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Brotherhood for Seduction & Masculine Mastery

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Sometimes when your skills are sharp you’ll have ‘runs’ where you hook up with many girls in a short time.

When this happens, you might feel like a superstar and think you’re past needing “game.”

But the moment you get lazy or careless, the easy girls stop showing up, and you might even fall into a dry spell.

No matter how skilled you are, using GOOD GAME and doing the RIGHT THINGS always matters.
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Want a gold digger? Lead with money 💰

Want a girl who wants status? Lead with clout

Want a bossy girl? Start by doing lots for her 😓

Want a girl who’s crazy about you? Get her to put in time, energy, and effort and give her great dick
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Women will try to keep or hold onto “choices” while seeing you:

• Other guys they still talk to
• Male friends they keep around
• Trying to “open up” your relationship
• Wanting to “take a break”

If it’s something she already had (texting guys, seeing guys, etc.), then:

Don’t give her a deeper relationship than she’s EARNED (she must drop those guys to get a more serious thing. Or you may just decide a girl with that many choices isn’t “relationship material” at all even if she tries to drop them!).

If it’s something she didn’t already have but is trying to ADD (texting her ex, “taking a break”, opening the relationship, etc.), then:

1️⃣ Do you want that? Does it help you in any way too? If yes, go ahead. Maybe you want an open relationship, go for it.

2️⃣ But if you do NOT want that, then you must stop it!

Here are two ways to shut it down:

MATCH HER: “Oh, you’re talking to your ex again? Cool. I might check in on my exes too.”

WALK AWAY READY: “No thanks, I don’t like that. You can do it if you want, but not while we’re together.”

How she reacts will show you everything you need to know.
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When you touch a girl, NEVER:
🆇 Reach from far away
🆇 Watch your hand 👀
That makes it WEIRD because touch should feel smooth… not “planned.” Instead:
Stand close so touch feels easy
Look at her face/around while touching her
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Women test men.

People unsure of your power ALWAYS test:

➡️ In rough places, tough guys test your power.
➡️ As a boss, workers test your power.
➡️ As a dad, kids test your power.

If you are COOL and STRONG, they see it and stop testing.

Then they like you, accept you, or listen to you.

If you’re weak, scared, or unsure, they see it too and mess with you (not in a fun way).

The better you get at passing tests, the easier they feel and the more people like you, accept you, and follow you.

Want to pass tests easier?

Put yourself in hard spots more often and learn to survive.
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To a girl, a guy is like restaurant.

The more other girls are eating at that restaurant, the safer and better the restaurant looks to her.

A restaurant with no people (a guy with no girls) makes her feel something’s off… even if she can’t say what.
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Always remember: men chase sex; women chase commitment.

But if you play it right, she’ll want sex from you too.
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Want people to dislike you? Talk about their flaws.

Want their love? Talk about their good sides.

Want their LOYALTY? Talk about their good sides… PLUS what’s bad about their enemies.
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Guys can level up their looks:

Get a cool, modern haircut
Get cool, modern facial hair
Buy cool, modern clothes
Stand straight, make eye contact, smile

You’ll need to learn style OR get help from someone who knows (a good barber or a stylish guy at a shop).

It changes how hot you look and which girls want you.
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Be exciting and unpredictable.

That’s how girls get ADDICTED:

🤯 Talk to her but leave at some point (then maybe come back later). Most guys won’t do this they stay glued once they have her interest.

🤯 Mix compliments with jokes. One says “I like you”; the other says “I’m not too serious.”

🤯 Don’t reply to texts right away every time. (Best way: actually be BUSY, then reply when free… this way you’re not “playing games.”)

🤯 Build a cool image (artist, rebel, army guy, etc.) then break it later by showing you’ve got deep sides too.

🤯 After deep talks, be silly: pick her up, spin her, blow on her tummy, give her a piggyback ride, or have her sit on your lap.

Make her feel like there’s more to know about you and your signals keep her guessing so she can’t stop thinking (or wanting) you.
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To beat depression as a guy:

1️⃣ Do daily tasks that help your future

2️⃣ Think deeply about those things and learn to control your thoughts

3️⃣ Notice bad thoughts and push them out

4️⃣ Keep replacing those bad thoughts with focus on your future, until your brain does this on its own

For me, as a depressed teen and young adult, my future goals were:

1.) get stronger at the gym
2.) learn how to meet girls
3.) work on my side hobby, and later
4.) learn to get good jobs.

In 1.5 years my depression was gone and never came back, even after life got rough.

Once you learn how to stay out of it by always moving forward and keeping your focus on that, you’ll never go back.
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If you text a girl asking how her day was, you’re just her texting friend.

She KNOWS you don’t really care about her day!

Or maybe you do. Maybe you’re sitting there thinking, “Wow! I really wonder how Anna’s day is going. If only I knew…!”

Instead, text her something cool about YOU or something just about HER. Save boring talk for real life.
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Cool guys don’t try to beat others just to look cooler.

You don’t need to beat anyone if you’re already high up.

If you see a guy always trying to beat others, he wants to win but he’s not there yet.
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People follow habits.

She treats you how she treated her past guys.

The way she talks about her exes is how she’ll talk about you.

People follow habits…
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Do you want girls to PICK you or do you want girls to RUN after you?

🆇 PICK: you talk about cool things you’ve done, hoping she’s wowed.
RUN: you ask her what cool things she’s done, and say what you like.

🆇 PICK: you pay for fun dates, hoping she feels thankful.
RUN: you don’t spend much, so the focus stays on you two.

🆇 PICK: you act super nice and hope she’ll like you.
RUN: you tease her and joke with her, so she tries to impress you.

🆇 PICK: you stay focused on her, scared she’ll leave.
RUN: you chat with others too; sometimes she has to pull you back in.

🆇 PICK: you fill every silence, hoping she won’t feel weird.
RUN: you let the silence happen, and see if she’ll speak up.

🆇 PICK: you do everything for her, trying to make dating easy.
RUN: you ask her to help you with things, seeing if she’ll try.

🆇 PICK: you stay friendly, scared to be too flirty.
RUN: you flirt and make things fun, because that’s where you want it to go!

Some guys hope to be picked.

Some guys make girls chase them.

Pick which kind of guy you’ll be, and act that way.
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The more time she spends on you, the more you matter to her.
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Most men try way too hard to make girls happy.

You should talk to girls, lead them, and excite them.

But after that, they should try to make YOU happy.

If she gets all the warm feelings from you without trying, you’re telling her the wrong thing.
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Girls feel strong sparks when you move quick, joke with them, touch them, guide them around, and end things on a high.

They feel zero sparks from the guy who sits still across the table, keeps his hands to himself, and nods while they speak.
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The hotter the girl,

The more she cares about being hot.

That’s her weak spot.

If you can talk to her in a smooth, confident way, without acting impressed by her looks at all, you win her.
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If you want to up your seduction skills in a hurry, get work as a

➡️ Lifeguard at a popular tourist beach
➡️ Ski instructor at a popular ski resort
➡️ Tour guide someplace popular with young singles
➡️ Staff member at a popular nightlife venue (DJ, bouncer, etc.)
➡️ Dance instructor
➡️ Tennis instructor
➡️ Male stripper
➡️ Pickup coach (it is weird; girls see you leading guys around in-field, do not know exactly what is going on, just that they can tell you are in some kind of leadership role, then they just gravitate right to you)

GAME ADJACENT (will train up useful skills, if not necessarily letting you game on the job):

➡️ Street promoter
➡️ Door-to-door sales
➡️ Other in-person sales
➡️ Waiter at a restaurant popular with single women
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