The more she’s open about her past, the less she’s hiding.

The more quiet she is about her past, the more you should LOOK!

(Or just skip girls who won’t share much about their pasts)

Good signs she’s girlfriend material:

✅ Cooks meals for you
✅ Cleans your place
✅ Brings small gifts
✅ Shows up when you need her
✅ Only asks for time and hugs

Relationships work well because of TWO things:

1️⃣ HER nature, likes, and type of guy
2️⃣ YOUR traits, actions, and skills

If your traits don’t match her nature, you’ll need better dating skills.

If you don’t want to rely only on skills, pick girls who already like your traits.

Best case: have both.
Don’t be perfect, just be a good match and have decent game.

When a woman gives you the benefit of the doubt, that’s a big “green flag” 🟢

She doesn’t have to trust you on everything.

But she should trust and believe you more often than not. You should also want that from your guy friends.

Nothing holds you back more than a guy who always questions your moves.

Choose friends who BELIEVE in you.

WHAT DOESN’T make women follow your lead:
🆇 Being kind
🆇 Giving gifts
🆇 Always saying yes
🆇 Being “respectful”

WHAT DOES make women follow your lead:

1️⃣ Being in charge
2️⃣ Having status
3️⃣ Showing strength
4️⃣ Giving pleasure
5️⃣ Making her need you
6️⃣ Her already giving in before
7️⃣ She sees you leading others

What women find hot is a man who doesn’t need her, but picks her anyway.

Women don’t follow logic.

Well, they get it… in their minds.

But they find it boring.

Talk to their feelings, that’s their real language.

If a girl talks about her “rules” for dating,

Don’t believe her.

Don’t shut down.

Don’t get mad.

Just smile, nod, tease her a bit.

Her “rules” will disappear… just for YOU.

Easy way to not seem boring with women:

Ask “How can I be less boring?”

🆇 Stop being scared to look at her
🆇 Stop being scared to touch her
🆇 Stop being scared to talk sexy
🆇 Stop being scared to make a move
🆇 Stop being scared to sleep with her
🆇 Stop being scared to get her pregnant

Cool guys aren’t shy or scared.
Work on being BOLD.

Women give unclear signs 😶‍🌫️

They need to give hints to attract guys, but they also keep it vague so they can walk away if needed without guilt or blame.

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If she…

• Messages you first
• Wants to meet again
• Sits close to you
• Does nice things
• Keeps staring at you

She’s into you (a lot).

❌ WRONG IDEA: “I can’t talk to girls until I feel brave.”

✅ RIGHT IDEA: “I need to talk to girls to feel brave.”

Girls chase guys who treat them like the funny little goofs they are.

No guy who’s done 100 cold approaches says “cold approach doesn’t work.”

(except maybe guys who are autistic)

Some of the big, scary things men believe today:

• “Why cold approach girls? They’ll shame me online!”
• “Not cold approaching girls. I’ll get accused of stuff!”
• “No way I’ll cold approach girls. People will call me creepy!”

It’s MASSIVE because lots of guys believe it.

It’s HYSTERIA because it’s based on a few old, overhyped things (like #MeToo and crazy feminists), which guys now think are everywhere.

(And anyone who tries to help these guys gets called “the enemy,” even when they’re just trying to help the guy stop panicking and start dating again.)

Don’t say…

🆇 “Can I get your number?”

Say…

✅ “Let’s grab food or drinks sometime.”

Don’t say…

🆇 “Do you want to sit down?”

Say…

✅ “Let’s grab seats before they’re all gone.”

Don’t say…

🆇 “Want to leave here?”

Say…

✅ “Let’s go get a drink somewhere else.”

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✅ 1-on-1 feedback on your profile, messages, and vibe
✅ Daily guidance to help you attract, escalate, and lead like a man

So if you're tired of:

- Matching with women but never meeting them?
- Feeling invisible in real life?
- Wasting time on apps with no system?

Then this is your moment to change everything.

I’ll be in your corner for 6 weeks, showing you exactly how to get the women you want.

You’ll also master:

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• Warm approach that actually works
• Date setup + escalation that feels smooth
• Your voice, body language, and energy

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Something you notice when you live true to yourself and hold yourself to a respectful level is that most of the friends we still talk to and spend time with are just people we haven’t let go of yet because of old memories and shared time.

And when you really look closely at real problems and life patterns that test both friendships and relationships, you start to see that many of those friends you’ve known for years and think are amazing... really aren’t.

Being a good friend is not easy.

I’ve seen that for many people, it doesn’t come naturally.

It actually takes real effort to become and stay a good, solid friend.

It means being happy for your friend’s wins even when you’re going through one of the hardest times in your life.

It means not trying to go after the girl your friend is dating or likes, just because you’re feeling desperate and not doing well with women yourself.

It takes someone of value to truly be called a friend, because one of the best things people hope for is growth in themselves and in life.

So how can someone be a true friend if he doesn’t help push you to grow?

Sure, there are friends who will help you in your darkest times. It’s true that some people seen as “losers” can end up being your best friends.

No denying that.

But sometimes doing something is easier than stopping yourself from doing something wrong.

For example, it’s easier to feel jealous than to hold back that envy.

It’s easier to message the girl your friend is seeing than to control that urge and not do it.

And it’s easier to get in your car at 2 AM and go pick up your friend from trouble than it is to stop yourself from being a bad friend in other moments.

Because one nice act, even if it’s important and really helpful in a rough time, doesn’t make up for all the other wrong things done.

It’s a lot to take in, and I think the main issue with many friendships is that they have weak spots at their core.

Maybe someone is really bad with money and not someone you can trust with it.

Maybe someone is always chasing girls even though he already has one, he’s never happy with what he’s got and wants yours too.

Maybe someone is an only child who craves attention and carries those deep needs into everything he does.

There are only a few people out there who, even if they’ve had similar, the same, or worse problems in their past, still end up being true and loyal friends through and through.

And as you grow older, you’ll notice most people end up losing most of their friends.

It could be their fault, or maybe it’s their friends’ fault.

But if you’re still young and think your day-1 friends are really that for life, I hope you’re right.

But you probably aren’t, for most of them, at least.

That’s just how life works.

That’s why when you’ve lived and loved, and you’ve done both with your heart open, you start to become better at seeing people for who they are.

But you also begin to see the world and others with more doubt and caution.

And I think that’s okay, because that’s how life normally goes.

Only a few people make it into your close circle.

The rest only realize they should’ve been better once it’s too late.

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