The endless conflict of results with women.
In today’s world, it’s easy to get caught up in the outcome or lack of it.
Do you know those phases when you get a few attractive girls and feel like the king of the world?
Conversely, do you also know those phases when nothing goes right?
The two women you talked to this week? They ghosted you.
The last few nights? A disaster.
Girls passing by on the street? It’s like you’re invisible.
And so, the confident guy from a couple of weeks ago becomes insecure and starts questioning everything.
“Have I gotten worse?”
“Am I getting older?”
“Has my value as a man disappeared?”
I get it. It’s easy to fall into this negative spiral. I’ve been there, you’ve been there, we’ve all been there.
But somehow, we tend to forget our value as men.
And that’s normal: after all, our brains are wired for short-term memory, and we forget what happened just days ago.
On top of that, society often drags men down, making them feel like they’re not enough. That they suck.
But that’s why you need to tame your mind.
Zoom out and see the bigger picture.
Remind yourself that you’ve done it before and you’ll do it again (even if that feels unlikely or impossible right now).
The answer is simple: always focus on the process. That means being your best self every day.
Groom yourself. Dress with style. Get the best body you can. Have a positive attitude. Also, an IDGAF attitude.
Walk around genuinely believing you are the shit and that no one is above you.
Easier said than done, right? Sure.
But in the end, your mindset and process are all that matter and all that will ever matter.
Ultimately, most things are subjective and out of your control, so focus on the one thing you can control:
Your mind and the actions you take every day that will lead to results.
In today’s world, it’s easy to get caught up in the outcome or lack of it.
Do you know those phases when you get a few attractive girls and feel like the king of the world?
Conversely, do you also know those phases when nothing goes right?
The two women you talked to this week? They ghosted you.
The last few nights? A disaster.
Girls passing by on the street? It’s like you’re invisible.
And so, the confident guy from a couple of weeks ago becomes insecure and starts questioning everything.
“Have I gotten worse?”
“Am I getting older?”
“Has my value as a man disappeared?”
I get it. It’s easy to fall into this negative spiral. I’ve been there, you’ve been there, we’ve all been there.
But somehow, we tend to forget our value as men.
And that’s normal: after all, our brains are wired for short-term memory, and we forget what happened just days ago.
On top of that, society often drags men down, making them feel like they’re not enough. That they suck.
But that’s why you need to tame your mind.
Zoom out and see the bigger picture.
Remind yourself that you’ve done it before and you’ll do it again (even if that feels unlikely or impossible right now).
The answer is simple: always focus on the process. That means being your best self every day.
Groom yourself. Dress with style. Get the best body you can. Have a positive attitude. Also, an IDGAF attitude.
Walk around genuinely believing you are the shit and that no one is above you.
Easier said than done, right? Sure.
But in the end, your mindset and process are all that matter and all that will ever matter.
Ultimately, most things are subjective and out of your control, so focus on the one thing you can control:
Your mind and the actions you take every day that will lead to results.
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You’ve probably heard this advice before: you must find your ‘WHY’ to start living your life. True, but how do you REALLY find it?
In most cases, that 'why' only surfaces after a powerful 'when.'
When Betty from Ireland, the new marketing director, tells you what to do.
She was an apprentice a few years ago, and now she’s giving you orders.
When your soy manager keeps piling on more tasks, making you work longer hours, with no extra pay.
When you wake up on a Monday, already wishing it were Friday.
When you live for the weekends. When you finally feel happy, only to feel depressed again after your holidays. When you feel trapped but can’t escape the Matrix.
When you’re embarrassed to look at yourself in the mirror because you’ve been working 12 hours a day and have no energy to hit the gym.
Or worse, when you come home and your wife, a 4, yells at you because you didn’t make the bed, take out the trash, or do some other insignificant task.
Or when you find yourself wrapped in toilet paper after watching porn because times are tough, and you can’t attract a real woman anymore.
Sometimes, the best thing that can happen in life is to experience such embarrassment, frustration, and pain, that you have no choice but to explode with anger and turn your life around.
In most cases, that 'why' only surfaces after a powerful 'when.'
When Betty from Ireland, the new marketing director, tells you what to do.
She was an apprentice a few years ago, and now she’s giving you orders.
When your soy manager keeps piling on more tasks, making you work longer hours, with no extra pay.
When you wake up on a Monday, already wishing it were Friday.
When you live for the weekends. When you finally feel happy, only to feel depressed again after your holidays. When you feel trapped but can’t escape the Matrix.
When you’re embarrassed to look at yourself in the mirror because you’ve been working 12 hours a day and have no energy to hit the gym.
Or worse, when you come home and your wife, a 4, yells at you because you didn’t make the bed, take out the trash, or do some other insignificant task.
Or when you find yourself wrapped in toilet paper after watching porn because times are tough, and you can’t attract a real woman anymore.
Sometimes, the best thing that can happen in life is to experience such embarrassment, frustration, and pain, that you have no choice but to explode with anger and turn your life around.
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Believing that every attractive woman wants you won’t necessarily get you girls,
but believing that most of them don’t will make ALL women not want you.
In today’s tough dating world, be ruthless with your attitude and self-confidence.
Otherwise, you’ll always be forgotten.
but believing that most of them don’t will make ALL women not want you.
In today’s tough dating world, be ruthless with your attitude and self-confidence.
Otherwise, you’ll always be forgotten.
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Anytime an ex-girlfriend texts you, it's not really you she misses, but the feelings and excitement she had back then.
Once you see yourself as someone who brings unique, exciting experiences, rather than just a man "who has this or that," that’s when women will start making more sense.
Once you see yourself as someone who brings unique, exciting experiences, rather than just a man "who has this or that," that’s when women will start making more sense.
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Once again I get reminded:
Most girls at the gym are not hot, they’re just almost completely naked
Most girls at the gym are not hot, they’re just almost completely naked
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Instead of asking yourself why girl A rejected you, why girl B ghosted you, or why girl C flaked, ask yourself why you keep caring.
Ask yourself why you aren’t talking to the next 1000 attractive women you see, instead of getting stuck in a loop of past events that will only harm your present.
Ask yourself why you haven’t reached a point where you’re so independent of outcomes that no woman can affect your mood.
And because of that, ask yourself why you haven’t reached true freedom.
Finally, ask yourself why you’ve decided to live in scarcity when what you truly deserve and want is abundance.
Ask yourself why you aren’t talking to the next 1000 attractive women you see, instead of getting stuck in a loop of past events that will only harm your present.
Ask yourself why you haven’t reached a point where you’re so independent of outcomes that no woman can affect your mood.
And because of that, ask yourself why you haven’t reached true freedom.
Finally, ask yourself why you’ve decided to live in scarcity when what you truly deserve and want is abundance.
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If you want a girl to do more for you, ask for small things first:
• Show you her ring
• Move over a little with you
• Hold your hand quickly
• Tell you more about her
Once she does the small stuff, she’ll say yes to bigger things.
• Show you her ring
• Move over a little with you
• Hold your hand quickly
• Tell you more about her
Once she does the small stuff, she’ll say yes to bigger things.
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The best time to get a girl to put effort into you is right after a great moment:
✅ She laughs a lot
✅ She gets closer to you
✅ She turns her body more toward you
✅ She asks you a bunch of things
✅ She opens up more
When you see this, ask her to do something for you!
✅ She laughs a lot
✅ She gets closer to you
✅ She turns her body more toward you
✅ She asks you a bunch of things
✅ She opens up more
When you see this, ask her to do something for you!
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WOMANESE TRANSLATIONS:
• “You’re a nice guy.” = “I’m not into you.”
• “I have a boyfriend." =“I don’t want you.”
• “I hate you.” = “I like you and don’t know how to say it.”
• “You must be a player.” = “You’re too smooth; I don’t trust it.”
• “Do you like it here?" = “Can we go somewhere else?”
• “I’m tired.” = “Let’s leave now.”
• “It’s too soon!” = “I’m not turned on yet.”
• “We barely know each other!” = “I don’t get why you like me.”
• “We’re not having sex tonight.” = “We will unless you mess it up.”
• “You’re a nice guy.” = “I’m not into you.”
• “I have a boyfriend." =“I don’t want you.”
• “I hate you.” = “I like you and don’t know how to say it.”
• “You must be a player.” = “You’re too smooth; I don’t trust it.”
• “Do you like it here?" = “Can we go somewhere else?”
• “I’m tired.” = “Let’s leave now.”
• “It’s too soon!” = “I’m not turned on yet.”
• “We barely know each other!” = “I don’t get why you like me.”
• “We’re not having sex tonight.” = “We will unless you mess it up.”
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Women should want to go on dates with you.
Either because they feel a bond, feel hot for you, or the date sounds fun.
If she wants to go, she’ll show up.
Either because they feel a bond, feel hot for you, or the date sounds fun.
If she wants to go, she’ll show up.
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Don’t take what women say as the full truth.
WOMEN:
• “Where are the good guys?” She knows she scares them away.
• “Why won’t men commit?” She knows she picks the wrong ones.
• “Why is work so hard?” She knows she’s falling short.
• “Why won’t men grow up?” She knows she chases men who don’t want love.
All that blaming is just part of their PR game.
WOMEN:
• “Where are the good guys?” She knows she scares them away.
• “Why won’t men commit?” She knows she picks the wrong ones.
• “Why is work so hard?” She knows she’s falling short.
• “Why won’t men grow up?” She knows she chases men who don’t want love.
All that blaming is just part of their PR game.
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Want a girl to want a long-term thing with you?
1️⃣ Show her you have goals
2️⃣ Make her feel seen and heard
3️⃣ Be a little bit wild, but not too wild, let her think she can “fix you”
4️⃣ Have really good sex with her
1️⃣ Show her you have goals
2️⃣ Make her feel seen and heard
3️⃣ Be a little bit wild, but not too wild, let her think she can “fix you”
4️⃣ Have really good sex with her
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If she starts texting you more after ghosting, that means the guy she liked stopped talking to her.
That means you’ve got your shot now
That means you’ve got your shot now
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Don’t listen too much to what women say about men.
“I like this,” “I like that,” “I’d never pick a guy who…” “I wish a guy would…”
People say stuff to help themselves. Not to help YOU.
Look at what women DO, not what they SAY
“I like this,” “I like that,” “I’d never pick a guy who…” “I wish a guy would…”
People say stuff to help themselves. Not to help YOU.
Look at what women DO, not what they SAY
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Nice guys think when women get upset, it’s “bad.”
But if she’s upset, it means she wants something from you but can’t get it.
If no woman ever gets mad at you, you’re not making them feel anything.
But if she’s upset, it means she wants something from you but can’t get it.
If no woman ever gets mad at you, you’re not making them feel anything.
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If she’s already asking you to meet her friends and you just met her, she’s trying to make you her boyfriend fast.
Slow down if that’s not what you want yet.
Slow down if that’s not what you want yet.
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The top way to make getting laid easier:
Have your own spot.
Why?
=> You can invite girls right away
=> No need to worry about others in the house
=> You can set the mood how you like
=> It shows you’re a real man
Have your own spot.
Why?
=> You can invite girls right away
=> No need to worry about others in the house
=> You can set the mood how you like
=> It shows you’re a real man
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My top trick to keep a girl hooked in texts:
Use the ‘We’ idea.
Act like you and her are already a pair.
Anything she does is for you.
Anything you do is for her.
Example:
Girl: “Hey. I’m about to go for a hike.” It’s for her, but you say:
You: “Ah. Getting fit for our hot date I see.”
Or
Girl: “I’m just baking cookies. What about you?”
You: “How many are for me?”
It’s super simple but turns boring talk into fun.
Try it and tell me how it goes.
Use the ‘We’ idea.
Act like you and her are already a pair.
Anything she does is for you.
Anything you do is for her.
Example:
Girl: “Hey. I’m about to go for a hike.” It’s for her, but you say:
You: “Ah. Getting fit for our hot date I see.”
Or
Girl: “I’m just baking cookies. What about you?”
You: “How many are for me?”
It’s super simple but turns boring talk into fun.
Try it and tell me how it goes.
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Some girls like to push buttons. They’ll
➡️ Test you on things
➡️ Joke like they don’t care
➡️ Talk about other guys liking them
If you get mad, they win (“Haha GOT HIM!”)
To win with these girls, stay CALM
➡️ Test you on things
➡️ Joke like they don’t care
➡️ Talk about other guys liking them
If you get mad, they win (“Haha GOT HIM!”)
To win with these girls, stay CALM
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Want healthy attitude towards women?
🆇 Don’t follow women’s social media
🆇 Don’t read news about women’s issues
🆇 Don’t hang out with men who whine about women
🆇 Don’t meet too many girls on dating apps
🆇 Don’t meet too many girls in clubs
🆇 Don’t sleep with many women who already have boyfriends
🆇 Don’t use tricks or dark dating tips
✅ Talk to women mostly in real life
✅ Build a fun friend group with good people
✅ Learn to meet women during the day
✅ Learn how to spot bad signs in women
✅ Date healthy women with no big issues
🆇 Don’t follow women’s social media
🆇 Don’t read news about women’s issues
🆇 Don’t hang out with men who whine about women
🆇 Don’t meet too many girls on dating apps
🆇 Don’t meet too many girls in clubs
🆇 Don’t sleep with many women who already have boyfriends
🆇 Don’t use tricks or dark dating tips
✅ Talk to women mostly in real life
✅ Build a fun friend group with good people
✅ Learn to meet women during the day
✅ Learn how to spot bad signs in women
✅ Date healthy women with no big issues
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