One of the hardest but key skills in dating is dropping women who aren’t your real match.
It takes real strength and knowing that if you keep looking, you’ll find someone who fits your heart.
No girl is perfect, but you and I both know that when you meet a girl who’s cool but clearly not your wife, it’s easy to see early on.
In nearly every case, I knew early that this girl wasn’t “it.” It was a small voice inside, but I ignored it for many reasons.
But that quiet thought ended up hurting the whole thing. And in time, I always ended it because I KNEW deep down she wasn’t the one.
You can save yourself and women lots of pain if you listen to that voice fast and early.
It’s being kind to her and to yourself.
It takes real strength and knowing that if you keep looking, you’ll find someone who fits your heart.
No girl is perfect, but you and I both know that when you meet a girl who’s cool but clearly not your wife, it’s easy to see early on.
In nearly every case, I knew early that this girl wasn’t “it.” It was a small voice inside, but I ignored it for many reasons.
But that quiet thought ended up hurting the whole thing. And in time, I always ended it because I KNEW deep down she wasn’t the one.
You can save yourself and women lots of pain if you listen to that voice fast and early.
It’s being kind to her and to yourself.
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What keeps a woman faithful?
It’s a mix of different things, no set order.
1. Her values
2. If she loves fun too much
3. How hot you are as a whole
4. How strong your bond was before the moment came
5. What’s around her (Is she drunk? In a phase where she doubts her life? Are her friends pushing her?)
6. How tempting the other guy is
7. Is she mad at you (maybe you cheated) or does she feel left out and alone?
8. What happens if she cheats? Does she KNOW you’ll leave or think you’re weak and will stay? Will her friends/family shame her or support her?
It sounds easy to say it’s all about her values, but that’s not fully true. Can strong values beat the rest? Yes, if they’re strong ENOUGH.
But look at the world—do you think values are the strongest force in most people?
The world’s messy and won’t be perfect, so it’s smart to look at all the reasons behind this kind of choice.
If she cheats, walk away for sure but it’s not as simple as “she will or won’t cheat.”
There are LOTS of reasons behind it, and you can push those reasons one way or the other.
It’s a mix of different things, no set order.
1. Her values
2. If she loves fun too much
3. How hot you are as a whole
4. How strong your bond was before the moment came
5. What’s around her (Is she drunk? In a phase where she doubts her life? Are her friends pushing her?)
6. How tempting the other guy is
7. Is she mad at you (maybe you cheated) or does she feel left out and alone?
8. What happens if she cheats? Does she KNOW you’ll leave or think you’re weak and will stay? Will her friends/family shame her or support her?
It sounds easy to say it’s all about her values, but that’s not fully true. Can strong values beat the rest? Yes, if they’re strong ENOUGH.
But look at the world—do you think values are the strongest force in most people?
The world’s messy and won’t be perfect, so it’s smart to look at all the reasons behind this kind of choice.
If she cheats, walk away for sure but it’s not as simple as “she will or won’t cheat.”
There are LOTS of reasons behind it, and you can push those reasons one way or the other.
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Some jobs girls work have random hours so you’ll often hear “I’ll let you know once I get my schedule.”
Girls almost never follow up by themselves when that happens.
Don’t take it personally, you're not a big deal yet and she has tons of stuff going on. Also, women are usually passive, while men take the lead.
Just ask her to let you know when she gets her schedule and note that day in your calendar.
On that day, message her and ask how her schedule looks.
Then go from there
Girls almost never follow up by themselves when that happens.
Don’t take it personally, you're not a big deal yet and she has tons of stuff going on. Also, women are usually passive, while men take the lead.
Just ask her to let you know when she gets her schedule and note that day in your calendar.
On that day, message her and ask how her schedule looks.
Then go from there
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If a girl acts rude, you should stop replying to her.
And I don’t mean in a sneaky way to try to win her over.
It should honestly turn you off and make you walk away for real.
If she says sorry in a clear way and has a decent reason for acting like that, then it’s fine to message her again.
A big issue guys face is putting up with it because the sex is good.
Talk to more women and have options so you don’t feel stuck in that mess.
Once you do, you’ll have a better sense of what’s okay and what’s not in how a girl treats you.
And I don’t mean in a sneaky way to try to win her over.
It should honestly turn you off and make you walk away for real.
If she says sorry in a clear way and has a decent reason for acting like that, then it’s fine to message her again.
A big issue guys face is putting up with it because the sex is good.
Talk to more women and have options so you don’t feel stuck in that mess.
Once you do, you’ll have a better sense of what’s okay and what’s not in how a girl treats you.
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It’s fine if you have geeky hobbies.
Just mix them with other things that are seen as cool and show high value like:
– lifting weights
– martial arts
– starting a business or hustle
– learning about health and food
– travel
Just mix them with other things that are seen as cool and show high value like:
– lifting weights
– martial arts
– starting a business or hustle
– learning about health and food
– travel
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Become the man she can’t ignore.
At Undeniable Attraction, we break down what really makes women desire, chase, and stay hooked without tricks or cringe tactics.
Whether you're tired of being ghosted, losing interest after intimacy, or feeling like you're…
At Undeniable Attraction, we break down what really makes women desire, chase, and stay hooked without tricks or cringe tactics.
Whether you're tired of being ghosted, losing interest after intimacy, or feeling like you're…
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She’s not sitting close, laughing, and touching you because she just wants to be friends.
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Strangely, one of the best skills a smart man can get is learning to shut off his thoughts.
Stop thinking and take action… and you’ll avoid overthinking, fear of talking to women, and anything else stopping you from doing what’s needed.
Stop thinking and take action… and you’ll avoid overthinking, fear of talking to women, and anything else stopping you from doing what’s needed.
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Every man has ideas until life hits hard.
He will either stay stuck in his ego, thinking “this doesn’t apply to me,” or question everything he believed.
Most pick the easy path and stay blind.
He will either stay stuck in his ego, thinking “this doesn’t apply to me,” or question everything he believed.
Most pick the easy path and stay blind.
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'Men dating girls aged 18-25 are weird and creepy!'
Every guy saying this are either sexless or sexually frustrated.
Maybe both.
Most men in their late 30s or 40s date women their age, who often look as unattractive as a cactus.
They live dull lives with no spark and attack men who have reasons to smile.
So no, having the ability, skills, or the means to get younger chicks isn't weird, but a sign of strength and vitality.
It means you are still very desirable, when in theory you would not stand a chance against younger dudes.
That's why you must give credit to these men, who defy the odds.
Because it's hard, and very few can do it.
Every guy saying this are either sexless or sexually frustrated.
Maybe both.
Most men in their late 30s or 40s date women their age, who often look as unattractive as a cactus.
They live dull lives with no spark and attack men who have reasons to smile.
So no, having the ability, skills, or the means to get younger chicks isn't weird, but a sign of strength and vitality.
It means you are still very desirable, when in theory you would not stand a chance against younger dudes.
That's why you must give credit to these men, who defy the odds.
Because it's hard, and very few can do it.
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Milestone when meeting up with a girl:
_ Hold her hand
_ Kiss her
_ Go back to your place
If you’ve had many dates and haven’t even done the first two, don’t act surprised when she ghosts you.
She doesn’t know if you’re into her.
She might think you’re gay and just want a shopping buddy since you haven’t made a move.
_ Hold her hand
_ Kiss her
_ Go back to your place
If you’ve had many dates and haven’t even done the first two, don’t act surprised when she ghosts you.
She doesn’t know if you’re into her.
She might think you’re gay and just want a shopping buddy since you haven’t made a move.
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Being jacked is not time efficient in the game of life.
Prisons/construction sites are full of huge physiques, not the corridors of power.
Having actual power and agency will get you more women/respect than being the henchman.
Stay healthy and mean.
Beyond that is waste of time.
Prisons/construction sites are full of huge physiques, not the corridors of power.
Having actual power and agency will get you more women/respect than being the henchman.
Stay healthy and mean.
Beyond that is waste of time.
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Don’t waste time with silly text games.
If she answers you fast, answer her fast too.
You can save a lot of time by acting while things are moving.
If she answers you fast, answer her fast too.
You can save a lot of time by acting while things are moving.
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I don’t care where she is from.
Almost all women will lie and flake when they lose interest.
It is built into them.
Always expect this and don’t get too upset when it happens, because it will.
Almost all women will lie and flake when they lose interest.
It is built into them.
Always expect this and don’t get too upset when it happens, because it will.
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If you meet a girl by cold approach and she likes you even a little, she will answer your questions
• “What’s your name”
• “Where are you from”
• “How old are you”
If she doesn’t answer back, she isn’t interested. Move on.
• “What’s your name”
• “Where are you from”
• “How old are you”
If she doesn’t answer back, she isn’t interested. Move on.
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Here is the deal with sleeping with a girl on the first date:
If you feel like you MUST sleep with her to see her again, you will seem desperate.
I do suggest sleeping with her on the first date, but if it doesn’t happen for any reason, stay calm.
You should also improve your talking skills so if you need to leave early, you have already shown enough value for her to want to meet again.
There is no single trick to fix everything.
You should get better in every area.
If you feel like you MUST sleep with her to see her again, you will seem desperate.
I do suggest sleeping with her on the first date, but if it doesn’t happen for any reason, stay calm.
You should also improve your talking skills so if you need to leave early, you have already shown enough value for her to want to meet again.
There is no single trick to fix everything.
You should get better in every area.
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For best results on hinge:
=> Use pictures that get likes
This will raise your profile and might put you in the ‘standout’ section.
=> Buy hinge+ if you get few likes
This lets you send unlimited likes which changes the game
=> Comment on her pictures, not her text answers
This makes you different if you write a good comment, many guys say “OMG same” on the “I love the Office” prompt and get X'd fast.
=> Use pictures that get likes
This will raise your profile and might put you in the ‘standout’ section.
=> Buy hinge+ if you get few likes
This lets you send unlimited likes which changes the game
=> Comment on her pictures, not her text answers
This makes you different if you write a good comment, many guys say “OMG same” on the “I love the Office” prompt and get X'd fast.
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Ways to screen women beyond texting:
=> Ask for her IG
=> Have a phone call (yes, a real call)
=> Do a FaceTime (or WhatsApp video for Android users)
These aren’t needed, but they help weed out women with annoying voices, bad teeth, or faces that only look good in photos.
=> Ask for her IG
=> Have a phone call (yes, a real call)
=> Do a FaceTime (or WhatsApp video for Android users)
These aren’t needed, but they help weed out women with annoying voices, bad teeth, or faces that only look good in photos.
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