Women don’t fully know why certain men make them OBSESSED.
This girl sees PART of the truth. All of these are real (when mixed together):
➡️ He gives her attention
➡️ She feels alone
➡️ She puts him on a pedestal
➡️ She’s not over her ex yet
➡️ He doesn’t want her, so she wants to win him
➡️ He takes her mind off her other problems
As a guy, when you mix those two things (giving her attention while not seeming to want her), it WILL make a lot of girls go nuts.
Also, almost all single (normal, healthy) girls feel lonely and want something to take their mind off life. Most single girls are still thinking about their ex until they meet a new guy too.
But there’s still MORE going on than that.
Here’s a riddle for you:
Why do some guys who give her attention but don’t seem to want her make her OBSESSED…
But others still fail?
It’s not looks (hot guys try this and still don’t get her hooked).
It’s not money (rich guys offer cash and gifts while acting chill but still fail).
It’s not status (same thing for those well-known guys).
It’s::: INVESTMENT!
What drives her CRAZY with obsession and makes her chase a guy is when he gets her to INVEST in him:
• Giving him more of her time
• Giving him more attention
• Helping him with random stuff
• Proving herself to meet his standards
• Telling him deep things about her life
The more she does what he asks and gives time or effort like that,
The more connected she feels to him,
And the more she starts craving his love or approval.
Now, if you’re like most guys and just shower her with sweet talk and flirty lines:
🆇 “You’re really gorgeous”
🆇 “I wish you were my girlfriend”
🆇 “Are you free later? Want to hang out?”
… then she won’t get obsessed.
You’ve ALREADY satisfied her need for praise!
But if you DON’T satisfy that growing hunger for praise,
The one you START by making her give and try,
If you avoid flooding her with sweet words or chasing,
But just act like you simply enjoy her as a “normal person”,
You will get girls OBSESSED with you.
It’s just basic human behavior:
The more time and energy we give to something, the more we care about it;
And the more we want to get something back.
Add in guy-girl feelings, and we start craving LOVE back.
When that love doesn’t come easily,
We get hooked trying to “make it happen.”
We feel like we haven’t done enough yet,
So we keep trying, giving more, to get what we want.
We want that love. We want to WIN!
Being obsessed is not the same as lasting love.
Real love takes time and deeper building.
Obsession can pop up FAST, even in a few days.
Obsession MIGHT turn into love… IF you connect with her WHILE she’s in that “obsessed mode.”
Just don’t forget these two (2) parts:
1️⃣ Get her to follow your lead & GIVE to you (this is the “he gives her attention” part she noticed in that video)
2️⃣ But act like you just like her as a “regular person” – don’t give her the love words she starts to crave just yet
Then bring up something chill during a high moment (she’s laughing, trying hard, etc.):
Say: “We should grab food or a drink sometime.”
Then keep her giving to you and ONLY level up when she’s giving first!
Do this, and you’ll be shocked how deep girls fall for you.
Even if they tell you all day long: “That would never work on me!”
(it totally DOES)
This girl sees PART of the truth. All of these are real (when mixed together):
➡️ He gives her attention
➡️ She feels alone
➡️ She puts him on a pedestal
➡️ She’s not over her ex yet
➡️ He doesn’t want her, so she wants to win him
➡️ He takes her mind off her other problems
As a guy, when you mix those two things (giving her attention while not seeming to want her), it WILL make a lot of girls go nuts.
Also, almost all single (normal, healthy) girls feel lonely and want something to take their mind off life. Most single girls are still thinking about their ex until they meet a new guy too.
But there’s still MORE going on than that.
Here’s a riddle for you:
Why do some guys who give her attention but don’t seem to want her make her OBSESSED…
But others still fail?
It’s not looks (hot guys try this and still don’t get her hooked).
It’s not money (rich guys offer cash and gifts while acting chill but still fail).
It’s not status (same thing for those well-known guys).
It’s::: INVESTMENT!
What drives her CRAZY with obsession and makes her chase a guy is when he gets her to INVEST in him:
• Giving him more of her time
• Giving him more attention
• Helping him with random stuff
• Proving herself to meet his standards
• Telling him deep things about her life
The more she does what he asks and gives time or effort like that,
The more connected she feels to him,
And the more she starts craving his love or approval.
Now, if you’re like most guys and just shower her with sweet talk and flirty lines:
🆇 “You’re really gorgeous”
🆇 “I wish you were my girlfriend”
🆇 “Are you free later? Want to hang out?”
… then she won’t get obsessed.
You’ve ALREADY satisfied her need for praise!
But if you DON’T satisfy that growing hunger for praise,
The one you START by making her give and try,
If you avoid flooding her with sweet words or chasing,
But just act like you simply enjoy her as a “normal person”,
You will get girls OBSESSED with you.
It’s just basic human behavior:
The more time and energy we give to something, the more we care about it;
And the more we want to get something back.
Add in guy-girl feelings, and we start craving LOVE back.
When that love doesn’t come easily,
We get hooked trying to “make it happen.”
We feel like we haven’t done enough yet,
So we keep trying, giving more, to get what we want.
We want that love. We want to WIN!
Being obsessed is not the same as lasting love.
Real love takes time and deeper building.
Obsession can pop up FAST, even in a few days.
Obsession MIGHT turn into love… IF you connect with her WHILE she’s in that “obsessed mode.”
Just don’t forget these two (2) parts:
1️⃣ Get her to follow your lead & GIVE to you (this is the “he gives her attention” part she noticed in that video)
2️⃣ But act like you just like her as a “regular person” – don’t give her the love words she starts to crave just yet
Then bring up something chill during a high moment (she’s laughing, trying hard, etc.):
Say: “We should grab food or a drink sometime.”
Then keep her giving to you and ONLY level up when she’s giving first!
Do this, and you’ll be shocked how deep girls fall for you.
Even if they tell you all day long: “That would never work on me!”
(it totally DOES)
❤4
Trying things yourself is always the best way to live an awesome life
Always searching online; needing science to tell you what’s around the corner
Makes you super boring
Go explore life by trying and failing
Way more fun
Always searching online; needing science to tell you what’s around the corner
Makes you super boring
Go explore life by trying and failing
Way more fun
❤5💯3
Winning in life depends on how you see yourself
Most of you hate what you see in the mirror when hard stuff comes
So you keep dodging it like one day it will all just click
That day’s not coming
You have to face it
Most of you hate what you see in the mirror when hard stuff comes
So you keep dodging it like one day it will all just click
That day’s not coming
You have to face it
❤4💯3
Seeing another man sleep with the woman you wish was yours builds this mindset that it’s fine to sit and watch instead of chasing your own life
That’s why p0rn is lame
Stop just watching.
Watching is what ruins people
That’s why p0rn is lame
Stop just watching.
Watching is what ruins people
❤6👍2
So many things in people’s lives would get better if they didn’t freak out and quit when stuff got hard
It’s often just a few more seconds or minutes of staying calm and it all flips
It’s often just a few more seconds or minutes of staying calm and it all flips
❤5👍3
This is a long read but absolutely worth it
First part of a 10 series post
New substack post
Check it out here 👇
manofstxxx.substack.com
PS: make sure to subscribe if u have not as more parts will follow
First part of a 10 series post
New substack post
Check it out here 👇
manofstxxx.substack.com
PS: make sure to subscribe if u have not as more parts will follow
❤3
Know that you can have tons of money and still be a nobody
You can’t skip gaining strength "inside"
You can’t buy it.
You only earn it by facing things most folks avoid.
You can’t skip gaining strength "inside"
You can’t buy it.
You only earn it by facing things most folks avoid.
❤5
Watch out for lying to yourself about what drives you
Many of you pretend you love your work but need 5 coffees, YouTube videos and quotes just to get going
Quit faking your drive
It’s killing your soul
Many of you pretend you love your work but need 5 coffees, YouTube videos and quotes just to get going
Quit faking your drive
It’s killing your soul
❤3
Nothing blocks growth like wishing things were different
Always facing what’s real is how you get crazy strong and grow fast
Daydreaming is weak. If you can deal with the truth, you can handle anything
Always facing what’s real is how you get crazy strong and grow fast
Daydreaming is weak. If you can deal with the truth, you can handle anything
❤3
So many things in people’s lives would get better if they didn’t freak out and quit when stuff got hard
It’s often just a few more seconds or minutes of staying calm and it all flips
It’s often just a few more seconds or minutes of staying calm and it all flips
❤4
The reason things don’t go right when you badly need them to is because you want it so much you end up pushing it away.
You try to control everything and that blocks fate from working.
The best things in life show up when you’re not looking for them.
You try to control everything and that blocks fate from working.
The best things in life show up when you’re not looking for them.
❤4
Second part of a 10 series post
New substack post
Check it out here 👇
manofstxxx.substack.com
PS: make sure to subscribe if u have not as more parts will follow
New substack post
Check it out here 👇
manofstxxx.substack.com
PS: make sure to subscribe if u have not as more parts will follow
Finding a good wife is the most important win in a man’s life.
Becoming rich or well-known is easier. That has steps. Be quiet, wear a hoodie, work hard.
No step-by-step plan to be a man women love. It’s the only game where your past doesn’t matter. Rich or poor, hot or not, it’s all the same.
Only your natural traits matter. It’s pure luck.
Becoming rich or well-known is easier. That has steps. Be quiet, wear a hoodie, work hard.
No step-by-step plan to be a man women love. It’s the only game where your past doesn’t matter. Rich or poor, hot or not, it’s all the same.
Only your natural traits matter. It’s pure luck.
👍5
“Be the best you” is bad advice in your 20s.
First you need to be the worst you.
Push your limits.
How deep can you dive into work?
How hard can you fall?
How much can you give one person?
Your best self only shows after you do everything you aren’t.
First you need to be the worst you.
Push your limits.
How deep can you dive into work?
How hard can you fall?
How much can you give one person?
Your best self only shows after you do everything you aren’t.
❤4
A woman’s love is tied to how fast she would fall apart if she had to live your life.
❤5
Your parents won’t say this but the right path often leaves you single or with just a wife.
Being a good husband doesn’t work anymore.
Women have the jobs now.
The only way for men is to go hard. Unless you’re the lucky few, all you’ll get is a broken woman.
If you want a great wife, become someone so wild and strong that she follows you out of hell.
She’s out there and she’s waiting for you
Being a good husband doesn’t work anymore.
Women have the jobs now.
The only way for men is to go hard. Unless you’re the lucky few, all you’ll get is a broken woman.
If you want a great wife, become someone so wild and strong that she follows you out of hell.
She’s out there and she’s waiting for you
❤4🔥2
Holding too much frame makes you stiff and dull.
You miss out on real life.
You should enjoy the games women play.
Show her you’re better at them.
You have more energy.
You’ll win every time.
That’s what being a beast means.
It helps in business, social stuff, and sports too.
Too much fake frame makes your mind and body stiff.
You miss out on real life.
You should enjoy the games women play.
Show her you’re better at them.
You have more energy.
You’ll win every time.
That’s what being a beast means.
It helps in business, social stuff, and sports too.
Too much fake frame makes your mind and body stiff.
❤5
People doing better than you have gone through worse than you.
That’s why they’re ahead.
That’s the strange truth.
You wouldn’t want their pain, their struggle.
They gave up peace to learn deep truth
That’s why they’re ahead.
That’s the strange truth.
You wouldn’t want their pain, their struggle.
They gave up peace to learn deep truth
💯4❤3
Buy your girl a big teddy bear so when she’s crying because you cheated again, she has something to hit
It matters that her hands stay busy
Don’t want her to start vaping or something
That’s the lesson
It matters that her hands stay busy
Don’t want her to start vaping or something
That’s the lesson
❤4👏2
Don’t be scared to tell your girl how she should act and how to treat you
It’s 2025, the dating world is broken so you have to be the boss in your love life and demand respect
Let her walk if she’s not down with it
It’s 2025, the dating world is broken so you have to be the boss in your love life and demand respect
Let her walk if she’s not down with it
❤5
Talking to girls should never be a struggle for you
It should feel 100% chill and fun
If you feel tense about going up to girls, it means you have issues inside or just lost your rhythm, which you can get back fast
Go
It should feel 100% chill and fun
If you feel tense about going up to girls, it means you have issues inside or just lost your rhythm, which you can get back fast
Go
❤7