PLACES TO MEET HIGH QUALITY WOMEN

This girl is right, these are good spots to meet women, but not for the reasons she gives:

=> Women go to fancy gyms thinking they’ll meet higher status / more successful guys

=> Women shop at fancy supermarkets to look cool (and higher status / more successful guys)

=> Women show up at business events to find jobs (and higher status / more successful guys)

Here’s the truth: people think that if you’re in these places, you’re probably high status and/or successful.

So you don’t even have to be that to do well here.

You just need to be fishing in the right spots.

🖤 Devil’s View

Drink her in

Admire beauty but never obsess

Your main role with women is to lead.

Women want to add to the bond with a man but you must guide them.

Make room for them to:

• Cook for you
• Clean for you
• Bring you things
• Search things online for you
• Do small tasks for you
• Support you in other ways

The more you guide a woman to give, the more she connects with you.

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There is a new femcentric app trending currently.

It's called TEA and it's not your friend.

What’s Tea?

Tea is a women‑only, anonymous platform: You verify you're female via a selfie/liveness check and no screenshots are allowed. Posts use anonymized usernames. Users can share red-flag warnings like cheating, abusive behavior, criminal records and search for men to see if others have posted about them.

The point is that this indicates a trend towards "overt" form of dating.

I noticed a lot of guys & so called gooroos online are talking about using the app as a form of preselection.

DON'T!

Why showing off that you sleep around ruins your chances with most girls (even if you think it looks cool)

With this new tea app where girls rate guys, I’ve noticed a pattern

Some guys are trying to act smart by saying that getting posted there is a win

Like “oh yeah girls will see I’m wanted and then they’ll all want to sleep with me!”

Sounds good in theory

But that’s not how things actually work...

Here’s what’s really going on and why it turns girls off

Women openly dislike players

They know a player won’t commit

He might be fun, yes, but she knows she won’t be able to lock him down or get what she wants long term

She still might feel attracted, but she pulls away because she believes she’ll get nothing real from him

But here’s the twist...

Women secretly love players

Why?

Because players bring

=> Excitement

=> Good sex

=> No pressure

=> A fun time

They make her feel alive and feed her sexual side

So what’s the problem?

Why do players still lose?

Because of one big reason:

Awareness

The moment a girl knows for sure that you’re a player, her logic kicks in and the attraction dies

And here’s the sad part...

Back in the day?

She might’ve had a great time with that guy

Maybe they’d hang out a few times, have fun, then naturally drift apart

No drama, no confusion, no regrets

Just two people enjoying a connection in a busy, stressful world

Both walked away a little happier from it

But today?

She sees just one post in a Facebook group or on the tea app...

And she ghosts you right away

Not because she didn’t like you

But because she now knows how it’ll end, and the fun stops before it even begins

So what should we do?

We can’t really stop girls from posting us in those groups.

If you’re out dating and doing well, you’ll end up there.

So the answer is: stop trying to impress the wrong girls and start looking for ones who actually want what you want

If you’re just dating casually, then go for girls who are also cool with that or neutral (meaning they’re open to casual or serious depending on how you show up)

Because even with lots of attraction...

If you both want different things, it’s going to crash anyway

MY Final Thought

You can’t stop girls from talking

If you’re good with women, your name will come up

So don’t stress about that

Just focus on spotting the girls who want what you want

That’s the best way to handle all this.

-MOS

It doesn’t matter how much you want it

You also need to feel like you’re worth it

If you don’t and still end up getting it

You will ruin it

I’ve never seen this not happen

That’s why inner work is just as key (even more) as outer work.

No easy way.

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Living a life full of abundance means giving to the world around you whenever you can

That means talking with people you don’t know

That means smiling at the person on the other side of the street

That means flirting with the girls near you

That means telling jokes whenever you get the chance

That means picking up trash you spot on the ground

That means helping others for free but also helping others and getting paid too

That means doing your part to make things better

When you give from an abundance mindset, you never run out of energy because the things you do keep giving it back to you

When you hold back your energy, you worry about giving it to those near you.

That’s part of the issue. When your energy is full, it flows out of you without end and others feel it and you get more energy from that

Are you acting from abundance or scarcty?

The people who seem full of life and pull everyone in with their strong energy are acting from abundance not scarcity

If you need something, you’re in scarcity

If you need a pill to perform, you’re in scarcity

If you need coffee to wake up, you’re in scarcity

If you need someone to like you, you’re in scarcity

If you need anything, you’re in scarcity

When you live from abundance you already have all you need so you don’t need anything

And by not needing, you receive everything.

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Motivation AND discipline are for losers.

If you truly want it you won’t need motivation or discipline.

Stop lying to yourself.

You don’t want the 6 pack.

Or the girl.

Or the money.

Or the success.

You want the pain.

You want to lose.

If not, you would already win.

Accept it then focus on building your self-respect so you truly want it like I’m having to do.

No easy path here.

"What are you looking for?"

When a girl asks this, it’s almost always a red flag.

It means she’s chasing a beta to settle down with, and she’s in a rush.

She has no interest in doing the usual dating dance of acting like she wants to know you.

She’s after a husband, a baby daddy, and someone to raise kids with… right now.

If you haven’t noticed, that also means she won’t sleep with you unless there’s a ring on her finger.

Girls who say "what are you looking for" also often say they don’t believe in sex before marriage, so if you’re hoping to just get lucky, don’t bother.

The reason she asks you straight up what you want is because she’s tired of guessing what guys are after, and she doesn’t want to waste more of her time.

She wants to move fast and test you right away.

Every period she has reminds her she’s getting closer to not being able to have kids.

She’s not thinking about learning who you are anymore, the clock is ticking!

My usual answer when a girl asks what I’m looking for is:

"I’m not sure, it depends. What do you offer?"

Give her a question she doesn’t like.

Match her energy.

Use her own move against her.

⚠️BAD DATE ALERT⚠️

Let’s go over what you should NOT do on a date with a girl and all the mistakes this guy is making:

❌ Don’t ask girls to rate you from 1 to 10. It just sounds unsure of yourself. Plus, it’s pointless.

❌ Don’t get stuck on one topic. If she doesn’t want to play along (like she won’t rate you), don’t keep pushing it (“I don’t get it, but people always say I’m an 8”). Let the topic go and move to something new.

❌ Don’t talk about stuff that shows you two are not alike or makes girls sound better than guys. “Guys like the pictures more because they care about looks, girls like the story because they care about what’s inside.” This says “we’re not the same” (not alike); it also hints that “girls are better” (they go deeper / guys are shallow). These are bad points to make.

❌ Don’t keep turning things back to you.

“That’s why I never dress up for dates.” Sounds stubborn. Also sounds like you’re trying too hard. He should be bringing the chat back to HER so she can share about HERSELF, not always turning it to himself (“Look how cool I am! I never dress up!”).

❌ Don’t brag about yourself.

“You’re an eight” —> “Everyone says I’m an eight.”

That’s just bragging. Also keeps the talk all about him. He should be putting the focus on HER!

❌ Don’t say you want to attract girls. That’s just obvious. Guys who get girls don’t try, they just do. If you need to tell girls this, you just seem less cool.

❌Don’t talk about not liking older women. She doesn’t care who you’re into. Guys who are chill don’t go around saying, “this girl is hot but that one isn’t.” It makes all girls feel unsure and gives them the ick, same way it would feel if a girl started talking to you about guys she doesn’t like.

So yeah just don’t do what this guy’s doing in the video.

Do the total opposite and you’ll have a strong start.

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One thing I secretly enjoy is noticing when my body is closed off and then playfully going the other way by opening up as wide as I can and taking up as much space as possible.

You can literally see how the people near you react when you do this.

Girls will start facing you and showing signs they’re interested.

Guys will either become more friendly or tense up, acting like they’re responding to your new display of confidence.

Here’s a pic as an example.

I’m never super closed off, but sometimes I do sit with my legs too close or slouch a bit.

Then I’ll do something like the position on the right and fully open up.

At first, you might think this is fake confidence or showing off.

I used to think so too but it’s not, because once you open your body like that, you actually start feeling better and more sure of yourself.

You’re telling the world:

“Here I am. You get to see me now” (that word matters because it makes the world respond to you like you’re the prize, not the one chasing)

Instead of:

“Please don’t notice me, I don’t want people looking at me…”

The more open and bold you are, the better the effect.

For the example in the picture, I’d even go further stretch your legs out more, lift your chest, lean back, and push your hips forward a bit to really own the space.

This only feels fake or like you’re acting tough if your mindset doesn’t also shift after doing it.

If how you speak matches how you move, then it’s real even if it feels weird at first.

It took me a little while to feel normal doing this years ago.

Now it feels totally natural.

And yes, doing this will make some guys feel really uneasy lol

You might even get a few haters who try hard to call you insecure and bring you down when you do it lol

But that part’s actually fun.

Start messing with them and really play the role.

Go chat with the girl they’re talking to (who’s already been sneaking looks at you), and start joking and teasing her like you’re the prize and just watch the guy get mad, jealous, or salty.

Unless he’s really smooth and can shift the energy, he’s going to lose the moment (and if you’re clever, you can block that shift too).

This becomes a kind of game.

From: “Just doing my thing, a little closed off right now”

To:

“I’m that guy. You don’t stand a chance. My charm is too strong. Let’s see how easy it is to influence everyone for fun.”

THE “FAST BURN” TRAP

Why texting too much, too fast, ruins the vibe and what to do instead

You meet a girl and hit it off.

She’s smiling.

She’s laughing.

She’s leaning in.

Maybe she touches your arm.

You feel the spark.

You’re thinking, “This is on.”

You get her number.

You walk away feeling like you’ve got it in the bag.

So the next day, you text her.

She replies: "Cool."

You keep the conversation going.

You text again.

She replies slower.

The energy feels different.

Then you double-text.

Now it takes her hours to respond, or she barely replies at all.

A few days pass, and you realize she’s gone cold.

It’s confusing.

Things were going so well.

You didn’t say anything wrong.

You were just being nice, right?

This is what I call the Fast Burn Trap.

It’s when a guy "lights the spark" in person but accidentally kills the tension over text.

It happens more than you think.

The reason is simple.

Most guys treat texting like a way to prove they’re interested, or to show they’re “nice” and not playing games.

But that same effort often ruins the emotional tension that made the interaction exciting in the first place.

Texting isn’t about proving yourself.

It’s about "keeping that spark alive."

The mistake most guys make is being too available.

They reply fast, text often, compliment too much, and try to schedule the next meet-up right away.

They’re outcome-focused and even though it comes from a good place, it ends up making the girl feel like the story is already over.

There’s no mystery.

No build-up.

No space for curiosity.

What a lot of guys don’t realize is: women fall for the feeling you give them, not the information you share.

When you text like a guy who’s already sold on her, you take away the fun of discovering each other.

She doesn’t need to figure you out.

She doesn’t get to wonder how much you like her.

She already knows and once she knows, there’s nothing left to chase.

This is why the guys who keep women interested over text usually do less, not more.

They don’t rush to reply.

They don’t text back-to-back.

They don’t talk just to talk.

They’re selective.

They text with purpose and most importantly, they know how to keep emotional tension alive.

That’s where the “make her wonder” principle comes in.

A man she chases doesn’t reveal everything up front.

He gives her just enough to stay curious, but never too much to feel like it’s already decided.

He’s playful but calm.

Interested but not eager.

Warm, but not always available.

He knows that a little bit of uncertainty makes things more exciting.

It’s not about playing games.

It’s about creating space for tension to grow.

Let me show you the difference.

Here’s how most guys text after a good first meeting:

“Hey had a great time, when can I see you again? :)”

It’s sweet.

It’s polite but it’s also predictable.

It gives everything away.

Now compare it to this:

“You’re trouble. I should probably avoid seeing you again…”

That second message has edge.

It teases.

It creates tension.

It doesn’t try to please and most importantly, it makes her feel something.

Then you let it breathe.

You don’t follow up immediately.

You don’t explain yourself.

You don’t ask for plans right away.

You let her sit in that emotional space and wonder.

The real skill in texting is knowing when to pull back.

Knowing when to say less.

Knowing when to let silence work for you.

Because if you give her too much too soon, she’ll lose interest, not because you’re a bad texter, but because there’s nothing left to figure out.

Let her feel the gap.

Let her lean in.