The secret to the best date:

Don’t talk too much.

The best dates are when you meet and both feel the spark right away.

The physical chemistry is strong.

When you feel that, try to make a move quickly to take advantage.

Compare that to two people on a date talking for two hours.

Not about anything personal, just having a ‘great conversation’ about old movies from the 1930s.

If you share interests, good.

But if attraction isn’t there, all the shared interests will only get you a friend.

If you want a long-term relationship, you MUST train yourself to not need it

That’s what actually gives you the best shot at a strong and happy bond

Here’s why:

Most men mess up by trying to show a girl he’s a great long-term pick by moving slow.

But men and women want different things.

Trying to prove you’re a strong long-term pick by being slow is the FEMALE way.

So while you like a girl who moves slow (that’s why “reformed ho” girls act sweet), the girl gets turned off when YOU do it.

Even if she doesn’t know why

Here’s why that happens:

1. we are wired to mate fast

2. women’s feelings rise and fall faster than men’s

So when you move slow, even if she says she wants a “nice guy” who takes his time, she will feel something is off.

She’ll think there’s “no spark” and either tell you or disappear

That’s why you need to really stop craving a relationship

Because then you can focus on charm, not playing it safe

And that’s what gives her the rush of feelings that makes her hooked

So don’t get stuck on the idea of a bond, even if she feels like “the one”

Move fast to charm her before her feelings drop

She will slow things down if needed

And you just adjust from there

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“I messed up.”

^ every girl’s reason for why she dated the guy before you.

Each time she visits, get her in bed.

She had a rough day? Get her in bed. It’ll cheer her up.

She’s worn out? Get her in bed. You’ll boost her energy.

She just worked out? Get her in bed. You’ll help her relax.

It sets a good tone for bonding.

Being fat is the top reason men have fewer dating chances in the US and many other places.

Go to Eastern Europe or Asia and “slim” is just normal for women. Nothing crazy.

Come back to the US and “slim” makes a woman a 7.5+ to most men.

The more you talk about yourself, the less fun it is for girls, usually.

It’s not that you’re not fun (maybe you aren’t, I don’t know!).

It’s just that most girls want to talk about THEMSELVES.

They’re too busy talking to listen deeply.

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Every time you text a girl first, use her name.

It makes the text feel more real, shows you didn’t copy+paste, and she’s way more likely to reply than if it sounds cold or random.

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Girls follow what they feel is okay.

People decide what’s okay by how often they hear it.

Say a thing 7 times and people will think it’s true.

Now you see why frame control works so well with girls?

If you feel peace when she’s gone, maybe keep her gone for good.

Every girl that makes you nervous has had guys turn her down.

Don’t think she’ll be rude or cold when you haven’t even said hello yet.

Feeling lonely as a man means you’re not being social enough.

Girls watch you after breakups to check if they made a mistake.

If she sees you happy, with hotter girls, living well, and fully over her before she gets over you, that’s when the “Hey stranger, miss you!” texts show up.

You don’t really know her until you’ve slept with her.

Everything before that is just her public side.

The guy who sleeps with her finds out who she is behind closed doors.

Winning with girls isn’t about being liked or having nice chats.

It’s about her feeling wild emotion and getting naked and sweaty with you.

Love and sex are not noble.

They’re raw and wild.

Every guy who gets great with women really likes them a lot, even if he thinks they do some goofy stuff.

Treat the girls you’re into the same as the ones you don’t care much about.

That’s how you’ll end up with more of the girls you truly want.

Every time you see a woman you're attracted to, you feel that familiar knot in your stomach...👇

The mental battle begins:

'Should I approach? What if she rejects me?'
'Maybe I should wait for a signal...'
'I need to think of the perfect thing to say...'

Meanwhile, she walks away. Another opportunity lost.

You've tried following the 'expert' advice:

- Wait for signals (while watching other guys make their move)
- Never be too direct (and get stuck in the friend zone)
- Focus on your looks and status (but still feel invisible)

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This isn't your fault.

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