because they're not performing anymore.
Either way, your instinct is to ghost before it gets messy.
The solution isn't sexy, but here goes:
=> Stay yourself: Don't abandon your friends or hobbies to become "we." People who lose themselves in relationships become boring, then resentful.
=> Get comfortable with uncomfortable conversations: Every relationship worth having will piss you off sometimes. Learn to say "hey, this bothered me" instead of letting it build.
Realize that choosing someone every day is harder than falling for them once. Some days you won't feel it. That's normal.
The real question: do you actually want a long-term thing, or do you just think you should? Because if you're happy cycling through connections, that's fine too.
But if you genuinely want something lasting, you've gotta sit with the discomfort when it stops feeling easy.
You've already figured out the hard part - making someone fall for you. Now you just need to learn how to stay.
-MOS
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