The richer you become, the more it costs to be weak when it comes to women

A broke man can mess up a hundred times, learn fast, and grow into a player

A rich man who gets “locked in” ends up trapped for years, losing half his wealth to the first pretty girl who smiled at him

The true mark of a winner is turning his own worst traits into the thing that drives him

A degenerate who lives out his urges in real life

A coward who hates being scared so much he fights hard every chance he gets

Have something to prove

If you turn her on, you are seen as a good man no matter how you act or what you believe

If you turn her on, anyone against you is seen as bad, and anyone you hurt must have earned it

If you turn her on, you are always right and guys who can’t don’t matter

Don’t try to be “good”, just turn her on

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8 Nice-Guy Mistakes that Ruin Your Chances with Women

(don’t ever do these... seriously. Unless you enjoy being used and ignored)

1. Never let women cry to you about ANOTHER guy

Even if you think listening to her cry about her ex will make her see how nice and sweet you are, and that she’ll fall for you and want to sleep with you...

That’s not how it goes, buddy.

You’re her buddy with a you-know-what.

Not exciting.

After she uses you like a tissue, she says “Thanks” and then goes to find another bad boy like the one who dumped her to fill that empty space (in her heart and her bed).

If a girl starts crying about her ex, just say, “That sucks,” in a calm voice and switch the subject.

Then give her the same fun, charming, wild feeling that the guy she’s crying about gave her in the beginning.

That’s what wins her over.

Not being her emotional sponge.

2. Don’t ever be her driver taking her all over the place

Back in college I knew this guy no one liked who always bragged about how close he was with these hot teen girls and how he drove them around in his car.

One day, another dude ran into this guy’s group of hot girls at the mall, and they all laughed and said they couldn’t stand him either but let him drive them around for free.

Everyone found out and the guy looked like an even bigger joke than before.

Being the driver doesn’t help you win her.

It just makes you look even sadder.

3. Don’t give her money or pay her rent or bills

You already know you shouldn’t do this.

You already know she’s using you.

You already know there’s another guy hooking up with her in the place you pay for, and that she’s using your money to help that other guy pay off his dumb habits.

Don’t ever pay a woman’s bills or rent or give her money unless she’s the loyal mother of your (real) kids.

4. Don’t let women bring friends on your date

If you invited her to a party or something like that, fine.

But if you’re meeting just for drinks or coffee (or my favorite, hot chocolate), it’s different.

When she brings friends, it screams “I don’t trust you” (which, let’s be real, sets a really BAD vibe), and it puts pressure on you to be Mr. Perfect.

Want to flirt?

Want to joke with her and play around?

Want to sit close and touch her a little?

Want to see her wild, naughty side?

You can’t with her friend sitting there watching everything.

If she asks to bring a friend to a date you planned, just say, “Let’s see your friend another time. I’m tired of being around people and just want to hang one-on-one today.”

She’ll get it and either come alone, or not (and if not, she wasn’t really into you anyway).

5. Don’t ever make yourself always free for a woman

I get that if you don’t have many girls in your life, you might feel like you need to take every single chance to be with that perfect girl.

It feels like if you’re not fully ready and waiting for her call, you might miss your one shot when she wants to hang out.

Here’s a fact: the only time it’s really important to be 100% ready at a girl’s call is when she texts you at 2 AM, lonely, wanting some manly company before bed.

When that text comes, you better move fast like the Flash (because she’ll be cold and distant the next day if you don’t give her what she wants while she’s still in the mood).

The rest of the time, if you act like a guy with no plans, no friends, and nothing better to do but sit around waiting for her to say go...

Then she will start to treat you like that guy with no life, and she definitely won’t treat you like the kind of man she actually wants to be with.

6. Don’t take women to fancy dinners before you’ve hooked up

My ex had a friend who was always going on dinner dates with guys and would brag about the bill and how much the guys spent.

This girl would go on three or more dates with her hopeful guys and never sleep with any of them.

One guy took her out five times, always to pricey restaurants, and even drove her around in his BMW (see mistake #2), and he still hadn’t slept with her.

Meanwhile, this same girl who was getting all these pricey dinners from guys was also going out to clubs and sleeping with random guys for one-night stands.

You don’t have to go for one-night stands if that’s not your style.

But please, man, don’t be the guy taking girls out for fancy dinners with no action.

It doesn’t work and it’s just sad.

7. Don’t believe her when she says “we are not having sex tonight”

I get it, you want to be ‘polite’ and ‘respect her space’ and ‘not be pushy’.

But don’t be dumb.

If a girl is talking about sex with you, it means she’s thinking about having sex with you.

If she wasn’t thinking about doing anything with you, she’d be talking about flowers or puppies or something silly like that.

So listen:

If she says “we’re not doing it tonight,”

Then you better make sure it happens that night.

Because if it doesn’t happen then, it 100% won’t ever happen later.

8. Don’t ever let a girl take a ‘break’ from the relationship

When she says “we need a break,” it just means she wants to try other guys and maybe come back to you later if things don’t go well.

She’s going to “find herself,” “take some time,” “see how life is without you,” and decide which she likes better, being with you, or without you.

I get that you want to be kind (or maybe you just feel stuck), but

• If you agree to a ‘break,’ any respect she had for you vanishes

• If you then TAKE HER BACK after the break, her respect goes into the negatives

Here’s what to think about:
You two take a break.

If she wants back, it means she couldn’t find a better guy than you who was also willing to wait.

But if you take her back, it means you couldn’t find a better girl than her.

You’re both losers.

Is that love?

Nah, that’s a mess.

If she brings up a break, say, “Sure. But that’s a break UP. I don’t get back with exes.”

It’s final.

Make it REAL for her.

Give her CONSEQUENCES

Either way, you win:

She changes her mind and stays with you, or
You walk away from a girl who wanted to sleep with other guys.

I’d rather be single again and find someone who actually wants me than sit around hoping none of the new guys she hooked up with during the ‘break’ are better than me, just so she’ll come back.

Right?

No breaks

Stay together, or break up.

Let her choose

Much of “good game” is really just “good habits.”

Have you made habits to:

✅ Dress nicely, stand tall, walk with confidence?
✅ Go out and talk to people during the week?
✅ Talk to strangers during your daily routine?
✅ Add good vibes, smiles, jokes, and fun?
✅ Show real interest and say what you like?
✅ Ask for effort, time, and small actions?
✅ Suggest people move, sit, or go elsewhere?
✅ Take action, spot chances, and follow through?

Guys with “really good game” are just guys who do all this often, and do it without even thinking about it.

The above is what you should be conscious working on.

HOW TO CRAFT A MAGNETIC AURA and become 100x more charismatic

A lot of dudes think being charismatic/likeable is about WHAT YOU DO but it's not...

It's about your Aura - it's the hidden stuff beneath the surface so here are the keys that nobody else taught you

For example: take two guys, Guy 1 and guy 2

They are both similar in a lot of ways so you will be forgiven to think there is no difference between both guys.

General consensus is if Guy 2 does more things than guy 1 then guy 2 is going to be more charismatic which is further from the truth.

You see the reason why guy 2 will get more girls and respect is cause he has max level aura which he has been cultivating over time while guy 1 has entrance level aura.

You see the max level aura is what allows guy 2 to walk into the room with all eyeballs on him.

So how do we get our aura up:

First, you have to understand that your Aura = personal philosophy -> beliefs, ways of being, perspectives and opinions.

What happens is when you're born into a society, all these things are just going to be given to you.

Your family, close relatives etc are all going to be telling you stuffs that seep into you to become your beliefs, perspectives, opinions and if you don't audit these things and you let them go into your subconscious then you're always going to live your life within an entrance level aura.

But there is actually a process you can go through to make your Aura INSANE and make yourself more charismatic and likeable.

Now imagine your Aura is made up of a thousand little pieces and all these pieces are an amalgamation of your tastes, perspective, opinions which are everything that makes you YOU

When you're developing your Aura, there are two levels:
(keep in mind that your Aura is your personal philosophy)

LEVEL 1: All the perspective, opinions, tastes and beliefs you have received from others, you're going to audit them under a microscope and you're going to consciously ask yourself "Do I want to keep these beliefs, opinions, perspectives etc?" If the answer is yes, then you plug it back in to your subconscious.

Doing this is what gives you Aura. You repeat this process enough times and your Aura will start going crazy then you get to the point where you're naturally charismatic.

So let me repeat myself a bit:

LEVEL 1: You don't yet get to have a personal philosophy because you're either young (still building one up) or are older but just now starting in your journey of self reliance (and will therefore spend your time deconstructing a non-self serving personal philosophy that have been subconsciously built before re-building takes place). In this level you're in a "sponge mode" where you take a bunch of ideas, perspectives, way of being and philosophies. You try them on, see what you like and then build a foundation for how to operate by amalgamating what "works" for you and then discarding what doesn't. You then become clear on your values, stances and way of operating and become solidified in YOU. Your natural aura/pull heightens and you become a little magnetic.

From there you enter...

LEVEL 2: After much trial and error - you circle back home. You've had some successes and have developed an operational system that although will mature, has been laid down, solidified and built upon. You are now firm in your "this is the right way, this is the wrong way" and that firmness comes not from theory but from a foundation of personal experience. Your system is now strong enough to continue moving in one direction despite novelty/distraction (and can shed all BS) but still fluid enough incorporate self updates/self honesty as you go. This philosophy has been developed to maximize your natural, hardwired strengths and allows you to cultivate a personal philosophy that acts as a seed for the life you want to live while "swimming upstream". You now rely less on discipline and pushing yourself and tend to ride the waves of the natural and automatic expressions of your nature.

At this point your magnetism is world class and you will notice anybody who enters your reality will be subconsciously pulled towards some form of mimicry and your philosophy will essentially begin breeding and self replicating within those who come into contact with it.

Meaning people will start copying you just like they do with Andrew Tate, Donald Trump etc but the irony (this is what dudes don't understand) is if you want somebody else's sauce then the way that you get that is to BE YOURSELF not them cause when you act like them, the very thing that got you attracted to them is the very thing you're giving away when you try to copy them.

Do you understand??

-MOS