Much of “good game” is really just “good habits.”
Have you made habits to:
✅ Dress nicely, stand tall, walk with confidence?
✅ Go out and talk to people during the week?
✅ Talk to strangers during your daily routine?
✅ Add good vibes, smiles, jokes, and fun?
✅ Show real interest and say what you like?
✅ Ask for effort, time, and small actions?
✅ Suggest people move, sit, or go elsewhere?
✅ Take action, spot chances, and follow through?
Guys with “really good game” are just guys who do all this often, and do it without even thinking about it.
The above is what you should be conscious working on.
Have you made habits to:
✅ Dress nicely, stand tall, walk with confidence?
✅ Go out and talk to people during the week?
✅ Talk to strangers during your daily routine?
✅ Add good vibes, smiles, jokes, and fun?
✅ Show real interest and say what you like?
✅ Ask for effort, time, and small actions?
✅ Suggest people move, sit, or go elsewhere?
✅ Take action, spot chances, and follow through?
Guys with “really good game” are just guys who do all this often, and do it without even thinking about it.
The above is what you should be conscious working on.
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HOW TO CRAFT A MAGNETIC AURA and become 100x more charismatic
A lot of dudes think being charismatic/likeable is about WHAT YOU DO but it's not...
It's about your Aura - it's the hidden stuff beneath the surface so here are the keys that nobody else taught you
For example: take two guys, Guy 1 and guy 2
They are both similar in a lot of ways so you will be forgiven to think there is no difference between both guys.
General consensus is if Guy 2 does more things than guy 1 then guy 2 is going to be more charismatic which is further from the truth.
You see the reason why guy 2 will get more girls and respect is cause he has max level aura which he has been cultivating over time while guy 1 has entrance level aura.
You see the max level aura is what allows guy 2 to walk into the room with all eyeballs on him.
So how do we get our aura up:
First, you have to understand that your Aura = personal philosophy -> beliefs, ways of being, perspectives and opinions.
What happens is when you're born into a society, all these things are just going to be given to you.
Your family, close relatives etc are all going to be telling you stuffs that seep into you to become your beliefs, perspectives, opinions and if you don't audit these things and you let them go into your subconscious then you're always going to live your life within an entrance level aura.
But there is actually a process you can go through to make your Aura INSANE and make yourself more charismatic and likeable.
Now imagine your Aura is made up of a thousand little pieces and all these pieces are an amalgamation of your tastes, perspective, opinions which are everything that makes you YOU
When you're developing your Aura, there are two levels:
(keep in mind that your Aura is your personal philosophy)
LEVEL 1: All the perspective, opinions, tastes and beliefs you have received from others, you're going to audit them under a microscope and you're going to consciously ask yourself "Do I want to keep these beliefs, opinions, perspectives etc?" If the answer is yes, then you plug it back in to your subconscious.
Doing this is what gives you Aura. You repeat this process enough times and your Aura will start going crazy then you get to the point where you're naturally charismatic.
So let me repeat myself a bit:
LEVEL 1: You don't yet get to have a personal philosophy because you're either young (still building one up) or are older but just now starting in your journey of self reliance (and will therefore spend your time deconstructing a non-self serving personal philosophy that have been subconsciously built before re-building takes place). In this level you're in a "sponge mode" where you take a bunch of ideas, perspectives, way of being and philosophies. You try them on, see what you like and then build a foundation for how to operate by amalgamating what "works" for you and then discarding what doesn't. You then become clear on your values, stances and way of operating and become solidified in YOU. Your natural aura/pull heightens and you become a little magnetic.
From there you enter...
LEVEL 2: After much trial and error - you circle back home. You've had some successes and have developed an operational system that although will mature, has been laid down, solidified and built upon. You are now firm in your "this is the right way, this is the wrong way" and that firmness comes not from theory but from a foundation of personal experience. Your system is now strong enough to continue moving in one direction despite novelty/distraction (and can shed all BS) but still fluid enough incorporate self updates/self honesty as you go. This philosophy has been developed to maximize your natural, hardwired strengths and allows you to cultivate a personal philosophy that acts as a seed for the life you want to live while "swimming upstream". You now rely less on discipline and pushing yourself and tend to ride the waves of the natural and automatic expressions of your nature.
A lot of dudes think being charismatic/likeable is about WHAT YOU DO but it's not...
It's about your Aura - it's the hidden stuff beneath the surface so here are the keys that nobody else taught you
For example: take two guys, Guy 1 and guy 2
They are both similar in a lot of ways so you will be forgiven to think there is no difference between both guys.
General consensus is if Guy 2 does more things than guy 1 then guy 2 is going to be more charismatic which is further from the truth.
You see the reason why guy 2 will get more girls and respect is cause he has max level aura which he has been cultivating over time while guy 1 has entrance level aura.
You see the max level aura is what allows guy 2 to walk into the room with all eyeballs on him.
So how do we get our aura up:
First, you have to understand that your Aura = personal philosophy -> beliefs, ways of being, perspectives and opinions.
What happens is when you're born into a society, all these things are just going to be given to you.
Your family, close relatives etc are all going to be telling you stuffs that seep into you to become your beliefs, perspectives, opinions and if you don't audit these things and you let them go into your subconscious then you're always going to live your life within an entrance level aura.
But there is actually a process you can go through to make your Aura INSANE and make yourself more charismatic and likeable.
Now imagine your Aura is made up of a thousand little pieces and all these pieces are an amalgamation of your tastes, perspective, opinions which are everything that makes you YOU
When you're developing your Aura, there are two levels:
(keep in mind that your Aura is your personal philosophy)
LEVEL 1: All the perspective, opinions, tastes and beliefs you have received from others, you're going to audit them under a microscope and you're going to consciously ask yourself "Do I want to keep these beliefs, opinions, perspectives etc?" If the answer is yes, then you plug it back in to your subconscious.
Doing this is what gives you Aura. You repeat this process enough times and your Aura will start going crazy then you get to the point where you're naturally charismatic.
So let me repeat myself a bit:
LEVEL 1: You don't yet get to have a personal philosophy because you're either young (still building one up) or are older but just now starting in your journey of self reliance (and will therefore spend your time deconstructing a non-self serving personal philosophy that have been subconsciously built before re-building takes place). In this level you're in a "sponge mode" where you take a bunch of ideas, perspectives, way of being and philosophies. You try them on, see what you like and then build a foundation for how to operate by amalgamating what "works" for you and then discarding what doesn't. You then become clear on your values, stances and way of operating and become solidified in YOU. Your natural aura/pull heightens and you become a little magnetic.
From there you enter...
LEVEL 2: After much trial and error - you circle back home. You've had some successes and have developed an operational system that although will mature, has been laid down, solidified and built upon. You are now firm in your "this is the right way, this is the wrong way" and that firmness comes not from theory but from a foundation of personal experience. Your system is now strong enough to continue moving in one direction despite novelty/distraction (and can shed all BS) but still fluid enough incorporate self updates/self honesty as you go. This philosophy has been developed to maximize your natural, hardwired strengths and allows you to cultivate a personal philosophy that acts as a seed for the life you want to live while "swimming upstream". You now rely less on discipline and pushing yourself and tend to ride the waves of the natural and automatic expressions of your nature.
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At this point your magnetism is world class and you will notice anybody who enters your reality will be subconsciously pulled towards some form of mimicry and your philosophy will essentially begin breeding and self replicating within those who come into contact with it.
Meaning people will start copying you just like they do with Andrew Tate, Donald Trump etc but the irony (this is what dudes don't understand) is if you want somebody else's sauce then the way that you get that is to BE YOURSELF not them cause when you act like them, the very thing that got you attracted to them is the very thing you're giving away when you try to copy them.
Do you understand??
-MOS
Meaning people will start copying you just like they do with Andrew Tate, Donald Trump etc but the irony (this is what dudes don't understand) is if you want somebody else's sauce then the way that you get that is to BE YOURSELF not them cause when you act like them, the very thing that got you attracted to them is the very thing you're giving away when you try to copy them.
Do you understand??
-MOS
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Don't think I have done a cold approach breakdown on my channel before so here goes...
INTERACTION BREAKDOWN
Girls are OK with being approached.
Even if they don’t like you (and not every girl will like you, this girl didn’t like this guy much), most will still stay cool. You might even make a girl’s day by talking to her
For guys who want more detail:
Here’s the STEP-BY-STEP of this guy’s approach:
✅ He chose a good girl to talk to: she was alone, not moving, in a chill spot, and wearing bright pink (fun fact: girls wear pink about 3x more when they’re ovulating)
❌ His way of coming in wasn’t great. He talked to her from behind (can feel creepy “Who’s that talking to me??”) and didn’t give her time to see him before speaking. BETTER: come around to the front, let her notice you first, then say something.
INTERACTION BREAKDOWN
Girls are OK with being approached.
Even if they don’t like you (and not every girl will like you, this girl didn’t like this guy much), most will still stay cool. You might even make a girl’s day by talking to her
For guys who want more detail:
Here’s the STEP-BY-STEP of this guy’s approach:
✅ He chose a good girl to talk to: she was alone, not moving, in a chill spot, and wearing bright pink (fun fact: girls wear pink about 3x more when they’re ovulating)
❌ His way of coming in wasn’t great. He talked to her from behind (can feel creepy “Who’s that talking to me??”) and didn’t give her time to see him before speaking. BETTER: come around to the front, let her notice you first, then say something.
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✅ His first line was okay. He said something nice about her outfit (way better than the overused “You’re really pretty” line a lot of guys try). It could’ve been even better if he had matched her vibe + said something more special (“Hey, I saw you standing here and I had to say you’ve got the most eye-catching, stylish outfit I’ve seen all day”).
❌ Asking for names after saying hi is a good move. So that’s solid. but It’s better to give your name first, instead of asking hers. Sharing your name makes you less of a stranger and shows you’re sure of yourself. If you ask her name first and don’t say yours, it can feel like a quiz.
❌ He gave a handshake (and really shook her hand) instead of holding it gently. That feels too formal. She’s someone you’re flirting with, not someone you’re doing business with. Take her hand in a way that shows you’re a man talking to a woman. Bonus: hold it a little and see if she lets you easy way to test if she’s into it.
❌ “What do you do except for looking beautiful?” That line was too much. He had just given her a compliment. No need for a second (and plain… and looks-based) one on top. Makes him seem like a player. And “what do you do” is boring and has nothing to do with the moment. BETTER: “You look like you’re headed to a party. What’s the special event for that lovely dress?” Now you’re noticing things + asking about something that fits the moment.
❌ Asking for names after saying hi is a good move. So that’s solid. but It’s better to give your name first, instead of asking hers. Sharing your name makes you less of a stranger and shows you’re sure of yourself. If you ask her name first and don’t say yours, it can feel like a quiz.
❌ He gave a handshake (and really shook her hand) instead of holding it gently. That feels too formal. She’s someone you’re flirting with, not someone you’re doing business with. Take her hand in a way that shows you’re a man talking to a woman. Bonus: hold it a little and see if she lets you easy way to test if she’s into it.
❌ “What do you do except for looking beautiful?” That line was too much. He had just given her a compliment. No need for a second (and plain… and looks-based) one on top. Makes him seem like a player. And “what do you do” is boring and has nothing to do with the moment. BETTER: “You look like you’re headed to a party. What’s the special event for that lovely dress?” Now you’re noticing things + asking about something that fits the moment.
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✅ He teased her about real estate (“Maybe I’ll need you to sell a few houses for me”). Not the best tease, but what matters is he DID tease, and did it fast 👍🏻 That helps make it feel more like flirting, not just chatting. The idea behind the tease was good too (like “she’ll do something for him” — sell his houses; also, he made himself seem like a guy who owns a bunch of houses, even if it’s a joke). BETTER: I’d tease like “You come here often to find new real estate clients? Makes sense. Lots of people here, quick turnover, and you’re dressed so sharp they’d all trust you…” That joke fits the moment (CONTEXT) and flips it so she’s the one chasing (SHE WANTS something).
❌ After finding out she’s into real estate, he dropped the subject and jumped into something else (“What hobbies do you do?”). It’s best not to ask a bunch of short, surface questions (“What do you do?” “Cool. What do you do for fun?” “Nice. Where do you live?”). These don’t build a bond; they just gather facts and make her feel like she’s being interviewed. Better to pick one thing and go deeper: “You’re into real estate? Is that because you like fancy houses or because you want big checks? So do you always dress like this when you meet clients?” Stuff like that.
❌ He kept repeating what she said.
HER: “I do a bit of photography.”
HIM: “You do a bit of photography?”
HER: “And that’s it.”
HIM: “And that’s it?”
If you’re unsure what to say, ask more about it: “What do you enjoy about that?” “How long have you been into it?” That gets you deeper and stops the repeating.
❌ After finding out she’s into real estate, he dropped the subject and jumped into something else (“What hobbies do you do?”). It’s best not to ask a bunch of short, surface questions (“What do you do?” “Cool. What do you do for fun?” “Nice. Where do you live?”). These don’t build a bond; they just gather facts and make her feel like she’s being interviewed. Better to pick one thing and go deeper: “You’re into real estate? Is that because you like fancy houses or because you want big checks? So do you always dress like this when you meet clients?” Stuff like that.
❌ He kept repeating what she said.
HER: “I do a bit of photography.”
HIM: “You do a bit of photography?”
HER: “And that’s it.”
HIM: “And that’s it?”
If you’re unsure what to say, ask more about it: “What do you enjoy about that?” “How long have you been into it?” That gets you deeper and stops the repeating.
❌ He asked for her Instagram: now he’s one of her fans. Better move? Ask for her # and skip the IG (unless your IG is solid and full of other girls, in which case you can ask for both and let her watch while you date others).
VERDICT: girl might’ve been open at first (she stopped texting, smiled, played with her hair while looking at him) but he lost the moment by jumping from topic to topic and asking dull questions (she started looking around, crossed her legs, flipped her hair away from him, and moved her body like she wanted to go).
Even though this try wasn’t bad, it wasn’t exactly good either but even with a basic, not-very-smooth approach like this, you can still get girls.
Will also give the guys big 👍 for having the balls to make approaches rather than sit home and complain about how frustrating modern dating is.
If you have any questions, feel free to ask 👇👇
VERDICT: girl might’ve been open at first (she stopped texting, smiled, played with her hair while looking at him) but he lost the moment by jumping from topic to topic and asking dull questions (she started looking around, crossed her legs, flipped her hair away from him, and moved her body like she wanted to go).
Even though this try wasn’t bad, it wasn’t exactly good either but even with a basic, not-very-smooth approach like this, you can still get girls.
Will also give the guys big 👍 for having the balls to make approaches rather than sit home and complain about how frustrating modern dating is.
If you have any questions, feel free to ask 👇👇
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One of the funny things I see is how...
A lot of men online say they want virgins.
But most of these men are not doing what the men who marry virgins actually do:
=> Attending school with virgins (18-21) and starting serious “marriage-minded” relationships with them early on
=> Working jobs in strict, traditional areas where they’re always around young virgins (like teacher, pastor, etc.)
=> Visiting a country where casual sex is rare and actively talking to late teen / early 20s women who could still be virgins
Outside of that:
• If she’s 24 or older, she’s not a virgin
• If you do meet a 24+ woman who is a virgin, something is off with her (for sure)
A lot of men online say they want virgins.
But most of these men are not doing what the men who marry virgins actually do:
=> Attending school with virgins (18-21) and starting serious “marriage-minded” relationships with them early on
=> Working jobs in strict, traditional areas where they’re always around young virgins (like teacher, pastor, etc.)
=> Visiting a country where casual sex is rare and actively talking to late teen / early 20s women who could still be virgins
Outside of that:
• If she’s 24 or older, she’s not a virgin
• If you do meet a 24+ woman who is a virgin, something is off with her (for sure)
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PLACES TO MEET HIGH QUALITY WOMEN
This girl is right, these are good spots to meet women, but not for the reasons she gives:
=> Women go to fancy gyms thinking they’ll meet higher status / more successful guys
=> Women shop at fancy supermarkets to look cool (and higher status / more successful guys)
=> Women show up at business events to find jobs (and higher status / more successful guys)
Here’s the truth: people think that if you’re in these places, you’re probably high status and/or successful.
So you don’t even have to be that to do well here.
You just need to be fishing in the right spots.
This girl is right, these are good spots to meet women, but not for the reasons she gives:
=> Women go to fancy gyms thinking they’ll meet higher status / more successful guys
=> Women shop at fancy supermarkets to look cool (and higher status / more successful guys)
=> Women show up at business events to find jobs (and higher status / more successful guys)
Here’s the truth: people think that if you’re in these places, you’re probably high status and/or successful.
So you don’t even have to be that to do well here.
You just need to be fishing in the right spots.
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Your main role with women is to lead.
Women want to add to the bond with a man but you must guide them.
Make room for them to:
• Cook for you
• Clean for you
• Bring you things
• Search things online for you
• Do small tasks for you
• Support you in other ways
The more you guide a woman to give, the more she connects with you.
Women want to add to the bond with a man but you must guide them.
Make room for them to:
• Cook for you
• Clean for you
• Bring you things
• Search things online for you
• Do small tasks for you
• Support you in other ways
The more you guide a woman to give, the more she connects with you.
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There is a new femcentric app trending currently.
It's called TEA and it's not your friend.
What’s Tea?
Tea is a women‑only, anonymous platform: You verify you're female via a selfie/liveness check and no screenshots are allowed. Posts use anonymized usernames. Users can share red-flag warnings like cheating, abusive behavior, criminal records and search for men to see if others have posted about them.
The point is that this indicates a trend towards "overt" form of dating.
I noticed a lot of guys & so called gooroos online are talking about using the app as a form of preselection.
DON'T!
Why showing off that you sleep around ruins your chances with most girls (even if you think it looks cool)
With this new tea app where girls rate guys, I’ve noticed a pattern
Some guys are trying to act smart by saying that getting posted there is a win
Like “oh yeah girls will see I’m wanted and then they’ll all want to sleep with me!”
Sounds good in theory
But that’s not how things actually work...
It's called TEA and it's not your friend.
What’s Tea?
Tea is a women‑only, anonymous platform: You verify you're female via a selfie/liveness check and no screenshots are allowed. Posts use anonymized usernames. Users can share red-flag warnings like cheating, abusive behavior, criminal records and search for men to see if others have posted about them.
The point is that this indicates a trend towards "overt" form of dating.
I noticed a lot of guys & so called gooroos online are talking about using the app as a form of preselection.
DON'T!
Why showing off that you sleep around ruins your chances with most girls (even if you think it looks cool)
With this new tea app where girls rate guys, I’ve noticed a pattern
Some guys are trying to act smart by saying that getting posted there is a win
Like “oh yeah girls will see I’m wanted and then they’ll all want to sleep with me!”
Sounds good in theory
But that’s not how things actually work...
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THE IRON CIRCLE
There is a new femcentric app trending currently. It's called TEA and it's not your friend. What’s Tea? Tea is a women‑only, anonymous platform: You verify you're female via a selfie/liveness check and no screenshots are allowed. Posts use anonymized usernames.…
Here’s what’s really going on and why it turns girls off
Women openly dislike players
They know a player won’t commit
He might be fun, yes, but she knows she won’t be able to lock him down or get what she wants long term
She still might feel attracted, but she pulls away because she believes she’ll get nothing real from him
But here’s the twist...
Women secretly love players
Why?
Because players bring
=> Excitement
=> Good sex
=> No pressure
=> A fun time
They make her feel alive and feed her sexual side
So what’s the problem?
Why do players still lose?
Because of one big reason:
Awareness
The moment a girl knows for sure that you’re a player, her logic kicks in and the attraction dies
And here’s the sad part...
Back in the day?
She might’ve had a great time with that guy
Maybe they’d hang out a few times, have fun, then naturally drift apart
No drama, no confusion, no regrets
Just two people enjoying a connection in a busy, stressful world
Both walked away a little happier from it
But today?
She sees just one post in a Facebook group or on the tea app...
And she ghosts you right away
Not because she didn’t like you
But because she now knows how it’ll end, and the fun stops before it even begins
So what should we do?
We can’t really stop girls from posting us in those groups.
If you’re out dating and doing well, you’ll end up there.
So the answer is: stop trying to impress the wrong girls and start looking for ones who actually want what you want
If you’re just dating casually, then go for girls who are also cool with that or neutral (meaning they’re open to casual or serious depending on how you show up)
Because even with lots of attraction...
If you both want different things, it’s going to crash anyway
MY Final Thought
You can’t stop girls from talking
If you’re good with women, your name will come up
So don’t stress about that
Just focus on spotting the girls who want what you want
That’s the best way to handle all this.
-MOS
Women openly dislike players
They know a player won’t commit
He might be fun, yes, but she knows she won’t be able to lock him down or get what she wants long term
She still might feel attracted, but she pulls away because she believes she’ll get nothing real from him
But here’s the twist...
Women secretly love players
Why?
Because players bring
=> Excitement
=> Good sex
=> No pressure
=> A fun time
They make her feel alive and feed her sexual side
So what’s the problem?
Why do players still lose?
Because of one big reason:
Awareness
The moment a girl knows for sure that you’re a player, her logic kicks in and the attraction dies
And here’s the sad part...
Back in the day?
She might’ve had a great time with that guy
Maybe they’d hang out a few times, have fun, then naturally drift apart
No drama, no confusion, no regrets
Just two people enjoying a connection in a busy, stressful world
Both walked away a little happier from it
But today?
She sees just one post in a Facebook group or on the tea app...
And she ghosts you right away
Not because she didn’t like you
But because she now knows how it’ll end, and the fun stops before it even begins
So what should we do?
We can’t really stop girls from posting us in those groups.
If you’re out dating and doing well, you’ll end up there.
So the answer is: stop trying to impress the wrong girls and start looking for ones who actually want what you want
If you’re just dating casually, then go for girls who are also cool with that or neutral (meaning they’re open to casual or serious depending on how you show up)
Because even with lots of attraction...
If you both want different things, it’s going to crash anyway
MY Final Thought
You can’t stop girls from talking
If you’re good with women, your name will come up
So don’t stress about that
Just focus on spotting the girls who want what you want
That’s the best way to handle all this.
-MOS
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It doesn’t matter how much you want it
You also need to feel like you’re worth it
If you don’t and still end up getting it
You will ruin it
I’ve never seen this not happen
That’s why inner work is just as key (even more) as outer work.
No easy way.
You also need to feel like you’re worth it
If you don’t and still end up getting it
You will ruin it
I’ve never seen this not happen
That’s why inner work is just as key (even more) as outer work.
No easy way.
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Living a life full of abundance means giving to the world around you whenever you can
That means talking with people you don’t know
That means smiling at the person on the other side of the street
That means flirting with the girls near you
That means telling jokes whenever you get the chance
That means picking up trash you spot on the ground
That means helping others for free but also helping others and getting paid too
That means doing your part to make things better
When you give from an abundance mindset, you never run out of energy because the things you do keep giving it back to you
When you hold back your energy, you worry about giving it to those near you.
That’s part of the issue. When your energy is full, it flows out of you without end and others feel it and you get more energy from that
Are you acting from abundance or scarcty?
The people who seem full of life and pull everyone in with their strong energy are acting from abundance not scarcity
If you need something, you’re in scarcity
If you need a pill to perform, you’re in scarcity
If you need coffee to wake up, you’re in scarcity
If you need someone to like you, you’re in scarcity
If you need anything, you’re in scarcity
When you live from abundance you already have all you need so you don’t need anything
And by not needing, you receive everything.
That means talking with people you don’t know
That means smiling at the person on the other side of the street
That means flirting with the girls near you
That means telling jokes whenever you get the chance
That means picking up trash you spot on the ground
That means helping others for free but also helping others and getting paid too
That means doing your part to make things better
When you give from an abundance mindset, you never run out of energy because the things you do keep giving it back to you
When you hold back your energy, you worry about giving it to those near you.
That’s part of the issue. When your energy is full, it flows out of you without end and others feel it and you get more energy from that
Are you acting from abundance or scarcty?
The people who seem full of life and pull everyone in with their strong energy are acting from abundance not scarcity
If you need something, you’re in scarcity
If you need a pill to perform, you’re in scarcity
If you need coffee to wake up, you’re in scarcity
If you need someone to like you, you’re in scarcity
If you need anything, you’re in scarcity
When you live from abundance you already have all you need so you don’t need anything
And by not needing, you receive everything.
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