Judge girls in your head, not out loud.
Saying it does nothing.
If you don’t like something about her, go get a girl you like more.
Saying it does nothing.
If you don’t like something about her, go get a girl you like more.
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Loser: all girls only care about money and use people
Winner: most girls I know are fun, soft, and follow a man’s lead
It’s not about the girls, it’s about the guy.
Winner: most girls I know are fun, soft, and follow a man’s lead
It’s not about the girls, it’s about the guy.
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Step 1: be someone of value
Step 2: have lots of options
Step 3: know how attraction works
Step 4: build deep bonds
Girls are born at step 3
You start at step 0
Get to work!
Step 2: have lots of options
Step 3: know how attraction works
Step 4: build deep bonds
Girls are born at step 3
You start at step 0
Get to work!
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Me a decade ago:
She showed up to my last-minute party, sat by my side, laughed at all my jokes, stayed until the end, even laid next to me in bed before asking for a ride home… but I wasn’t sure if she liked me.
Me today:
She’s into me. She literally pointed her back at me.
She showed up to my last-minute party, sat by my side, laughed at all my jokes, stayed until the end, even laid next to me in bed before asking for a ride home… but I wasn’t sure if she liked me.
Me today:
She’s into me. She literally pointed her back at me.
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If you’re a ambitious young guy who wants a serious relationship,
It’s smarter to date either a rich girl or a girl who can fit into a new social class fast.
1. Girl from a rich background
Avoid if she expects you to pay for everything even though she’s used to "expensive" things and you’re still grinding.
This often happens if you're both young but she was born rich and you weren’t.
They’re great if you’re already rich and want a younger partner who can match your lifestyle: passport ready, has visas, maybe speaks 2 or 3 languages, and doesn’t feel like a financial drain (because your lifestyle is already pricey).
2. Girl from a normal or poor background who adapts well
These girls are usually loyal, but if you make it and she can’t get used to the new life, she’ll always feel left out and jealous.
A lot of women who supported men early and got left behind when the guy got rich say he switched up out of lust,
But many times, she just couldn’t grow into the lifestyle:
❌ He wants to propose at the top of the Empire State, but she doesn’t even have a visa… 2-year wait.
❌ He wants to move to Portugal for a couple months and go with the flow but she’s a “strong woman” who won’t let him pay and works an office job she can’t leave (unlike a remote one).
❌ He takes her to a fancy dinner with his global friends but she can’t speak another language, so he has to translate the whole time.
Helping her adjust is kind and sometimes fun, but no matter how much you support her, she’s got to put in effort too, and not every girl is ready for that.
🧔♂️: Yes babe, if you learn English, I’ll book a trip to NYC and maybe London next year. 👩🏻: Yay, sounds good!
*then she loses her Duolingo streak, watches Netflix in Spanish and forgets to find a language class.
It’s smarter to date either a rich girl or a girl who can fit into a new social class fast.
1. Girl from a rich background
Avoid if she expects you to pay for everything even though she’s used to "expensive" things and you’re still grinding.
This often happens if you're both young but she was born rich and you weren’t.
They’re great if you’re already rich and want a younger partner who can match your lifestyle: passport ready, has visas, maybe speaks 2 or 3 languages, and doesn’t feel like a financial drain (because your lifestyle is already pricey).
2. Girl from a normal or poor background who adapts well
These girls are usually loyal, but if you make it and she can’t get used to the new life, she’ll always feel left out and jealous.
A lot of women who supported men early and got left behind when the guy got rich say he switched up out of lust,
But many times, she just couldn’t grow into the lifestyle:
❌ He wants to propose at the top of the Empire State, but she doesn’t even have a visa… 2-year wait.
❌ He wants to move to Portugal for a couple months and go with the flow but she’s a “strong woman” who won’t let him pay and works an office job she can’t leave (unlike a remote one).
❌ He takes her to a fancy dinner with his global friends but she can’t speak another language, so he has to translate the whole time.
Helping her adjust is kind and sometimes fun, but no matter how much you support her, she’s got to put in effort too, and not every girl is ready for that.
🧔♂️: Yes babe, if you learn English, I’ll book a trip to NYC and maybe London next year. 👩🏻: Yay, sounds good!
*then she loses her Duolingo streak, watches Netflix in Spanish and forgets to find a language class.
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The “ride or die” dream sounds good until you realize the girls who date broke, weird, awkward guys… aren’t usually models.
Most of the time, the girls you get when you’re struggling aren’t the same girls you want once you’ve made it.
Most of the time, the girls you get when you’re struggling aren’t the same girls you want once you’ve made it.
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How to get a girl talking: share random details.
Don’t just answer plainly, give more info, you never know what she’ll find interesting.
She says she’s from X place?
Don’t just say you’ve been there twice.
Say you’ve been there twice, once because of X and the second time for Y, and you noticed Z while you were there.
Give her something to ask about.
Don’t just answer plainly, give more info, you never know what she’ll find interesting.
She says she’s from X place?
Don’t just say you’ve been there twice.
Say you’ve been there twice, once because of X and the second time for Y, and you noticed Z while you were there.
Give her something to ask about.
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Modern dating is tough because for the first time, people expect their partner to play all roles:
✅ Wife
✅ Mom of your kids
✅ Best friend
✅ Best sex ever
✅ Therapist
✅ Constant romance
✅ Caregiver
✅ Partner in your mission
That’s a lot for one person.
But it makes sense, we’re higher on Maslow’s pyramid now.
Instead of marrying for survival, we want marriage to complete us.
And that’s way harder.
In the past, people married because her dad had land, she could have babies, and he had strength and weapons.
Together, survival was easier.
She played wife and mom, but side chicks were different girls.
His best friend was someone else.
His purpose partner wasn’t her.
As we chase meaning and live more alone, we’ll keep expecting more from one person.
✅ Wife
✅ Mom of your kids
✅ Best friend
✅ Best sex ever
✅ Therapist
✅ Constant romance
✅ Caregiver
✅ Partner in your mission
That’s a lot for one person.
But it makes sense, we’re higher on Maslow’s pyramid now.
Instead of marrying for survival, we want marriage to complete us.
And that’s way harder.
In the past, people married because her dad had land, she could have babies, and he had strength and weapons.
Together, survival was easier.
She played wife and mom, but side chicks were different girls.
His best friend was someone else.
His purpose partner wasn’t her.
As we chase meaning and live more alone, we’ll keep expecting more from one person.
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Paying for drinks or dinner is part of the cost of seeing women.
Paying for her nails, hair, nice outfits, or a gift is investing in her.
Paying her bills is just not smart.
"Investing" in her doesn’t mean she’ll love you more.
It means you’ll care more about her.
The idea is if she’s a good woman and you want to care about her, you can by giving.
But if she doesn’t care about you, giving won’t make her start to care.
Paying for her nails, hair, nice outfits, or a gift is investing in her.
Paying her bills is just not smart.
"Investing" in her doesn’t mean she’ll love you more.
It means you’ll care more about her.
The idea is if she’s a good woman and you want to care about her, you can by giving.
But if she doesn’t care about you, giving won’t make her start to care.
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If you don’t make some RULES, it’s easy to lose control and mess things up:
-Only meet her once a week
-Don’t stay the night
-No presents
Unless you want her to get confused and feel hurt.
(Not talking about LTR)
-Only meet her once a week
-Don’t stay the night
-No presents
Unless you want her to get confused and feel hurt.
(Not talking about LTR)
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Struggling with a girl, your purpose, or inner game?
Drop your biggest question, I’ll reply to a few today.
Drop your biggest question, I’ll reply to a few today.
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Never be scared to go talk to a woman, even if you think she’s too good for you.
And you might be right.
But women make silly choices all the time.
You never know? You could be her next silly choice.
But you still slept with her.
Every woman has slept with a guy she’s not proud of.
And you might be right.
But women make silly choices all the time.
You never know? You could be her next silly choice.
But you still slept with her.
Every woman has slept with a guy she’s not proud of.
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Girls who just moved to a city are real gems
Starting fresh gives them energy to try new things and go with the flow
If she’s pretty and chill, you should meet her
She’ll likely be very open and warm
Starting fresh gives them energy to try new things and go with the flow
If she’s pretty and chill, you should meet her
She’ll likely be very open and warm
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If a woman tells you she’s already “had her fun”.
It means whatever stage she’s moving into now doesn’t feel fun to her.
If the life she had before meeting you is what she calls fun.
What do you think she sees you as?
It means whatever stage she’s moving into now doesn’t feel fun to her.
If the life she had before meeting you is what she calls fun.
What do you think she sees you as?
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When you go on a date with a girl, you should already know what you want to happen.
=> A kiss
=> Setting the second date
=> Taking her home
Whatever your goal is, know it before you meet her.
Then you can plan your steps and not just make it up as you go.
=> A kiss
=> Setting the second date
=> Taking her home
Whatever your goal is, know it before you meet her.
Then you can plan your steps and not just make it up as you go.
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Once you learn how to deal with women, help your close friends who are struggling.
Give them tips without being too pushy.
They’ll thank you later.
Give them tips without being too pushy.
They’ll thank you later.
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Guys who spam a girl’s phone after she says no are dumb.
She’s being honest with you, and you punish her for that?
Would you send a mean email to a boss who didn’t hire you?
That’s acting like a little kid throwing a fit.
She’s being honest with you, and you punish her for that?
Would you send a mean email to a boss who didn’t hire you?
That’s acting like a little kid throwing a fit.
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Ever noticed that only women get mad when you say men and women can’t be just friends?
They get really emotional about it.
So if it’s mostly women fighting for this idea, and the "guy friends" stay quiet…
What does that tell you?
They get really emotional about it.
So if it’s mostly women fighting for this idea, and the "guy friends" stay quiet…
What does that tell you?
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No doubt about it, grit and bouncing back will make people call you a genius over time.
Being smart is really just being able to handle more pain than everyone else and still keep going.
Not breaking down before everyone else does.
Being smart is really just being able to handle more pain than everyone else and still keep going.
Not breaking down before everyone else does.
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