Men go on a ‘Hero’s Journey.’
But do women have a ‘Heroine’s Journey’?
Yes and it’s all about MEN! (everything they do links back to men)
Here’s how a study explains the usual story for girls in romance books:
“He’s hard to understand, maybe even risky. She has to figure him out and change his bold ways so they can fall in love. Once she ‘gets’ him, the story ends.”
This is the romance novel woman’s path:
1️⃣ She meets a man who is hard to read, maybe even a bit wild (not a nice guy).
2️⃣ He pushes her out of her comfort zone (not weak or soft).
3️⃣ Her goal is to learn who he really is (he draws her in).
4️⃣ Then she has to get him to settle down with her (she chases love).
5️⃣ When he finally gives in, it ends (they’ll marry, live calmly, have kids, and the fun stops).
Now think about Disney or old fairy tale princess stories. It’s a lot like that too. The Disney version of the journey:
1️⃣ She meets a sweet, high-status, good-looking prince.
2️⃣ Something blocks them. Either it’s a test (Ariel, Belle) or some villain (Cinderella, Aurora, Snow White).
3️⃣ She either waits to be saved (Snow White, Aurora) or goes for him (Cinderella, Ariel, Belle).
4️⃣ There’s no need to pull him into love. The Prince wants her fast (to make it easy for kids).
5️⃣ Once he’s hers, the story ends. Few stories go on after marriage (except rare ones like “The Three Little Men in the Forest” from Brothers Grimm, which continues past the marriage of the heroine to the prince)
There are some small changes across these dream stories but they always center on the woman locking in a man!
(the fact that these stories are everywhere shows what women really want ❤️)
But do women have a ‘Heroine’s Journey’?
Yes and it’s all about MEN! (everything they do links back to men)
Here’s how a study explains the usual story for girls in romance books:
“He’s hard to understand, maybe even risky. She has to figure him out and change his bold ways so they can fall in love. Once she ‘gets’ him, the story ends.”
This is the romance novel woman’s path:
1️⃣ She meets a man who is hard to read, maybe even a bit wild (not a nice guy).
2️⃣ He pushes her out of her comfort zone (not weak or soft).
3️⃣ Her goal is to learn who he really is (he draws her in).
4️⃣ Then she has to get him to settle down with her (she chases love).
5️⃣ When he finally gives in, it ends (they’ll marry, live calmly, have kids, and the fun stops).
Now think about Disney or old fairy tale princess stories. It’s a lot like that too. The Disney version of the journey:
1️⃣ She meets a sweet, high-status, good-looking prince.
2️⃣ Something blocks them. Either it’s a test (Ariel, Belle) or some villain (Cinderella, Aurora, Snow White).
3️⃣ She either waits to be saved (Snow White, Aurora) or goes for him (Cinderella, Ariel, Belle).
4️⃣ There’s no need to pull him into love. The Prince wants her fast (to make it easy for kids).
5️⃣ Once he’s hers, the story ends. Few stories go on after marriage (except rare ones like “The Three Little Men in the Forest” from Brothers Grimm, which continues past the marriage of the heroine to the prince)
There are some small changes across these dream stories but they always center on the woman locking in a man!
(the fact that these stories are everywhere shows what women really want ❤️)
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GUY: “Girls nowadays are too hard to get.”
ME: “How many girls have you spoken to in the last month?”
GUY: “None because there’s no point.”
ME: “Go talk to 20 girls, flirt around, then ask them out.”
GUY: “That’s too much effort.”
ME: “Alright. What’s your friend group like?”
GUY: “I don’t have any friends.”
ME: “Then go make some and hang out. Meet girls through them.”
GUY: “It’s too hard making friends.”
ME: “Ugh… can you join some events or something?”
GUY: “I tried that but I didn’t meet anyone.”
ME: “Do you speak to people when you go?”
GUY: “Maybe one or two people.”
ME: “This week, go to two meetups and talk to EVERYONE.”
GUY: “That’s too much. I’m not outgoing.”
ME: “Do you work with people? Go to school?”
GUY: “Yeah but we don’t really talk.”
ME: “Start chatting and try to become friends.”
GUY: “I don’t like the people I work with or my classmates.”
ME: 😡🤬
Really, if everything feels “too hard” and you dislike everyone and everything, don’t say girls are hard to get or that it’s tough to make friends, Captain Choosy!
Go learn some social skills!!!!!
ME: “How many girls have you spoken to in the last month?”
GUY: “None because there’s no point.”
ME: “Go talk to 20 girls, flirt around, then ask them out.”
GUY: “That’s too much effort.”
ME: “Alright. What’s your friend group like?”
GUY: “I don’t have any friends.”
ME: “Then go make some and hang out. Meet girls through them.”
GUY: “It’s too hard making friends.”
ME: “Ugh… can you join some events or something?”
GUY: “I tried that but I didn’t meet anyone.”
ME: “Do you speak to people when you go?”
GUY: “Maybe one or two people.”
ME: “This week, go to two meetups and talk to EVERYONE.”
GUY: “That’s too much. I’m not outgoing.”
ME: “Do you work with people? Go to school?”
GUY: “Yeah but we don’t really talk.”
ME: “Start chatting and try to become friends.”
GUY: “I don’t like the people I work with or my classmates.”
ME: 😡🤬
Really, if everything feels “too hard” and you dislike everyone and everything, don’t say girls are hard to get or that it’s tough to make friends, Captain Choosy!
Go learn some social skills!!!!!
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Women can deal with almost anything short-term if they really like a man:
✅ He’s not exclusive
✅ He doesn’t have a job
✅ He’s rude or mean
But once things start to get “serious,” it becomes harder to do those things without it falling apart.
✅ He’s not exclusive
✅ He doesn’t have a job
✅ He’s rude or mean
But once things start to get “serious,” it becomes harder to do those things without it falling apart.
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Here’s some free advice for you guys:
Don't date your looksmatch or a girl with higher SMV than you.
If you do, it’ll always feel hard to keep her.
You’ll feel like you have to work for every bit of love from her, and you’ll feel like you must beg to keep her.
This is because women want men with more SMV.
If she’s as attractive as you, she’ll feel like she settled.
That means she’ll either barely accept you or secretly hate it.
She’ll always be looking for someone better and won’t hesitate to leave when she finds him.
That creates bad patterns in long-term relationships.
If you even care about getting any genuine desire whatsoever out of your life partner, you need to date at least a couple points below your SMV.
Yes, there’s no other way, put your pride aside and choose what works, not what just looks good.
If your SMV is legitimately higher than hers, she knows for sure she can't do better than you, and she'll always look up to you, respect you, and, as a result, will never withhold intimacy from you... because she actually fears losing you.
She’ll feel lucky every day that she got a guy like you.
And that’s how it will stay and really, that’s how it should be.
That’s how strong, long-lasting relationships should work.
Don't date your looksmatch or a girl with higher SMV than you.
If you do, it’ll always feel hard to keep her.
You’ll feel like you have to work for every bit of love from her, and you’ll feel like you must beg to keep her.
This is because women want men with more SMV.
If she’s as attractive as you, she’ll feel like she settled.
That means she’ll either barely accept you or secretly hate it.
She’ll always be looking for someone better and won’t hesitate to leave when she finds him.
That creates bad patterns in long-term relationships.
If you even care about getting any genuine desire whatsoever out of your life partner, you need to date at least a couple points below your SMV.
Yes, there’s no other way, put your pride aside and choose what works, not what just looks good.
If your SMV is legitimately higher than hers, she knows for sure she can't do better than you, and she'll always look up to you, respect you, and, as a result, will never withhold intimacy from you... because she actually fears losing you.
She’ll feel lucky every day that she got a guy like you.
And that’s how it will stay and really, that’s how it should be.
That’s how strong, long-lasting relationships should work.
❤6🔥2
Guys who act “too tough” seem fake and unsure.
But guys who act “too soft” seem weak and not trustworthy.
The right balance is STRONG, but RELAXED.
FOCUSED, yet CALM.
IN CHARGE, but EASYGOING.
But guys who act “too soft” seem weak and not trustworthy.
The right balance is STRONG, but RELAXED.
FOCUSED, yet CALM.
IN CHARGE, but EASYGOING.
💯8❤3
Don’t act like her boyfriend before you’ve slept with her if you ever want to sleep with her.
💯5❤2
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- Matching with women but never meeting them?
- Feeling invisible in real life?
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I’m offering a hands-on dating transformation program for men who want real results:
✅ 4–5 dates/week using dating apps and warm approach
✅ 1-on-1 feedback on your profile, messages, and vibe
✅ Daily guidance to help you attract, escalate, and lead like a man
So if you're tired of:
- Matching with women but never meeting them?
- Feeling invisible in real life?
- Wasting time on apps with no system?
Then this is your moment to change everything.
I’ll be in your corner for 6 weeks, showing you exactly how to get the women you want.
You’ll also master:
• Texting that gets replies
• Warm approach that actually works
• Date setup + escalation that feels smooth
• Your voice, body language, and energy
Only 2 (one spot already taken) high-level men will be accepted for June.
Apply here :
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PEOPLE WILL BE AS LAZY AS YOU LET THEM BE
If you let a girl be lazy and do stuff for her and don’t ask her to do things, SHE WILL BE LAZY.
Why would she work harder if she doesn’t have to?
Yes, some people feel “duty” or “responsibility.”
But others especially ones who care less (this girl might even be a bit autistic) — just won’t do things unless they must:
➡️ Don’t do things for women they can do themselves
➡️ Tell women to do things and EXPECT them to listen; give consequences if they don’t
➡️ If women want you to do things they can do, act “too busy.” LET them handle it!
Start thinking: “Most things solve themselves” if you just stop doing them.
If she wants something done bad enough, she will get up and do it.
If you let a girl be lazy and do stuff for her and don’t ask her to do things, SHE WILL BE LAZY.
Why would she work harder if she doesn’t have to?
Yes, some people feel “duty” or “responsibility.”
But others especially ones who care less (this girl might even be a bit autistic) — just won’t do things unless they must:
➡️ Don’t do things for women they can do themselves
➡️ Tell women to do things and EXPECT them to listen; give consequences if they don’t
➡️ If women want you to do things they can do, act “too busy.” LET them handle it!
Start thinking: “Most things solve themselves” if you just stop doing them.
If she wants something done bad enough, she will get up and do it.
❤4👍1
She should need the relationship more than you do.
She should be more into it than you are.
Losing you should hurt her more than losing her would hurt you.
She should be more into it than you are.
Losing you should hurt her more than losing her would hurt you.
❤4
Real high value men are “high value” because they GIVE value.
Ways to give value to others:
✅ Be funny and help lift the mood.
✅ Be friendly and share your energy.
✅ Make others feel welcome in talks and groups.
✅ Say people’s NAMES and GREET them!
✅ Know fun places and invite people.
✅ Listen well, then talk based on what they said.
✅ Help people meet others they’ll like.
✅ If you have cash, pay for stuff… but don’t go broke doing it!
The more of these you do, the MORE value people see in you.
Don’t be “just the funny guy” or “just the money guy.”
Give more than one kind of value and do them all!
Ways to give value to others:
✅ Be funny and help lift the mood.
✅ Be friendly and share your energy.
✅ Make others feel welcome in talks and groups.
✅ Say people’s NAMES and GREET them!
✅ Know fun places and invite people.
✅ Listen well, then talk based on what they said.
✅ Help people meet others they’ll like.
✅ If you have cash, pay for stuff… but don’t go broke doing it!
The more of these you do, the MORE value people see in you.
Don’t be “just the funny guy” or “just the money guy.”
Give more than one kind of value and do them all!
🔥4❤2
Texts to NEVER send girls you haven’t hooked up with:
🆇 “Sup.”
🆇 “What’re you doing?”
🆇 “Wanna hang out?”
🆇 “Are you free RN?”
🆇 “Hey.”
🆇 “When we gonna hang?”
Only okay if she’s your SUPER close friend
🆇 “Sup.”
🆇 “What’re you doing?”
🆇 “Wanna hang out?”
🆇 “Are you free RN?”
🆇 “Hey.”
🆇 “When we gonna hang?”
Only okay if she’s your SUPER close friend
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If you treat her BETTER than she earns, she’ll treat you WORSE.
If you treat her like trash, she’ll show you some respect.
If you want her to really look up to you, be strong, set rules, show care, and always be focused on your path.
If you treat her like trash, she’ll show you some respect.
If you want her to really look up to you, be strong, set rules, show care, and always be focused on your path.
❤6🔥1
When a girl really loves you:
❤️ She looks at you with smiling eyes
❤️ She thinks about you randomly all day
❤️ She wants to spend all her time with you
❤️ She can’t stay mad at you for long
❤️ She starts sweet-talking you (even if she hates it)
❤️ She wants to do every sexual thing with you
❤️ She wants to make you happy in all she does
❤️ She looks at you with smiling eyes
❤️ She thinks about you randomly all day
❤️ She wants to spend all her time with you
❤️ She can’t stay mad at you for long
❤️ She starts sweet-talking you (even if she hates it)
❤️ She wants to do every sexual thing with you
❤️ She wants to make you happy in all she does
❤🔥5❤2🔥1
If you give her TOO MUCH, she’ll give you TOO LITTLE.
How to know what’s “too much”?
✅ Keep your effort even ⚖️ with hers
✅ Don’t try to “force” love by giving more
✅ Don’t be way more available than she is
✅ If she’s cold to you, DON’T chase! Pull back instead!
It’s not “bad” to match your attention to hers. It’s WISE.
If you keep giving when she isn’t, what does that say?
“I don’t have to do anything, and he’ll do EVERYTHING.”
Only do as much for her as she’s doing for you.
No more than that.
Ideally, even a bit LESS!
How to know what’s “too much”?
✅ Keep your effort even ⚖️ with hers
✅ Don’t try to “force” love by giving more
✅ Don’t be way more available than she is
✅ If she’s cold to you, DON’T chase! Pull back instead!
It’s not “bad” to match your attention to hers. It’s WISE.
If you keep giving when she isn’t, what does that say?
“I don’t have to do anything, and he’ll do EVERYTHING.”
Only do as much for her as she’s doing for you.
No more than that.
Ideally, even a bit LESS!
❤3
🚨 THE MAGNETIC MAN PROTOCOL IS NOW OPEN (2 SPOTS ONLY) ONE SPOT ALREADY TAKEN
I’m offering a hands-on dating transformation program for men who want real results:
✅ 4–5 dates/week using dating apps and warm approach
✅ 1-on-1 feedback on your profile, messages, and vibe
✅ Daily guidance to help you attract, escalate, and lead like a man
So if you're tired of:
- Matching with women but never meeting them?
- Feeling invisible in real life?
- Wasting time on apps with no system?
Then this is your moment to change everything.
I’ll be in your corner for 6 weeks, showing you exactly how to get the women you want.
You’ll also master:
• Texting that gets replies
• Warm approach that actually works
• Date setup + escalation that feels smooth
• Your voice, body language, and energy
Only 2 (one spot already taken) high-level men will be accepted for June.
Apply here :
👉https://manofstxxx.gumroad.com/l/cvhjz
Let’s build the most attractive version of you.
I’m offering a hands-on dating transformation program for men who want real results:
✅ 4–5 dates/week using dating apps and warm approach
✅ 1-on-1 feedback on your profile, messages, and vibe
✅ Daily guidance to help you attract, escalate, and lead like a man
So if you're tired of:
- Matching with women but never meeting them?
- Feeling invisible in real life?
- Wasting time on apps with no system?
Then this is your moment to change everything.
I’ll be in your corner for 6 weeks, showing you exactly how to get the women you want.
You’ll also master:
• Texting that gets replies
• Warm approach that actually works
• Date setup + escalation that feels smooth
• Your voice, body language, and energy
Only 2 (one spot already taken) high-level men will be accepted for June.
Apply here :
👉https://manofstxxx.gumroad.com/l/cvhjz
Let’s build the most attractive version of you.
Gumroad
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After you sleep with a girl, IF you want to see her again:
1️⃣ Go more than one round
2️⃣ Let her sleep over
3️⃣ Do another round in the morning
4️⃣ Text her within an hour after she leaves
EXTRA POWER MOVE: no condom; finish inside.
Also: don’t go too crazy on Night #1.
1️⃣ Go more than one round
2️⃣ Let her sleep over
3️⃣ Do another round in the morning
4️⃣ Text her within an hour after she leaves
EXTRA POWER MOVE: no condom; finish inside.
Also: don’t go too crazy on Night #1.
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HOW TO MEET GIRLS?
➡️ SOCIAL CIRCLE: pick this if…
• You like seeing friends often
• You’re good at image and reputation
• You’re okay with slow progress
➡️ ONLINE DATING: pick this if…
• You want more lays with less effort
• You like setting pics and messages
• You don’t like face-to-face stuff
➡️ NIGHT GAME: pick this if…
• You like drinking or partying
• You want in-person picks but stay unknown
• You like fast hookups from meeting to sex
➡️ DAY GAME: pick this if…
• You like meeting girls randomly
• You want better quality girls
• You’re looking for a GF or wife
REMEMBER: the guy who gets GREAT at it always beats the one who’s average.
Mix styles if you want, just know each one takes skill!
➡️ SOCIAL CIRCLE: pick this if…
• You like seeing friends often
• You’re good at image and reputation
• You’re okay with slow progress
➡️ ONLINE DATING: pick this if…
• You want more lays with less effort
• You like setting pics and messages
• You don’t like face-to-face stuff
➡️ NIGHT GAME: pick this if…
• You like drinking or partying
• You want in-person picks but stay unknown
• You like fast hookups from meeting to sex
➡️ DAY GAME: pick this if…
• You like meeting girls randomly
• You want better quality girls
• You’re looking for a GF or wife
REMEMBER: the guy who gets GREAT at it always beats the one who’s average.
Mix styles if you want, just know each one takes skill!
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Weak men brag about all the girls they get.
Cool men just let it show when they hooked up.
Or you just see the girl leave their place, and they don’t even mention it.
Cool men just let it show when they hooked up.
Or you just see the girl leave their place, and they don’t even mention it.
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If she avoids saying where she was,
Or who she was with,
There’s another man.
Always.
Or who she was with,
There’s another man.
Always.
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Guys often get stuck on one trait that’s hot:
✅ “If I dress right, girls will want me!”
✅ “Once I get rich, girls will chase me!”
✅ “Once I build muscle, I’ll get all the girls!”
But there are HUNDREDS of traits girls find hot.
The MOST attractive guy has many traits not just one strong trait and the rest weak!
✅ “If I dress right, girls will want me!”
✅ “Once I get rich, girls will chase me!”
✅ “Once I build muscle, I’ll get all the girls!”
But there are HUNDREDS of traits girls find hot.
The MOST attractive guy has many traits not just one strong trait and the rest weak!
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