7. Don’t believe her when she says “we are not having sex tonight”

I get it, you want to be ‘polite’ and ‘respect her space’ and ‘not be pushy’.

But don’t be dumb.

If a girl is talking about sex with you, it means she’s thinking about having sex with you.

If she wasn’t thinking about doing anything with you, she’d be talking about flowers or puppies or something silly like that.

So listen:

If she says “we’re not doing it tonight,”

Then you better make sure it happens that night.

Because if it doesn’t happen then, it 100% won’t ever happen later.

8. Don’t ever let a girl take a ‘break’ from the relationship

When she says “we need a break,” it just means she wants to try other guys and maybe come back to you later if things don’t go well.

She’s going to “find herself,” “take some time,” “see how life is without you,” and decide which she likes better, being with you, or without you.

I get that you want to be kind (or maybe you just feel stuck), but

• If you agree to a ‘break,’ any respect she had for you vanishes

• If you then TAKE HER BACK after the break, her respect goes into the negatives

Here’s what to think about:
You two take a break.

If she wants back, it means she couldn’t find a better guy than you who was also willing to wait.

But if you take her back, it means you couldn’t find a better girl than her.

You’re both losers.

Is that love?

Nah, that’s a mess.

If she brings up a break, say, “Sure. But that’s a break UP. I don’t get back with exes.”

It’s final.

Make it REAL for her.

Give her CONSEQUENCES

Either way, you win:

She changes her mind and stays with you, or
You walk away from a girl who wanted to sleep with other guys.

I’d rather be single again and find someone who actually wants me than sit around hoping none of the new guys she hooked up with during the ‘break’ are better than me, just so she’ll come back.

Right?

No breaks

Stay together, or break up.

Let her choose

Much of “good game” is really just “good habits.”

Have you made habits to:

✅ Dress nicely, stand tall, walk with confidence?
✅ Go out and talk to people during the week?
✅ Talk to strangers during your daily routine?
✅ Add good vibes, smiles, jokes, and fun?
✅ Show real interest and say what you like?
✅ Ask for effort, time, and small actions?
✅ Suggest people move, sit, or go elsewhere?
✅ Take action, spot chances, and follow through?

Guys with “really good game” are just guys who do all this often, and do it without even thinking about it.

The above is what you should be conscious working on.

HOW TO CRAFT A MAGNETIC AURA and become 100x more charismatic

A lot of dudes think being charismatic/likeable is about WHAT YOU DO but it's not...

It's about your Aura - it's the hidden stuff beneath the surface so here are the keys that nobody else taught you

For example: take two guys, Guy 1 and guy 2

They are both similar in a lot of ways so you will be forgiven to think there is no difference between both guys.

General consensus is if Guy 2 does more things than guy 1 then guy 2 is going to be more charismatic which is further from the truth.

You see the reason why guy 2 will get more girls and respect is cause he has max level aura which he has been cultivating over time while guy 1 has entrance level aura.

You see the max level aura is what allows guy 2 to walk into the room with all eyeballs on him.

So how do we get our aura up:

First, you have to understand that your Aura = personal philosophy -> beliefs, ways of being, perspectives and opinions.

What happens is when you're born into a society, all these things are just going to be given to you.

Your family, close relatives etc are all going to be telling you stuffs that seep into you to become your beliefs, perspectives, opinions and if you don't audit these things and you let them go into your subconscious then you're always going to live your life within an entrance level aura.

But there is actually a process you can go through to make your Aura INSANE and make yourself more charismatic and likeable.

Now imagine your Aura is made up of a thousand little pieces and all these pieces are an amalgamation of your tastes, perspective, opinions which are everything that makes you YOU

When you're developing your Aura, there are two levels:
(keep in mind that your Aura is your personal philosophy)

LEVEL 1: All the perspective, opinions, tastes and beliefs you have received from others, you're going to audit them under a microscope and you're going to consciously ask yourself "Do I want to keep these beliefs, opinions, perspectives etc?" If the answer is yes, then you plug it back in to your subconscious.

Doing this is what gives you Aura. You repeat this process enough times and your Aura will start going crazy then you get to the point where you're naturally charismatic.

So let me repeat myself a bit:

LEVEL 1: You don't yet get to have a personal philosophy because you're either young (still building one up) or are older but just now starting in your journey of self reliance (and will therefore spend your time deconstructing a non-self serving personal philosophy that have been subconsciously built before re-building takes place). In this level you're in a "sponge mode" where you take a bunch of ideas, perspectives, way of being and philosophies. You try them on, see what you like and then build a foundation for how to operate by amalgamating what "works" for you and then discarding what doesn't. You then become clear on your values, stances and way of operating and become solidified in YOU. Your natural aura/pull heightens and you become a little magnetic.

From there you enter...

LEVEL 2: After much trial and error - you circle back home. You've had some successes and have developed an operational system that although will mature, has been laid down, solidified and built upon. You are now firm in your "this is the right way, this is the wrong way" and that firmness comes not from theory but from a foundation of personal experience. Your system is now strong enough to continue moving in one direction despite novelty/distraction (and can shed all BS) but still fluid enough incorporate self updates/self honesty as you go. This philosophy has been developed to maximize your natural, hardwired strengths and allows you to cultivate a personal philosophy that acts as a seed for the life you want to live while "swimming upstream". You now rely less on discipline and pushing yourself and tend to ride the waves of the natural and automatic expressions of your nature.

At this point your magnetism is world class and you will notice anybody who enters your reality will be subconsciously pulled towards some form of mimicry and your philosophy will essentially begin breeding and self replicating within those who come into contact with it.

Meaning people will start copying you just like they do with Andrew Tate, Donald Trump etc but the irony (this is what dudes don't understand) is if you want somebody else's sauce then the way that you get that is to BE YOURSELF not them cause when you act like them, the very thing that got you attracted to them is the very thing you're giving away when you try to copy them.

Do you understand??

-MOS

Don't think I have done a cold approach breakdown on my channel before so here goes...

INTERACTION BREAKDOWN

Girls are OK with being approached.

Even if they don’t like you (and not every girl will like you, this girl didn’t like this guy much), most will still stay cool. You might even make a girl’s day by talking to her

For guys who want more detail:

Here’s the STEP-BY-STEP of this guy’s approach:

✅ He chose a good girl to talk to: she was alone, not moving, in a chill spot, and wearing bright pink (fun fact: girls wear pink about 3x more when they’re ovulating)

❌ His way of coming in wasn’t great. He talked to her from behind (can feel creepy “Who’s that talking to me??”) and didn’t give her time to see him before speaking. BETTER: come around to the front, let her notice you first, then say something.

✅ His first line was okay. He said something nice about her outfit (way better than the overused “You’re really pretty” line a lot of guys try). It could’ve been even better if he had matched her vibe + said something more special (“Hey, I saw you standing here and I had to say you’ve got the most eye-catching, stylish outfit I’ve seen all day”).

❌ Asking for names after saying hi is a good move. So that’s solid. but It’s better to give your name first, instead of asking hers. Sharing your name makes you less of a stranger and shows you’re sure of yourself. If you ask her name first and don’t say yours, it can feel like a quiz.

❌ He gave a handshake (and really shook her hand) instead of holding it gently. That feels too formal. She’s someone you’re flirting with, not someone you’re doing business with. Take her hand in a way that shows you’re a man talking to a woman. Bonus: hold it a little and see if she lets you easy way to test if she’s into it.

❌ “What do you do except for looking beautiful?” That line was too much. He had just given her a compliment. No need for a second (and plain… and looks-based) one on top. Makes him seem like a player. And “what do you do” is boring and has nothing to do with the moment. BETTER: “You look like you’re headed to a party. What’s the special event for that lovely dress?” Now you’re noticing things + asking about something that fits the moment.

✅ He teased her about real estate (“Maybe I’ll need you to sell a few houses for me”). Not the best tease, but what matters is he DID tease, and did it fast 👍🏻 That helps make it feel more like flirting, not just chatting. The idea behind the tease was good too (like “she’ll do something for him” — sell his houses; also, he made himself seem like a guy who owns a bunch of houses, even if it’s a joke). BETTER: I’d tease like “You come here often to find new real estate clients? Makes sense. Lots of people here, quick turnover, and you’re dressed so sharp they’d all trust you…” That joke fits the moment (CONTEXT) and flips it so she’s the one chasing (SHE WANTS something).

❌ After finding out she’s into real estate, he dropped the subject and jumped into something else (“What hobbies do you do?”). It’s best not to ask a bunch of short, surface questions (“What do you do?” “Cool. What do you do for fun?” “Nice. Where do you live?”). These don’t build a bond; they just gather facts and make her feel like she’s being interviewed. Better to pick one thing and go deeper: “You’re into real estate? Is that because you like fancy houses or because you want big checks? So do you always dress like this when you meet clients?” Stuff like that.

❌ He kept repeating what she said.

HER: “I do a bit of photography.”

HIM: “You do a bit of photography?”

HER: “And that’s it.”

HIM: “And that’s it?”

If you’re unsure what to say, ask more about it: “What do you enjoy about that?” “How long have you been into it?” That gets you deeper and stops the repeating.

❌ He asked for her Instagram: now he’s one of her fans. Better move? Ask for her # and skip the IG (unless your IG is solid and full of other girls, in which case you can ask for both and let her watch while you date others).

VERDICT: girl might’ve been open at first (she stopped texting, smiled, played with her hair while looking at him) but he lost the moment by jumping from topic to topic and asking dull questions (she started looking around, crossed her legs, flipped her hair away from him, and moved her body like she wanted to go).

Even though this try wasn’t bad, it wasn’t exactly good either but even with a basic, not-very-smooth approach like this, you can still get girls.

Will also give the guys big 👍 for having the balls to make approaches rather than sit home and complain about how frustrating modern dating is.

If you have any questions, feel free to ask 👇👇

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One of the funny things I see is how...

A lot of men online say they want virgins.

But most of these men are not doing what the men who marry virgins actually do:

=> Attending school with virgins (18-21) and starting serious “marriage-minded” relationships with them early on

=> Working jobs in strict, traditional areas where they’re always around young virgins (like teacher, pastor, etc.)

=> Visiting a country where casual sex is rare and actively talking to late teen / early 20s women who could still be virgins

Outside of that:

• If she’s 24 or older, she’s not a virgin

• If you do meet a 24+ woman who is a virgin, something is off with her (for sure)

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PLACES TO MEET HIGH QUALITY WOMEN

This girl is right, these are good spots to meet women, but not for the reasons she gives:

=> Women go to fancy gyms thinking they’ll meet higher status / more successful guys

=> Women shop at fancy supermarkets to look cool (and higher status / more successful guys)

=> Women show up at business events to find jobs (and higher status / more successful guys)

Here’s the truth: people think that if you’re in these places, you’re probably high status and/or successful.

So you don’t even have to be that to do well here.

You just need to be fishing in the right spots.

🖤 Devil’s View

Drink her in

Admire beauty but never obsess

Your main role with women is to lead.

Women want to add to the bond with a man but you must guide them.

Make room for them to:

• Cook for you
• Clean for you
• Bring you things
• Search things online for you
• Do small tasks for you
• Support you in other ways

The more you guide a woman to give, the more she connects with you.

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There is a new femcentric app trending currently.

It's called TEA and it's not your friend.

What’s Tea?

Tea is a women‑only, anonymous platform: You verify you're female via a selfie/liveness check and no screenshots are allowed. Posts use anonymized usernames. Users can share red-flag warnings like cheating, abusive behavior, criminal records and search for men to see if others have posted about them.

The point is that this indicates a trend towards "overt" form of dating.

I noticed a lot of guys & so called gooroos online are talking about using the app as a form of preselection.

DON'T!

Why showing off that you sleep around ruins your chances with most girls (even if you think it looks cool)

With this new tea app where girls rate guys, I’ve noticed a pattern

Some guys are trying to act smart by saying that getting posted there is a win

Like “oh yeah girls will see I’m wanted and then they’ll all want to sleep with me!”

Sounds good in theory

But that’s not how things actually work...

Here’s what’s really going on and why it turns girls off

Women openly dislike players

They know a player won’t commit

He might be fun, yes, but she knows she won’t be able to lock him down or get what she wants long term

She still might feel attracted, but she pulls away because she believes she’ll get nothing real from him

But here’s the twist...

Women secretly love players

Why?

Because players bring

=> Excitement

=> Good sex

=> No pressure

=> A fun time

They make her feel alive and feed her sexual side

So what’s the problem?

Why do players still lose?

Because of one big reason:

Awareness

The moment a girl knows for sure that you’re a player, her logic kicks in and the attraction dies

And here’s the sad part...

Back in the day?

She might’ve had a great time with that guy

Maybe they’d hang out a few times, have fun, then naturally drift apart

No drama, no confusion, no regrets

Just two people enjoying a connection in a busy, stressful world

Both walked away a little happier from it

But today?

She sees just one post in a Facebook group or on the tea app...

And she ghosts you right away

Not because she didn’t like you

But because she now knows how it’ll end, and the fun stops before it even begins

So what should we do?

We can’t really stop girls from posting us in those groups.

If you’re out dating and doing well, you’ll end up there.

So the answer is: stop trying to impress the wrong girls and start looking for ones who actually want what you want

If you’re just dating casually, then go for girls who are also cool with that or neutral (meaning they’re open to casual or serious depending on how you show up)

Because even with lots of attraction...

If you both want different things, it’s going to crash anyway

MY Final Thought

You can’t stop girls from talking

If you’re good with women, your name will come up

So don’t stress about that

Just focus on spotting the girls who want what you want

That’s the best way to handle all this.

-MOS

It doesn’t matter how much you want it

You also need to feel like you’re worth it

If you don’t and still end up getting it

You will ruin it

I’ve never seen this not happen

That’s why inner work is just as key (even more) as outer work.

No easy way.

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