❌ He asked for her Instagram: now he’s one of her fans. Better move? Ask for her # and skip the IG (unless your IG is solid and full of other girls, in which case you can ask for both and let her watch while you date others).
VERDICT: girl might’ve been open at first (she stopped texting, smiled, played with her hair while looking at him) but he lost the moment by jumping from topic to topic and asking dull questions (she started looking around, crossed her legs, flipped her hair away from him, and moved her body like she wanted to go).
Even though this try wasn’t bad, it wasn’t exactly good either but even with a basic, not-very-smooth approach like this, you can still get girls.
Will also give the guys big 👍 for having the balls to make approaches rather than sit home and complain about how frustrating modern dating is.
If you have any questions, feel free to ask 👇👇
VERDICT: girl might’ve been open at first (she stopped texting, smiled, played with her hair while looking at him) but he lost the moment by jumping from topic to topic and asking dull questions (she started looking around, crossed her legs, flipped her hair away from him, and moved her body like she wanted to go).
Even though this try wasn’t bad, it wasn’t exactly good either but even with a basic, not-very-smooth approach like this, you can still get girls.
Will also give the guys big 👍 for having the balls to make approaches rather than sit home and complain about how frustrating modern dating is.
If you have any questions, feel free to ask 👇👇
❤4
One of the funny things I see is how...
A lot of men online say they want virgins.
But most of these men are not doing what the men who marry virgins actually do:
=> Attending school with virgins (18-21) and starting serious “marriage-minded” relationships with them early on
=> Working jobs in strict, traditional areas where they’re always around young virgins (like teacher, pastor, etc.)
=> Visiting a country where casual sex is rare and actively talking to late teen / early 20s women who could still be virgins
Outside of that:
• If she’s 24 or older, she’s not a virgin
• If you do meet a 24+ woman who is a virgin, something is off with her (for sure)
A lot of men online say they want virgins.
But most of these men are not doing what the men who marry virgins actually do:
=> Attending school with virgins (18-21) and starting serious “marriage-minded” relationships with them early on
=> Working jobs in strict, traditional areas where they’re always around young virgins (like teacher, pastor, etc.)
=> Visiting a country where casual sex is rare and actively talking to late teen / early 20s women who could still be virgins
Outside of that:
• If she’s 24 or older, she’s not a virgin
• If you do meet a 24+ woman who is a virgin, something is off with her (for sure)
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PLACES TO MEET HIGH QUALITY WOMEN
This girl is right, these are good spots to meet women, but not for the reasons she gives:
=> Women go to fancy gyms thinking they’ll meet higher status / more successful guys
=> Women shop at fancy supermarkets to look cool (and higher status / more successful guys)
=> Women show up at business events to find jobs (and higher status / more successful guys)
Here’s the truth: people think that if you’re in these places, you’re probably high status and/or successful.
So you don’t even have to be that to do well here.
You just need to be fishing in the right spots.
This girl is right, these are good spots to meet women, but not for the reasons she gives:
=> Women go to fancy gyms thinking they’ll meet higher status / more successful guys
=> Women shop at fancy supermarkets to look cool (and higher status / more successful guys)
=> Women show up at business events to find jobs (and higher status / more successful guys)
Here’s the truth: people think that if you’re in these places, you’re probably high status and/or successful.
So you don’t even have to be that to do well here.
You just need to be fishing in the right spots.
❤5
Your main role with women is to lead.
Women want to add to the bond with a man but you must guide them.
Make room for them to:
• Cook for you
• Clean for you
• Bring you things
• Search things online for you
• Do small tasks for you
• Support you in other ways
The more you guide a woman to give, the more she connects with you.
Women want to add to the bond with a man but you must guide them.
Make room for them to:
• Cook for you
• Clean for you
• Bring you things
• Search things online for you
• Do small tasks for you
• Support you in other ways
The more you guide a woman to give, the more she connects with you.
❤7
There is a new femcentric app trending currently.
It's called TEA and it's not your friend.
What’s Tea?
Tea is a women‑only, anonymous platform: You verify you're female via a selfie/liveness check and no screenshots are allowed. Posts use anonymized usernames. Users can share red-flag warnings like cheating, abusive behavior, criminal records and search for men to see if others have posted about them.
The point is that this indicates a trend towards "overt" form of dating.
I noticed a lot of guys & so called gooroos online are talking about using the app as a form of preselection.
DON'T!
Why showing off that you sleep around ruins your chances with most girls (even if you think it looks cool)
With this new tea app where girls rate guys, I’ve noticed a pattern
Some guys are trying to act smart by saying that getting posted there is a win
Like “oh yeah girls will see I’m wanted and then they’ll all want to sleep with me!”
Sounds good in theory
But that’s not how things actually work...
It's called TEA and it's not your friend.
What’s Tea?
Tea is a women‑only, anonymous platform: You verify you're female via a selfie/liveness check and no screenshots are allowed. Posts use anonymized usernames. Users can share red-flag warnings like cheating, abusive behavior, criminal records and search for men to see if others have posted about them.
The point is that this indicates a trend towards "overt" form of dating.
I noticed a lot of guys & so called gooroos online are talking about using the app as a form of preselection.
DON'T!
Why showing off that you sleep around ruins your chances with most girls (even if you think it looks cool)
With this new tea app where girls rate guys, I’ve noticed a pattern
Some guys are trying to act smart by saying that getting posted there is a win
Like “oh yeah girls will see I’m wanted and then they’ll all want to sleep with me!”
Sounds good in theory
But that’s not how things actually work...
❤4
THE IRON CIRCLE
There is a new femcentric app trending currently. It's called TEA and it's not your friend. What’s Tea? Tea is a women‑only, anonymous platform: You verify you're female via a selfie/liveness check and no screenshots are allowed. Posts use anonymized usernames.…
Here’s what’s really going on and why it turns girls off
Women openly dislike players
They know a player won’t commit
He might be fun, yes, but she knows she won’t be able to lock him down or get what she wants long term
She still might feel attracted, but she pulls away because she believes she’ll get nothing real from him
But here’s the twist...
Women secretly love players
Why?
Because players bring
=> Excitement
=> Good sex
=> No pressure
=> A fun time
They make her feel alive and feed her sexual side
So what’s the problem?
Why do players still lose?
Because of one big reason:
Awareness
The moment a girl knows for sure that you’re a player, her logic kicks in and the attraction dies
And here’s the sad part...
Back in the day?
She might’ve had a great time with that guy
Maybe they’d hang out a few times, have fun, then naturally drift apart
No drama, no confusion, no regrets
Just two people enjoying a connection in a busy, stressful world
Both walked away a little happier from it
But today?
She sees just one post in a Facebook group or on the tea app...
And she ghosts you right away
Not because she didn’t like you
But because she now knows how it’ll end, and the fun stops before it even begins
So what should we do?
We can’t really stop girls from posting us in those groups.
If you’re out dating and doing well, you’ll end up there.
So the answer is: stop trying to impress the wrong girls and start looking for ones who actually want what you want
If you’re just dating casually, then go for girls who are also cool with that or neutral (meaning they’re open to casual or serious depending on how you show up)
Because even with lots of attraction...
If you both want different things, it’s going to crash anyway
MY Final Thought
You can’t stop girls from talking
If you’re good with women, your name will come up
So don’t stress about that
Just focus on spotting the girls who want what you want
That’s the best way to handle all this.
-MOS
Women openly dislike players
They know a player won’t commit
He might be fun, yes, but she knows she won’t be able to lock him down or get what she wants long term
She still might feel attracted, but she pulls away because she believes she’ll get nothing real from him
But here’s the twist...
Women secretly love players
Why?
Because players bring
=> Excitement
=> Good sex
=> No pressure
=> A fun time
They make her feel alive and feed her sexual side
So what’s the problem?
Why do players still lose?
Because of one big reason:
Awareness
The moment a girl knows for sure that you’re a player, her logic kicks in and the attraction dies
And here’s the sad part...
Back in the day?
She might’ve had a great time with that guy
Maybe they’d hang out a few times, have fun, then naturally drift apart
No drama, no confusion, no regrets
Just two people enjoying a connection in a busy, stressful world
Both walked away a little happier from it
But today?
She sees just one post in a Facebook group or on the tea app...
And she ghosts you right away
Not because she didn’t like you
But because she now knows how it’ll end, and the fun stops before it even begins
So what should we do?
We can’t really stop girls from posting us in those groups.
If you’re out dating and doing well, you’ll end up there.
So the answer is: stop trying to impress the wrong girls and start looking for ones who actually want what you want
If you’re just dating casually, then go for girls who are also cool with that or neutral (meaning they’re open to casual or serious depending on how you show up)
Because even with lots of attraction...
If you both want different things, it’s going to crash anyway
MY Final Thought
You can’t stop girls from talking
If you’re good with women, your name will come up
So don’t stress about that
Just focus on spotting the girls who want what you want
That’s the best way to handle all this.
-MOS
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It doesn’t matter how much you want it
You also need to feel like you’re worth it
If you don’t and still end up getting it
You will ruin it
I’ve never seen this not happen
That’s why inner work is just as key (even more) as outer work.
No easy way.
You also need to feel like you’re worth it
If you don’t and still end up getting it
You will ruin it
I’ve never seen this not happen
That’s why inner work is just as key (even more) as outer work.
No easy way.
❤5
Living a life full of abundance means giving to the world around you whenever you can
That means talking with people you don’t know
That means smiling at the person on the other side of the street
That means flirting with the girls near you
That means telling jokes whenever you get the chance
That means picking up trash you spot on the ground
That means helping others for free but also helping others and getting paid too
That means doing your part to make things better
When you give from an abundance mindset, you never run out of energy because the things you do keep giving it back to you
When you hold back your energy, you worry about giving it to those near you.
That’s part of the issue. When your energy is full, it flows out of you without end and others feel it and you get more energy from that
Are you acting from abundance or scarcty?
The people who seem full of life and pull everyone in with their strong energy are acting from abundance not scarcity
If you need something, you’re in scarcity
If you need a pill to perform, you’re in scarcity
If you need coffee to wake up, you’re in scarcity
If you need someone to like you, you’re in scarcity
If you need anything, you’re in scarcity
When you live from abundance you already have all you need so you don’t need anything
And by not needing, you receive everything.
That means talking with people you don’t know
That means smiling at the person on the other side of the street
That means flirting with the girls near you
That means telling jokes whenever you get the chance
That means picking up trash you spot on the ground
That means helping others for free but also helping others and getting paid too
That means doing your part to make things better
When you give from an abundance mindset, you never run out of energy because the things you do keep giving it back to you
When you hold back your energy, you worry about giving it to those near you.
That’s part of the issue. When your energy is full, it flows out of you without end and others feel it and you get more energy from that
Are you acting from abundance or scarcty?
The people who seem full of life and pull everyone in with their strong energy are acting from abundance not scarcity
If you need something, you’re in scarcity
If you need a pill to perform, you’re in scarcity
If you need coffee to wake up, you’re in scarcity
If you need someone to like you, you’re in scarcity
If you need anything, you’re in scarcity
When you live from abundance you already have all you need so you don’t need anything
And by not needing, you receive everything.
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Motivation AND discipline are for losers.
If you truly want it you won’t need motivation or discipline.
Stop lying to yourself.
You don’t want the 6 pack.
Or the girl.
Or the money.
Or the success.
You want the pain.
You want to lose.
If not, you would already win.
Accept it then focus on building your self-respect so you truly want it like I’m having to do.
No easy path here.
If you truly want it you won’t need motivation or discipline.
Stop lying to yourself.
You don’t want the 6 pack.
Or the girl.
Or the money.
Or the success.
You want the pain.
You want to lose.
If not, you would already win.
Accept it then focus on building your self-respect so you truly want it like I’m having to do.
No easy path here.
💯6❤3
"What are you looking for?"
When a girl asks this, it’s almost always a red flag.
It means she’s chasing a beta to settle down with, and she’s in a rush.
She has no interest in doing the usual dating dance of acting like she wants to know you.
She’s after a husband, a baby daddy, and someone to raise kids with… right now.
If you haven’t noticed, that also means she won’t sleep with you unless there’s a ring on her finger.
Girls who say "what are you looking for" also often say they don’t believe in sex before marriage, so if you’re hoping to just get lucky, don’t bother.
The reason she asks you straight up what you want is because she’s tired of guessing what guys are after, and she doesn’t want to waste more of her time.
She wants to move fast and test you right away.
Every period she has reminds her she’s getting closer to not being able to have kids.
She’s not thinking about learning who you are anymore, the clock is ticking!
My usual answer when a girl asks what I’m looking for is:
"I’m not sure, it depends. What do you offer?"
Give her a question she doesn’t like.
Match her energy.
Use her own move against her.
When a girl asks this, it’s almost always a red flag.
It means she’s chasing a beta to settle down with, and she’s in a rush.
She has no interest in doing the usual dating dance of acting like she wants to know you.
She’s after a husband, a baby daddy, and someone to raise kids with… right now.
If you haven’t noticed, that also means she won’t sleep with you unless there’s a ring on her finger.
Girls who say "what are you looking for" also often say they don’t believe in sex before marriage, so if you’re hoping to just get lucky, don’t bother.
The reason she asks you straight up what you want is because she’s tired of guessing what guys are after, and she doesn’t want to waste more of her time.
She wants to move fast and test you right away.
Every period she has reminds her she’s getting closer to not being able to have kids.
She’s not thinking about learning who you are anymore, the clock is ticking!
My usual answer when a girl asks what I’m looking for is:
"I’m not sure, it depends. What do you offer?"
Give her a question she doesn’t like.
Match her energy.
Use her own move against her.
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⚠️BAD DATE ALERT⚠️
Let’s go over what you should NOT do on a date with a girl and all the mistakes this guy is making:
❌ Don’t ask girls to rate you from 1 to 10. It just sounds unsure of yourself. Plus, it’s pointless.
❌ Don’t get stuck on one topic. If she doesn’t want to play along (like she won’t rate you), don’t keep pushing it (“I don’t get it, but people always say I’m an 8”). Let the topic go and move to something new.
❌ Don’t talk about stuff that shows you two are not alike or makes girls sound better than guys. “Guys like the pictures more because they care about looks, girls like the story because they care about what’s inside.” This says “we’re not the same” (not alike); it also hints that “girls are better” (they go deeper / guys are shallow). These are bad points to make.
Let’s go over what you should NOT do on a date with a girl and all the mistakes this guy is making:
❌ Don’t ask girls to rate you from 1 to 10. It just sounds unsure of yourself. Plus, it’s pointless.
❌ Don’t get stuck on one topic. If she doesn’t want to play along (like she won’t rate you), don’t keep pushing it (“I don’t get it, but people always say I’m an 8”). Let the topic go and move to something new.
❌ Don’t talk about stuff that shows you two are not alike or makes girls sound better than guys. “Guys like the pictures more because they care about looks, girls like the story because they care about what’s inside.” This says “we’re not the same” (not alike); it also hints that “girls are better” (they go deeper / guys are shallow). These are bad points to make.
THE IRON CIRCLE
⚠️BAD DATE ALERT⚠️ Let’s go over what you should NOT do on a date with a girl and all the mistakes this guy is making: ❌ Don’t ask girls to rate you from 1 to 10. It just sounds unsure of yourself. Plus, it’s pointless. ❌ Don’t get stuck on one topic. If…
❌ Don’t keep turning things back to you.
“That’s why I never dress up for dates.” Sounds stubborn. Also sounds like you’re trying too hard. He should be bringing the chat back to HER so she can share about HERSELF, not always turning it to himself (“Look how cool I am! I never dress up!”).
❌ Don’t brag about yourself.
“You’re an eight” —> “Everyone says I’m an eight.”
That’s just bragging. Also keeps the talk all about him. He should be putting the focus on HER!
❌ Don’t say you want to attract girls. That’s just obvious. Guys who get girls don’t try, they just do. If you need to tell girls this, you just seem less cool.
❌Don’t talk about not liking older women. She doesn’t care who you’re into. Guys who are chill don’t go around saying, “this girl is hot but that one isn’t.” It makes all girls feel unsure and gives them the ick, same way it would feel if a girl started talking to you about guys she doesn’t like.
So yeah just don’t do what this guy’s doing in the video.
Do the total opposite and you’ll have a strong start.
“That’s why I never dress up for dates.” Sounds stubborn. Also sounds like you’re trying too hard. He should be bringing the chat back to HER so she can share about HERSELF, not always turning it to himself (“Look how cool I am! I never dress up!”).
❌ Don’t brag about yourself.
“You’re an eight” —> “Everyone says I’m an eight.”
That’s just bragging. Also keeps the talk all about him. He should be putting the focus on HER!
❌ Don’t say you want to attract girls. That’s just obvious. Guys who get girls don’t try, they just do. If you need to tell girls this, you just seem less cool.
❌Don’t talk about not liking older women. She doesn’t care who you’re into. Guys who are chill don’t go around saying, “this girl is hot but that one isn’t.” It makes all girls feel unsure and gives them the ick, same way it would feel if a girl started talking to you about guys she doesn’t like.
So yeah just don’t do what this guy’s doing in the video.
Do the total opposite and you’ll have a strong start.
THE IRON CIRCLE
What's keeping you stuck with women rn?
Make sure to choose, polls ends today by mid night