A woman’s love is tied to how fast she would fall apart if she had to live your life.

Your parents won’t say this but the right path often leaves you single or with just a wife.

Being a good husband doesn’t work anymore.

Women have the jobs now.

The only way for men is to go hard. Unless you’re the lucky few, all you’ll get is a broken woman.

If you want a great wife, become someone so wild and strong that she follows you out of hell.

She’s out there and she’s waiting for you

Holding too much frame makes you stiff and dull.

You miss out on real life.

You should enjoy the games women play.

Show her you’re better at them.

You have more energy.

You’ll win every time.

That’s what being a beast means.

It helps in business, social stuff, and sports too.

Too much fake frame makes your mind and body stiff.

People doing better than you have gone through worse than you.

That’s why they’re ahead.

That’s the strange truth.

You wouldn’t want their pain, their struggle.

They gave up peace to learn deep truth

Buy your girl a big teddy bear so when she’s crying because you cheated again, she has something to hit

It matters that her hands stay busy

Don’t want her to start vaping or something

That’s the lesson

Don’t be scared to tell your girl how she should act and how to treat you

It’s 2025, the dating world is broken so you have to be the boss in your love life and demand respect

Let her walk if she’s not down with it

Talking to girls should never be a struggle for you

It should feel 100% chill and fun

If you feel tense about going up to girls, it means you have issues inside or just lost your rhythm, which you can get back fast

Go

A big reason guys get tired of girls is they’re always acting when they’re around them

Always putting on a mask, always trying to look a certain way, always flexing their arms a bit

Girls are fun to be with when you are fine with who you are

Guys don’t really get what “game” means

It’s not about tricking or fooling a girl into liking you with little moves

Good “game” is just about staying cool and calm and not letting silly thoughts make you act weird around her

Looking clean helps

Stop trying to be super smooth when you talk to girls

Just be yourself, show her that you’re a person and not a bot repeating lines to get sex

Real bonding matters

Girls are super kind when you don’t fake who you are, it’s crazy

If you keep arguing about tiny stuff with your girl, that means she’s trying to pull out the real you from under your fake stuff – which girls can smell

Guys get shocked seeing some short, small, broke dude with a way hotter girl, like yeah man, no surprise, maybe he just knows how to vibe with girls without begging them to notice the Rolex – he’s showing who he is, you’re showing a fake shell

The “wow he’s from another country” charm is gone because travel is so easy now

You get nothing from playing that role

Learn the local tongue and stay longer to get the finest girls

Localmaxxing

Nothing feels worse than talking to a girl and then doing a fake laugh and then having to live knowing you fake laughed in a talk with a girl hoping it would help her like you

Clown show

It’s NEVER her fault

You were either weak enough to let the bad stuff happen, or you picked the wrong girl

When you fight with your girl, you’re really fighting with yourself

The only person to blame is YOU

Get better

Any guy who knows how to talk to girls, if you ask him "what do you say to them?" won’t say much more than "just small talk, talk about random stuff", because he’s not focused on how he looks to her, he’s focused on her, not scared about his place

This REDPILL stuff really has guys scared to be kind to a girl, scared to do sweet things for her, scared to say they like her, worried they’re being used just because they spent 12$ on some damn risotto.

If that sounds like you then you will never win in dating.

Stop being so uptight.

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Getting lots of girls mainly teaches you that life has way more to offer than girls

You stop being needy

Now when you talk to girls, you’re looking for real ones, not trying to win

Guys who never played the game seem calm, but really just gave up – they won’t make it

Girls almost never leave a guy unless they disappear or go silent on him

If she’s sending long texts about how “it’s not working,” that’s actually fine

Just don’t reply, like a few of them

Why are you all so dramatic “nooo I need to say something back”

Guys always try to impress girls by being smart and trying to be different

Impress her by doing none of that and just being yourself

She’s seen enough tricks, let her see something honest

Speak to her like she’s a real person