If she starts texting you more after ghosting, that means the guy she liked stopped talking to her.

That means you’ve got your shot now

Don’t listen too much to what women say about men.

“I like this,” “I like that,” “I’d never pick a guy who…” “I wish a guy would…”

People say stuff to help themselves. Not to help YOU.

Look at what women DO, not what they SAY

Nice guys think when women get upset, it’s “bad.”

But if she’s upset, it means she wants something from you but can’t get it.

If no woman ever gets mad at you, you’re not making them feel anything.

If she’s already asking you to meet her friends and you just met her, she’s trying to make you her boyfriend fast.

Slow down if that’s not what you want yet.

The top way to make getting laid easier:

Have your own spot.

Why?

=> You can invite girls right away
=> No need to worry about others in the house
=> You can set the mood how you like
=> It shows you’re a real man

My top trick to keep a girl hooked in texts:

Use the ‘We’ idea.

Act like you and her are already a pair.

Anything she does is for you.

Anything you do is for her.

Example:

Girl: “Hey. I’m about to go for a hike.” It’s for her, but you say:

You: “Ah. Getting fit for our hot date I see.”

Or

Girl: “I’m just baking cookies. What about you?”

You: “How many are for me?”

It’s super simple but turns boring talk into fun.

Try it and tell me how it goes.

Some girls like to push buttons. They’ll

➡️ Test you on things
➡️ Joke like they don’t care
➡️ Talk about other guys liking them

If you get mad, they win (“Haha GOT HIM!”)

To win with these girls, stay CALM

Want healthy attitude towards women?

🆇 Don’t follow women’s social media
🆇 Don’t read news about women’s issues
🆇 Don’t hang out with men who whine about women
🆇 Don’t meet too many girls on dating apps
🆇 Don’t meet too many girls in clubs
🆇 Don’t sleep with many women who already have boyfriends
🆇 Don’t use tricks or dark dating tips

✅ Talk to women mostly in real life
✅ Build a fun friend group with good people
✅ Learn to meet women during the day
✅ Learn how to spot bad signs in women
✅ Date healthy women with no big issues

There are two types of people in the world: great people and unhappy people.

Bitterness is like a poison. It hurts the bitter person more than the people they complain about.

No matter what happens, no matter what a woman does, DON’T BE BITTER!

(you’ll be glad later)

Don’t ask girls boring, surface-level “date questions.”

She already has a list of shallow facts she can say to seem “interesting.”

NONE of that builds a real bond with her or gets you any closer to sleeping with her.

Instead:

✅ GO DEEP — ask one boring question, then ask how she FEELS about it (“How long you been doing that?” “Do you like it?” “What got you into that?” “Why do you do that and not [something else]?”)

✅ FLIRT — joke with her, tease her, use inside jokes, give her a fun nickname. Act like you’re back in middle school. Yes, it works on adult women too.

✅ TEST her — can she cook, is she brave, has she gone on long trips, is she quick to try new things, does she know where her life is going

You’ll have a much better talk and way more ways to connect (and turn her on) than guys asking her the same old boring stuff she already has ready answers for!

You can be a drunk mess, a lazy failure, short, fat, it doesn’t matter.

If she likes you even a little more than you like her, she won’t leave you.

Now think about that same rule, but for a man who is none of those things.

He’s the total opposite.

Still, the same idea works.

That’s when she’s fully hooked.

Nice guys don’t turn women on because they’re sweet but not exciting.

Bad boys are more exciting, but many women still hold back with them because they’re exciting but not sweet (so not really dependable).

But if you mix the two, you get much closer to being hard to resist.

When you ask girls to do something, and they happily do it, they like you.

When you ask them, and they do even more than you asked, they REALLY like you.

Women aren’t with you just because you’re ‘kind’ or ‘safe’.

She could be with ANY guy for that.

MOST guys are ‘kind’ and ‘safe’.

If she’s with you, it’s because you give her something more, something she doesn’t easily find in other men.

Find out what that is and it’ll know what to show off in your dating life.

People say things that clearly make no sense but they believe them so much that it changes how they see the world.

“You can’t do that” or “you have to do this.”

Truth is, you don’t have to do anything.

You can stop. Or you can go. Do a full flip on anything.

“What about this or that?” It doesn’t matter.

You can just do whatever.

You’re totally free to live however you want, yet we’ve become the most chained and shackled group of people ever.

A lot of guys date girls who act just like a cat would.

They only come around when they want your attention, and when you stop giving it, they leave and go somewhere else.

If you’ve ever owned a cat, you’d know how to train her to enjoy the little attention you give.

And to be thankful for it.

It’s always funny when people ask, “Should I try talking to her?”

What else are you gonna do?

Sit around with other guys on this app talking about the girl who “got away?” Feel sorry for yourself?

Nothing cool about hurting yourself just to fit in with people going nowhere.

If you’re new to dating, start with the BASICS:

✅ Fix your style a bit (hair, clothes, standing straight)
✅ Use body language women like (smile, eye contact, clear speech)
✅ Go talk to women and flirt
✅ Ask them out on dates
✅ Make moves & try to seal the deal

The fancy stuff is for guys who already do well.

Stick with the simple things at the start.

Even later on, the basics still matter most.

Why women suddenly stop talking to men:

👻 Something weird happened (like she forgot his name)
👻 He pushed something she didn’t want (like forcing her to go hiking)
👻 Mood shift was too big (met at a party, now he’s texting during work hours)
👻 He waited too long and her interest dropped (her feelings faded)
👻 Another guy came in and got her first (another guy won)

“Breaks” in relationships help women more.

If she wants a break, it means she wants to try another guy without guilt, and maybe come back if it fails.

Tell her, “You can take a break if you want. But if you do, we’re done and we won’t get back together.”

Take away the ‘no-risk’ part and she’ll think harder about working on things instead of messing around.

Talk for a few minutes, then silence.

If she fills in, she likes you.