Nice guys don’t turn women on because they’re sweet but not exciting.

Bad boys are more exciting, but many women still hold back with them because they’re exciting but not sweet (so not really dependable).

But if you mix the two, you get much closer to being hard to resist.

When you ask girls to do something, and they happily do it, they like you.

When you ask them, and they do even more than you asked, they REALLY like you.

Women aren’t with you just because you’re ‘kind’ or ‘safe’.

She could be with ANY guy for that.

MOST guys are ‘kind’ and ‘safe’.

If she’s with you, it’s because you give her something more, something she doesn’t easily find in other men.

Find out what that is and it’ll know what to show off in your dating life.

People say things that clearly make no sense but they believe them so much that it changes how they see the world.

“You can’t do that” or “you have to do this.”

Truth is, you don’t have to do anything.

You can stop. Or you can go. Do a full flip on anything.

“What about this or that?” It doesn’t matter.

You can just do whatever.

You’re totally free to live however you want, yet we’ve become the most chained and shackled group of people ever.

A lot of guys date girls who act just like a cat would.

They only come around when they want your attention, and when you stop giving it, they leave and go somewhere else.

If you’ve ever owned a cat, you’d know how to train her to enjoy the little attention you give.

And to be thankful for it.

It’s always funny when people ask, “Should I try talking to her?”

What else are you gonna do?

Sit around with other guys on this app talking about the girl who “got away?” Feel sorry for yourself?

Nothing cool about hurting yourself just to fit in with people going nowhere.

If you’re new to dating, start with the BASICS:

✅ Fix your style a bit (hair, clothes, standing straight)
✅ Use body language women like (smile, eye contact, clear speech)
✅ Go talk to women and flirt
✅ Ask them out on dates
✅ Make moves & try to seal the deal

The fancy stuff is for guys who already do well.

Stick with the simple things at the start.

Even later on, the basics still matter most.

Why women suddenly stop talking to men:

👻 Something weird happened (like she forgot his name)
👻 He pushed something she didn’t want (like forcing her to go hiking)
👻 Mood shift was too big (met at a party, now he’s texting during work hours)
👻 He waited too long and her interest dropped (her feelings faded)
👻 Another guy came in and got her first (another guy won)

“Breaks” in relationships help women more.

If she wants a break, it means she wants to try another guy without guilt, and maybe come back if it fails.

Tell her, “You can take a break if you want. But if you do, we’re done and we won’t get back together.”

Take away the ‘no-risk’ part and she’ll think harder about working on things instead of messing around.

Talk for a few minutes, then silence.

If she fills in, she likes you.

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Most men don’t like women who are loud, rude, full of ego, and always bold.

Most women don’t like men who are quiet, shy, too humble, and unsure.

Act in a way that shows strong traits, at least while dating.

It helps increase your chances.

Girls do NOT like guys who use jokes to

🆇 Complain all the time
🆇 Make fun of others
🆇 Put themselves down

Girls DO like guys who use jokes to

✅ Playfully tease them
✅ Point out odd rules in dating or life
✅ Show they’re smart with people

To make a strong memory in her mind, be her “first” for something sexual:

• First guy to make her finish during sℇx
• First guy she does it in public with
• First guy she tries it from behind with
• First guy she deep-throats
• First guy she has a 3some with

If you can’t be first for anything, be ready to just be the “cleanup guy”.

Don’t know what to say on a date?

Ask her to talk about HERSELF.

It’s the number 1 thing women love to talk about.

You just guide, relate to what she says, and steer it toward flirty topics.

“I won’t know unless I try.”

This is the best mindset for anything new in dating, sex, or love.

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Forget all that, drop the guesswork, and just go try it.

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There’s some luck involved at every stage of dating:

🎲 If you meet cute girls
🎲 If they’re single
🎲 How single they actually are
🎲 If they’re free that day or not
🎲 If anything stops the date from happening

Accept it.

Don’t take it personal when you get unlucky a few times.

Keep going till your luck changes.