Girls like excitement
But that doesn’t mean you need to create it or even join in
See, when you're in a meeting and don’t reply to her texts, she spends that time wondering where you are
When you reply 4 hours later she feels calm again. If she mentions it, you just look at her like she’s overthinking.
I mean… you were in a meeting, nothing wrong there, you’re just handling your stuff
Then she thinks "ok, maybe I was being a little dramatic". Compare that to the guy who keeps texting during the meeting
He gets no work done.
There’s no surprise, he’s always free for her.
He makes her feel nothing but the fact that he’d rather be with her than do anything else.
But that doesn’t mean you need to create it or even join in
See, when you're in a meeting and don’t reply to her texts, she spends that time wondering where you are
When you reply 4 hours later she feels calm again. If she mentions it, you just look at her like she’s overthinking.
I mean… you were in a meeting, nothing wrong there, you’re just handling your stuff
Then she thinks "ok, maybe I was being a little dramatic". Compare that to the guy who keeps texting during the meeting
He gets no work done.
There’s no surprise, he’s always free for her.
He makes her feel nothing but the fact that he’d rather be with her than do anything else.
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Will drop a new post on substack.
Currently working on it.
Title: Is Your Mission Attractive Enough to Get You Women?
Currently working on it.
Title: Is Your Mission Attractive Enough to Get You Women?
THE IRON CIRCLE
Will drop a new post on substack. Currently working on it. Title: Is Your Mission Attractive Enough to Get You Women?
Made to address the "Focus on your mission and the women will come" crowd.
Stay tuned!!!
Stay tuned!!!
1-10 girl rating:
1. Looks worse than guys.
2. Still looks worse than guys.
3. You’re clearly drunk, please stop.
4. Likes you more than you like her (makes sense why).
5. Only if it’s been over a month since you got laid.
6. Should be your go-to level.
7. Best return for time and effort (but in some places, a 7 acts like a 10, so skip).
8. Top for most guys. Life gives you a few chances to be with one, but to keep her, you need rare skills and life exp, so 99% won’t.
9. Forget what coaches say: only cash, power, or fame will get one.
10. Rarer than a sea porpoise, you’ll never have or see one.
1. Looks worse than guys.
2. Still looks worse than guys.
3. You’re clearly drunk, please stop.
4. Likes you more than you like her (makes sense why).
5. Only if it’s been over a month since you got laid.
6. Should be your go-to level.
7. Best return for time and effort (but in some places, a 7 acts like a 10, so skip).
8. Top for most guys. Life gives you a few chances to be with one, but to keep her, you need rare skills and life exp, so 99% won’t.
9. Forget what coaches say: only cash, power, or fame will get one.
10. Rarer than a sea porpoise, you’ll never have or see one.
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To be honest, sex is the biggest barrier to success.
Most guys who are obsessed with women’s bodies tend to struggle with making money.
On the other hand, nerds have it easier:
No distractions from desire, just pure focus.
Bezos, Gates, and Musk didn’t happen by accident.
Most guys who are obsessed with women’s bodies tend to struggle with making money.
On the other hand, nerds have it easier:
No distractions from desire, just pure focus.
Bezos, Gates, and Musk didn’t happen by accident.
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Money is great; it’s the best enabler in the world.
But there are things it can’t buy:
=> Fitness
=> Mental strength
=> Class
=> Integrity
=> Charisma
=> Manners
=> Attraction
But there are things it can’t buy:
=> Fitness
=> Mental strength
=> Class
=> Integrity
=> Charisma
=> Manners
=> Attraction
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Cristiano Ronaldo won everything.
He has won many trophies multiple times and broke every football record.
And yet... there he is, acting selfish like a teenager just starting his career, crying like a baby because he missed a penalty that could’ve cost his country the chance to advance.
The same goes for men who love women: you may have slept with incredible women in your 20s.
You might have a track record with "out-of-your-league" models.
But if that was a while ago, your past achievements won’t matter anymore.
You’ll feel like crap.
You’ll feel like you’ve aged.
You’ll feel like you can’t get women anymore.
That’s why some guys are like strikers, who become weaker and more anxious the longer they go without scoring.
Yes, thinking about your past wins and knowing that you can do it again helps, but nothing beats the validation you get in the present.
To know you still have it by seeing a new naked body in your bed. Yes, it may seem immature or insecure, but nature doesn’t care.
That’s why some men feel dead inside when they settle down.
Because they miss the excitement of the chase, the thrill of the NEW.
There’s no real solution to this other than accepting that it will always be like this, and age won’t change it.
It’s up to you whether you keep playing the game like Ronaldo or sit on the sidelines like a coach who still loves the game but has decided not to play anymore.
He has won many trophies multiple times and broke every football record.
And yet... there he is, acting selfish like a teenager just starting his career, crying like a baby because he missed a penalty that could’ve cost his country the chance to advance.
The same goes for men who love women: you may have slept with incredible women in your 20s.
You might have a track record with "out-of-your-league" models.
But if that was a while ago, your past achievements won’t matter anymore.
You’ll feel like crap.
You’ll feel like you’ve aged.
You’ll feel like you can’t get women anymore.
That’s why some guys are like strikers, who become weaker and more anxious the longer they go without scoring.
Yes, thinking about your past wins and knowing that you can do it again helps, but nothing beats the validation you get in the present.
To know you still have it by seeing a new naked body in your bed. Yes, it may seem immature or insecure, but nature doesn’t care.
That’s why some men feel dead inside when they settle down.
Because they miss the excitement of the chase, the thrill of the NEW.
There’s no real solution to this other than accepting that it will always be like this, and age won’t change it.
It’s up to you whether you keep playing the game like Ronaldo or sit on the sidelines like a coach who still loves the game but has decided not to play anymore.
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Winning in life is all about TAMING.
Taming your laziness before starting work or hitting the gym.
Taming your breath when running a long-distance race.
Taming your impatience when making a business decision.
Taming your emotions during a discussion or confrontation.
Taming your urge when you’re about to double text her.
Taming your desires when you’re about to watch porn
Taming her so you can have a healthy relationship.
Taming your laziness before starting work or hitting the gym.
Taming your breath when running a long-distance race.
Taming your impatience when making a business decision.
Taming your emotions during a discussion or confrontation.
Taming your urge when you’re about to double text her.
Taming your desires when you’re about to watch porn
Taming her so you can have a healthy relationship.
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The endless conflict of results with women.
In today’s world, it’s easy to get caught up in the outcome or lack of it.
Do you know those phases when you get a few attractive girls and feel like the king of the world?
Conversely, do you also know those phases when nothing goes right?
The two women you talked to this week? They ghosted you.
The last few nights? A disaster.
Girls passing by on the street? It’s like you’re invisible.
And so, the confident guy from a couple of weeks ago becomes insecure and starts questioning everything.
“Have I gotten worse?”
“Am I getting older?”
“Has my value as a man disappeared?”
I get it. It’s easy to fall into this negative spiral. I’ve been there, you’ve been there, we’ve all been there.
But somehow, we tend to forget our value as men.
And that’s normal: after all, our brains are wired for short-term memory, and we forget what happened just days ago.
On top of that, society often drags men down, making them feel like they’re not enough. That they suck.
But that’s why you need to tame your mind.
Zoom out and see the bigger picture.
Remind yourself that you’ve done it before and you’ll do it again (even if that feels unlikely or impossible right now).
The answer is simple: always focus on the process. That means being your best self every day.
Groom yourself. Dress with style. Get the best body you can. Have a positive attitude. Also, an IDGAF attitude.
Walk around genuinely believing you are the shit and that no one is above you.
Easier said than done, right? Sure.
But in the end, your mindset and process are all that matter and all that will ever matter.
Ultimately, most things are subjective and out of your control, so focus on the one thing you can control:
Your mind and the actions you take every day that will lead to results.
In today’s world, it’s easy to get caught up in the outcome or lack of it.
Do you know those phases when you get a few attractive girls and feel like the king of the world?
Conversely, do you also know those phases when nothing goes right?
The two women you talked to this week? They ghosted you.
The last few nights? A disaster.
Girls passing by on the street? It’s like you’re invisible.
And so, the confident guy from a couple of weeks ago becomes insecure and starts questioning everything.
“Have I gotten worse?”
“Am I getting older?”
“Has my value as a man disappeared?”
I get it. It’s easy to fall into this negative spiral. I’ve been there, you’ve been there, we’ve all been there.
But somehow, we tend to forget our value as men.
And that’s normal: after all, our brains are wired for short-term memory, and we forget what happened just days ago.
On top of that, society often drags men down, making them feel like they’re not enough. That they suck.
But that’s why you need to tame your mind.
Zoom out and see the bigger picture.
Remind yourself that you’ve done it before and you’ll do it again (even if that feels unlikely or impossible right now).
The answer is simple: always focus on the process. That means being your best self every day.
Groom yourself. Dress with style. Get the best body you can. Have a positive attitude. Also, an IDGAF attitude.
Walk around genuinely believing you are the shit and that no one is above you.
Easier said than done, right? Sure.
But in the end, your mindset and process are all that matter and all that will ever matter.
Ultimately, most things are subjective and out of your control, so focus on the one thing you can control:
Your mind and the actions you take every day that will lead to results.
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You’ve probably heard this advice before: you must find your ‘WHY’ to start living your life. True, but how do you REALLY find it?
In most cases, that 'why' only surfaces after a powerful 'when.'
When Betty from Ireland, the new marketing director, tells you what to do.
She was an apprentice a few years ago, and now she’s giving you orders.
When your soy manager keeps piling on more tasks, making you work longer hours, with no extra pay.
When you wake up on a Monday, already wishing it were Friday.
When you live for the weekends. When you finally feel happy, only to feel depressed again after your holidays. When you feel trapped but can’t escape the Matrix.
When you’re embarrassed to look at yourself in the mirror because you’ve been working 12 hours a day and have no energy to hit the gym.
Or worse, when you come home and your wife, a 4, yells at you because you didn’t make the bed, take out the trash, or do some other insignificant task.
Or when you find yourself wrapped in toilet paper after watching porn because times are tough, and you can’t attract a real woman anymore.
Sometimes, the best thing that can happen in life is to experience such embarrassment, frustration, and pain, that you have no choice but to explode with anger and turn your life around.
In most cases, that 'why' only surfaces after a powerful 'when.'
When Betty from Ireland, the new marketing director, tells you what to do.
She was an apprentice a few years ago, and now she’s giving you orders.
When your soy manager keeps piling on more tasks, making you work longer hours, with no extra pay.
When you wake up on a Monday, already wishing it were Friday.
When you live for the weekends. When you finally feel happy, only to feel depressed again after your holidays. When you feel trapped but can’t escape the Matrix.
When you’re embarrassed to look at yourself in the mirror because you’ve been working 12 hours a day and have no energy to hit the gym.
Or worse, when you come home and your wife, a 4, yells at you because you didn’t make the bed, take out the trash, or do some other insignificant task.
Or when you find yourself wrapped in toilet paper after watching porn because times are tough, and you can’t attract a real woman anymore.
Sometimes, the best thing that can happen in life is to experience such embarrassment, frustration, and pain, that you have no choice but to explode with anger and turn your life around.
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Believing that every attractive woman wants you won’t necessarily get you girls,
but believing that most of them don’t will make ALL women not want you.
In today’s tough dating world, be ruthless with your attitude and self-confidence.
Otherwise, you’ll always be forgotten.
but believing that most of them don’t will make ALL women not want you.
In today’s tough dating world, be ruthless with your attitude and self-confidence.
Otherwise, you’ll always be forgotten.
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Anytime an ex-girlfriend texts you, it's not really you she misses, but the feelings and excitement she had back then.
Once you see yourself as someone who brings unique, exciting experiences, rather than just a man "who has this or that," that’s when women will start making more sense.
Once you see yourself as someone who brings unique, exciting experiences, rather than just a man "who has this or that," that’s when women will start making more sense.
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Once again I get reminded:
Most girls at the gym are not hot, they’re just almost completely naked
Most girls at the gym are not hot, they’re just almost completely naked
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Instead of asking yourself why girl A rejected you, why girl B ghosted you, or why girl C flaked, ask yourself why you keep caring.
Ask yourself why you aren’t talking to the next 1000 attractive women you see, instead of getting stuck in a loop of past events that will only harm your present.
Ask yourself why you haven’t reached a point where you’re so independent of outcomes that no woman can affect your mood.
And because of that, ask yourself why you haven’t reached true freedom.
Finally, ask yourself why you’ve decided to live in scarcity when what you truly deserve and want is abundance.
Ask yourself why you aren’t talking to the next 1000 attractive women you see, instead of getting stuck in a loop of past events that will only harm your present.
Ask yourself why you haven’t reached a point where you’re so independent of outcomes that no woman can affect your mood.
And because of that, ask yourself why you haven’t reached true freedom.
Finally, ask yourself why you’ve decided to live in scarcity when what you truly deserve and want is abundance.
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If you want a girl to do more for you, ask for small things first:
• Show you her ring
• Move over a little with you
• Hold your hand quickly
• Tell you more about her
Once she does the small stuff, she’ll say yes to bigger things.
• Show you her ring
• Move over a little with you
• Hold your hand quickly
• Tell you more about her
Once she does the small stuff, she’ll say yes to bigger things.
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The best time to get a girl to put effort into you is right after a great moment:
✅ She laughs a lot
✅ She gets closer to you
✅ She turns her body more toward you
✅ She asks you a bunch of things
✅ She opens up more
When you see this, ask her to do something for you!
✅ She laughs a lot
✅ She gets closer to you
✅ She turns her body more toward you
✅ She asks you a bunch of things
✅ She opens up more
When you see this, ask her to do something for you!
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WOMANESE TRANSLATIONS:
• “You’re a nice guy.” = “I’m not into you.”
• “I have a boyfriend." =“I don’t want you.”
• “I hate you.” = “I like you and don’t know how to say it.”
• “You must be a player.” = “You’re too smooth; I don’t trust it.”
• “Do you like it here?" = “Can we go somewhere else?”
• “I’m tired.” = “Let’s leave now.”
• “It’s too soon!” = “I’m not turned on yet.”
• “We barely know each other!” = “I don’t get why you like me.”
• “We’re not having sex tonight.” = “We will unless you mess it up.”
• “You’re a nice guy.” = “I’m not into you.”
• “I have a boyfriend." =“I don’t want you.”
• “I hate you.” = “I like you and don’t know how to say it.”
• “You must be a player.” = “You’re too smooth; I don’t trust it.”
• “Do you like it here?" = “Can we go somewhere else?”
• “I’m tired.” = “Let’s leave now.”
• “It’s too soon!” = “I’m not turned on yet.”
• “We barely know each other!” = “I don’t get why you like me.”
• “We’re not having sex tonight.” = “We will unless you mess it up.”
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Women should want to go on dates with you.
Either because they feel a bond, feel hot for you, or the date sounds fun.
If she wants to go, she’ll show up.
Either because they feel a bond, feel hot for you, or the date sounds fun.
If she wants to go, she’ll show up.
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